Born: 江苏镇江 on 08 March 1965

Passed away: Westford,MA on 04 May 2016

Aged: 51 years

Funeral Date: 14 May 2016

Service Details

朱建雄弟兄的追思礼拜定于2016年5月14日(星期六)上午9:30在罗威尔华人圣经教会举行
地址: 197 Littleton Rd, Chelmsford, MA 01824

追思禮拜之後將於Westford Pine Grove Cemetery 舉行安葬禮拜,如果您準備參加安葬禮拜請將車子停在B building 華語堂停車場, 如果您不參加安葬禮拜請盡量將車子停在A building 粵語和英語堂停車場。墓园回来午饭后,大约1-2点进行亲友追思分享。
(為了使追思禮拜能夠準時開始,請參加的弟兄姊妹及朋友們在追思禮拜開始前二十分鐘就可到會場預備入場)

瞻仰遗容定为2016年5月13日(星期五)下午4:30-7:00
地址:24 Worthen St, Chelmsford, MA 01824

墓园:Pine Grove Cemetery
地址:Forge Village Road,Westford, MA 01886

The memorial service for Brother Jack (JianXiong) Zhu will be on May 14, Saturday 9:30 am at Chinese Bible Church of Greater Lowell
Address : 197 Littleton Rd, Chelmsford MA 01824

We will have the burial service right after the memorial service. If you prepare to join the burial service, please park your car at Building B, Mandarin parking lot. If you do not plan to join the burial service, please park your car at Building A, Cantonese and English Parking Lot. After coming back from the cemetery, we'll have a memorial sharing by family and friends at church.
(To have the service starting on time, it's highly recommended to arrive 20 minutes early.)

A Wake for viewing Jack will be on May 13, Friday 4:30pm - 7:00pm at Blake Funeral Home
Address : 24 Worthen St, Chelmsford, MA 01824

Cemetery:Pine Grove Cemetery
Address :Forge Village Road,Westford, MA 01886


Funeral Company

Blake Funeral Home of Chelmsford (24 Worthen St, Chelmsford, MA 01824)

The Story

朱建雄弟兄 生平追述

朱建雄弟兄于1965年3月8日出生于中国江苏省镇江市。2016年5月4日安息主怀,享年51岁。

出生于一个普通的市民家庭,朱建雄弟兄是家中次子,上有一位年长八岁的兄长。建雄6岁时,父亲因病去世,而母亲在外地工作,只有每周周未、周日一家才有团聚的机会。因此,建雄的童年和少年多是在叔祖母,兄长及姑母照料下度过。

朱建雄弟兄幼年天资聪颖,勤奋好学。1972年8月至1977年8月就读于镇江实验小学。完成小学学业后,于1977年9月至1980年8月就读于镇江第一中学。其间,家境困难的建雄刻苦学习,努力向上,用了仅仅三年的时间完成了五年的初,高中学业,并于1980年9月以优异的成绩考入中国著名高等学府中国科技大学少年班,就读于通讯工程专业。1985年8月大学毕业后,又于1985年9月顺利考入上海交通大学,攻读通讯工程专业硕士研究生。1986年10月,品学兼优的建雄学业更进一层,获得赴美攻读博士学位的机会。

在此后五年多的留美学习期间,朱建雄弟兄努力克服语言,环境,学业,生活等许多方面的重重困难,先后于1991年12月和1992年5月在纽约州著名的雪城大学(Syracuse University)获得计算机工程硕士学位和电子工程博士学位。完成学业之后,朱建雄弟兄先后就职于美国电报电话公司(ATT),朗讯科技公司(Lucent Technologies),迅桐网络公司(Sycamore Networks),Affirmed Networks,从事电信设备研发工作达二十四年之久,在博学的专业知识之上积累了丰富而精深的工程开发技能。

在美求学期间,朱建雄弟兄在学习专业知识之余,积极探索生命的意义,努力寻找人生的信仰,于1998年在罗威尔华人圣经
教会接受洗礼成为基督徒,并在之后的生活中身体力行,用自己日常的生活见证神的圣洁和神的爱。

朱建雄弟兄于1990年和陈雯女士喜结连理,成立了一个美满的家庭,并养育了两个优秀的儿子,长子朱清夏,年16岁,就读于WESTFORD高中,次子朱清晨,年14岁,就读于WESTFORD石溪中学。

朱建雄弟兄生前,生活中性情温柔,为人豁达,举止儒雅,品格诚实,是难得的良朋益友。工作中经验丰富,才智敏睿,勤奋努力,不畏艰难,是不可或缺的技术人才。家庭里为夫恩爱,为父慈祥,辛勤劳作,持俭爱家,是众人羡慕的榜样。教会里谦逊忍让,追求圣洁,热心事奉,荣神益人,是一个真正实践信仰的基督徒。

朱建雄弟兄生前喜爱沐浴阳光,与朋友相聚,爱好观看各类球赛,并游泳,跑步,摄影等活动,是个热爱生活的人。
如今,朱建雄弟兄安息于天国,主耶稣基督的怀中。


The Eulogy of Brother Jianxiong Zhu

Brother Jianxiong was born on March 8, 1965 in the City of Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province, China, and he passed away to be with the Lord on May 4, 2016 at the age of 51 years old.

Born into an ordinary citizen’s family, Jianxiong Zhu was the second son and he had a brother 8 years older than him. His father passed away when he was six years old due to an illness, and his mother had to work away from home, so it was only on Saturdays and Sundays that they could have the opportunity to be together as a family. Therefore, during Jianxiong’s childhood and adolescence years, he was mostly under the care of his grand-aunt, older brother and aunt (his father’s sister). Brother Jianxiong Zhu was intelligent and eager to learn, diligent and studious at a young age.

From August 1972 to August 1977, he enrolled in Zhenjiang Experimental Primary School. After completing primary school, from September 1977 to August 1980, he enrolled in Zhenjiang No. 1 Middle School. In the midst of financial difficulties, Jianxiong studied hard and strived upward, he only used 3 years to complete 5 years of junior and senior high school’s academic studies.

On September 1980, with his excellent grades, he was able to enter a prestigious university in China: the University of Science and Technology of China’s Class for the Gifted Youth, majoring in Communications Engineering. In1985, after graduating from the university, he successfully enrolled into Shanghai Jiao Tong University as a graduate student majoring in Communications Engineering. On October 1986, Jianxiong, with both excellent character and academic achievements, was offered the opportunity to pursue his doctorate degree in the U.S.

In the next 5 years of studies oversea, brother Jianxiong worked diligently to overcome all the difficulties in adjusting to the language, environment, school, and life. In December 1991 and May of 1992, he received his master’s degree in computer engineering and his doctorate degree in Electronic Engineering respectively in the prestigious Syracuse University in New York.

After he completed his studies, brother Jianxiong had worked for America Telephone and Telegraph Company (ATT), Lucent Technologies, Sycamore Networks, Affirmed Networks. He had done research on telecommunications equipments for over 24 years and had accumulated a well rounded knowledge and expertise in the skills of engineering developments.

While attending university in the U.S., besides studying for his major, brother Jianxiong actively searched for the meaning of life and diligently looked for the true belief in life. In 1998, he was baptized in The Chinese Bible Church of Greater Lowell and formally became a Christian. After that, he put his faith into actions, and used his daily living as a testimony of God’s holiness and love.

In 1990, Brother Jianxiong Zhu got married with sister Wen Chen and formed a beautiful family; they have brought up two excellent sons. Their oldest 16-year-old son, Anthony Zhu, attending Westford High school, and their younger 14-year-old son, Kevin Zhu, attending Stony Brook Middle School in Westford.

During his lifetime, brother Jianxiong had a very gentle temperament. He was a very generous person with refined manners, full of honesty and integrity. He was a very precious friend to have. He had abundant work experiences, very intellectual and diligent, not afraid of difficulties, and was an essential technical personnel to his company.

At home, as a husband, he loved his wife, as a father, he was filled with kindness to his sons. He labored diligently, thrifty and full of love for his family. He is an example admired by many.

In the church, he was humble and patient, ran after holiness, and served fervently. He glorified God and was beneficial to men. He was a Christian that really put his faith into practice.

Brother Jianxiong loved to spend time outdoors, gather together with friends, watch all kinds of ball games, swim, run, and take photos. He was someone who really enjoyed life.

Now Brother Jianxiong Zhu is resting in the Heavenly Kingdom, in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ.
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Your pain is in my heart.May you find comfort in Revelation21:3,4-“and death will be no more......” .You are in my prayers.

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牧祷心声 2016-5-18 各位弟兄姐妹: 从建雄弟兄离世后,我们一同渡过了一段不容易渡过的时间,在其间,我们都有悲伤、不舍、遗憾、不解等等的复杂心情。我们会认为,神借着基督的死所赐下的救恩确据,似乎与神儿女也无法幸免的伤痛﹑苦难﹑悲哀的经验互相冲突,所以我们问:「为什么基督徒要这样受苦呢?」 我们知道那位眷顾野地的花的神,必也供应属祂的人(马太福音6: 30),就是生活中最微小的细节也在祂的眷顾之下(马太福音10: 29-31 「两个麻雀,不是卖一分钱吗?若是你们的父不许,一个也不能掉在地上;就是你的头发也都被数过」),而且连人生大事,「无论是死,是生,是天使,是掌权的,是有能的,是现在的事,是将来的事,是高处的,是低处的,是别的受造之物,都不能叫我们与神的爱隔绝;这爱是在我们的主耶稣基督里的」(罗马书8: 38-39)。 但是,在神的护佑之下,神并没有允许「天色常蓝,花香常漫」,神的子民也会经历到困惑﹑枯躁﹑痛苦。神一再警告教会,纵然有神的护佑,苦难与邪恶仍会临到所有跟随基督的人。主耶稣也说过:「你们在世上有苦难」(约翰福音16: 33上),但另一方面,也在真实的苦境中,耶稣向人发出应许:「但你们可以放心,我已经胜了世界」(约翰福音16:33下)。 在启示录第二章,主对正在受苦的士每拿教会说:「不用怕!」(启示录2: 10)。当苦难临头,害怕、惊慌,是人之常情,但主说:「不要怕,只要信!」(马可福音5:36)。信心能够胜过害怕。然而,信心的对象是谁呢?当然是复活的主耶稣。在给士每拿的信中,对这位主有很重要的介绍,人能够超越人生苦中苦,不在于自己的忍耐力有多大,而在于对主的认识有多深。 1. 祂是永恒者---就是那位「首先的、末后的」(启示录2: 8)。这个称呼表达出主是开始,也是终结,是从永远到永远,世界会改变,但祂永不改变,祂「昨日、今日、一直到永远是一样的」(希伯来书13:8),在你我出生之前,祂已经在,祂是始;当你我都去世死亡,祂仍然在,祂是终。因为祂是始、祂是终,我们短暂的一生,就都包藏在祂的永恒里面,我们在苦难中,也会有出路,不但如此,也因为我们将自己投注在耶稣身上,我们一生的价值,就能结果子,就能在有限的一生中,产生无限的、永恒的影响和价值。 2. 祂是得胜者---就是那位「死过又活的」(启示录2: 8)。每一个人都是「活过又死」,只有耶稣「死过又活」。祂曾被挂在十字架上,死了,被埋葬,但祂就从死里复活。祂是得胜死亡的主。凡是信靠祂的神的儿女,也必定会经历与主同活的恩典。 3. 祂是全知者---就是那位「我知道你的患难」的主(启示录2: 9)。人生有苦,但感谢主,祂是知道我们的患难的主,祂知道我们的患难,因为祂行走在金灯台中间;祂知道我们的患难,因为祂住在我们的心中,我们的生命包藏在祂的生命里,好像枝子连结在葡萄树上;祂知道我们的患难,因为祂看我们好像祂的羊,祂说:「我认识我的羊,我的羊也认识我。」(约翰福音10 :14)因此,祂随时牵引、寻找、安慰;祂知道我们的患难,因为祂自己曾经受苦、受死,祂曾经「取了奴仆的形象,成为人的样式,既有人的样子,就自己卑微,存心顺服,以至于死,且死在十字架上。」(腓立比书2:7-8)希伯来书说:「我们的大祭司,并非不能体恤我们的软弱,祂也曾凡事受过试探,与我们一样,只是祂没有犯罪。」(希伯来书4:15)。 祂知道我们的患难,并且给我们正确的评价和判断。祂知道士每拿教会的「贫穷」,但马上,主说:「你却是富足的」(启示录2: 9)是的,世人看士每拿教会是贫穷的,但在主的眼中,因为士每拿教会的忠心于主,主看士每拿教会为富足。我们的患难,常常是被人不正确的评价,或者不公平的对待,处在这种境遇时,主说:「我知道」,不但如此,主也会给我们正确的评判! 当我们仍然在忧伤的愁云中时,让我们举目注视这位永恒、得胜、全知的主耶稣,来支取得胜的力量。 在昨天的牧师周间会议中,周毅敦传道分享了一首充满安慰的英文诗歌,欢迎您也一同聆听: Holy Darkness:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6NWR08ts_w 歌词也附在下一页寄给您,愿神带领我们一同走过! 主恩够用 同路人, 吴荣滁牧师 Holy Darkness Holy darkness, blessed night, heaven's answer hidden from our sight. As we await you, O God of silence, we embrace your holy night. 1. I have tried you in fires of affliction; I have taught your soul to grieve. In the barren soil of your loneliness, there I will plant my seed. 2. I have taught you the price of compassion; you have stood before the grave. Though my love can seem like a raging storm, this is the love that saves. 3. Were you there when I raised up the mountains? Can you guide the morning star? Does the hawk take flight when you give command? Why do you doubt my pow'r? 4. In your deepest hour of darkness Iwill give you wealth untold. When the silence stills your spirit, will my riches fill your soul. 5. As the watchman waits for morning, and the bride awaits her groom, so we wait to hear your footsteps as we rest beneath your moon. © Daniel Schutte 1988, 1993.

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<袁睿翕代表科大少年班校友致悼词> To Sister Chen Wen, Jianxiong’s family, dear friends and guests. We are here today, to remember brother Jianxiong, to celebrate his life, and to celebrate all lives that are created by the grace of God. Jianxiong came into our sight in the summer of 1980, at the tender age of 15, as a member of a group of teenagers entering the special Juvenile Class at the University of Science and Technology of China, also known as 科大少年班. We lived together, took classes together, had meals together, and played together. We got to know Jianxiong for his calm manners, good natured humor and love of soccer. On top of that, Jianxiong excelled at his studies. And upon graduation, he came to the United States to pursue his graduate study. He stayed in the new world, married and raised a family. Throughout the years, Jianxiong’s calm manners and humor never wavered. He once half jokingly told us his secret of keeping his hair black, that is Sister Wen’s Cantonese soup plus a daily dose of five walnuts. He kept his love of sports, setting an example of exercise through jogging and running, as Xiaoguang fondly remembers. When Zhu Chang visited Syracuse around 1988, he planned a guided tour to Niagara Falls. He must have visited Niagara countless times, more often serving as a guide rather than a tourist. Such was Jianxiong, always considerate, always ready to lend a helping hand, a true gentleman, as we say it in Chinese: 谦谦君子。 Today, we gather here, knowing fully well that life’s journey brings us joy and sorrow, defeat and triumph, but above all, life goes on. As we see the beautiful, exuberant examples in Jianxiong’s children, Anthony and Kevin. Jianxiong, please rest in peace, and proudly wear your signature sunny smiles. Your family is proud of you, they will make you proud. And we are all proud of you!

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《献给我兄弟歌》 (1)我把泪水强忍在眼眶里, 极力回想你恒久的笑容, 温柔平和的印象, 让我相信, 你的世界纯真, 如那一泊静水, 我不曾记得有什么, 可以让你为之失措, 也不曾记得, 你畏惧过肩上的承担, 你一贯的柔和, 让我想到春天里的牧歌, 你童稚般的儒雅, 如晨曦中小溪流淌, 二十多年了, 记忆就是这样简素的一幅, 我还需要什么样的精采呢? 一同平凡的漂泊, 一同辛勤的劳作, 一同养育儿女, 一同喝护家庭, 一同历经流年, 一同奔走天路, 而如今你走了, 带着我无法破解的迷团, 走的如此决然, 都不曾有瞬间回首, 所以我伤悲。 (2)你走了, 带走了你的儒雅, 也带走了你的笑容, 留下一片幽暗的错愕, 和五月里这阴雨连绵的天, 你不是有意为之, 你的善良从不如此, 但我还是要怨你, 为什么不能等候, 雨后那必然的阳光, 为什么不来期待, 桃花灼灼,梨花娟娟, 开满你耕种过的枝头, 我曾经幻想过, 当雏鹰个个振翅高飞, 花白的满足爬满我们的头, 我们可以相邀把盏, 笑淡我们漂泊的故事, 我们可以携手遨游, 漫步夕阳中的海阔天空, 但你没有等候, 你匆匆地走了, 让我在你平和的笑容里, 懊悔错过了时机, 所以我伤悲。 (3)兄弟啊, 我怎么能相信, 这一切都是真实的, 我怎么才能从容, 面对凝固在春日里的时光。 此时此刻, 我的心麻木如茧, 感觉不到痛, 也感觉不到哀伤, 只有你依旧如常的眼神, 在遥远的云朵中, 亦或召唤亦或道别。 鲜活的色彩退去了, 你的笑容却更加清晰, 无法忘怀的印象, 随风而去的风筝, 可望而不可及, 欲哭而无泪, 兄弟啊, 你真的走了吗? 你应该知道, 我还是习惯, 匆忙中与你偶遇, 闲暇中与你浅淡, 异域漂泊的岁月里, 我们相待如至亲。 你应该知道, 我不会厌倦, 和你分享琐碎的事, 与你共忆似水流年, 平淡无奇的日子里, 我们照应彼此如骨肉弟兄。 可是,你走了, 让我从此永选缺失了, 生活的一个维度, 生命的一种色彩, 你的世界已离我远去, 我想知道, 你的答案是终极的吗? (4)纵然五月的天依旧寒冷, 桃花在枝头还没有完全绽放, 我仍然相信, 你笑容里真实的温暖, 己经在淡泊中悄然烂漫。 纵然哀伤的连阴雨, 洗去了你最后的踪迹, 我仍然相信, 你生命中有过的精采, 在夜空中闪烁不断。 我仍然相信, 寒夜不会长久, 你喜欢的丽日阳光, 就在黎明之后。 我仍然相信, 眼泪不会长久, 你定格在我脑海中的微笑, 会掩去一切哀伤。 亲爱的兄弟啊, 我在此为你而歌, 既便是这个世界, 有千百个理由而幽暗, 我仍然相信, 你的笑容真实而灿烂。 (5)今天的阳光为你而来, 玉兰树的春华为你而开, 茵绿了的原野, 荡漾着的湖水, 报来同样的消息, 你盼望的季节没有违约。 你盼望的季节里, 古藤的新枝吐绿, 蒲公英绽放出欢快的歌, 你微笑般的蔚蓝, 在天边,在你的路上, 白云和天使为伴, 我知道你不孤单。 既使你不孤单, 也让我为你把盏, 为你唱一首儿时的歌, 让你在旅程上, 有故乡茉莉芬芳弥漫, 也有锡山的祝福, 保守你一路平安。 我亲爱的兄弟, 你不会孤单, 我也不会孤单, 我们都不会孤单, 在春天里我为你送别, 请和我一起相信春天。 -倪鉴

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我来自安徽。安徽省有一所著名的大学叫做“中国科技大学”,那不是一般的孩子能考进去的。中国科技大学有一个少年班,那更是神话般的传说,难以想象多么聪明的孩子才能考进去。如果不是来到美国,我和建雄很难会有交集。如果不是有教会,我也很难想象会有建雄这样优秀的人成为我主内的弟兄。正如很多人提到的,他把微笑和温暖留给别人,他的痛苦和压力我们却不了解。愿主赐我们跟多的爱心,让我们更多关心周围的人。我为有建雄这样优秀的弟兄而感恩,也深信我们会在天国再次相见!-张怀强

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<蒋临代表校友群工友群致悼词> 今天我们在这里沉痛悼念建雄。我们唏嘘英年早逝,回顾自己与建雄生命的交集,也同时思考自己的人生,聆听自己内心最深处的声音。我叫蒋临,是建雄的校友和工友。今天受Syracuse University校友群和Sycamore Networks工友群的委托,来与各位亲友分享我们的哀思。 如各位所知,建雄博士毕业于Syracuse University。 但各位可能不知道的是,他的太太,他太太的姐姐,以及姐夫也都毕业于Syracuse 。他姐夫更是多年的中国学生学者联谊会主席。这次校友们也提供了很多建雄在Syracuse的素材,我们还联系到了上世纪80年代建雄在Syracuse的室友陈伟,他也为我们提供了很多其他人不知道的细节。今天在座的就有建雄的20多个Syracuse 的校友,有的携家人从纽约远道赶来。 中科大少年班出身的建雄,在Syracuse学业的拔尖是无疑的。据建雄的室友陈伟讲,由于专注于学习,建雄一开始经常泡方便面。我想Syracuse应该是建雄的福地,在这里他不仅收获了知识和友谊,也收获了爱情。回国结婚并把太太陈雯接来后的很长一段时间里,Syracuse的校友们都知道,他和陈雯沉浸在了甜蜜的二人世界里,足见他对太太的深爱。建雄爱好网球,但也为Syracuse打进1987年NCAA篮球决赛而疯狂。后来建雄还帮助陈伟找到了AT&T的工作。真实,真诚,友好,乐于助人是校友们对建雄为人的一致评价。 我和建雄几乎同一时间加入Sycamore ,还依稀记得我们一起参加Sycamore的Orientation的情景。很快建雄分到了BroadLeaf Control Plane组,是全公司最为重要的研发小组,是Sycamore皇冠上的明珠。从此我们和建雄就开始了长达12年多的合作,并一起见证了Sycamore的起起落落。建雄在BroadLeaf上的贡献是显而易见的,他很快就成为了公司最重要的研发组中的骨干,并引领很多重要的开发项目,是我们的骄傲。但即使在风生水起之时,建雄温良厚重的性格也是明显的,从不与人争抢,从来都是有问必答,从来都是能帮就帮。招牌式的微笑也是随处可见,无论是在硝烟弥漫的技术讨论会上,还是在闲聊的过道里。期间建雄回国参加母亲的葬礼,回来后的伤感和落寞是显见的,同事们都纷纷前往慰问,但建雄还是以标志性的微笑和一如既往的温厚待我们。他确是这样一个把苦闷留给自己,将美好带给别人的谦谦君子。今天在座的也有10几位建雄Sycamore的同事和他们的家人。 接受委托后,我一直在想,建雄的在天之灵希望听到怎样一份悼念词?从建雄的为人来看,我想他想要听到: - 我们看到了他的优秀,学业的勤奋,工作的认真 - 我们看到了他对妻子的深爱,对家庭和孩子的付出 - 我们看到了他对朋友的真诚,对社区的贡献 - 我们看到了他温厚的性格所折射出的对人生的理解和对信念的执着 各位亲友,建雄的生命在我们眼前展开又在我们眼前消失了,诚如我们自己的生命也一样会在亲戚,朋友,同学,同事,和所有陌生人的眼前展开并最终消失;但如建雄一样,在这个过程中我们收获并分享知识,爱情,亲情,友情,为社会做自己力所能及的贡献,并在每时每刻都真诚地平和地面对自己和他人,人生如此,夫复何求? 建雄安息!

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<深切缅怀四姐夫> 前年匆匆一面,尽成最后一面……还记得您温文尔雅的身姿,开朗温暖的笑容,看着您的照片,眼泪无声流下,我们永远怀念您,永远爱您,愿您在天国永享安乐!我们永远都是您、四姐及东东亮亮坚实的后盾. -陈雯弟弟陈俊武及弟妹刘盈银哀思

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