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Creating the memorial for my father was one of the most calming feelings that I have had since his passing. And I’m so glad that my children will be able to learn more about him from the stories and tributes that so many have left. Thank you for this service x
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ashaleighaTrialfa Omega is a very beautiful person with a great spirit, who passionately inspired others around him to live a spiritually-aligned life. The positive affect he has had on the community around him was never in vain and will live on for years to come. There was always an authentic spark of soulfulness within him that touched me and those he came into contact with very deeply. My heart and soul go out to him and his entire family. He was greatly appreciated by many.
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Posted on Behalf of Adv Alison Bengtson
DDG:CMD
A Tribute to Freddie Mokhachane
What a devastating loss to the Gauteng Department of Education and to Freddie’s family! What an absolute loss! Sorrow fills my heart this sad moment, a sorrow that is deep and personal.
Freddie was a thorough professional. He was excellent in everything that he did, no matter how big or small the task. I remember Freddie as being a true gentleman, always smiling, always willing to assist. Freddie contribute much to the development of the EN district. He generously gave us his knowledge, his expertise, and his skills. He was a committed official and I am proud to have known him.
My heart, like everyone else is broken. Freddie may your soul rest in peace! My sincere condolences to the family.
Maya Angelou says “A great soul serves everyone all the time. A great soul never dies. It brings us together again and again”.
Adv Alison Bengtson
DDG:CMD
I, Grace Tshetlo, former principal of ikusasa want to thank God for bringing people like Mr Mokhachane in my career path who is one of the people that believed in me and gave me support that bore sweet fruit at our school. He would always remind who the Captain of Ikusasa was, in 2014 wen we got 95% pass he promoted me to be Pilot of the school.
■ In 2010 a learner Samson could not even afford a pen, not even for the exams, got 5 distinctions soaring in maths and sciences but did not have money to further his studies. It was Mr Mokhachane who said " Mme a re fumanele ngoan enoa bursary" . Today the boy is an engineer he has lifted his family and some neighbors to a better life more important there are other kids he is helping with study fees. He had planned to visit Mr Mokhachane in spring at least.
■ In 2011 Mr Mokhachane solicited two mobile science laboratories for our school from ChemServr and at the presentation he made an instant requisition for the third lab and it was delivered in three weeks. These labs saw our matric Life sciences and Physical sciences results improving to 100% and 98% respectively (the 2% being learners who joined the school in grade 12.)
■ Whenever we had more learner intake in January, I knew who to talk to, to get stationery even from the principals who had claimed not have any surplus. I will always thank God for people like Ntate and will always cherish their support
Posted on behalf of Grace Tshetlo
“BROTHER” as we fondly called you “Good night”. You’ve ran your race and your footprints will forever be engraved in our hearts. You served the entire Ekurhuleni Community and Stakeholders with great pride and dignity it deserved. Your zeal for a constructive change in education system will forever be remembered. In you, a big tree has indeed fallen.
Thanks for believing in me more than I can believe in myself. Thanks for developing me into the person I am today. Will always cherish your guidance, leadership and support. You might be gone, but you’ll never be forgotten.
GOOD-BYE MY LEADER
TILL WE MEET AGAIN
Farewell Cadre Freddie Mokhachane
The only certainty in our present world is rapid and accelerating change. We can either ride with the changes hoping for the best or use the changes we recognise around us to our best advantage. The most distinctive human response to any major or minor change is resistance. Individuals resist change as they fear letting go of the old, safe, routine ways of conducting their business for an unknown and unsafe territory. As humans, we prefer routines and tend to stick to our habits. Furthermore, the transition between the present state and the changed state is difficult for individuals and organisations, as it involves the ending of the current state. William Bridges (1980) discusses the process of individual change by presenting four stages that individuals must pass through to move into the transition state and effectively change: disengagement, misidentification, disorientation and disenchantment!
None of us could have predicted that today we will all go through these states of transition when we got to receive the devastating message of the passing on of our comrade, friend, brother, husband and father! Freddie Mokhachane, ntja mme, the cat, Cosatu is no more. He was boisterous, passionate, full of laughter, full of life, firm approach and uncompromising belief in all that is good. We are sadden as we dip his spear to mark our respect for a leader, a cadre, a loyal and dedicated servant of our people, isicaka esibekekileyo. He served the people in various capacity, the foot print he leaves on the ground bears testimony to that.
His comrades in the various ANC chatsites will miss his inimitable and robust style as he left no stone unturned from his strong views on the frailties of the reign of the former President Zuma, he did not spare our Mayor and demanded loyalty to the Presidency of HE President Ramaphosa. For a while during the reign of former President Zuma, he had lost all interests in politics and work of the ANC. He did not take much to be convinced and he returned to be the ANC chairperson in Crystalpark. He served with distinction and was followed by another solid Cde in Bangilizwe Solo. He unfortunately has also followed Cde Freddie and passed on the following day after the passing of Cde Freddie. It is almost as if that they wanted to accompany each as they go to join the ANC Branch in Heaven. Cde Freddie was categoric, it is either you are with us or against us. Cde Freddie, as we touched on the metaphor of the states of transition embraced unequivocally the “Thuma Mina” invocation and robustly demanded that we must all respond positively….there is one President that is HE President Ramaphosa.
He entered into teaching during a period when teachers were very conservative and feared authority. Very few teachers participated in the progressive teacher union known as NEUSA. It did not take much to recruit this former member of Sasco from Wits. He was very loud about the virtues of a free South Africa and a free Nelson Mandela. NEUSA together with the UDF and affiliates were banned and a huge gap was created. Cde Freddie in his first week at Unity Secondary was already seeking out the “leadership” and demanded action. No amount of calming him down, succeeded and with the support of the COSAS grouping we were forced into action and established the Benoni Teachers’ Union (BETU), supported by Cosatu Khetsi Lehoko.
Cde Freddie is a former member of Sasco whilst at Wits University. Immediately after he started teaching, he joined the only progressive teacher union, an affiliate of the UDF and NECC, the NEUSA. (Curtis Nkondo was President & Thulas Nxesi, the National Secretary). He joined us to form the Benoni Teachers Union after Cosas insisted that we must establish a progressive teachers Union, after the banning of the UDF & NEUSA! Cde Freddie distinguished himself as an organisor as he became the main instigator and chief recruiter for the BETU. We had strong support from Dayco, Cosas, etc. Who attended all our meeting with dangers of being arrested? BETU started strong mobilisation of the teachers and for the first time organised marches and other forms of actions like stopping visits to school by apartheid inspectors, Cde Freddie was instrumental in preventing any apartheid inspired school inspection, rejected the notion of the promotion of separate schooling. He was part of the team that confronted the police to stop harassing students and invading schools. Several meetings were held with the police and students to engage the police on their violence against students and schools. Schools became a no- going area to schools inspectors and those who were intransigent were frogmarched out of the school into their cars and pelted with eggs.
He moved from one school to the next to ensure that no Departmental official entered any of the schools. BETU in 1990 folded and closed and became Sadtu. SADTU was launched at Sharp 17 and Shepherd Mdladlane became the first President. Cde Freddie developed the nickname of "Cosatu" as he strongly campaigned to have Sadtu to become an affiliate of Cosatu. Most Sadtu members who were both PAC and Azapo teachers vehemently opposed this campaign until through Cde Freddie's strong campaigning we won over the whole of the East Rand for Sadtu to join Cosatu. This was achieved by 1991. Cde Freddie embarked on staff mobilization and came into collision course with his principal, who mobilized the parent body of the SGB against Cde Freddie. He was threaten and intimidated for mobilising on behalf of Sadtu until the leadership came to his rescue and met with management and the SGB. They were extremely hostile towards Cde Freddie and his uncompromising style. Cde Freddie was adamant that every school must be a Sadtu base. Eventually the school Governing Body reconciled with Cde Freddie and once again embraced him into the school but he continued his mobilisation to the chagrin of the SGB. Together with Cde Aubrey Mbelle and Cde David Hlabane continued to ensure that they do not only recognized but participated in building a strong ANC in the township spreading into eTwatwa. BETU and eventually Sadtu grew in numbers and ended up dominating as the leading and only teacher union across all the township of this part of town.
The fight to introduce non-racialism in sport in Benoni led to campaigns to introduce Benoni Schools' Sports (Bessco) Programme with Indian, Coloured and White schools participating in schools' sports across Benoni and Boksburg (Reigerpark). His extreme talent and inimitable character led to him being recruited by Dr Braam Fleish, the District Director in Benoni, Department of Education. He distinguished himself as a powerful figure as he contributed towards a better education for all in Benoni. He was instrumental in the campaign to introduce new schools in Unity and Rolihlahla Schools! He leaves a rich legacy in the fight for better schooling for all the people of Benoni.
Cde Freddie loved his wife and his family. Each and every moment he spent with his friends who called each other the “Cats” he always knew he had a home and a wife and kids. They meant everything to him. He loved his sister who he visited from time to time. Before he went to buy property in Crystalpark, he stayed with his sister in the township, and as they started speaking SeSotho sa ga Moshoeshoe, you could only watched in amazement, as they “showed off” the intricacies of that language. We learnt by hook or crook, to keep up. May his soul rest in peace and he is offering us the baton to pick it up and take it forward for all the good work that he contributed in. May his wife and son rejoice in the spirit that Cde Freddie’s death was untimely and unexpected, but in this short life he has achieved so much that many people can only envy. We wish him eternal peace in his journey to join his ancestors both from his family side but also on the side of his organisations, the ANC and SADTU.
Clive Mtshisa
Founding leader of BETU and BESSCO, SADTU Local, and former Provincial Deputy Chair SADTU GAUTENG
Farewell Cadre Freddie Mokhachane
The only certainty in our present world is rapid and accelerating change. We can either ride with the changes hoping for the best or use the changes we recognise around us to our best advantage. The most distinctive human response to any major or minor change is resistance. Individuals resist change as they fear letting go of the old, safe, routine ways of conducting their business for an unknown and unsafe territory. As humans, we prefer routines and tend to stick to our habits. Furthermore, the transition between the present state and the changed state is difficult for individuals and organisations, as it involves the ending of the current state. William Bridges (1980) discusses the process of individual change by presenting four stages that individuals must pass through to move into the transition state and effectively change: disengagement, misidentification, disorientation and disenchantment!
None of us could have predicted that today we will all go through these states of transition when we got to receive the devastating message of the passing on of our comrade, friend, brother, husband and father! Freddie Mokhachane, ntja mme, the cat, Cosatu is no more. He was boisterous, passionate, full of laughter, full of life, firm approach and uncompromising belief in all that is good. We are sadden as we dip his spear to mark our respect for a leader, a cadre, a loyal and dedicated servant of our people, isicaka esibekekileyo. He served the people in various capacity, the foot print he leaves on the ground bears testimony to that.
His comrades in the various ANC chatsites will miss his inimitable and robust style as he left no stone unturned from his strong views on the frailties of the reign of the former President Zuma, he did not spare our Mayor and demanded loyalty to the Presidency of HE President Ramaphosa. For a while during the reign of former President Zuma, he had lost all interests in politics and work of the ANC. He did not take much to be convinced and he returned to be the ANC chairperson in Crystalpark. He served with distinction and was followed by another solid Cde in Bangilizwe Solo. He unfortunately has also followed Cde Freddie and passed on the following day after the passing of Cde Freddie. It is almost as if that they wanted to accompany each as they go to join the ANC Branch in Heaven. Cde Freddie was categoric, it is either you are with us or against us. Cde Freddie, as we touched on the metaphor of the states of transition embraced unequivocally the “Thuma Mina” invocation and robustly demanded that we must all respond positively….there is one President that is HE President Ramaphosa.
He entered into teaching during a period when teachers were very conservative and feared authority. Very few teachers participated in the progressive teacher union known as NEUSA. It did not take much to recruit this former member of Sasco from Wits. He was very loud about the virtues of a free South Africa and a free Nelson Mandela. NEUSA together with the UDF and affiliates were banned and a huge gap was created. Cde Freddie in his first week at Unity Secondary was already seeking out the “leadership” and demanded action. No amount of calming him down, succeeded and with the support of the COSAS grouping we were forced into action and established the Benoni Teachers’ Union (BETU), supported by Cosatu Khetsi Lehoko.
Cde Freddie is a former member of Sasco whilst at Wits University. Immediately after he started teaching, he joined the only progressive teacher union, an affiliate of the UDF and NECC, the NEUSA. (Curtis Nkondo was President & Thulas Nxesi, the National Secretary). He joined us to form the Benoni Teachers Union after Cosas insisted that we must establish a progressive teachers Union, after the banning of the UDF & NEUSA! Cde Freddie distinguished himself as an organisor as he became the main instigator and chief recruiter for the BETU. We had strong support from Dayco, Cosas, etc. Who attended all our meeting with dangers of being arrested? BETU started strong mobilisation of the teachers and for the first time organised marches and other forms of actions like stopping visits to school by apartheid inspectors, Cde Freddie was instrumental in preventing any apartheid inspired school inspection, rejected the notion of the promotion of separate schooling. He was part of the team that confronted the police to stop harassing students and invading schools. Several meetings were held with the police and students to engage the police on their violence against students and schools. Schools became a no- going area to schools inspectors and those who were intransigent were frogmarched out of the school into their cars and pelted with eggs.
He moved from one school to the next to ensure that no Departmental official entered any of the schools. BETU in 1990 folded and closed and became Sadtu. SADTU was launched at Sharp 17 and Shepherd Mdladlane became the first President. Cde Freddie developed the nickname of "Cosatu" as he strongly campaigned to have Sadtu to become an affiliate of Cosatu. Most Sadtu members who were both PAC and Azapo teachers vehemently opposed this campaign until through Cde Freddie's strong campaigning we won over the whole of the East Rand for Sadtu to join Cosatu. This was achieved by 1991. Cde Freddie embarked on staff mobilization and came into collision course with his principal, who mobilized the parent body of the SGB against Cde Freddie. He was threaten and intimidated for mobilising on behalf of Sadtu until the leadership came to his rescue and met with management and the SGB. They were extremely hostile towards Cde Freddie and his uncompromising style. Cde Freddie was adamant that every school must be a Sadtu base. Eventually the school Governing Body reconciled with Cde Freddie and once again embraced him into the school but he continued his mobilisation to the chagrin of the SGB. Together with Cde Aubrey Mbelle and Cde David Hlabane continued to ensure that they do not only recognized but participated in building a strong ANC in the township spreading into eTwatwa. BETU and eventually Sadtu grew in numbers and ended up dominating as the leading and only teacher union across all the township of this part of town.
The fight to introduce non-racialism in sport in Benoni led to campaigns to introduce Benoni Schools' Sports (Bessco) Programme with Indian, Coloured and White schools participating in schools' sports across Benoni and Boksburg (Reigerpark). His extreme talent and inimitable character led to him being recruited by Dr Braam Fleish, the District Director in Benoni, Department of Education. He distinguished himself as a powerful figure as he contributed towards a better education for all in Benoni. He was instrumental in the campaign to introduce new schools in Unity and Rolihlahla Schools! He leaves a rich legacy in the fight for better schooling for all the people of Benoni.
Cde Freddie loved his wife and his family. Each and every moment he spent with his friends who called each other the “Cats” he always knew he had a home and a wife and kids. They meant everything to him. He loved his sister who he visited from time to time. Before he went to buy property in Crystalpark, he stayed with his sister in the township, and as they started speaking SeSotho sa ga Moshoeshoe, you could only watched in amazement, as they “showed off” the intricacies of that language. We learnt by hook or crook, to keep up. May his soul rest in peace and he is offering us the baton to pick it up and take it forward for all the good work that he contributed in. May his wife and son rejoice in the spirit that Cde Freddie’s death was untimely and unexpected, but in this short life he has achieved so much that many people can only envy. We wish him eternal peace in his journey to join his ancestors both from his family side but also on the side of his organisations, the ANC and SADTU.
Clive Mtshisa
Founding leader of BETU and BESSCO, SADTU Local, and former Provincial Deputy Chair SADTU GAUTENG
Rest in peace comrade
22236261 shared a photo.Ntate Mokhachane as I used to call you. What a true leader and a great teacher. Thank you for the opportunity you gave me to run two programs in the unit. You always gave us support and continued to mentor us. You never gave up on us. Sometimes I felt that you were pushing me to hard and now I realize that you were developing me. I will miss your leadership style, setshego sona ga ke sa bua. The unit will never be the same without you. You ran your race, Fare thee well. Condolences to the family in behalf of Naniki Kupa.
treisyMs. Kvesic was my grade 4 teacher back at Barondale PS. She was the epitome of a perfect teacher; someone who was kind, altruistic, and someone who was always there for her students. I remember making drawings and writing notes to her, only so I could receive one of her big hugs... she told me that she stuck all of them on her fridge, hence I decided to make her more every single day! Ms. Kvesic had such a sweet soul. She was too good for this world. I love and miss her so, so much. I emailed her, two years back, asking her how she was doing, and promising that I would visit the following year. I should've kept my promise and visited, but I always thought I'd have more time. My condolences to you, and your family. May the love of those around comfort you in the days ahead.
deedeeclutch
If I could sum Freddy up in one word, it will be Grace. He was incredibly thoughtfull in the amount of time and advice he was prepared to give. He was a rare breed of leader within the disttict office -one of a kind that was able to identify raw talent in a person and turn into an asset.
Good night my dearest leader, brother and mentor your journey has ended. Your struggle has now begun to cease. Its time to close your eyes to happy dreams and wake to eternal peace.
Good night....my Chief
Posted on behalf of Kagiso
tkalidheen shared a photo.During our many years of interaction both @ work and beyond, we learned so much from you Chief, your dedication and hard work, your firmness and friendliness, and your commitment to quality, data-driven & goal-oriented reports. How can we forget your loud laughter!
Go well Chief, till we meet again in the after life!!
I'm not sure there are enough words to describe the loss we feel from Pam's transition from our lives. She embodied the soul of an artist, never met a cat or dog she couldn't love, or a project too intimidating. She gave of her many talents to family and friends, creating sacred spaces to enjoy and kept us fed with her own special flair. Always offering encouragement, she was never known to speak a demeaning word of another.
To honor her spirit, we will carry many wonderful memories of Pam, who spread her special brand of blessing throughout our lives and try to follow the guidance she lived.
For if you knew of a woman who planted the seeds of unconditional love, caring and compassion throughout the garden of life, that would be Pam. Love you girl, Marsha and Jerry
Fare thee well dedicated comrade, compassionate brother and astute manager. In you we have lost someone who provided our organization with the much needed sense of purpose and direction, structure and discipline. Your dedicated, passionate service driven by a patriotic spirit will always be imprinted in the corridors of time. You fought like a warrior that you were for the emancipation of the black child. I will forever cherish the leadership lessons I have learned from you and much more the support I got from you during my academic studies. Go now and rest in eternal peace my leader.
drtshepoI loved Freddie....for the fact that he forced me to speak my mind.,.he taught me....,,I am good enough and not a child of a lesser God.
Posted on behalf of Leni vd Westhuizen
The Education fraternity and the community at large has lost a giant. We are still in shock, disbelief and devasted by your passing Abuti as I fondly used to call you.
Even though the pain cuts deep, All is well. We firmly believe that God's timing is always perfect. He is never late or too early. His will has been done...It is finished...your mission here on earth has been accomplished. Your crown is is waiting for you on the other side...go and rece8ve your crown son of the soil.
You always believed in everyone's abilities and always encouraged us that we can achieve more. You have worked selflessly for the Education Department. We will miss your smile and your signature loud laughter...
My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the family and friends, the colleagues at Ekurhuleni North District, GDE, the Education fraternity and everyone whose life you have touched.
Your soul is now at a better place where there is no more pain or sorrow. Go and rest Abuti...'Till we meet again...Goodnight...2 Corinthians 5: 6-8
I remember visiting the Thierry house when we were kids. Pauline and Calvin were always so welcoming. We would spill out of the car and quickly be swept up in the laughter and high spirits. Running around the yard with our cousins was something we looked forward to and, of course, the food was delicious and plentiful. Wishing the entire family comfort in the days ahead. The gifts you were given have been passed down the generations, and the love of your parents is ever close. - Cousin Nancy
rawlesnan
RIP my workplace father.. My Mentor, Leader 'Advisor I am who I am today because of your teachings n 'support. Tnx for believing in me. U left us shuttered, astonished n in pain. Will always remember yu my big Boss. Frm Treisy Masingi that's how u used to call me RIP my workplace father.. My Mentor, Leader 'Advisor I am who I am today because of your teachings n 'support. Tnx for believing in me. U left us shuttered, astonished n in pain. Will always remember yu my big Boss. Frm Treisy Masingi that's how u used to call me
treisy shared a photo.RIP my workplace father, my mentor, advisor. Motivator.. Thanks for all your teachings.. I am who I am today because of yu. U left us Astonished, amazed and in pain. Gud nyt my boss will forever miss yu. Frm Treisy Masingi that's how u used to call me
treisyYou will be truly missed my brother, thank you for all the lessons you taught me and all the opportunities you gave me to grow as a leader. You were, are and always will be a blessing in my life.
tkalidheenhttps://youtu.be/ixMAuueTtSo
samajuyah shared a video.
Jacqueline, Pauline, Claire, Grace, and Patty. Thank you for sending these, Michael Rawles.
dtheories shared a photo.
Antoinette and Pauline.
dtheories shared a photo.Nearly 20 years ago my friend and I stumbled upon Trialfa's website. We have spent hours upon hours reading his work and researching it over the years. We had the absolute pleasure of speaking with him on the phone once about 10 years ago. I am very saddened by the loss of such a unique and interesting man. I hope that his work remains available for years to come so others like myself may find it and gain inspiration. You will not be forgotten, Omega Man.
onespookyunitrachaelainaKevin, You did not deserve to end your life like this and our great sadness was that we were prevented by the virus from visiting you in hospital. We are so grateful that, at the end, you were surrounded by all your family and they were able to tell you how much they loved you.We will always remember you:WITH GREAT ADMIRATION for your courage and determination in the way you fought so hard to stay here with the family you so adoredWITH JOY for the wonderful day when your beautiful daughter married our son James and our two families were joinedWITH LAUGHTER when we remember the first day you came to us for tea and your emptied our sugar bowl, not just once, but TWICE!But above all with LOVE"Although I've gone - life must go onBut stop and pause awhileRemember me as the man you knew The man who loved to smile.Although I'm not here - I can still see youI am watching from aboveSo now and then please think of meAs the man who loved to love."Rest in Peace Now. With Much Love, Jenny and Andy Nisbett xxxxxx
wingwalkerIt has been an honour to know you and to be a part of you life, I only wish it had been longer. There are very few people in this world who have as much strength and determination as you, absolutely astounding and a medical marvel. You will always be thought of, talked about, missed and be forever in our hearts. When you were ill last year you asked me to look after Jenny for you, my reply was "of course I will, you know I will but you aren't going anywhere - you are stronger than that" My god you were strong. With all my heart I promise I will do anything to keep Jenny safe and happy. I wish there was more we could have done more to help you make it through this time but I know that now you will be comfortable, pain free and watching over us - probably with Boris giving him groomies which he so loved from you! With much love, James xxx
jnisb
samajuyahGood night Papa
We will really miss Grandpa , he was a man of integrity
Charlie was an outstanding soldier and a great all around person. He was always able to lift peoples spirits and bring a smile to their face. You will never be forgotten Sgt. Rest in Heaven
i.sanchezjrIf I could change the words for you Charlie, it would be that we were sitting on the back of the BTBs and sharing Shiner. I am sure there is a song about hiding the bodies, but maybe that should be for another day! I miss your smile and hugs...nothing like hearing you yell out "Chief!!" Love you, Charlie!! Always.
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Missing this girl!
Vance TempleWe Loved your mom very much. We are so sorry for our loss and send love to your family.
-Jerry and Charles Dominigue
Since I moved around the corner from my Aunt Pauline 10 years ago, we shared many a good conversation, meal, and lots of laughter. She shared so many stories and was a repository of family history. I will, and have, missed her bright smile and big welcomes whenever I would stop by. Now, I'm sure she is reunited with family who have passed from this plane. When I close my eyes, I see her sitting with Mom, Grace and Inez all full of joy.
Michele
I can remember the vociferous enthusiasm and sarcasm of SGT. Brown in everything we undertook.He always was the epitome of Be, Know and Do.He began the tradition of the ugly cat way of accomplishing missions which so accurately reflected the 236th EN Company's way of improvising, adapting and overcoming.As we move forward with Charlie Brown's example of leadership I pray that those who follow in his footsteps will endeavor to become what Charlie would have loved to see them be:The very best at everything they strive to accomplish.
matthew.amon
Whitney Collins, Beverly and Kristie Mathis and family are very saddened to hear the news and send condolences to all the family.
dtheoriesSending love and prayers
Love & appreciate you, Barb.
I hope you’re doing OK.
-Beth
We loved Pauline and enjoyed her company. She will be sorely missed. Sending thoughts and prayers to the family.
-Jacquie and Paul
May she Rest in Peace
We loved her too; she is in a much better place, watching over us all.
-Christopher Walker and Jay
Barbara, you and the family are always in our hearts. I'm sure Mom and Claire are setting the table for her arrival and this fills my soul with love.
My heart is full of her love
-Cousin David
I loved your mom so very much... I had a lot of fun with her. I remember her Smile...
Pauline and Claire walked by her as she stood in front of her house. She said they were on their way to St. Lawrence for school...she’ll never forget mom turning to look at her and giving her a big beautiful smile❣
-Jesse Honore
We just loved Pauline and have great memories❣We are so sorry for all your family, but know your mom is at peace.
-Gerard and Brenda Patin
Sorry about your mom’s passing. So many great memories and such a kind loving women. I am thankful she was part of my life. -Trish Thierry
dtheories shared a photo.
I am so sorry to hear this. I truly loved your mom. She was a kind and gentle soul and will be missed. Take care. -Sharon (Gordon) Schumann
dtheories shared a photo.Barbara shared these messages she received.
We are deeply grateful to you for telling of your experiences with Pauline.
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Anna Reindel called:
Anna and Eric are gifting our family a Dove Release for whenever we may want or can do this. She said this is a family tradition and wanted to share this tradition with our family.
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“Mother's Never Die”
You have never lost your mother though you've said your last goodbyes, though there's heartbreak in parting no one's mother really dies.
If you love to hear the old songs for the memories they bring, it's because you had a mother who taught you how to sing.
If you stop to help a neighbor search your heart and you will find, it's because you had a mother who's taught you to be kind.
If you go to church when weary seeking God to guide your way, it’s because you had a mother who taught you how to pray.
No you've never lost your mother though you've said your last goodbyes, through your thoughts and feelings she's living, no one's mother really dies.
-James, Marshall and Barb’s tenant who met Pauline on a few occasions.
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Sending hugs to your family. I hope Pauline is saving me a spot close to her.
What a wonderful tribute for your mom and for you too, Barbara. You were there as advocate and even after work, you were caretaker too. She would call you "My Barbara" and I could see she felt happier and safe. She has a deep love for her children and it was beautiful to see her children and in-laws and others mirror back the love she had for you all. I believe she is free and reunited with her beloved sisters.
-Pamela, Pauline’s Roommate and friend at La Jolla
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I just wanted to call you and tell you I'm thinking of you and I'm so sorry for your mom's passing. Well, yeah, she gets to be with your father who she loves so much and she loves you so much and you just you're just the best daughter. She really loves you so very much and she was a classy, wonderful woman, really beautiful spirit soul and such a sweet lady and you did so much for her. Much love and prayers to you, Marshall, and your family.
-Karen Nunes, Barb and Marshall’s friend
*Karen NUNES... she would stay with mom sometimes when Barb would be at work. She has been a friend of ours for years. Mom would share family stories and they would laugh and have a good time❣
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I’m calling to send my condolences, love, and prayers to our family.
-Margie Zwick, Barb’s first boss and a dear friend
*Barb’s First Boss was at Baby Toy Town. “Mom and I were walking down the street and we saw a dresser and mirror that we loved. We went on to buy, most likely on layaway, and they were hiring❣ I got the job and I still have the mirror to the dresser❣”
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I’m sending you love, hugs, prayers. I’m so sorry! Please know we are here!
I love you and please know we are always here for you! Hope you are at peace, Barb!
-Nikki & Harlan Klein and Family: Marshall's Brother's family. My ‘lil sister
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Praying for you my sweet friend. May our Lord comfort you during this visit with your mommy. May she hear and know your presence and feel your love and her comfort with Jesus .
Sending lots love and prayers. I’m available any time, if you need me.
I’m so sorry my friend. How beautiful, she waited for you. Sending big hugs your way❣
-Anna and Eric Reindel
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Bless you all Barbara.
-Tina Brooks, Barb’s Supervisor
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Prayers to you and the family. So happy you got to spend her last moments together. Let me know if you need anything... Hugs! I’ll talk to you soon.
-Drea Haines, Barb’s Co Worker
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I know it was time, but when (it happens) it's hard.
Yes, she loved you all so much.
She had a heart of gold.
She also was extremely loved.
How could see not be. Her beautiful smile, hugs she gave us. The pure joy one felt being around your mom.
Your mom was my favorite of all my friends’.
She was mom to us all.
I loved her I love you too.
I'm here whenever you need me.
Sending you lots of love and hugs
-Sue Hynds Garcia, Barb Bff since 10th grade
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I'm so sorry. You had the most amazing and loving Mom. So many memories.
-Laurie Henry: Barbs bff since 10th grade
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We all loved your mom... She was such a special woman. Love and hugs to all of you.
-Suzanne King Gillhaus, Barbs Bff since 9th grade
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Heaven gained another angel. My sincere condolences and I have been thinking about you a lot. I am so sorry I have not reached out. Thinking of you.
-Cathy and Frank Terzoli and Family: Barb and Marshall’s friends
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I'm so sorry. She was such a wonderful, beautiful, sweet lady and am so blessed that I got to know her. I'm so glad you were with her when she passed. Such a gift from God to be there during her transition. Sending big hugs to you and the family. Call me if you need someone to talk to.
Love you.
-Julie and Mike Mitchell and Family: Barb’s close and dear friend
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Our condolences to you and your beautiful family. Loved her very much.... You were blessed... Praying for your mom and family.
-Joey and Lisa Francisco, Barbs BFF
Mom and Lisa had good times together. Mom always commented on her beautiful long hair❣
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I’m so sad to hear this but happy she is in a better place and not suffering. Thinking of you and your family! God bless you. All my love and prayers to you.
-Janiza Terzoli and Family, friends of Barb & Marshall
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I’m so, so sorry, I loved her so much.
Your Mom was a Beautiful person inside and out, and she will be sorely missed. I will always remember her beautiful nature and her angelic smile. That’s what made Pauline such a joy to be around.
Now... I hear your mom whispering... “Guy. Guy. It’s really nice up here. Come on! I’ll make you some macaroni & Cheese! You make some burgers!” Your mom was so funny, loving. That’s why you are the way YOU are! AMAZING PERSON! What a great Mother she was to all of your brothers and sisters too! May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time my wonderful sissy!
-In Love and Sympathy, Your Sister,
-Denise Culton Guidos, Barb's ‘lil sister, aka: Barbs Bff and Sister-in-Law
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I just wanted to reach out to you and say I’m so sorry to hear about your mama. Sending you lots of love. Miss you and hope to see you soon!
-Joelle Francisco, Lisa and Joey’s daughter, Barbs Bff
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I’m so sorry!!! So glad she was comfortable and dancing in Heaven now!!!
I completely understand...take care of yourself! We love you!!!
-Mary Rine and Family, Barb and Marshall’s friends and neighbors
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I am sorry to hear, but I know how much you have taken care of her these past few years.
-Crystal Bejar, Pauline and Barb’s friend and neighbor (Karen & Tom’s daughter)
*In addition to card and Tomatoes they left at my door from Crystal’s garden
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She had a Full and Wonderful Life. ♥ She was Blessed to have You as her Daughter!
-Karen and Tom Isabel: friend and neighbor to Barb and Marshall
*In addition to card and Fruit they left at my door
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Condolences.
-Ken Gold, friend of Kevin’s
I am truly saddened. I loved her so much. My heart is broken. I know how hard this is. If there is anything I can do please let me know. -Denise and Walt Shelton
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Love you so much!! Knowing grandma is our angel watching over us forever. Now she is free to dance and sing and move however she feel. She is free. A transition to another beautiful place. -Justice Klein, Granddaughter
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Todd, Rose, Dee, Dad, Barb, Kevin, Louis, Jeff. My Deepest Sympathies go out to you all. There are no right words to say with the loss of a parent no matter the age. Picture her as she was; Full of life and love, Although not with you now. She's watching from above. She knows how much you miss her. And she misses you too. It was her time to leave. As each of us will do. She's always in your heart. With the precious love you shared. You’re never far apart. She is always there. I only have the fondest memories of grandma; endless summer days were spent with her while dad worked. To this day, I eat my toasted bagel with butter and cream cheese! The kids call it mom’s special, but it was grandma’s special! My memories of her are endless and even more so for all of you. Just know that you won't find a sweeter, more selfless, or classier lady that can measure up to who grandma was, and she will always be in our hearts. May she rest in peace. My Love to You ALL~ Sincerely, Candice ~ granddaughter
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My Dad and Joey wanted to give you all their condolences. Joey said that he loved mom...that he has to say the she was his favorite Aunt❣ Roland said he loved mom so very much and that he remembers how everyone use to ask when they were little if they were twins❣ -Roland and Joey Patin **** She is such an example of pure love and goodness. That’s what I always see and feel from Pauline. Just like Grandma. My love right back to you!! Cousins Sharon, Angela, Joanne, and Eric Patin send you their love and deepest condolences to you all. God bless her sweet, sweet soul. You are all in my prayers. Love you dearly. If there’s anything I can do, you just let me know. -MaryRose, Domingue and Summer Domainge **** Condolences and my love. -Michele Martire **** *this was from Thereasa just days before mom passed.... ...It sounds like she is surrounded by a lot of love as her life winds down. What a beautiful, kind, and caring force she has been in my life. May she go in peace when that time comes. Take care. *this after mom passed… God bless Pauline. Sounds like she went peacefully. She will be terribly missed. -Thereasa Walker
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Miss me...but let me go. A Poem by an Unknown Author
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Barbara ~ When I think of your mom, I see her Smile and it makes me Happy. I think of Flowers and how she Loved her Family...I think of Fun Times ~ That's how I will Remember your Mother ~ Full of Love and Light. Our love ~ Karen & Tom
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Ms.Kvesic was the epitome of a perfect teacher. Kind, loving, caring and fun. I didn't have her as a teacher but I used to wish I did all the time. Every time I saw her in the hallways, she had a smile on her face and she was always happy to see her students. She was truly one of a kind. Ms.Kvesic will be sorely missed at Barondale. There is no teacher quite like her.
Her kindness will forever be remembered by her family, friends, coworkers and students.
Thanks for being an amazing person, Ms.Kvesic! We'll miss you!
zeekayMs.Kvesic was a light in our world. She had a beautiful smile that was so contagious and a heart filled with love. Ms. Kvesic has taught so many, whom she impacted over the years. She always made our family feel welcomed and continuously made an effort to visit us at our graduations even though years had past since we had last been her students. This kind gesture was not left unnoticed. She was one of a kind and it is truly heartbreaking to see her leave this world so soon. As a family that shared the pleasure of having been taught by her 3 times, Ms. Kvesic’s memory will continue. We love and miss you so much Ms.Kvesic.
Love,
Your Kiddos ~ Abi, Kobi, Vasu and Kogulan
The Prayer of Saint Francis was one of mom's favorites:
Lord make me an instrument of your peace
Where there is hatred let me sow love
Where there is injury, pardon
Where there is doubt, faith
Where there is despair, hope
Where there is darkness, light
And where there is sadness, joy
O divine master grant that I may
not so much seek to be consoled as to console
to be understood as to understand
To be loved as to love
For it is in giving that we receive
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned
And it's in dying that we are born to eternal life
Amen
Some of mom’s favorite songs:
Sentimental Journey - Doris Day
At Last - Etta James
Dancing Queen - ABBA
Color My World - Chicago
The Time of My Life - Bill Medley& Jennifer Warren
I Did It My Way - Frank Sinatra
I’ll Be Seeing You - Billie Holiday
It’s Not Unusual, Delilah, Can’t Stop Loving You, Spanish Harlem, What’s Up Pussy Cat – Tom Jones
Sweet Caroline - Neil Diamond
Yesterday, Let It Be – The Beatles
Greensleeves - Mozart
MoonRiver – Audrey Hepburn
MATER AMABILIS...This was mom's most favorite portrait of the Madonna.
Extended Thierry MembersLieve Mascha, voor mij blijf jij altijd die spontane, stoere en sterke meid. De mooie herinneringen blijven. Ik zal je missen. Veel liefs Paula
paula smelterMy beautiful friend Leela. I was so lucky to have you as a friend for the past 25 years even if we didn’t see each other often the texts and phone calls meant so much There is nobody in this world who gives better hugs than you do. You will always be in my thoughts and in my heart Till we meet again
Xoxo
Lieve Mascha, I was devastated to hear that you passed away! I had hoped that you would have many more years to enjoy your Californian life. You were so happy there. I am glad that I have been able to see it when I visited you and Edwin 3 years ago. That was the best trip of my life! Even since I got to know you, you have been so supportive and motivating in everything I did. And all the times we laughed so hard together because of our weird sense of humor! I will cherish these memories forever! Goodbye my dear friend! You will be missed so hard! Lots of love, Klarina
klarina shared a photo.When I think of you Leela, I will remember...
The enormous hugs that elicited beaming smiles from all of your nieces and nephews. They love and miss you so much.
The firm squeeze of your hand in the hard times sharing your boundless strength. This strength that too many times, endured pain and came out stronger than before.
Your big laugh that made us smile along even if we didn’t know the punchline.
Your heart, so big and caring for friends, family, students, colleagues, animals and all around you.
As the saying goes, your wings were ready, but our hearts were not. You will be loved and remembered forever. XO
Ms.Kvesic,
Your infectious positivity was always there to make even a bad day, an amazing day. You always take a positive stand, and always make sure everyone around you feels special. I remember that day when you told me, "You silly monkey, you better be a good kid in my class next year." I never ended up in your homeroom, but I will always remember the great memories you gave us in your drama classes, and your classroom door was always open, so I'd always come and talk to you, whenever I got a chance. Words can't describe how much everyone misses you, I wish I had kept my promise, and visited when I could, but I always thought I'd have more time, I should've never taken anything for granted. You even came to see all of your Barondale kids, graduating from grade 8, and it was one of the kindest gestures I've seen. I'm a die-hard fan of the Canadiens, but just this one year I really wish the Leafs win the cup, and when they do, I'll be remembering you in my heart. I will forever be your silly monkey. We'll all miss your Ms.Kvesic, rest easy.
My dearest Leela. How fortunate was I to have landed the classroom next to yours during my first year at Barondale?! We became fast friends and I'm so grateful. So many moments to cherish, but I fondly recall the time you praised me for introducing my students to Country music, when we spontaneously started singing and dancing to 'Boot Scootin' Boogie' together in front of your kids, who looked on at us with bright smiley eyes and laughed hilariously at our shameless musical outburst. Your silliness was infectious and fun! No more pain. You may dance in the clouds.
holly dedicated a song.Ms. Kvesic,
Although I never had you as a teacher at Barondale, I, along with everyone else hoped to have you. Your personality and energy was infectious and brightened up the school everyday. You truly cared and went above and beyond for your students. Your impact at Barondale and in the community was memorable and profound, and for that I thank you. Your positivity and heart will never be forgotten. My heart goes out to everyone affected by your passing, and I hope you are in a better place. May you rest in peace. When the Leafs finally bring home that Stanley Cup, I will be thinking of you. Go Leafs go!
Thank you,
Maya P
My dear Leela, the pain that we are all feeling is because you left your imprint on all our hearts, and now that you are gone, it feels like all the light in the world has been extinguished. However, we are all better people to have met and known you, if only for a short time. We just wish we had more time to bask in your light. I will love and miss you forever.
wiseguy dedicated a song.The perfect song for Leela! I'm sorry for your pain and loss, Vic. Leela spoke to me often and fondly about you. Sending you strength.
Holly MartinThank you so much Holly. I know that she cherished your friendship as she spoke highly of you as well.
VicWhere do I begin with Ms. Kvesic? I was extremely lucky to have her as my teacher for not one but two years! There are so many stories to tell and I'm sure many others have there plethora of stories. However, I will always remember in grade 3 when lead from my mechanical pencil broke and flew into my eye. I rushed to the washroom but I couldn't get it out. I returned to class and Ms. K calmed me down and she was able to remove the lead safely from underneath my eye with a tissue. That was definitely not a story you would hear twice. Two years later in grade 5, I couldn't bear to leave behind Ms. K as I graduated. I ended up crying but she hugged me and gave me her email for if I ever needed anything. In the following years I visited a few times and was always welcomed with "look at my kiddo" or "look at my munchkin all grown" and we would reflect upon our memories and how proud she was of me. I will always treasure that I was lucky enough to be her student twice!! May you rest in paradise Ms. Kvesic! Hopefully, the Leafs will win one soon and you'll have the best view from above! To the family, my condolences goes out to you and know that you are not alone.
It's been a month and we miss you dearly. We know you are watching over us.
Love you - Aaron
A sad time for all at 4most.
It was always a pleasure to chat to Mark and always made an effort to come and speak to me whenever I came down to London. Also probably the only man the will offer a job after taking me out for a meal as a job interview.
Thoughts with all his family and friends.
Dan
The first time we had seen each other in a year. I remember how nervous I was on the way to see you. I felt like I was gonna puke the whole ride. But as soon as you opened the door and grabbed me up in your arms it was like no time had past at all. I remember you brought me a plate of Koles food and only one fork! ( you had to have known that wasnt an option) when you reached for the fork I pulled away and told you to get your own, all the while stuffing my face... I can still see your face clear as day in my mind when you looked at me, smiled and said "shit like that is why I love you" I miss you so much Steven Downey. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404 shared a photo.So our anniversary is literally right around the corner... And to be completely honest, im totally dreading it. For 15 years we were together almost every day, but certainly EVERY 4th of July. Even this past 4th when we were going thru all that it was you who was sitting next to me in the truck. Steven please tell me how in the fuck I am supposed to get thru an entire lifetime like this?! I need you, Ive always needed you. Something happened the other day that really shook me. Christy fell asleep at my moms and left her phone laying around and of course Erin went thru it. She showed me a message that raised a red flag so I went to pick up the phone. While I was scrolling thru pics I came across a screenshot of a conversation between christy and and someone else... the other person said "leave me alone im at a funeral" and the response that came back from our daughters phone was " I hope whoever died a horrible death and rot in hell bitch..." " fuck you and your dead ass family member..." Steven you cant even understand what that does to my heart and my soul. The first thing that crossed my mind was Did she learn to be that heartlesss from watching me talk to you? How could she say something like that to someone after just losing her father herself?! What do I do?! How do I even approach the subject? You know how I am... I dont want to fly off the handle and be the bitch that I always am. I want her to know how wrong and completely unacceptable that was... I need you Steven, I need your level headedness and your old fashioned core values... I need your strength and courage right now. Help Me Babe.... Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404Unfortunately, I did not work with Mark for that long and I would have loved much longer. I became very fond of Mark over that time and he was always a friendly face in the office after I had been travelling to or from somewhere…. Half day again is it Gareth!
Mark was a superb people person. He had that ability to get on with everyone, put them at ease (typically with a top draw ‘dad joke’) and have fun. But he could also get down to serious business when he needed to. That is what made him such a great leader, person to work with and a statesman for 4most.
At heart Mark was a salesman and he loved the associated social side and banter that came with that. He was an incredibly welcoming and generous person, the perfect host with an infectious laugh and sense of humour.
In the 2.5 years of knowing Mark there are many many great memories and much fun was had.
One of a kind, a truly brilliant chap to be around.
Rest in peace Mark, you are already badly missed.
Gareth.
I first met Mark in 2014 and I have many wonderful memories of him. He was always full of energy and optimism.
Mark always put people first and he was a key driver in establishing a great culture at 4Most. He was a kind and generous man, and a great boss.
Deepest condolences to his family and friends. He will be missed.
Hristo
I have so many memories of Mark from Portugal, Christmas parties and various other social events. This photo in particular was from Portugal 2017 which I will always remember as the year he gave me approval (after just a few drinks) to take as many holidays as I wanted. I also always appreciated him including me in his thank you speech for helping organise events, despite me not actually being involved at all! I loved his ability to always have a good time and make sure those around him did too. He made you want to just enjoy life and take every moment as it comes. I think my fondest memory will always be our shared love of chocolate/sweets. It wasn’t long before he discovered that I always have some at my desk, and his regular visits made me quickly realise that I needed to increase my stockpile, which he frequently contributed to. I will always have a thought for him when delving into our finance stash at work. He will be greatly missed by many. Amy
alj800 shared a photo.Having only known Mark for 4 short years, he become a significant part of my life in various ways – from a mentor at work to an inspiration on how to live life. As like so many others in his 4most life, our first meeting was a highly relaxed breakfast meeting in the City, which became a regular favourite for us whenever I needed to bounce ideas off him. It is both ironic and fitting that our last meeting was out of London for a casual mid-week pub lunch in Hampshire.
Over the years we have know each other he quickly become more of a friend than a boss, which often made the more formal work chats harder but Mark usually managed the situation by a quick chat followed by a long lunch at Harry’s bar. We managed to pack in a fair amount over this time, both at work and in play! So many happy memories of trips to Cheltenham, skiing, sailing , pub lunches in the Harrow, to name a few. Since the move to the new house, conversations tended to centre less about work and more about how to sort out the latest issue with the quad, how to get it out of first gear, or the flail mower that never seemed to get going. As part of this I felt privileged to have met Charlotte on a number of occasions and talk about the kids, especially more recently as Millie and I had our second child. It is clear to me Mark was a lucky man in finding Charlotte and it doesn’t take a genius to work out that they were clearly perfectly matched in so many ways.
As long as I have known Mark he's always been a larger than life character, and I will remember him fondly as a trusted colleague and a close friend.
I remember my first week at 4most, back in September 2014. We were treated to an escape game followed by what ended up being a rather long Thursday night at a nearby pub. Not being used to a company tab before this, I turned up a little worse for wear the next morning. Mark was his usual cheerful self, seemingly unaffected, taking breakfast orders and buying everyone their chosen hangover cure. That first experience was a good indicator of things to come.
Mark had bags of energy, often the last man standing on the dancefloor, easily outlasting much younger 4mosters! He was very generous, not just with breakfast but with his time and guidance and the proportion of 4most’s funds that went into making it a happy workplace. It’s plain to see the success he achieved with our company and others but through it all that he remained a very approachable leader, patient with questions and forgiving of mistakes.
My enduring memory of Mark will be his booming laugh, probably enjoying a magic trick on a boat! I believe that we will continue his legacy of balancing great work with great fun.
I met Mark on a 4most summer conference having only joined the company a week earlier. Mark was one of the first senior people that I spoke to on that weekend and I found him to be very engaging and easy to talk to. Meeting Mark and knowing such friendly and approachable people were at the head of the organisation helped cement my feelings that I had made the right decision in making the move to 4most.
I shall miss having those occasional easy going conversations with Mark and the impromptu speeches he would give, which were always (as other people have also said) positive and often inspiring. He will be sorely missed by us all.
My thoughts and sympathies go out to his family.
Matt
A message from Tarquin:
It is obvious from the messages left that Mark had a special ability to balance the professionalism with a playfulness that was refreshing and has engendered itself in all of 4most. In my opinion, one of our company’s key attributes is this culture; it is not often a leader’s character is embodied so clearly.
It is also uncommon for one person to have touched so many corners of the company. The gap he has left behind with us is sizeable but the gap he leaves behind with his friends and family must be significantly greater, what a loss.
I remember being at Cheltenham races with Mark, a great day out with typical amounts of drink flowing. We were exchanging horse racing stories, betting tips and generally laughing and joking. It was the first time I’d really had a chance to speak with him at any length and he was such a lively character, very easy to talk to and genuinely interested. In fact, I can’t remember a time that I saw him when he wasn’t making people around him laugh.
We will miss you Mark.
Mark was a lovely man who always had the time of day for me, from when I first met him 4 and a half years ago after my interview for 4most until more recently when I last saw him in the office. He will be missed
netrefa11
I have had the pleasure of Mark’s company, mainly at 4most socials over the last 4 years. One of the qualities that Mark possessed, and one I will remember him for, is that age will never be an obstacle. He was willing to try out new things, get involved with what the younger generation is doing nowadays and always the first to the dancefloor no matter what music played (albeit dependant on alcohol consumption). Every time our paths crossed in the office, he would share something funny or a joke. Always greeted with that trademark smile no matter what type of a day he had. I had the pleasure of sharing dinner with him, and with a few others at 4most, at one of our Summer Conferences in Portugal. He slowly parked himself of our table with the same intention as everyone else on the table, it was the closest to the food! I cannot remember any specific conversations we had during our meal, but Mark made the time to get to know everyone at 4most when possible. The qualities he possessed is what the 4most family has been built on and we will all play a part in making sure it stays that way forever. I have posted a picture of myself and Mark taken at the summer conference in 2018. It is the only selfie I have of us, it seems to be a very popular night as others have also posted images of the oversized pink sunglasses which he wore for most of the night. It's a bit blurry but portrays a true reflection of how the night went. Hope you feel the happy (drunk) vibes from it and others from the night. Mark radiated positive energy in any environment, a delight to be around and an inspiration to people around him. His thoughts will always bring a smile to my face. Kush
kpatel shared a photo.I first met Mark in December 2011 when I interviewed for 4most. Mark was a brilliant man to work with, he had a great way of making people feel comfortable around him and always approached life with a great mix of taking things seriously (sometimes!) but having a laugh as well. It might sound so simple but Mark wanted us all to have a laugh and be happy when we were working.
I was lucky enough to play golf with Mark all over the place, on our company trips and at Liphook. He was very competitive but as with everything else it was always good fun and he was pretty much unbeatable whenever we’d play at his home course Liphook. I always enjoyed the fact that Mark treated us all as equals at 4most and that taking the mick out of each other was a two way thing – he often took the mick out of me but would take it as well as give it! I often think ‘what would Mark say’ when some sort of opportunity to go and watch sport or play golf somewhere comes up, Mark would always just tell me to do it and worry about cost et.c. later – great advice if you ask me.
As so many have said on here he was the life and soul of so many of our parties and the office, and more than anything he was just a brilliant bloke. He will be missed massively. Mike Gilding.
Thinking about you mum
rachaelainaIn mid March 2020 we had dinner and Dayton insisted the band at the restaurant plays an Australian Ballad, "Waltzing Matilda" by Slim Dusty. To Your Joy, They Did. This song will always remind me of you.
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I met Mark when I joined the company 3 years ago. Shortly after I started, I realized what a genuine, bright and positive person he was. I have never heard anyone else before laughing so loud, so often and for so long. I guess it was Mark’s never-ending joking that made it simply not possible to maintain any sense of hierarchy when speaking to him.
He was one of those people that could teach you how worrying hasn’t helped anyone and also that positivity is one of the most appropriate approaches towards life, if not the only one.
I honestly consider Mark to have been a great leader because he knew how to inspire the members of his big team and was always trying to elevate the spirit of the people around him with a joke or sometimes even a warning for the ones working late to not steal too much data.
I feel very fortunate to have met Mark. I believe he did his best in making everyone’s day calmer and happier. It is so sorrowful that he left us but I think we all owe Mark something – a very big smile.
He'll be missed.
Zara
I met Mark 8 years ago at the start of the 4most journey, he helped me through various bumps in my life over those years with a smile, very good advice and always an offer of a drink. His infectious optimism dragged us through some doubtful periods and his approach to 4most its and people has very much shaped the culture of the company.
Mark has left me with many things, perhaps one of the more amusing is a repertoire of cheese jokes (which my kids now play back over and over). What did the cheese say to the mirror…..
You are missed Mark, thanks for everything.
Craig Watters
I met Mark back in 2017, a couple of days after I joined the team. When I think of him, two prominent things come to my mind – he was a down to the earth man with a great sense of humour. Once, when he sat next to me in the office I was listening for half a day his hilarious old school jokes and life stories. I am truly proud that I knew Mark and also worked for him.
Nikolay
I met Mark when I joined 4most just over 4 years ago feeling extremely out of my depth as a less experienced hire. One of the most troubling ideas was trying to find somewhere to sit and dreading the thought of sitting where the “senior” people sat (generally at least, in the Lime St free-for-all). I learned three things:
1) 4mosters are a nice bunch - Mark in particular was very quick to set the tone that no one in 4most will hesitate to chat to you or help you, including the Managing Directors;
2) Work hard and have a laugh – I think this is the cornerstone of how we work at 4most, Mark pioneered this with his innate ability to balance doing your job with a relaxed and cheerful manner and;
3) Lime St really did not have enough seats
Mark knew that what makes 4most successful is the individuals that work here and so he ensured that everyone was included and enjoying themselves. His warm and welcoming personality brought everyone together and there was never a dull (or dry!) social when he was around. He had a wonderful ability of being subtly supportive and he truly cared about people’s achievements.
His compassion and values are woven into 4most and I cannot remotely do justice to Mark’s character, but I will always be thankful for working with him.
My thoughts are with his family and friends at this sad time.
Beth x
I first met Mark over 21 years ago and it has been a true pleasure to have spent the majority of my career working with him. Looking back, it is hard to think of anything other than his infectious ability to encourage people to have fun, even when things get tough. I only remember once him looking worried when we were having lunch just before a significant pitch to our then largest client – “this could go horribly wrong” he said. I looked concerned, only for him to reveal it was the risk of getting Bolognese on his white shirt that was troubling him and not the meeting - ever the optimist. Despite the fun, Mark had a serious side that, along with Mark Somers, built what 4most is today. As a legacy he has left something we can all be proud of and we owe it to him to maintain the values he worked so hard to keep and that differentiate us from so many companies.
I will always look back with fond memories, a smile and a heartfelt thank you.
Miles
I’ve only had the pleasure of knowing Mark for a few years. He has been a massive positive influence on my time at 4most and my career.
If I were to take anything from my time with Mark, I don’t think he ever believed in ‘looking before you leaped’. He leaps, and puts trusts in himself and those around him that’ll we’ll get the job done. I’m grateful to have parted with some of this from my time with Mark.
Ramesh
Caroline was an amazing person--artist, musician, poet, dancer--& a wonderful friend. We had so many fine adventures together beginning in the senior adult tap dance class where we met & going on through, Vintage Ballet, The Poet Speaks performances, Dance for PD classes . . . . It was a privilege to know both Caroline & Jack.
Susan Burton
Mark's approach to 4most is the very ethos that we are all fortunate enough to continue to enjoy. He always challenged us on getting the right outcome, higher revenue, growth etc... but never too seriously and always with a trip to a pub/bar after.
After I had heard the sad news I received a picture message from Aidan and knew immediately that it would be from my first 4most christmas party - one arm round Mark, his arms aloft, a tie tied round his head singing at the top of his voice; probably not what I expected to be doing with the Managing Director a few months after joining, but it set the scene from that point on. He will be greatly missed
Chris Warhurst
Many happy memories of spending time in and (mostly) out of the office with Mark over the years. Many happy hours spent chatting over a drink at the Grapes even before joining 4most. His warmth and generosity was part of the reason I joined in the first place.
From cutting shapes on the dance floor in Estepona (with that green hat on!) to joining in with 500 miles at Bandeoke at the Christmas party, Mark was always fun to be around and never took himself too seriously.
He'll be missed.
I first met Mark on my 3rd interview for 4most 2 years ago. When I found out the CEO wanted to meet me, I almost passed out but he really set the tone for how laid back the business was. He started off the interview by reading the job description instead of my CV and we had a good old laugh about it.
Mark was the literally the life of the party and being in a bad mood or upset around him was impossible. He made my life hard when he used to dump a bunch of his dry cleaning and pub receipts on my desk and none of them would relate to what I was looking for but we'd just laugh and try another coat the next day.
Mark will surely be missed and my deepest condolences to his family and close friends
Steph x
I first met Mark when I signed my contract to join 4most, despite not starting for several weeks he insisted I join the upcoming social so I could get to know everyone before work started proper.
He then sought me out at the pub and insisted on buying me a drink and getting to know me. For a young analyst who was apprehensive about starting a new role in a small company this gesture was enormously appreciated and put all my fears of the unknown to bed.
Mark wove his drive to instil culture and camaraderie in every interaction, whether it was leading the charge to the Grapes on a Thursday afternoon or investing in a new coffee machine to make break times more rewarding. He invested his time and energy into the people of 4most and always trusted it would pay dividends.
For consultants who spent their days scattered across the UK he made stopping by the office feel like coming home.
He will be missed by all.
Nick Simmons
In many ways Mark was the soul of 4most. We often talk about the unique culture and Mark was the driving force behind so much of that. He went out of his way to ensure everyone was enjoying themselves; either by making you laugh or reminding you that you were only a few hours away from being sat in the pub.
He always made time for everyone and I found him great company whether talking about work (rarely) or having a natter over a drink. His positivity shone through and I'll always remember him for his warmth and generosity to all.
He will be sorely missed.
Mark was always up beat, friendly and didn’t take himself too seriously. It felt as though I could go up to him and start a conversation at any time and he would usually manage to make you laugh during that interaction!
He was always so fun loving and this was most evident during many of our company socials or after work drinks! It was great to have a boss who was so ready to get involved and have a great time with the company.
He will be missed and I am sending my deepest condolences to his family. I hope they can take some comfort in knowing how highly he was thought of.
May he rest in peace.
Sinead x
This video was made by Marlon Hernandez and shared during the memorial on 6/20/20
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Happy fathers day dad. I❤❤you forever ⚘⚘⚘⚘
araefiolek shared a photo.Pammy, you've been on my mind alot lately. Your loving spirit will forever live on through every soul you've touched. I'm so thankful for the time we had you in our lives. Benny most certainly will know who his Pammaw was and how beautiful of a person she was and how much she loved him. Love and mis you.
rtmple318Hey you, I just wanted to tell you a few things so I can check em off my "list of things to tell Steven". So im not sure if I told you but Christy recently went thru a phase where she decided not to cuss or yell at me because she said it took her further away from God and being let into Heaven on Judgement Day. It didnt last long...lol she decided that rather than putting so much effort into being good and doing what others wanted her to do, it would simply be easier to do what she wanted because "you cant let the Devil know you're afraid of him." Oh god I laughed so hard when I heard that because it is soooooo Christy to say something like that. She has your spirit and your never back down type of attitude. I know you would have been so proud to hear her say it. The next thing I wanted to tell you about was the other night I was dying the girls hair purple and while I was rinsing out Christys in the sink she kept complaining about how the water was running down her forehead and I told her to stop whining and stay still. And when she wrapped the towel around her head I started to clean out the sink and she goes "MOOOMMMMAAA" the tone of her voice instantly irritated me and when I turned around to yell at her I busted up laughing... She had the brightest purple blob covering her forehead!!! LMAO she goes " r u stupid or are you stupid?!" Bahahahahahahahahahaha It was hilarious. I miss you the most when things like this happen because no matter what was going on between me and you when it came to the girls we were always on the same page. I dont have you to share these moments with anymore and it breaks my heart. The next thing I wanted to tell you was about how Christy was telling me that tomorrow she wanted me to take her to walmart to get some brown hair dye to cover the purple up and then she wanted me to buy her hair extensions. And I knew she wasnt asking she was TELLING me what was going to happen so I didnt even bother arguing with her I just patted her on the leg and said " ok we will do it tomorrow" and she smacks my hand away and says " dont pat me like were gonna do it!!!" hahahahahahaha it was too funny. And the last thing I wanted to tell you about was how I picked the size of your second village. I couldnt decide if I wanted to keep it the same size as what I already have or go smaller, but I was scrolling through google looking for little buildings for it and I came across this SEX SHOP in small scale. I searched for hours for something that was even in the same category as it but came up with nothing so small scale it is lol. When it got delivered to the office my mom was there and she opened it. She said as soon as she saw the word SEX she immediately closed the box and said "thats gotta be Ambers!" LMAO I knew you would love it. Im the only one who understands that I couldnt build you your own village without putting a sex store in it... hahahahahaha I miss you so much Steven. Your still my favorite everything and I will miss you for the rest of my life. Love me always, xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404I was a student of Mr. Orman's from 1969-71. He was an outstanding teacher. He was kind, supportive, helpful in his criticism. He made sure students learned the technical aspects of printmaking, but he also helped us develop our own vision and style. I am saddened at his passing and wish his family and friends peace and comfort.
Tanya McMurtry
Thank you, Tanya.
Evan Orman
I’m trying to find the words to capture just how important you have been in my adult life. You Linda embodied all that was good in people. You welcomed in anyone and treated them as if you’d known them a lifetime. I don’t think there has ever been a time you wouldn’t go above and beyond for anyone and everyone and I feel so very blessed to have been able to be one of the recipients of your love.
There are so many memories that bring warmth to my heart most of them at your home in Kasilof. From sitting around your backyard and you relentlessly catering to all of us big kids making sure our bellies were full after long nights camping, to allowing us to dirty your pristine bathrooms to rinse off the campfire and booze stink. To moving into our more mature adult years where we’d bring our babies down and you’d follow them around your yard and insist that we take a break and let them play with you smiling ear to ear. I think fondly of our camping trip to Seward where Taitum and Tayla learned to ride bikes with out training wheels and you watched while cheering. Nothing however compares to goin on vacation with you and seeing where you grew up, we were welcomed by your entire family and we were given a very intimate look at what molded you into the fierce loving woman I met as a young adult.
I think about the laughs, the unconditional love and the complete selflessness that you had. You’ve touched the hearts of so many and I hope I can at least embody a sliver of everything you were. Thank you for accepting me and being there for all of life’s moments, thank you for your daughter My person and best friend in the world who changed my life and most of all thank you for allowing me to be a small part of your journey I know mine is forever changed because you were in it.
You are loved by so many and your legacy will live on in the incredible humans that you raised, the world was a better place because you were in it. I love you big bunches forever and ever. XOXOXO
Momma, I've often said I can only hope to have just a tiny bit of your patience. You patiently waited for things to unfold, always near with your gentle warmness and knowing smile, you patiently waited for hundreds of batches of cookies so you could share the simple joy of warm, fresh from the oven love. You were patient with every child, every struggle, every hurt, and every dream You were patient on the river so you could carry that big king back to camp. You patiently built and created homes, camps, and fun out of nothing and everything. More than anything, you patiently gave every part of yourself to your family, friends you made family, and all who had the gift of knowing you. Momma, I'll try to be patient until we meet again.
meganjp_ak
What a fun day this was. Driving 4wheelers up at off road express. You Gabe, Brody and I. I love you.
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Chris was one of the nicest people I have ever worked with. Always helpful and supportive, always kind. Chris was also fun to be with. A proud mother of Gary and devoted wife to Tom. RIP Chris.
Much love and heartfelt condolences,
Lin Dyke.
Grandma Linda, you will be forever in our hearts.
Thank you SueAnn for creating this Memorial.
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This was a happy day! Miss you love ❤️
tracybill shared a photo.I love you so much Dad. I miss you so much. Nothing seems real anymore. I need you in my world.
araefiolekFrom Edwards and Lewis Family, Sister Moore we love was always there for all of us. She open up her home and hart to let us have shelter from home. We always be grateful for everything she have done for us, We love her and never forget. Sis Moore is in a great place now with the Lord by her side. She will be missed.
richHey Babe, Last night when I went to my moms to pick up the girls, she told me that they were at Erins. So I watched our show on the OWN channel and by the time it was over it was about 12:30am. I went to Erins to get them and Christy started whining that they wanted to stay. The feeling of uneasiness started to set in at the thought of going home alone. And I started to get upset. I told her NO a couple of times before I started to tear up and then just said fuck it love you goodnight... As I backed out of the driveway I could see Jade still standing there watching me speed away. I thought about stopping but I didnt. I know its childish of me to act this way, but I hate being alone at night and I cant seem to put my big girl panties on and get over it. When I got home, there was a couple of texts from Jade ( I knew there would be ). She said " Mommy, the only reason I wanted to stay was because Christy was staying. I know why you were crying, and I love you more than anybody in the world. How close are you to the house? Call me when you wake up love you bye." I broke down and started bawling. I hate that things are this way and that they have to worry about me and they cant just be kids. I hate that I cant be alone when the sun goes down anymore. I tell myself that the uneasy feeling is your spirit following so close that I can feel you. And I would rather have you close and be uneasy than not feel anything at all. Its just hard because I cant see you. You will ALWAYS have a place with me Steven... ALWAYS. So please dont ever think that it would be easier on everyone if you just backed off. I want you to stay. I love you and our girls love you, we all miss you so much it hurts our hearts everyday. Im never gonna get over this Steven. I heard a song the other day that said if I loved you like I miss you, If my world revolved around you like it does right now without you, you wouldnt be gone. It perfectly explains the situation. And again all I can say is im sorry. I will miss you for the rest of my life Steven Downey. Love me always xoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404what a beautiful obituary! I can't imagine how hard it might be to lose both parents at once.My heart goes out to you..your parents I didn't know well but from your tribute, I know them as creative, inspired and inspiring and industrious artists and creators. May you be sustained in many beautiful memories! Leslie Goodwin
leslie goodwinThank you, Leslie.
Evan OrmanI am so touched by your tribute to your parents! I knew Caroline briefly..unfortunately! I saw her at a few poetry readings in Loveland and once jumped to the stage to steady her walker..I remember her poems as being funny, insightful and whimsical at times but always engaging. Know she was much loved and had an amazing life with you boys to carry on her traditions. Leslie Goodwin
leslie goodwinThank you, Leslie.
Evan OrmanandieDearest Pam,
You are the earth angel and I knew it the first time I met you. You swept in when I had the flu. You and Vance transformed our home into a beautiful place for our wedding reception. I miss you and glad you are not suffering anymore. Be free. you belong among the Wildflowers
Well old friend you set sail much sooner than I had thought you would and I still can’t believe you have left us. Please know that you are missed. I think of you every week day as we work to continue your legacy at VCFA. We have your great example before us and will always keep the indelible mark of character, integrity and dedication as the pillars of the firm you built. Thank you for putting so much trust in us these past years and for the countless lessons along the way. You were a great mentor and partner but an even better friend these twenty plus years. I’ll miss our evenings in the office sitting in the conference room sharing stories, joke telling, debating the politics of the day, and sharing thoughts on life, family, and our so many friends in common. It is these moments of both humor and seriousness that I will struggle to live without as I thought they would go on for many more years. I’m sad to see you go my friend but I know you’ll keep teaching me things even in your absence as I will often use your wisdom as a compass for years to come.
areillyI can definitely testify to Mark Somers' comment on Mark's ability and speed for mental arithmetic - he certainly kept me on my toes whenever I presented him with numbers but was always open and willing to listen to the response. He was also very good at keeping the finance team stocked up with toffees, although contributed to how often they needed stocking up with his regular after-lunch visits to the finance area for 'something sweet'.
He was great fun, and I have many happy memories of 4most socials of which Mark was a huge part - the stash of lime green hats he bought outside the club in Portugal, the 'bank notes' with his face on for our Casino Royale Christmas Party and his love of magicians which lead to my annual communications with '[email protected]' Without Mark's influence, 4most wouldn't have the fun, friendly and welcoming culture that it does, and through that his legacy will continue.
Sending my love and best wishes to Mark's family at such a sad time.
Nicola x
I feel so fortunate to have worked with Mark! He was the soul of every 4most social (as per the photo attached); as well as a great business leader. The way Mark & Mark managed to set up 4most as the ideal environment for everyone to be their best, is pretty unique! Mark's support, mentoring and laughter - that's what we'll all remember and miss. With love and thoughts, Hana
kvitko87 shared a photo.Chris, I will always remember how nervous I was at meeting you that first time but with your kind smile, loving and friendly manner, I didn't have to to worry.
Thank you so much for letting me into your caring family, you're just the type of mother-in-law every person would of hoped for.
Thank you for all the happy memories we made, I'm just so sorry we couldn't of made so many more.
Rest now and be at peace.
All my love,
Michelle.
You will be missed Tracy, but never forgotten. I know you will continue to inspire me as well as many other women on their journey through breast cancer. Oh, and War Eagle. I guess you Alabama grads are not so bad. LOL Your friend always (Auburn grad), Sabrina
ssalcedo1986This movie is dedicated to our Warrior Tracy B from your ladies in the ABC group in TN. We are so thankful for all the inspiration you have given to all our breast cancer survivors and many more. We know you will continue to inspire them as you will never be forgotten. https://youtu.be/W5JTn1KIbe4
ssalcedo1986 shared a video.This movie is dedicated to our Warrior Tracy B from your ladies in the ABC group in TN. We are so thankful for all the inspiration you have given to all our breast cancer survivors and many more. We know you will continue to inspire them as you will never be forgotten. https://youtu.be/W5JTn1KIbe4
ssalcedo1986 shared a video.Hi Tracy, when I first met you I thought what a beautiful smile and bubbly personality you had. Eventually your dad and I married and I was excited about having a stepdaughter after raising three sons. Your spunk was contagious and fight to the end impressive. I am glad you are at peace now. Love, Marie Peterson.
smokey01With love and fond memories of a fun loving person who loved life to the full and always where there to lend a helping hand. Chris will be sadly missed!
“What the caterpillar calls the end, the master calls the butterfly”
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Colin & Marianne
Oh sweet Katie, where do I even begin.
You loved this song, you shared it with me because it made you think of your friend Jordan, and also the house up on the hill at Palmer Lake.
You were the sweetest, most compassionate person I’ve ever met.
And you were so damn determined!!!
As you would say, “ I am a capable woman!”
I loved that I could make you belly laugh, I’m sure going to miss that laugh!
The last night we had dinner together, was one of the times that I gave you a good laugh... We were at a little Italian restaurant, and I was trying to pronounce gnocchi.
You would tell me, and five minutes later I would forget what it was actually called.
You were super disappointed, because it wasn’t real gnocchi, and you wanted me to try the real thing.
To Bob and Mary, Susie and Owen, Ann and Emily. My thoughts are with you all.
My sweet Katie, I am devastated.
I’d love to you in life, and I will continue loving you until there’s no life in me.
And I will leave a light on......
There will be a celebration of Pam's life in the near future! I will give everybody plenty of notice.
vancetmpl
Jerry,Marsha and Pam at DeLeon Springs!
Vance Temple
Coach and Leslie and Pammy!
Vance Temple
Marc and The girls!
Vance Temple
The Director of Construction and Pamdemonium!
Vance TempleI miss you mum
rachaelaina
Fairly certain this is the bar tab from our first conference in Portugal in 2016. Owe this man a lot for taking a chance on me. Thanks and condolences to his family and closest. We'll miss you. Andy L x
arjlong shared a photo.The time I spent in Pamela's presence was filled with kindness, warmth and light. She touched the lives and hearts of so many and is cherished as a dear friend to my parents. They all shared great memories together and always reported back to us kids the laughter, freedom, love and fun they experienced - whether at a concert, in the backyard or a restaurant full of tapas. I know Pamela will be deeply missed by many and that her heart and soul remain alive in the memories and spirits of those she touched.
Peace to you Pamela and love to you Vance and family xx
Dear Pamela,
The times we spent together were truly special. Your generous spirit and natural ability to make everyone feel special will be remembered. Your home, apart from the beauty it presented, was always a place filled with welcome and the love that was so evident between you and Vance. I will always remember and cherish your friendship and the great times we enjoyed over lemon martinis. We will look after Vance for you and keep you in our hearts.
All my love, Brenda xx.
andiePam,
I miss you so much! You were an earth angel to me and the owl outside my window reminded me how wise you are and that you are still with us! I will never forget how you and Vance rescued us
during our wedding reception as I was getting over the flu. You were so gracious and
provided our home with a celebratory atmosphere with you awesome creativity. Please
know how much we love you.
My feelings for Pam are impossible to put in to words. My heart will hold her close as memories of our friendship, her creativity, kindness, and especially love will live on to share with others.
Sending love to Vance and all of you that were part of Pam’s precious life.
barbara
So I went to court yesterday and my case was dismissed. After I left there I went to get started on my next tattoo. He finished the bottom half of the sleeve for the most part. But im inlove with it already. My mom cried when she saw it. It hurt like hell alot more than the first one did. I dont know why but what makes it tolerable is trying to imagine what you were going thru even before that day. It kills me to think that I was so absorbed in myself that I let you suffer that alone. I loved you sooooo much more than that and I hate myself for letting you down. When im feeling physical pain now, I feel like I deserve it because of what I let you go thru alone. Im sorry Steven. Im so ashamed of the way I acted towards you in the months before you left. And that last day will be seared in my memory for the rest of my life. I can still see that look on your face that I always hated, as I pulled the front door closed. It was a look of pain and confusion... I would give anything to redo the last 5 minutes before I left that day. I would literally give my own life for it. Id give my own life in exchange for yours Steven. Im sorry, Im so sorry I wasnt who you needed to me to be in your darkest hour. You saved me everytime I asked you to, and I failed you. Im sorry babe, nothing will ever make this right, but for the rest of my days I will be sorry for turning my back on our love. Im sorry Steven Downey... Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404The most incredible human being I ever knew! She was so special ! She lit up every room she walked into and touched every person she met! I am so lucky that I got to have 12 great years with her. I will cherish them dearly! I didn't lose my girl I lost my Pammy! I love you Babe!
Till we meet again,
Vance
Pammy with Artemus Blue!
Vance Temple
Us at The Royal wedding in Atlanta!
Vance Temple
First meet and start to an amazing and rewarding Friendship. Thanks for posting Vance.
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Punkin,Pammy and me!
Vance TempleMomma some good news. I think I would be good at Wedding planning so I applied to a company to intern. The Lady told me to check back in August to do a face to face interview with her. Jtst wanted to share with you.
aberkeyMomma Glad you arent hear to see the craziness going on in America right now. I love you and miss you very much.
aberkey
First time I have slept alone in my bed since you left.... the comfortable roomy mattress was completely lost on me. It was like my body was comfortable but my heart and mind were not. This made it impossible to sleep. So I did like I used to do when u went to Bakersfield for work, i put a pillowcase that smelled like you on my pillow and layed on it like it was your chest. Except back then I had u coming home to look forward to. I miss u Steven with all my heart. Love me always xoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404rachaelainaForever in our hearts
rachaelainaIt has been awhile since Vernon passed on. Life goes so fast. I found his obituary and again was so impressed with the military history. I loved visiting with Vernon and Bonna when they would come to visit their folks. Thanks for sharing your story here. Linda Lou
lindalouSi bien es cierto que todos los de esta banda son buenos, tu con tus arreglos lograste que tuvieran mención honorífica en aquél Festival de la Canción en Campus Estado de México.
djkozz shared a video.Si bien es cierto que todos los de esta banda son buenos, tu con tus arreglos lograste que tuvieran mencion honorífica en aquél Festival de la Canción en Campus Estado de México.
djkozz shared a video.Estoy lejos como ahora lo estamos todos físicamente, pero estamos unidos con un deseo de que descanse en paz y que reciba nuestro cariño donde sea que esté. Para muchos de nosotros fue una persona maravillosa llena de apapachos para todos. Lo vamos a extrañar.
dianabedolla
Apapachos donde quiera que estés Luis, igual por allá nos vemos
mauricio arreola shared a photo.SI puedes por favor enviarme a dónde pueda enviarte la información del tributo que estaremos haciendo a luis si deseas participar. Saludos.
Jandreet Totosaus
Hey babe, i just wanted to tell you real quick that the girls were riding the go kart the other day and when we got back to the office jade goes " ummmmm christy you got a bean on your butt" as shes peelings Hershey wrapper off Christy's ass. A WHOLE Hershey bar melted to the butt of her shorts. Christy goes " shut up jade it's an ALMOND!" bahahahahaha... I wish u could have been there to laugh with me. I love you forever Steven. Love me always xoxoxoxo
adowney7404 shared a photo.I cannot recall a major moment in my life that you haven’t been there for and I’ve never once imagined my life without you. Uncle D, I am so blessed to have called you my godfather but, really, you’ve been a second father to me. I’ll miss calling to wish you a Happy Godfather’s Day and our impromptu calls to check-in on each other. We always marveled at the fact that we were living in the same place. I’ll never forget one bone-chilling winter day when we got together for an event in NYC. As we were leaving, we spotted an elderly man who had fallen on the cement steps and appeared to have broken his hip. While you called 911, I waited with him. You and I knelt there comforting him until an ambulance arrived. We got his name and you promised to call and check in on him later. I saw a part of myself in you that day; you were generous and thoughtful at every moment. I’ve never met someone with a more accurate moral compass. You always challenged those closest to you to do what was morally and ethically sound. You were a man of integrity and passion. Being on the water with you was one of my favorite things - and you had confidence in me being at the helm. I’ll always hold you closest to my heart and will cherish our memories until we meet again. Fair winds, Uncle D, I hope you drop anchor somewhere really beautiful!
All my love,
Eliza
Amor, siempre cerca aún cuando lejos, aquí te siento y por eso se que estás. Silencio La música lentamente se apaga. La luna nos envuelve con su manto de luz en un gran abrazo a todos los que te amamos, tú ríes con ella. Escucho tu risa. Siento tu abrazo con el de la luna. Siento la fuerza que siempre me diste, la alegría, oigo tu voz. Aquí estás. Ya con nosotros siempre, indeleble. Gracias. Gracias maestro. Las cosas más importantes, las que quiero que resuenen: Gracias y te amo. No recuerdo un sólo día haberte visto sin una sonrisa...pasara lo que pasara. De tí aprendí fortaleza, amor, apapachos, eres uno de los seres más auténticos que conocí, de los que gritaba con todo su ser "éste soy yo". Gracias por caminar conmigo junto a la luna, gracias por tus abrazos, gracias por tu fe en quien soy y lo que debo hacer, gracias por tus enseñanzas, gracias por tu amor. Aquí estás. Mi mejor homenaje es seguir tus enseñanzas. Te amo. Con todo el corazón!
janaI first met Mark when he interviewed me for a role at 4most nearly 6 years ago. He was so welcoming and friendly, and his fun-spirit and optimism showed through straight away. We spent most of the interview talking about the annual 4most ‘conference’ he was organising to Spain…I was sold and couldn’t think of a better company to join!
Mark was the life and soul of every (official and impromptu) 4most social! All my great memories of Sisson involve him with a glass of wine in hand, chatting and laughing. I will always remember him as the first and last person on the dance floor (with the biggest of smiles). As well as his fun party side, he has been a fantastic mentor over the years; creating a safe environment to challenge yourself and to always aim high. I’m so grateful for his support and encouragement since day one.
I can’t thank Mark enough for the incredible culture he has instilled at 4most. His caring, inclusive and happy nature has made 4most such a great place to work. I feel fortunate to have known Mark and I’m really going to miss him. He was such a wonderful man.
My condolences go out to his close friends and family; sending lots of love to his wife and daughters.
Kerrie x
Please feel free to share a memory, a picture or video of our beloved uncle, Tito Drod and light a candle for him.
sylvaniaHappy 70th Birthday Tito Drod.
sylvania shared a video.To see a slideshow of Matthew's life, go to:
https://www.wevideo.com/view/1721591627
i first met Murray when Murray and Donna hired me to look after David and Breanne when she was 6 months old because Donna had to return to work. Murray was always willing to help out whether it was at David and Breanne's school, their sporting events, a neighbour or a friend. Murray took the video of my wedding when I married Jody. Murray was a wealth of information, although he often lost me with his in depth explanations. What I remember most about Murray was his passion for music. I remember him sitting down at the piano and playing song after song so effortlessly. For someone like me with no musical ability, it was amazing. I enjoyed listening to him play. I wish I was better at expressing my thoughts in words. To the Chalmers family, please accept my condolences. Diana Keeling
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Darling Dayton was definitely one of a kind! We first met after winning a silent auction cruise on his Gunga Din. Although a but nervous about not knowing us, he was gracious, generous and it was the beginning of a very, very fond friendship and many good times.. We will miss him.
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I've know Dayton my entire life. His parents and my grandparents were the best of friends in San Francisco and San Diego. He remembers watching my mother and father running around a yard flirting with each other at 19, before they were married. Dayton and I attended the "anti-poaching of animals in Africa" events in NYC together. His heart was there. He used to tell me all the time what a great spirit I have. But as you can see by this photo I took a few years ago on the 4th of July, he had the halo. His spirit was undeniable. He is soaring on high right now with kindred angels, no doubt. He will will always be loved and missed.
kmussette shared a photo.teresaveronicaisabellalejateresaveronicaisabellalejaDayton would share John D. Rockefeller's Credo with anyone who stepped in his office. He had copies made of it and the poem "If", handing them out to friends, family, and strangers alike. I am posting it here, so his friends can read it and by gently adhering to the credo's and the poem's values we can continue Daytons legacy of just, upright, fair living, respecting God's Natural Laws.
I believe in the supreme worth of the individual and in his right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
I believe that every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty.
I believe that the law was made for man and not man for the law; that government is the servant of the people and not their master.
I believe in the dignity of labor, whether with head or hand; that the world owes no man a living but that it owes every man an opportunity to make a living.
I believe that thrift is essential to well ordered living and that economy is a prime requisite of a sound financial structure, whether in government, business or personal affairs.
I believe that truth and justice are fundamental to an enduring social order.
I believe in the sacredness of a promise, that a man’s word should be as good as his bond; that character—not wealth or power or position—is of supreme worth.
I believe that the rendering of useful service is the common duty of mankind and that only in the purifying fire of sacrifice is the dross of selfishness consumed and the greatness of the human soul set free.
I believe in an all-wise and all-loving God, named by whatever name, and that the individual’s highest fulfillment, greatest happiness, and widest usefulness are to be found in living in harmony with His will.
I believe that love is the greatest thing in the world; that it alone can overcome hate; that right can and will triumph over might.
by John D. Rockefeller, Jr.
hey babe, So jade was scrolling thru tik tok the other day, and she showed me a sparkling crystal rose. She told me that the last time she saw you you had showed her one online and told her that you knew I would really like something like that. That you were saving up money to get me one, and that you had already saved like 2 dollars towards it... It broke my heart, and I just wanted to say again that im sorry... Im sorry for turning bitter and im sorry for letting drugs cloud my vision and take me away from the Once in a lifetime love I had with you. I will always regret the way I treated you in those months before you left. I dont know what got into me, but I hope you know that the last person you knew me as when you were alive, is not the person I really was deep down. I hope you know that I love you with all my heart, and i never was and I never will be ashamed of the man you were. Im sorry from the bottom of my heart Steven. I love you and miss you every second of every day.... Love me always, xoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404Sending much sympathy and love to the Riddle family. I was in South Berkeley for a short time many years ago, but remember Br. & Sister Riddle's kindness. May Jehovah continue to strengthen you. Psalms 27:14
jerikimloweMy favourite Mark anecdote comes from a conversation with Allison shortly after she became 4most's first Finance Director. Upon reviewing all the expenses she noted that a rather large amount was attributable to "company social costs" or, in short, alcohol.
Upon raising this with Mark he gave a response that is reflective of his generosity and character, "but everybody is happy, and I want to keep it that way". Mark helped lay the foundations of a company that values it's people and puts a big emphasis on keeping a smile on everyone's face. I and many others owe a debt of gratitude to Mark for making work fun and his legacy will live on for many years to come. My love and condolences go out to all Marks family and friends, he will be remembered fondly by all who knew him.
Sarah, I'm sorry for your loss and I send my condolences to your family. Remember the wonderful memories you all shared, and even though you will grieve, also remember to celebrate the life she lived.
maliikHi Loretta, that was such a beautiful memorial. Looking forward to seeing brother Riddle again soon. You’re in our prayers dear sister. ~ Monique Hummel (formerly Long in the South Berkeley days)
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Mark and I first met way back in 2004. He'd sold his business to the company I worked for and, within a couple of weeks, had invited me and my team on their little company away trip to Dartmoor, all expenses paid, beautiful hotel. I barely knew him or anyone from his business but he made sure we were all made to feel very welcome. I didn't see him again until 2011, when he and Mark took me out for lunch to offer me the chance to be part of a new start-up they were putting together. It was Somers and Sisson. I pretty much resigned the next day. The final time I saw Mark he shadow boxed me in the office corridor and then walked off chuckling to himself. This was the Mark I will always remember, hugely generous and welcoming, persuasive and positive, passionate and very much a fun-loving man. Great memories and definitely one of the good guys. I feel very fortunate to have met him and he will be sorely missed. Sending love and sympathy to all his family and friends, Ian
donc11 shared a photo.The ChildFund family mourns the loss of Dayton Carr. Dayton was a longtime sponsor of children in our programs in Bolivia and Zambia. In addition, Dayton’s generosity supported our work in early childhood development, gender equality and vocational training. We were so fortunate for Dayton’s compassionate giving and his very warm heart. He said many times it was his goal to do something every day to help those who were less fortunate than himself. Over the years Dayton became a friend. I enjoyed our conversations, his energy and passion for ChildFund’s mission to help children grow up to be healthy, educated, skilled and safe. Go well my friend. Your legacy lives on in the lives of children you made better. Anne Lynam Goddard,President and CEO, ChildFund International
algchildfundKelly came to my house years ago and shared her time with me. At the time I was putting a crochet beaded edge on baby socks, to add something fun for babies to grab and play with. Kelly saw some at church and was interested in them enough to ask to come learn how. It made me feel so good that she, a master crochet guru would want to come learn from me. By the way... We were NOT Knitting, haha which she made sure to specify any time she was asked about her latest project. It was a lot of fun and made me feel special.
mariewinMy fondest memories of Katie (in no particular order because they all make me smile)...1) During our decade long fantasy football league, you could always count on Katie to draft a kicker in the 3rd Round...must have been the soccer player mentality in her :)2) While I was not present for this story, I will never forget it. Apparently, Katie thought that dogs were like cats and would always find a way to land safely on their feet if dropped. Long story short, Katie was holding a puppy that began to squirm so she gently tossed the puppy...however, said puppy landed on its back :)3) I could always count on Katie at a Roman family gathering to a) show up solo (like myself) so we'd always have a chance to chat and b) laugh at all of the stupid things I'd say. Perfect example was in Montana this past summer at Claire's wedding...after the wedding reception, we ended up chatting until 3-4am about anything and everything (including how awesome zip-lining was)...such a fun trip and memory!Sending nothing but love to Uncle Bob, Aunt Mary, Anne, Emily, Susie, and Owen and I cannot wait for when we can all get together so we can share all of the amazing memories from such an amazing person.Rest In Peace, Katie
aszeszyckiShe told me about the puppy story, I was rolling laughing.
I told her when she met my dogs, she had to promise not to throw them! Lol
Uncle Dayton, I can’t even believe that I’m having to write this. Although you may not have been family through blood, you impacted our family as significantly as anyone could have. You were like a brother to my parents, and a extra parent for both Eliza and I. You were one of the most genuine people I have ever met, who was never afraid to be honest, no matter how difficult it was to hear. You made such a tremendous impact on others and were always willing to find a solution to anyone’s problems. You were always a role model for me and showed me whats it’s like to carry yourself as a gentleman. You had been so successful throughout your business career, but never failed to share that success and make an impact on those who needed it the most. As someone who I’ve known since I was a baby, this is one of the hardest goodbyes I’ve ever had to make. You always worked hard to do whatever you could offer guidance and help me find success during my young adult life. I hope I’ll be able to make you proud, and I know you’ll be looking down over me. Until we meet again Uncle D ❤
brookewilliamsKelly was there for me when I was going through a divorce and her example of strength was helpful and inspiring to me.
cindyDearest Loretta & Family:May Jehovah continually wrap you in a blanket of comfort and encouragement during this difficult time. Hope to be able to see you in person soon.Love,Leverdia & Vonnie
vonecielMy condolences to your family and you, Loretta. Thorton was a good brother. I think fondly of him when I think back to when I lived in Berkeley. Waiting for when Jehovah makes all things new again so we can see our friend again.
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poplawskikAnne, sit at 135 degrees. Studies show, according to Bob, that humans have more spinal stability when slumped over like our early ancestors.
dan webstersgoodell6Kelly had a caring heart. I cherish our visits and talks as well as serving together. She will be missed. My prayers are with her family who will truly miss her.
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I’m not a big social media guy, but the only photo I have on Instagram is of Katie. It was during one of our adventures while I lived in Denver. Her and Susie were already living in Denver when I moved out there. They would always invite me to do fun things, and wouldn’t you know it they were always a ton of fun. The Roman energy of kindness, happiness, and adventure is something I will always appreciate. All my love to Katie and the Romans.
btallon89 shared a photo.I first met Mark during my second interview at 4most where I quickly realised that he had the rare ability to make people feel relaxed and welcomed, by his warm and charismatic nature. Looking very serious Mark asked, “So Kate, can I ask you one final but very important last question…[long pause]…do you like having fun?”. Apprehensively I replied “umm yes?”, just praying that it wasn’t a trick question. “Well, welcome to 4most!!” he announced with a massive smile. I instantly knew it would be a great place to work and he’d be an equally great manager, which turned out to be absolutely true.
What I learnt about Mark during the next couple of years was that he was full of funny anecdotes and sayings – one of my favourites was when he used to leave the office early to catch what he’d call the “Chairman's' train” i.e. the 4 pm train. He'd always leave me smiling about the things he'd said in the day. If I had to describe Mark in three words it would be jovial, sharp and impulsive – which must be three of the greatest characteristics you could possibly have. Mark always went out of his way to try and make people smile which he managed with ease… and is still doing so now.
We are all so lucky to have known Mark, he will be missed dearly both as a colleague and friend. Wishing you peace and comfort during this hard time, Love Kate xxx
Beautiful Katie. What a beautiful tribute. I hope there is airhead taffy in heaven. My favorite memory of the Roman sisters.
marytheresaromanI want to thank Dayton's good friend Renee Monroe for creating this on-line memorial for my brother. I had spoken to Dayton on the prior Thursday and he sounded well so this was unexpected and a shock, I think, to us all.Although I'm not a sailor, Dayton and I shared an appreciation for nature and the outdoors. I remember one cold night when we slept in the back of a station wagon in Glacier National Park. We did a lot of hiking at Pt. Reyes, a beautiful park north of San Francisco. I remember one time when a raven stole a sandwich Dayton had put down to walk down to the beach. He was seriously upset at that bird.Although we had different views on many subjects, we had good conversations every week. I will miss those spirited talks.Dayton had many interest besides sailing and supported many charities. He cared so much about children and the International Children's Fund, and was a godfather to several children.I still find it difficult to believe he is gone. But there is consolation in remembering his humor and good spirits.Brian Carr
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I first met Mark almost 7 years ago when he interviewed me at 4most. Since then he has shown me that hard work and good humour go hand in hand, and that work should be enjoyable; he made it easier for everyone around him to have fun and appreciate life no matter the situation. I for one will miss being the last at the party, sharing the dance floor or a bottle of wine with him. I know that everyone he knew will miss him deeply. Life has lost one of the world's good men. My deepest condolences go to his family and friends.
dolftravelsteresaveronicaisabellalejaKelly will be missed. She was a wonderful person and I am sad that she is gone. I send my thoughts and prayers to her family now.
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Our very last Relief Society Activity together. She had such a great time!
yamychris shared a video.
Kelly, you will always be in our hearts. Olympia Ward RS sisters
yamychris shared a photo.Kelly, you will be truly missed. Strong sister in the Gospel. A great example, to me, of faith.Sister Yamy Castellanos
yamychrisA message from Alan Lucas...
I did not know Mark before joining 4most. I realised immediately I met him what a kind and gentle person he was and this was reinforced during my time with the company each time I spoke to him. To me he had the personality and character that one aspires to have. I shall miss seeing him around and chatting with him enormously – one gravitates towards men like him. My deep consolations and sympathy to his family who will be heart-broken. May God be with them and help them through this with the remembrances of Mark’s life.
One of my early conversations with Mark when I was quite new to the company...
Mark: "What time are drinks?"
Me: "Six."
Mark: "Six minutes past four?"
I knew I'd joined a great company which valued socialising and having fun as much as the work.
He was incredibly sociable and inclusive, and had an infectious chuckle which we could hear from the other side of the office! Sending comfort and best wishes to all those who knew Mark, from Emma.
Our 2016 Xmas party drinks receipt
elebargy shared a photo.Happy Mother’s Day Mom! Almost 6 years now and I still miss you everyday.❤️
sara hedgesThinking of you today mom and always
aberkeyhttps://netapp.zoom.us/j/92892694770
gretch.capoMark was a kind and generous man with an infectious smile and a strong passion for life; he was always looking for something to celebrate, even in the face of adversity. There was never a time when I didn’t feel welcomed or appreciated in his presence. I have a lasting memory of us dancing the can-can to New York, New York, arm in arm, as we celebrated our success at one of the early 4most Christmas Parties. My thoughts and deepest sympathy go out to his friends and family at this heart breaking time. God rest his soul, Tim Daly
[email protected]Thank you for who you were in my life. I am the woman I am because of who you are to me. I'll cherish every memory, every bit of advice, every hug and most of all the love. I am better because of you. I'll love you with all that I am, forever.
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Mark was a lovely person who always made a genuine effort to get to know everyone. Whether it was at work or at one of our 4most socials, Mark was most often the one to get everyone into the festive mood - he also shared my love of a good selfie! Mark has given us great memories, and we will always remember the joy and energy he brought to 4most. With deepest sympathy, Jenika
jenika shared a photo.A truly wonderful person to know. Mark had a great zest for life and every time I spoke with him I felt better for it. He has left me with fond memories and for all of us, a great legacy - our company. He was a top bloke. With love and thoughts, Phil
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When you paid the taxi more to allow wine in the back ;-)
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Hey you, it's a supermoon tonight. Just one of the many things that make me think of you. And as I was driving home from work I started thinking about what I was telling you a few days ago, about that panicky feeling I used to get when i would see you because i felt like i was losing you....and it occurred to me that all those times you tried to talk to me in the months before you left, that you could have been feeling that same panic. And my heart is breaking all over again. I hated that feeling more than anything in the world. It made me feel alone and scared like I didnt have a purpose or a future. Steven I would NEVER intentionally put that kinda misery on you. I'm soooooooo sorry for not taking the time to try and understand where you were coming from and how I was making you feel. You didnt deserve any of the shit that I threw at you. I was selfish and angry and mean... I'm sorry Steven, I'm sorry for all of it. And I hope that despite the outcome of the storm you can forgive me. I never meant for any of this to happen and I want you to know that I love you with my whole heart and you belonged with me and the girls. Our family isnt complete without you. I'm sorry Steven, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry... u are my favorite everything and when my heart stops beating and my time on earth is done I SWEAR I will make it up to you in our next life. I love you and I miss you so much it hurts. I'm sorry Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404 shared a photo.Dave was such an awesome guy! From being my lab partner in General Chemistry to our shenanigans on the Hawaii trip, Dave was always a kind-hearted, helpful, and good person. He was one of the nicest people I knew during my time at Hartwick. I truly thought the world of him.
thomas lansinggweniveygweniveyMy heart bleeds for this little girl❤
Fly high beautiful angel xx
Jade was really missing you tonight. I still dont really know how to comfort her seeing as she saw almost everything I saw that day. If I cant make it better for me how do I make it better for her? Well she wrote you a letter and this is what it says... " Dear daddy, i cant even explain how much I miss you. I cry everyday and just remember I am thinking of you everyday. And nothing can describe how much I love and miss you.. Christy, mommy, and me are trying to stay strong. Especially mommy, she has to take care of us and pay rent and alot of other things. Love you, love Jade "
adowney7404 shared a photo.
I love you Grandpa!
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I love you Grandpa!
ccunnin333 shared a photo.Hey Dum Dum, I just wanted to take a minute to tell you I love you and im thinking about you. I miss you more than anyone has ever missed anyone on the face of this earth. lol I wish I could finish my day at work knowing that you were gonna be at home waiting for me and the girls. I love you Steven. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404It was hard for me to get up today. My heart hurts more than usual. I was reading more of our letters last night. I came across the one where you were reminding me of the time my mom wouldnt let you in the house so we spent all day in your monte carlo in the driveway. And you were telling me how you loved it when I brought some of my toys out so we didnt get bored. You said you loved how beautiful and simple I looked when I used my imagination to entertain us. Im realizing now how many things I took for granted when you were alive, and how all of those things that made me who I was died with you that day. Things like my imagination, and my childlike simplicity, my compassion and empathy, but most of all my hope for the future. All of it is gone and Im so lost. I try to hide it and I tell myself that you never liked it when I was unhappy and you wouldnt want me to be this way because of you. But its so hard to fight. I will be sitting there lost in my own misery over all of this while the girls are asking me to play with them. I find myself yelling at them and being a cunt for reasons that arent obvious to them. I just want you to be here Steven, I want to be able to touch you and hear your voice. I want to pull into the driveway and honk my horn and see your dumb looking face come out the front door! I want you back and it makes me sooooooo angry that you will never be by my side again. I love you my favorite everything. Love me always xoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404So I'm out in the bay at my dads looking for furniture to fill the new house with and all I can do is stare at the floor. Remember the night you were redoing it for my dad? I wanted to be around you so bad. I wanted you to want to be with me. We weren't technically together but we were never technically apart either. I remember the feeling of panic I felt everytime I saw you, thinking I could be losing you. I remember begging you to spend time with me and how awful it felt when you resisted me. And I remember the day when I finally got you to kiss me again in the back bathroom and you said " No one else can kiss me the way you do, something about it is different with you". It was different because we were soulmates. It was different because we were supposed to be together....but now that feeling of constant struggle and panic is my everyday norm. I feel like if I can make things better you will come back. I'm still struggling every day to accept the fact that your gone. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont regret what i did to you. It was always YOU though Steven. When it came down to it I would have given my life for yours if you had only given me the chance. You were always first in my heart, even when it didnt look like it or feel like it... it was you... it will always be you. And as I live out the rest of my days here on earth without you, my biggest regret will always be losing you. I'm never gonna be the same and my heart will never heal from this. I LOVE YOU STEVEN, FOREVER AND EVER.
Love me always xoxoxoxoxox
It's almost May already, and the school district has said they will not be returning to school for the remainder of the year. I wish you were here to spend this time with us. I miss you more with everyday that passes. It's hard to motivate myself sometimes. The anger has started to creep up on me. Somedays I wake up so mad at you for leaving me without even giving me a chance to talk you out of it. The girls will never understand and I fear that deep down they blame me just like I do and it's just a matter of time before that boils over and becomes an issue. I'm scared Steven. I'm scared of growing old, I'm scared of being alone, im scared of dying. I need you, I've always needed you. I talked to a women recently who claimed to be able to talk you. You know I've never really believed in all that but some of the things she knew shocked me. How could a total stranger halfway around the world know some of the things she knew. In a way it gave me a new outlook on this whole situation. It didnt completely put my soul at ease, but it gave me a little bit of peace. She said that whatever is good for me and the girls is good for your soul. And I want you to be as comfortable as possible wherever you are so I'm gonna do what I have to to make sure that happens. I dont know how long it will be until we are together again, and somedays I feel a million light years is separating us. Like your the moon and I'm the sun. But even the sun and the moon can be seen in the same sky sometimes. There wasnt a force on this planet that could keep us apart when you were alive so why would it be any different in the afterlife? We will be together again and until then I will keep counting down the days. I love you more than words can say Steven Downey. You are and always will be my favorite everything. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxo
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Hey you, I keep making all these handwritten notes of things I want to tell you. I've got little pieces of paper in my bra, in my pockets, in my backpack, in my truck... lol they are everywhere! I just dont want you to miss out on anything. Well first up is the girls... we were riding home the other night and they were asking what Reincarnation meant, and I told them some people believe that when you die, your soul leaves your body and you start your next life. Jade wanted to know if I believed that and I told her Yes, I had no choice but to believe it now. She wanted to know why and I said because how else am i gonna get to be with daddy again.? Then jade wanted to know what you do up there in heaven. Did you just float around all day or did God make you do chores. And christy said " Jade, God makes them work... they have to build their house and stuff." Lol so Jade wants you to be careful while you're working. The other thing I wanted to tell you about is Andrew... it REALLY sucks you cant be here to witness some of the shit this mother fucker comes up with!!! He wanted to get into the shower with lex and she wouldn't let him so he beats on the door and says "OPEN THE SHOWER DOOR BITCH!!" lmao, then erin caught him pissing out the bedroom window, and then today there was a commercial on TV, it was showing a picture of an eyedropper bottle and it was called Laticia and I said WTF is Laticia and Andrew says "LATICIAS A BITCH!!" He is really something else. And he talks about you once in awhile. He wanted to fly kites high enough for you to see them. And every time he comes to my house he gets a stick and tries to knock your ashes off the fireplace! Lol he misses you just like we do. I'm starting to cry again so I'm gonna say goodnight. I love you every second of every day Steven Downey. P.S Dont forget the wrap around porch on the house, so we can sit and watch over the girls when I get there. OH and grass, dont forget the grass. Until then, I miss you babe. You're still my favorite everything. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxo
adowney7404From Patricia Bordeau, a friend
Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away to the next room
I am I, and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are
Call me by my old familiar name
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference into your tone
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was
Let it be spoken without effect
Without the trace of a shadow on it
Life means all that it ever meant
It is the same that it ever was
There is absolute unbroken continuity
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you
For an interval
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.
All is well
-Henry Scott-Holland
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tegnaferzuI miss you with everything I am and ever will be Steven Downey. No one will ever take your place in my heart for as long as im alive and breathing. Love me always xoxoxoxoxo
adowney7404 dedicated a song.4/14/2020
Hey you, So Crusty was asking me how you become an organ donor and if you were one. I told her yes you were and that they ask you that when you get your drivers license. And she says " Well what if I dont have any organs to DON?" With a really serious look on her face... I started laughing so hard!! That is so something a kid of yours would say. LOL I hate that you cant be apart of this life with us anymore. But I promise to keep you updated on all things "US" for as long as I am here and you are there. The girls miss you like crazy and still cant understand how there was a force in this world that was stronger than their Daddy. We miss you everyday babe. And you are always our favorite everything. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxo
Steven, So today is Easter and just another holiday we are spending without you. I was reading some of our old letters we used to write to each other last night and it seems like a lifetime ago that we were so inlove. Remember how much we loved being together? There wasnt anything or anyone that keep me away from you. I remember one time when my mom dropped me off with you in Northtown like always we went straight to your room. Your mom opened your door to tell you something and instead looked at me and was like "Geeze she hasnt even been here 5 minutes and her clothes are already half way off!!!" LOL My dress was to tight, but what she said wasnt a lie... I will always treasure those memories. The ones that are only mine and yours. The feelings that only you and I will ever know. In one of your letters you said "From the first time I saw you, I knew I wanted to be with you forever". You couldnt explain it, but you said I made you feel like you belonged. It gives me hope. Hope that in the next life we will find each other again and have another chance to get it right. Because you did belong Steven. You are my Best Friend, my soulmate, you are my family. And im sorry we let the fire burn so low that you couldnt see that anymore. You will always have my whole heart Steven Downey, my favorite everything... Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404A song used in Spanish culture to say farewell. One of mom's and Grandma's favorites. My sister is named after the singer. Rocio Durcal. Last line... Sooner or later ... We'll be together so we can keep on LOVING ONE ANOTHER!
dannyboy713 shared a video.Good morning babe
So I can already tell that today is gonna be a hard day. The second I got up this morning I had that familiar ache in my chest. I've been up since 7 and have already cried 3 times. Last night I found one of the books I had put together of the drawings u used to make for me. It's like everytime I feel like this missing u pain cant get any worse God says " oh yeah?! We will see about that!" ...
Steven Downey, I'm sorry I couldn't help u and I cant imagine the pain you must have been going thru. I'm sorry you had to suffer that all on your own. I keep thinking how scary that must have been even for someone as fearless as you. IM SORRY BABE I know that is a pointless thing to say now seeing as how the love of my life has been reduced to a box of ashes, a small part of which I carry with me everywhere in a heart around my neck... you knew I loved you right? You knew I would have given my life in exchange for yours right? You knew you were the reason I wanted family right? You do know that my heart has and always will be yours right? I dont even know who I am without you Steven. I'm 31 years old and have an entire lifetime to get thru until I can see you again and i love the girls with all that i am but what am i without u? Please give me the strength and the will to get thru this life Steven. I miss you every second of everyday and I love you with all my heart Steven Downey
Love me always
xoxxoxoxoxoxoxox
This moment is one that will always stick with me. We had just left that shithole on Happy and moved into the place on Sycamore. We were both clean and Conehead had stopped by. We were outside and you were telling him how happy you were because " this fucking fat bitch... im falling in-love with her all over again" Then you grabbed me said " look at you no make up all natural and shit" and then you kissed me. I wish we had more moments like this to look back on. You never really realize how much time is wasted until its to late. I miss you babe every second of everyday... Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxo
adowney7404 shared a photo.Remember way back before we had the girls, in that apartment on Dillon, I was sitting on the bed listening Rascal Flatts looking out the window and you were standing in the doorway just staring at me. Then you came over and layed down and put your hands on my face and said " I dont know why but this music makes me love you even more" ...
adowney7404 dedicated a song.
LMAO... I just wanted to show you this. It makes me laugh even on my hardest days. Jade was hobbling around on those crutches and as she got to christys room christy yelled "AAAAAAAHHHH" and this is the face Jade made!! Its things like this that I need to share with you. Who else is ever gonna care about stupid little moments like this that mean so much to me besides you? We miss you Steven. Getting thru the rest of this life without you is gonna be the hardest thing I have ever done. But I will get through it and hopefully one day I will have wings just like you. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox
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Saturday July 3, 2004... We went to the movies with everyone and lucky me, after everyone piled inside Richies little Kia the only place for me to sit was on your lap. We saw dodgeball and I almost threw up when you grabbed my hand I was so nervous. And on the way back to pahrump we had our first kiss. I remember the feeling of the butterflies in my stomach and the burning sensation on my skin as you kissed me. What I wouldn't give to go back to that day and just live there forever. I miss you best friend, you are ALWAYS gonna be the love of my life. I miss you more than words can explain. I think about you every second of everyday and my heart aches with every memory that floods my thoughts. I love you Steven Downey, for the rest of this life and my soul will search for you until I'm back in your arms. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
adowney7404 shared a photo.I met Mr. Phipps in between classes at C.U. Denver at hotdog stand by Larimer Square. He was wearing a Brown plaid jacket. We talked for a little while and then went about our ways. Two weeks later my roommate and I had dates from D.U. to go to a ranch outside of Elizabeth to ride Polo ponies, and see Limousine Bulls. After riding we walked toward the house and there he was inviting us into a party where Rene Heredia was playing. Quite the day.
William Deveraux Ward
I miss you Steven Downey. Its hard to get up in the morning knowing that I wont see your face or hear your voice. The day I lost you will always be the worst day of my life. I would give anything for the chance to redo that day. There are so many things I would do differently. I hope one day you can forgive me for what Ive done. I love you.
Love me always
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Dave and I worked together as Environmental Consultants at PSI from 2016 to 2018. We were part of a team of which Dave was considered a rising "Star" due to his knowledge, experiences, personality and ability to get it done! His assistance to me in the preparation and completion of reports, especially computer related issues was extremely useful and greatly appreciated. On a personal basis. we had numerous discussions about families. friends. hobbies and other topics of mutual interest. May the light of his "Star" always be with his family and friends. DWM
David W. Myers
Dave and I worked together at PSI for several years up until the time of his leave of absence from the company to begin his fight. We spent many days together in the car on the way to Utica or Snowy Owl in the Berkshires or down to NJ to conduct some field work together. He was great Geologist that is very smart and always took pride in his work. We had many laughs together and our running joke with one another were those 'Dam Oranges', heavy traffic in North Orange, NJ, then East Orange then South Orange! Dave! Those pesky oranges! As you begin your next journey there is comfort knowing that for your short time on earth you lived life well, proud and with great courage and dignity. I hope I can say that someday to..... Be well my friend....
buffalo"DR" and I worked together a few years ago at PSI. "DR" is a fine young man. He is the most humble, considerate and friendly person on this earth. He always has a good attitude and his keen mind is ready for a challenge. He was a great contributor to our successful environmental group. He is known as the "Sultan of Smooth" as when I sent him out to deal with vendors or bring cookies to clients his charm was evident. In addition, I enjoyed his subtle sense of humor when he solved my computer issues in a snap. He just gave me a smirk and moved on. Please let "DR" know I pray for him each day and send him positive vibes. -- PM2
pm2adowney7404adowney7404Mom I miss you. I'm glad your not around for this virus.
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cecil goergoerWhen I was in third grade, I was sleeping on the floor next to my friend's bed at a slumber party. In the middle of the night, I rolled over and came face to face with a Furby under her bed, and it started talking. It scared the living daylights out of me, and Furbies have creeped me out ever since. I made the mistake of telling Dave that story once, and he was forever tormenting me with pictures of Furbies. He printed a bunch of them out and put them up all around the Geology department at Hartwick. He and Matt once filled my whole backpack with packing peanuts with pictures of Furbies hidden amongst them, and hid more pictures of them in my coat pockets, in my gloves, and all my stuff. He put a picture of one in a birthday card he sent me once. He would send them to me on Facebook. They still creep me out, but now they also kind of make me happy because I always smile and think of him. He's always been good at teasing me (in a fun way, never a mean way). I miss that so much.
lexifer
Davy making me laugh on his wedding day
lexifer shared a photo.I will always think of Dave’s smiling face, living with Matt, Josh, and Tyler at the townhouses senior year at Hartwick College. I always admired Dave’s easy-going personality and have such respect for him because you can tell what a genuine, kind person he is. I remember one time he was telling me about helping on with the horses at Cailin’s parents. I was so impressed (maybe because I could barely clean my dishes and didn’t know how to clean my toilet). I told Dave that was so nice of him and he was so humble about it “it’s the least I can do for them. They do so much for me.” He is a the nicest guy and I will always regard him so highly.
courtneymorse26
A visit to the Sears Tower. My dad and uncle Charlie in this photo.
shadholland shared a photo.When I was 6 years old this man came into our lives. Up until that point, it was my mother doing all she could to bring up two kids on her own, my older sister Valarie and myself. He came into our lives and I instantly bonded with him. He had so much love to give and by the time I was 9 he married my mother. I called him Jerry because as a kid that was what I got used to calling him. But I always thought of him as my dad.
Not long after that my mother and he brought my wonderful little sister (who is way taller than me) Angie into this world.
He was my true father, the one that helped me grow to become the person I am today. Times were not always perfect, but our love and understanding and respect for each other always prevailed. As I gained more personal growth over the last few years my father and I became much closer than we have ever been.
Jerry was someone people never forgot. Every person I hear stories from about him or that I talk to about him says he touched them in a very special way. He cared about everyone and had little to no judgment, even for people society has already written off. He had a much deeper understanding of why people become who they are and an even better understanding of the social and political system we all live in. He was never a divider and was always an uniter. I respect that part of him so much and I strive to be that way someday.
I have gained so much wisdom and insight from him. He has helped me be a much more understanding individual and taught me that anger is not something to react on, it is something to learn and grow from. Love wins and always will be stronger and more powerful than hate, anger, and resentment.
And did I mention he was one hell of a golfer?! I found out a little over a week ago that his handicap was -2! His love for golf was equal to my love for bicycles and yes, we picked on each other about it all the time! We both understood each other's passion for the things we enjoyed doing. He taught me how to golf and always enjoyed spending time going to the practice green and playing on the course. We didn't play golf a lot together, but when we did it was always some of my best times with him.
I have so many things I would like to say. Shit, I could tell our whole life story right here on Facebook, but I think I have said enough for now.
He passed away last night (March 2nd). Over the last few weeks, I spent a good amount of time hanging out with him and going over our lives past and present. Heck, I even got to do my 9th Step with him (Al-Anon) last week because he was on my list of people to make amends with. I am so grateful to have been there right until the end and that we spent valuable time together. I am grateful he knew he was loved by us all and that he didn't suffer. Sunday he was up and playing pool with my mother having a wonderful time with her. He lived a full life right until the end.
I will miss your sense of humor, your intelligence, your insight, giving you a hug and your kind words and love.
♥️♥️♥️I love you Dad!♥️♥️♥️
I am forever grateful for the positive impact my dad had on our family. He had a huge heart and made a point to make everyone he encountered feel special. He lived in the moment and was a great listener. He was driven to understand as much as he could about the world, was well read, and had a memory like an elephant. With his wisdom, wit, and colorful personality, he loved to share his stories and knowledge. I shared many special moments with my dad that I will cherish for the rest of my life. He will be greatly and forever missed.
With love from your daughter,
Valarie Olejnicak
Kathy was so good to me when I spent the summer in California. My only regret is losing contact when things changed. My biggest happiness is our reconnection through Facebook these past few years. Please let us know where the service is for her birthday. If it's in the midwest we may be able to make it. Love your cousin!
tammycruzMom would want Kathy to have this song. It was dear to her and us.
tammycruz shared a video.My sweet, magical, amazing daddy is gone.
I’d really like it if you were still here, Daddy, and I’m doing this so that some of all the many, many lives you’ve touched in such a profound way (even if you knew them briefly) will have a chance to give a little love in your name if I haven’t had the chance to reach out to them yet.
I feel hugely grateful to have had this astounding man for my father. I know he was 88 and his heart and lungs were getting worse but I wasn’t ready and I want to keep talking with him for the rest of my life, so I will.
If you knew him at all I don’t have to tell you how witty, positive minded, compassionate, curious, and bright he was. You already know because he has already changed your life a little (or a lot of) bit by making you think about yourself, the world, something or someone a little differently, a little deeper. He did it softly and made you laugh about it. You might not have even noticed until later how profoundly it affected you.
I’m sure my daddy had flaws but he was the brilliant, shining, life-giving sun to me. I guess since he’s gone I’ll have to keep working on being that myself as it might be the only way to generate warmth.
Thank you for teaching me that love matters more than pretty much anything. Thank you for waking me up to the aim of mastering being in the present moment, savoring it with all my senses which slows time down and washes away fears. Thank you for inspiring me to grow to always become more self determined, to live from my core and not for fear of others. Thank you for being a living example of all these things and more. These truths are a wealth that reign over all the riches one could have and may hopefully be the key to ending the destruction of unabashed greed stomping on the world.
I am sad. My heart is broken. I am grateful beyond measure to have been able to tell you all this before you left.
Also, Daddy thank you for having always been my cheerleader through everything even years ago when I was living so recklessly in the darkness out of the kind of fear and neediness that makes a person “wacko” as you might say it. Back then, you almost drew out a better me by just seeing the possibility in me instead of my stupidity. All the kind words, all the undying optimism, all your praise - that is what is in my head when I hear your voice. I have you in my heart and mind loving me, forgiving me, proud of me, glad for me, and cheering me on.
I love you endlessly, Daddy.
I met Dave when he and my brother were about 7/8. I was 21. I clearly remember how amazing, warm, funny and sometimes timid he could be. He was always a cutie and I’ve been so glad that he and my brother remained friends forever. This is him at my brother Andre’s small wedding. Fourteen people in total. I snapped this pic without him even knowing because that was the boyish smile I have seen throughout the years. He was always beautiful inside AND out.
dmgranda shared a photo.This was in 2016. Vibrant and radiant as usual❤️
Diana GrandaDave is someone who, despite only sharing a year with me at Hartwick, left a big positive impression on me. His sunny personality and sense of humor just sticks with you. As a scared, shy freshman being dropped off for the start of cross country preseason I was instantly made to feel welcomed and included by Dave as our team captain. I became immersed in a world of random movie quotes and loved seeing Dave’s big smiling face in the halls of Johnstone between classes. Keeping you in my thoughts…
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Traveled to Colorado in 2016 and was touring the Garden of the Gods when we suddenly ran into our cousin Dave. What a surprise to find us both there at the same time. Our family is everywhere! God Bless. Bob & Chris Shabanowitz
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4 years at Hartwick College were a blast and I'm glad of the memories we made. I will always remember the Big Bears and the town house parties, but nothing compares to the run the New York Giants had on their way to the Superbowl. I will cherish our celebrations of banging the walls between our townhouses for every score and victory that season. Even though some of our New England friends/roommates did not speak with us for awhile after that, we held our heads high with Giants pride. You have shown remarkable courage during your battle and have truly been an inspiration to us all. I'm honored I get to call you my friend Dave.
daniel mDave and I first met at work about 8 years ago and became friends quick through a shared love of corny jokes, Chinese Fridays and Walking Dead. He soon became my go-to hiking partner, doing the full Saranac Lake 6ers and Tupper Lake Triad challenges with me, and helping me make serious dents in the Firetower Challenge and the Lake George 12sters as well. One day I hope I'll finally get around to putting my memories of these trips down on paper because the stories are worth telling. To say that we've spent some time together in the Adirondacks and Catskills is an understatement. It was on these hikes that our most meaningful conversations took place, just walking in the woods and trying to get to the top of the mountain (we always did).
When Dave left Ames for greener pastures and I didn't see him every day, we still made a point to get together when we could. Whether it was sitting in the courtyard at Druthers and watching a football game projected 15 feet tall on the brick wall over burgers and beers, or going to see the new Godzilla movies in the theater because we needed to see them, we found time to spend together.
When Megan and I got married and we wanted to keep our wedding party small (1 person each), Dave was there as my Best Man. When I wanted to do something big for my 30th birthday and went skydiving, not only was Dave in the plane with me, but he was the first out the door. His sense of humor, courage and honesty have been an inspiration. He was always there for me, whether he knew I needed him or not. He was just there, a solid person and a true friend.
I have so many fond memories of Dave from Geology trips as well as through being on the Equestrian team with Cailin. My favorite memory of Dave was from the Hawaii J term trip when we accidentally got locked into a park at dusk. Everyone was freaking out and Dave kept a wonderful sense of humor, joking how surely we could bust out with a rock hammer! I have never laughed as hard as I did that night! Thank you Dave for always making light of every situation- you are one of the most positive humans I know and your positivity has touched so many!
raimieWhen we went to Philadelphia for a GSA conference my sophomore/Dave's junior year of college, I was going through some drama, and was stuck in my room on the phone alone while everyone else was having fun together in the other hotel room. I thought I was already too late and had missed out on all the fun, and I was embarrassed, so I was still just sitting alone. I didn't know Dave that well yet at that time, but he called the hotel room phone to see if I was ok, and told me to come join the fun. It meant so much to me that he reached out to include me like that, and I will never forget it. We became close friends right away after that, and I will be grateful to him for that moment always.
lexiferYou were the most interesting and incredibly amazing human I ever met. It just so happens you were also my dad. So many questions answered and so many still remain. But one thing is for sure. You cared deeply for the future of humanity, envisioned our journey ahead wonderfully, and articulated it immensely. You helped pave the way as you said you would. Can't wait for your return <3
kingsyaMom used to sing "Peace in the Valley" with our aunts. They harmonized so beautifully.
bobbi shared a video.Words will never be able to express the void that you've left in our lives. You gave so much, shared so much. Those of us who were blessed to have known you, will beforever grateful for the impact you've made in our lives. Rest in peace.
Brenda Fields
There is a bright new star in sky and it’s Mom, watching over us just like she said she would. Rosemary Barker, my Mom, was my best friend, my biggest fan, and my port in any storm. The best qualities in me I got from her, although I could never be close to being the kind and generous person she was. But I’ll try, I’ll try harder to fill those shoes. She fought fiercely to be here for us, for almost 95 years, thru pain and hardships. She didn’t want to let go because we needed her. It’s o.k. Mom, to rest now. We’ll be o.k. because you will always be with us.
Everyone you met loved you. You filled the room. People just naturally gravitated towards you. You made babies smile. You could get hugs from the most rebellious and hard to reach teenager. Waiters in restaurants fought to get your table - you were always polite, friendly, a generous tipper but most of all you made everyone feel that wherever they came from, no matter what they had, or their history - they were more than enough for you. You wanted to know their story and shared yours.
You always wanted to win the lottery. But not for you - you always said you were satisfied with what you had. You ticked off all the people you would help if you won the lottery - family, friends, neighbors. I didn't need the lottery because I already won. I won the lottery of the best Mom anyone could ever ask for.
Am I hurting? Yes I miss you! So many times something happens and I think oh, I'll tell Mom about this. But although your body is not here, I might tell you things anyway. You'll listen, you'll hear, and you'll understand. Because your spirit will never leave me.
Mom, have fun with the angels. I bet you can dance now, hear music and laugh. And sometimes I close my eyes and see you dance, hear your laugh, and see you smile. And that will get me through.
A truly wonderful person has joined the Heaven community and leaves us with memories to comfort us. But, oh, what beautiful memories we have to cherish! I remember first meeting your mom, Rosemary, back in our college days. I spent many nights at your house, where , along with your mom, we talked, laughed, and had a great time together. I remember how Rosemary would give us advice, when we asked, on college life, dating, and other bumps on life's road. We laughed (a lot!) and we planned our next adventures or plots to execute. I have never met a more caring, fun loving, empathetic, and humorous individual. Thankfully, you, Bobbi, have inherited these positive traits and practice them today. Hopefully, you have passed these on to your children and eventually, to your grandchildren, so Rosemary will live forever this way. Also, I pray that all the pleasant and humorous memories of Rosemary will comfort you and your family and lighten your sorrowful distress. Rosemary's legacy and memory continues and her star will shine brightly through all of her family. I was blessed to know her and my life is richer for having shared a brief time with her. Thanks for sharing your mother with me and as Bob Hope sang, Rosemary, "thanks for the memories!"
Linda Benz Thielepape My Heart is truly broken today. Few knew how wonderful this man was and how pure and bright the Light of his Spirit was. We always knew we would meet together on this side of the divide but our hug will now go unfulfilled until I join our next quest. Godspeed my Dear Brother, you are so Loved and will be so missed for the time until we finally hug and laugh! So strong in adversity, so wonderful to train and lead those who would listen (or not). Your Legacy should be told from the mountaintops instead of a Facebook post. I miss your voice already. How briefly our candles flicker.... See you soon you wonderful Dragon!!
So Mote it Be..... keep that hug and laugh ready!!
Rest in Power! It was an honor to meet and learn from you!
heru0723I will miss you my friend! Rest in power.
brenda212
I am sorry, she is still alive...
elis2020I am one of Dr. Kelleher's patients with Borderline Personality Disorder. I got to work with him for three and a half years and it's hard for me to believe the change our work made in me, after 15 years of unsuccessful attempts at therapy with many others. I always wondered (and often asked, though he wouldn't say) why on earth he had chosen to work with borderlines, who are fairly universally reviled by mental health practitioners and not for no reason -- we are difficult, angry, needy, paranoid, at times irrational; the disease is intractable, interminable, our defenses are "primitive" in that the damage was done to us when we were preverbal and our emotions can be as uncontrollable and agonizing as a mindless infant's. The suicide risk alone rules us out for many who are rightly concerned about liability should we die under their care. Although he never told me why he was so willing to take all this on, by the end I came to an answer that I found satisfying. I believe he wanted to be, wanted to help, where the greatest pain was. "Gratitude" does not begin to encompass the feelings I have for him.
anonpatientLaborer 11 lives on...
baba777Hi Andrea,
My name is Oscar. I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I was friend of hers while I lived in Scottsdale approximately 15 years ago. Your mom was a beautiful, kind and wonderful lady. She had the most amazing smile! She spoke of you with stars in her eyes! I only knew her for a couple of months before I moved away, but I always wondered how she was and thought of her often. Andrea, my heart goes out to you and your family. God bless you and may the Lord hold your dear mom in his tender hands.
Warmest regards,
Oscar
Miss you Mom. So many of your friends you have touched are touching my heart in a special way with their kind words and memories of you. Love you...
[email protected]5 years ago...wow! Love and Miss you!
tyedie95I miss you each day. What a warm, kind, compassionate and faithful friend you were to me and so many others. We were blessed to have you in our lives.
barbiedee55I miss our conversations, and sharing everyday things, but mostly I miss our discussions about our shared faith. We will meet again on that beautiful shore, my beautiful, sweet friend. Lovingly,
Karen
Thank you all of you, Judith's best friends since 4 yrs old. I am Judith's Mum and your photos and tributes mean a lot to me and my family. With much love.
Judith's MumDear Ju,
It’s been over a month since we heard the tremendously sad news of your passing and it still hasn’t quite sunken in that you are no longer here with us. It makes us sad that we were unable to attend your funeral and that we did not get a chance to say goodbye to you properly.
Ju, you are very much ingrained in all of our memories, from the time we were little children to the times we progressed to college as well as in our growing up adulting pains. There are too many to mention but we do have our fondest few.
When we were in school, do you remember how we used to use the excuse to go over to each other’s houses to work on “projects” when we actually used those times to play instead? Tiff definitely remembers plenty of those moments when you used to go over to her place during the weekends to work on such “projects”. She can also still recall the delicious food that your family used to cook for us such as pizzas and kacangma. We also recall how you used to bring a steady supply of your Dad’s yummy yogurt drink to school for us. During the last year of high school, Tiff also really enjoyed the fun days when we would get ready for the Joseph musical at her place, and how you both helped Jo to stick those contact lenses in before each performance night. Fast forward to not too long ago, Tiff is extremely grateful and glad that you were able to be at her hen’s night and wedding day last December despite how you are not normally back during that time of the year. Like the rest of us, she is also very glad that we got to spend that week together in Perth.
Jo funnily remembers how you both picked up mild swearing in primary 3, but also the more reflective and repentant moments when you realised that the both of you were starting to get really potty mouth for kids that young, and the determination to change. She also especially remembers the many after school hours she spent with you and other kids from the after school club just hanging around the school as both of you were very often picked up late by your parents. She clearly remembers sticking bubble gum tattoos in the girls’ toilet with you on the ground floor of the school during one of those after school sessions. She will also cherish the late night pillow talks on life and grown up problems that we were able to have on our road trip to Margaret River.
When most of our friends left Malaysia to study overseas, Briel moved to Miri to study at Curtin while you stayed behind in Kuching. He recalls all the phone calls with you and how you guys would talk about life’s dramas and everything else under the sun. We wonder how you guys sustained such frequent and long calls but it could have been due to your job at Maxis in Tun Jugah where Briel would visit you almost every day when he was back in Kuching during his uni breaks. When we used to go swimming at Tiff’s condo, Briel also remembers you pulling him out of the deep end of the pool because he couldn’t swim back then. You would have been amused to know that Briel has now built a mini dipping pool in the front yard of his Perth home – it’s too bad he didn’t build it in time for us to enjoy during our Perth trip.
One of Kel’s fondest memories of you is always sneaking out for lunch during our Lodge days once he got his driving licence and you sitting at the very back of his Pajero during those lunch escapades. He also remembers how you would take forever to finish your food during lunch (citing your Popo’s commands to always finish your food), and how we all had to wait for you before going back to class. Kel will also miss being your designated chauffeur every time you are back in Kuching on holiday, are he really wishes he can drive you around one last time.
Recalling all our times with you makes us sad, but we are also happy to have known you during this lifetime, and to have shared all these happy moments with you. We are especially really grateful that despite our busyness and having our own lives each, we made the effort to plan the Perth trip in 2017 and were able to spend a solid week together on holiday there. While we wish that you could have remained with us for much longer, we take solace and comfort in the fact that you are no longer in any physical pain, and that you have reunited with our Father in Heaven and are now at complete peace.
We love you Ju, and will miss your laughter, free-spirited nature and warm friendship.
With much love,
Tiff, Jo, Briel & Kel
Tiffany, Joanne, Gabriel
Judith's MumTiffany, Joanne, Gabriel, Kelvin Pls stay in touch with our family and that will be a loving way for us to remember Judith forever through her best friends. God bless you all.
Judith's MumTiffany, Joanne, Gabriel
Judith's Mum
Also from Mary Ann’s sister with love, Dona Jo
Dedicated from my mom, Dona Jo, to her sister
“It was true before, and now she is whole”
Dedicated from my mom, Dona Jo, to her sister
“It was truebefore, and now she is whole”
She celebrated her God
finalthoughts shared a video.Great story, So inspired me. Thank you for sharing Vegus168
vgpearMom loved Elvis
[email protected] dedicated a song.Love you dad
tyedie95Love you mom thinking of you.
aberkeyHey Dad, Happy Thanksgiving!! Jerry you too, man!! Everybody loves both of you and miss you so much and man it still hurts. 11/28/2019
xogenicFrom Reg to his precious wife.
regandkim777 shared a video.We still miss you so much. Sorry I don't have a pic of Malaree.
regandkim777 shared a video.
Tribute to one in a million irreplaceable father
With tears in eyes, I lost my dearest father, he was everything to me
A friend in times of needs
A shoulder to learn on
A real loving and lovable father
A valuable and truthful advicer
Warrior of God Kingdom
A generous and caring father
A burden bearer
A true gem
Baba your records stand in order, among the very best.
Hardly could, some one distinguish who your friend and enemies were
Which is a reflection life from the message of your days
Your few years of under your ministry was many blessings to me
The last time that I heard from you, was on the 11-7-19, I was to go before, but you prayed me out despite that you are also strong.
Baba, you merited all that, the message of our day required from us
Oh.!!! I'm happy that God crowed you for your efforts. You didn't labour in vain.
Greet the Holy Prophet÷William marrion Branham , sis yemi, sis romex, and sis Ijioma
Rest on my amiable father!!!!
Rest on 11th hour labourer!!!!!!!!
The Richway
This Tribute is from The family of "The Richway"
Edidiong PaulTruly a servant of God. A man with a passion for souls and who often goes beyond the call of duty daily. One who is earnest in the spiritual warfare of tearing down the strong hold of the enemy to build up the kingdom of heaven.
He was more than a pastor; he was our brother, father, friend and confidant, we love you, you were chosen by God for persons of this age for such a time as this.
Today we're pleased to honor you,
Today we'll even try to sing,
A hymn, a song, a melody.
In your eyes everyone was as equal and as important as the other, you took the meaning of burden bearer quite literally. I am privileged to be identified with you. It is an extreme honour to call you my Pastor. You will always remain alive in our hearts. We miss you Pastor
beckyudosen
Rest on Gallant soldier of The Word...
baba777The biggest F for our biggest warrior
kwokadilehughbkerMom, it has been 3 years and I miss you everyday.
rondahGood Morning Dad and Jerry,
Happy Birthday to both of you!! We miss you so much. We still have to go to Mad river to find grandpa's family, love you!! 11/03/2019
Big F for the most massive medula
kwokadilelol rip xd
mehtaI miss you and Jerry more than anyone could know, it all happened so fast and permanent, and we must carry on. Mom, is 81 now and going strong and do not worry I am taking care of her. She misses you both very much.
xogenicDad, Its the time of year we miss you more. Sorry not good at this. Just know you are missed and loved. Your son Terry.
terryquarryJust heard this sad story on Hollywood Graveyard, rest I peace little angel, forever a baby x
shrubb77Happy Birthday Mio papà you would have been 100 years old today 21-10-2019
johntorcasioDear Dick,
We miss you already! What a Beautiful Tribute.
Poker Anne
What a beautiful tribute. I loved reading about his adventures and life, but what really defines him is short sheeting the bed. We should all learn from him that life is meant to be fun and we should all live each day to the fullest, which he clearly did. He is smiling down on you, Sherry, and I know his humor and love will stay with you to eternity.
mykumbaThe music that is playing in the background was chosen by Penny - Daddy loved it because it was his mother's favorite. Too bad the website would only allow one piece of music, because Daddy was also a big fan of "Mack the Knife" and Sinatra's "My Way." No surprise there!
portia86glmcfeelyDear Daddy,
Since the day you passed onto Glory I've had mixed feelings. The positive side of these feelings have overwhelmed me.
Joy - You have put off this mortal body & have been transformed to meet with GOD (Isaiah 51:11).
Peace - The promise of GOD for those who believe (Isaiah 57:2).
You left a family where everyone can testify to how Loving & Kind you were, you were a Father to many.
May GOD grant you eternal rest, May the gates of Paradise be opened wide as the Father welcomes his beloved Home.
You will be Dearly missed.
Esiere Daddy!
Our Uncle
Our Uncle was a man who had smiles to brighten our days, who always made us feel good with his warm words of praise.
And what's more he knew what to do to make wishes come true.
He was our Uncle.
Our Uncle was someone who always had good stories to tell, but just as importantly he knew how to be a good listener as well.
He was patient and kind and the very best friend one could ever hope to find.
He was no ordinary man.
We are proud to tell the world that Chief (Dr.) Ita Esua was our Uncle.
May his gentle soul rest in peace.
PRINCESS IQUO O. BASSEY
ADIM EFFANGA
EFFANGA HENSHAW
Daddy has overcome, he has finished the race.
Am really short of words (Tears rolling in my eyes and a painful heart) but who am I to question Him who owns the earth and the fullness thereof, the world and they that therein (Ps. 24:1) from Him we’ve come and to Him we will return.
Daddy was a man of Principle, whom I respected a lot, he was great, kind hearted, generous, a very loving caring father, a lover of peace and progress, very humble, reliable, gentle, hardworking, trustworthy, neat, dedicated father. He was our role model. No matter the situation he always had a positive attitude. He was always there for us and everybody. I will miss him dearly.
Daddy was a father in a million and you are a dad to be remembered for life.
Adieu Daddy your memories will forever be with us
May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Mrs. Glory George
TRIBUTE FROM THE GEORGE FAMILY
“An Iconic Exit. A life really worthy of celebration”
Oh what a man of integrity, an icon of humanity, simplicity, transparency, accountability and honesty a selfless leader, A man of indefatigable and unquestionable character, Astute administrator. There is no better way to describe him that is too much.
May his kind soul rest in peace. Amen
Our Grandfather kept a garden,
A garden of the heart;
He planted all the good things,
That gave our lives their start.
He turned us to the sunshine,
And encouraged us to dream:
Fostering and nurturing the seeds of self-esteem.
And then the winds and rain came,
He protected us enough;
But not too much because he knew
We would stand up strong and tough.
His constant good example,
Always taught us right from wrong;
Markers for our pathway that will last
a lifetime long.
We are our Grandfather’s garden,
We are his legacy.
Thank you Grandpa, we love you.
Sooooo sad..... RIP
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juniperbreeze1 I imagine Pegasus, allowing Jan to ride him,
Who says no to Jan?
to ride together above the Dream Catcher Farm...... Life is still beautiful ... We miss you jan.
I always enjoyed being around Jan...she was an amazing woman...and admired her strength and tenacity. She will be missed by everyone who knew her.
ronalyn
Dedicated to Maw Maw who always did it her way. Love Luis and Kristin
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Miguel AnguloHey dad, I miss you man, more than you know. We love it here in Ohio. We have three homes now and one is a rental. Jr., moved back to California and Ron and maybe mike are going to relocate here, too. I only wish Jerry was here, too. I miss him too. I only wish more brothers would come here to talk to you. Have a good day, dad!! Love ya
xogenic
Dr Tan will always be one of the most inspiring and influential TCM teachers of our time. His style of imparting wisdom through his books, lectures and seminars has left an indelible imprint on my understanding and practice of TCM. His generosity, passion and relentless efforts to teach and guide aspiring TCM practitioners worldwide makes him an extraordinary person and he will be missed immensely. Every time I revisit his books or a recorded seminar, my understanding grows deeper and helps me becoming a better practitioner.
Thank you Dr tan.
Namaskaram
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Mom,
Happy Birthday! To celebrate, I went to the water lantern festival. I released a lantern in your honor. It was great. There were stories, music, and at the end of the night fireworks over Navy pier.
Love you Jules
jaysmithThis is one and only song my father wrote for a Telugu Film in 1975
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katebrouwnYou were a lovely, passionate and caring woman mummy. For the time I knew you, you were absolutely wonderful, we love you and miss you mummy beyond what words could describe. Rest on peacefully in the bosom of our Lord Jesus till we meet to part no more
samuelWe love and miss you mum. Rest on peacefully
adesoganadesogan
Dale Banks (aka Catnip aka The Professor) and Lisa Banks his Daughter are so sorry to hear now about this loss.
I met him in ‘76 and he was at Christopher Smith Studios another master photographer before he left and started his own. I was with him when we built the studio in Yorkville and two studios in Cabbagetown, along with one in Woodbridge. Lived in my van out back behind the Cabbagetown studio on Carlton for 7 years and it won an award for the best restoration in Toronto. He was dynamic and a showman.
P.S: He told me one day when he dies he will give me ‘57 Chevy haha
P.P.S: I know he already sold it hahaha.
Sincerely,
Dale.
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jaeger777Mom,
I had a really good day celebrating it with you. Watching romantic comedies just like we always used too. Happy mothers day mom.
It is still around and running.
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We used to go here all the time mom. I remember watching Free Willie here and watching the plains come in.
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Your favorite place to go many happy memories here.
aberkey shared a photo.Wishing you a happy mothers day. Hope you are enjoying things where you are.
aberkey shared a video.A poem Stephanie came across last year:
We thought of you with love today,
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday,
And days before that too.
We think of you in silence,
We often speak your name.
Now all we have is memories,
And your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake,
With which we'll never part.
God has you in His keeping,
We have you in our hearts.
Dear Dad,
You have been on my mind a lot this week. On April 11, it was a year since your memorial service. Wednesday, it would have been yours and Mom’s 65th wedding anniversary. And yesterday, April 28, 2019, would have been your 87th birthday. I miss you just as much as ever.
I viewed your Beautiful Tribute site today and cried again through all the photos and through Ian’s tribute to you, playing “Taps” on his trumpet (which John posted on YouTube). I wrote your “Story” – your tribute – but at the time just couldn’t get all the words out, verbally or written, for something more personal.
I read again what Rick, Dave, and John wrote and realized afresh what an impact you had on your children. I see characteristics of you in all my brothers. And you would be proud of Tony. He continues to take good care of Mom. He takes good care of me, too, when I am there visiting.
Mom misses you more than she can verbalize, but continues to be a real trooper. She is thankful for how well you took care of her, both during your life and after your death, because of your planning. And that beautiful new walk-in shower was a real gift, Dad. I remember that even in the last weeks of your life, you were concerned about your wife and children.
The “Seesters” and siblings still enjoy their card games together and Mom gets her share of being a “weiner”. But we miss you in your chair, overseeing the merriment.
I think of you during the different seasons and remember how you enjoyed flowers, and the leaves changing in the Fall, and just nature in general – the outdoor photos you took, as well as the cool “abstracts”. One of my favorite pictures of you is you with your camera, standing in the middle of a red poppy field. I miss talking to you on the phone and you teasing Tom and I about having to rake leaves or shovel snow.
Rick spoke of your various roles as a husband, father, and grandfather (you were also a loving son, brother, uncle, and friend). As your only daughter, I had a unique relationship with you, Dad. Along with Mom, you were instrumental in my growing up as a “feminine female” (amidst 4 brothers). You left me with some very special memories:
Taking me to the St. Patrick’s Day Father-Daughter Dance in elementary school (complete with flower corsage); Valentine’s Day candy and cards; Flower corsages for Easter and special occasions; Being “Dad’s Photo Studio” model; Helping me build a Morse code device for a school project; Your apologies when in the wrong; Being your “Handyman Helper”; “Knee-bend” fun (bending the back of our knees, without warning, when Mom or I were working at the kitchen sink); Driving test practice – acting as a “human cone” for me to maneuver around; “Car Ownership 101” before and after the purchase of my first car; Walking me down the aisle on my wedding day; Going to the metro park with Tom and I in the Fall (with camera, of course!); Your surprise gift of a music box (purchased while you and Mom were showing me around Tucson) - You gave it to me when we were back home in the kitchen, and when it played “You Are My Sunshine”, I cried, and you gave me a “Dad hug”; Your generous gifts of “travel money” when flying back home to Ohio; And I can still hear you say “Thank you, Sweetheart”……….And I want a “Dad hug”……….
I still thank God for you, Dad. You were a good father, who was there for his family. You were an example of commitment in marriage and commitment to your family.
Dad, it is right to honor someone who lived almost 86 years – but even more so for a man who lived a life worthy of honor.
I love you, Dad!
With Much Love,
“Your Little Girl”
Watched this today thought of you.
aberkey shared a video.I love you and miss you mom.
aberkeyI love you so much Dad, you will never be forgotten! <3
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tyedie95Momma Max was a lot of things to a lot of people. To me she was a grandmother (in-law.) I could never thank her enough for the influence she and Marty had on Jason. I loved listening to her stories and seeing her light up when she shared them. I will forever hold her in my heart. Praying for peace and comfort for all who grieve.
bec508Still can't believe it Reg. I hope you have found peace and you are happier there. But I miss you in 2019. Time if going on but I miss what might have been, I'll see you whenever. I can hear you singing this Michelle.
regandkim777 shared a video.Rest in Peace my Sweet Love.
I carry you with me in my heart and memories and I cherish every moment of your life that you shared with me forever and always.
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tresaThat was Beautiful! The circle of life can be painful for those separated for now. Cherish the happy memories that will live on forever :)
Always in our hearts...
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dream This song reminds me of Jennifer whenever i hear it.
I remember coming over to hang out with Jenny one day and she started playing "Yellow" by Coldplay. It wasn't her type of music,so i think that's why it caught my attention. My first thought was that she was playing it because i was over, and she thought it might be something i'd like to listen to. I don't know if that's the reason or not, maybe she just liked the song, but the fact that my first instinct was that she put the song on for me, is the reason she is missed so dearly by the people that loved her; she was a caring person. The best kind of friend. And the bravest person i've ever met.
It's funny how your mind takes these little snapshots of seemingly insignificant moments and saves them for you to remember forever.
I miss you, Jenny.
Oluwatosin, it has been a year since you left us. You are still lovingly remembered. Till we meet to part no more.
glassboomJeremy, it's been 2 years and still now, nothing is as much fun or as sweet as it was when you were here. While my spirit rejoices for you and with you that you no longer suffer; my humanness forces me to cry and miss you every day. I love you, son.
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starinhitmovies shared a photo.A Christmas card for you Mom!
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Here is the gift I would have got for you.
aberkey shared a photo.Mom, Merry Christmas! I had a good Christmas I went to see a play of Charlie Brown Christmas. I talked to Chris and he had a good Christmas too. I had Santa bring him a purple shirt.
aberkeyI just found out about Stephen's passing a couple of days ago. I was doing some research for an article and was really saddened by the news.
Through the years I lost touch with Stephen. Right around the time he moved to Florida, we moved from Pennsylvania to North Carolina.
I remember the first time I saw Stephen, it was at a photography convention in Atlantic City, NJ. We were getting ready to leave that day and as I remember, Stephen's program was on the last day.
Before leaving, I decided to check out his program and see who this guy was. When I walked into the room, I saw some of the most beautiful wedding images and engagement portraits I have ever seen.
I was hooked. I have not been impacted by images like these since the first time I saw Monte Zucker and Rocky Gunn. I was really motivated to learn more about Stephen and how he captured such beautiful images.
A short time later, I was telling some friends what I saw and they told me about this amazing photographer they just studied with at Triangle Institute. It was Stephen!
Some of my friends got to know Stephen fairly well and I went along with my friends as we visited him for the first time.
I got a chance to see his studio and some of the most beautiful wedding albums and wall portraits I have ever seen.
I believe it was about a year later, we got a chance to visit with him again. This time he invited us to stay with him and I got a chance to get to know Stephen a little better.
He was a most gracious host. Besides coming across as a no nonsense kind of guy who doesn't suffer fools gladly, I saw that Stephen was a perfectionist that wanted to be the best at whatever he did. There was no second best for Stephen.
I also got to see his generous and kind side and his ability to convey a trust in the people he was photographing. Very few artists have that. He was able to bring out the true character and feelings that his couples have for each other.
That is why his images stood out. That's the stuff that photographic legends are made of. Of the many programs I have attended through the years, Two that stand out the most are when Rocky Gunn spoke at the Wppi convention and had 100 30x40 inch canvas prints on the wall and Stephen's program when he started it off with the rumble of a Harley Davidson on stage that was followed by a tremendous program where the audience got to experience some of the most beautiful romantic photographs ever taken.
Rest in peace Stephen, my friend.
My deep condolences to his family and friends
Sincerely,
Ferdy Neubauer
Thinking of you today Grandpa.
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I am extremely grateful to my Dad for his loving encouragement all through my life journey and for his protective care and legendary generosity. To the Glory of God, Dad met every need of his family and all through our growing up with him, my father ensured he sent us to the best schools around. Dad personally dropped us in School and he either picked us up himself or ensured someone did on his behalf. Dad loved his wife (our mum) so much that he will usually warn us ‘the boys’ to either respect and obey ‘my wife’ or we face the consequences!
He ensured pocket money arrived right on time. My father was proactive in many ways which helped us as a family. When ‘the boys’ (this writer surely not inclusive!) wouldn’t stop ‘bashing ‘his cars and since his wonderful ‘belts’ couldn’t stop my big brother Ade and I from these ‘dangerous driving spree’. Dad decided it was safer to teach us how to drive ‘’so that you don’t kill yourself’. He got his driver to personally teach us how to drive and ensured we passed our driving tests.
My Dad had several designs of belts which he brought from London for various reasons, one of which was to keep the boys ‘in check’ whenever we erred which we always did anyway. I and my brothers will hide his belts whenever we got into trouble! Only the girls had some sort of silent ‘immunity’, whether that was partial or not we will hopefully discuss that in Heaven.
Dad would continue to encourage you no matter what the situation may be including when we had to hide our results (when the results were too good to be handed to him!). My Dad was a strict disciplinarian no doubt, but we were all the better for it. When I was admitted to boarding school and some of our friends opted as day students coming from home, I pleaded with my father to be a day student to save me from those extremely ‘ferocious’ seniors in school in those days, my Dad always told me he was training me for endurance in future. As protective as my Dad was of his children, even my mum’s plea wouldn’t make him succumb to the pressure for he was determined to ensure I go through the same boarding school experience with others.
He was obviously very fond of his daughters and when the boys started harassing them, particularly my big Sister, he would chase them away with all the arsenals in his possession (Otunba Adekanola inclusive!). His favourite phrase was ‘if you try to ‘’destroy’’ the life of my daughter, I will destroy you!). Thank God Otunba did not ‘destroy’ the life of his daughter, instead he became his favourite Son.
In principle my Dad never came to my School to plead my cause, even when he was aware of certain tough situations. As far as my Dad was concerned, the teacher was always right. My Dad did not tolerate partiality in any form. He took care and fought for all under his roof and care with the same zeal and determination. I am grateful to God for such a loving and caring father whom God used to provide all we needed and who despite his great love for us ensured we went through firm discipline to keep us ‘in check’ and ‘prepared’ for the great future ahead.
Dad was content with the humble blessings & provisions of God and never put any pressure on his children, every time you ask him, he says all is well ‘Maa worry’ in our native Yagba language, which means don’t worry am fine all is well.
Dad had great friends like brothers but unfortunately death wickedly took many of them professionals at their very prime. Therefore, somehow since my second form in high School and all through university days my number one prayer point was for God to spare my father’s life so he will live long. Somehow, though like ‘Oliver twist’ I would have asked God for more, I can truly say that God granted my request to which I am eternally grateful. The last time I was driving Dad back from Hospital in London I told him about this Prayer point and he just sighed and said: Glory be to God Son! God is Good.
Like my father I can surely and truly say. To God be all the Glory. God is good!
Thank you Dad! Thank you Lord!
Bamishaiye Ayo Daniel
Baba Oreyemi my dear husband, Father of my children and my best friend. I seem not to understand why you have to go now too soon. And why you left without a word. Though you tried to say something to me but the words could not come out.
However, i want to appreciate and thank God for making me a part of you for good 52 years. I also thank God that you knew the Lord and served him till the end of your life.
My dear Olukosi and Agbeluga of Mopa Land, omo Alesókó, aro amonì, asókósókó idè, asókósókó olekè. I don't need to ask how you are anymore because i know you are at rest and at peace. That is my comfort.
Good night Baba Oreyemi! It is well.
Your wife - Comfort Daniel
Love you daddy. Will forever miss you. Rest on beautiful soul in the bosom of the Lord God Almighty, till we meet again at the resurrection of the Lord.
yemiadeWhat a beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. I was virtually unaware of all the things she did prior to her marriage and children and it was nice to learn more about her life. The pictures in the slide show are amazing. I miss her and wish we all could have had more time with her.
Love, Dani
Mom, I had so much fun today. I saw the play how the Grinch Stole Christmas, then took pictures downtown, and ate pizza at our favorite restaurant. Then when we got home we popped holiday crackers. Those are the things they have in Canada. That Grandma and Grandpa Bonar had at their house for the holidays. They are cylinders that make a pop sound when you pull them open. Inside they have prizes, a joke, and a paper crown. It was fun to pop them and remember the fun of it. Love you, mom, just thought I'd let you know how my day went.
aberkeyMom just thought you should know all your kids are happy today. Chris, Devin, Delette, and I think Blake are happy today.
aberkeyThanksgiving card. Hope you are enjoying magical moments in heaven today.
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Dear friends and family,
We warmly invite you to add your memories, pictures and/or music to this memorial in order to create a wonderful rich tribute to our beloved Josie.
Everyone is welcome to write in the language they are most comfortable with.
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zionzionHope the two of you found many of those flowers with George in Heaven
zionWe miss you
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ririririririririrtatatataWe look forward to celebrating his remarkable life with all who are able to attend.
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Remembering you, bro!!
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aberkeyFour years have passed, four years I have carried you in my heart.
The denial and anguish have passed, the hurt, the fear, the anger, the outrage have gone.
Now a joyous warmth fills the void with cherished memories of a lifetime shared.
Now every day we laugh and we cry, share our pains and triumphs beneath the evening stars.
Ours is a timeless conversation without end, for which I'm so very grateful.
I love you so much, little sister.
Michael
An ancient Hawaiian Prayer
Ho'oponopono.
I LOVE YOU
I AM SORRY
FORGIVE ME
THANK YOU
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It's been over 10yrs since I saw you last, I wish I would have seen you one more time, you were always kind to me and truly loved me as a friend, I'm sorry we lost touch and I'm ashamed of myself for just finding out you passed! Life is not fair, we all have debts to pay for the privilege of living on this earth, you Beverly paid those debts, depts for others that did not deserve your kindness! I hope you are in a better place God bless you girl You will be missed, Love you Jody
jodyclevengerThinking of you today ...and every day. Miss you mom!
nancymcc
Mom,
I also went to visit the house behind Sam's Town. I know you don't like that house but some of my best memories were in that house.
Love you mom
Butterfly for you this one was found outside my house
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Us at the lake
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I also think Devin was going to spread your ashes at sea when he goes on a cruise. So I think there is a part of you there too. So just like when you were alive you have been everywhere.
aberkeyMom,
I'm here in Las Vegas visiting Gerry because he has been sick. I made these memorial stones with your initials on them. They say E.T.. I have spread them around different places I think you'd like. That way I a physical representation of you is there. Or at least was there at one time. Now you have many resting spots. I placed stones for you in a Garden in Munster, IN. I know you never lived there but it is a pretty garden with lots of butterflies nest there. I think you would like seeing those butterflies. I hope you see them all the time where you are. I also put out some stones here in Las Vegas. I placed some stones where the Nevada Palace used to be. I know that was one of the places you used to love going to. I also put stones at the drive in movies since we used to go there a lot.
You also have a tree dedicated to you by the insurance company in the Davy Crockett National Forrest in Lufkin.
Happy Birthday Mom.
aberkeyThis is my birthday video to you.
aberkey shared a video.Mom,
I love you. I hope you are so happy in heaven. I can't imagine what you are seeing up there.
This is the present I would have given to you for your birthday mom. I know how much you loved her.
Angela Berkey
She is not just beautiful outwardly, She is very beautiful at Heart ♥, Adieu mummy
babasola.vThe Strife is Over
oladoyin1 shared a video.You will live forever in my heart Mum!
oladoyin1It's been awhile but here is an update. It's been hot here in Illinois. Over a hundred a couple weeks ago. It's still in the upper 90's. I had been real because Gerry Bonar is still sick and in the hospital. He's doing slightly better now. I went to see a psychiatrist and he prescribed me some medicine that has really been helping. I feel so much better now. It's like the heaviness is gone. Also he was concerned about my weight so he had me tested for thyroid problems. The bad news is I have one but the good news is that's why I haven't been losing weight. I was so hard on myself but now I know what's going on and can get treated. I wasn't published by that magazine but I'm going to try another one I'm not going to give up. I love you mom. I admire you for not giving up when things got bad.
I spent a lot of time with Sister Virginia back when her daughter Theresa was attending Jimmy Seaggart Bible College. We went to Campmeetings together and to pick up Theresaz. Virginia really loved the Lord, her daughters, Theresa and Michelle, and Mike Walker, her husband. Also when Patricia Echandi’s parents were still alive, Virginia was their caretaker. We would all go to Luby’s or Whataburger together. She was a precious Saint and will be truly missed. But Virginia is st the Real Campmeeting now, and may the knowledge of her Joy bring comfort to those she has left behind here who really miss her.
bjever1946Thank you Barbara, God bless you for being a faithful friend for many years!
Nona Ellington
Precious Mama Walker
doodlebug shared a photo.Mama Walker was a Mama to me for 13 years, as she is my best friend, Michelle's, Mama. My own mother went to Heaven 28 years ago, so I was truly blessed and honored to be a part of her life since 2005. I will truly miss her greatly, looking forward to seeing her again on the other side with Jesus! Love forever, Nona Ellington
doodlebugMichelle's Mama. My own mother went to Heaven 28 years ago, so I was truly blessed and honored to be a part of her life since 2005. I will truly miss her greatly, looking forward to seeing her again on the other side with Jesus! Love forever, Nona Ellington
doodlebugSorry to hear the news. We knew Gary years ago in Boulder and Denver, where we all got into trouble together. He enjoyed family and friends to the utmost, which is what we all hope to do.
[email protected]Mom,
I wrote an article about God's love and submitted it to a women's Christian magazine.
They are considering publishing it. I'm super excited just thought you should know.
I miss you today mom. This weekend is hot in the 90"s but its nice after being cold for so long. I know it must be hot in Houston now. I love you mom. I think about you all the time.
aberkeyDiane’s “Prince” will sorely be missed. Spending a week long conversation on the porch with Gary last year was a treat for sure. The conversation was galactic to say the least. Having Gary & Diane as friends for most of our adult lives was uniquely special. With heavy heart I will miss my brother from another mother. Kristina, Jon & Nick, you are the embodiment of Diane & Gary. You honor them in so many ways. Love to all of you. Mike & Margaret.
mikepayne
Will miss my bestie...
claywesjamie shared a photo.Love and miss you Larry .Love tree
Love you and miss you!!!!!! ❤
kayalex5Hello Dad,
Ma packed up the house and sold it because Hayward did not exist anymore for any of us, especially without you and Jerry, plus sweet little Debra, too. We bought a house in Ohio near grandpa's birth place by the Mad river. Everything got so expensive in Hayward and the bills piled up, we had to sell and move. So far it is nice. I will get back to you soon. It is 05/19/2018 I am sure you would have agreed with her decision, it was right.
I & alex was at his beautiful cabin in Bear Lake we had so much fun and it was so amazing that we got to share that memory together..
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Alex and his son Xander
jessicacruz shared a photo.The news of Daddy's demise came like it never really happened. He was in every sense a Diplomat to the core, always ready to entertain and very hospitable, a good listener and without any doubt, a blessed man. At the tender age of 90+ he had an amazing strength and full of life. Just remembering how gallantly he walked his Princess Vivian down to the Alter to be given in marriage to Tayo only last October must have been one of the greatest moments for him. We love you and wish we could all still have you be with us for much longer.
May your gentle soul rest in peace.
Mrs.Funto Sonaiya
My dear husband,
Words cannot describe how great a loss your passing is. Nor can words describe how wonderful and loving a partner you have been.
I will miss you dearly but I know that God has taken you to a better place.
Thank you for being the most wonderful husband, father and friend. Rest in perfect peace.
Love you always,
Lizzy
Dad,
I still cannot believe the news of your passing. You are going to be sorely missed.
You are a good man and an example to all of us. You worked very hard and built yourself up from hard and humble beginnings to the man you are today. You have always been supportive and understanding which made you a great father.
You did the best you could for everyone around you, especially your family. We are extremely grateful for you.
Rest in perfect peace Dad. I love you.
Your son,
Victor Junior
My darling Daddy,
It has been difficult trying to write a tribute to you because in my heart I do not think there are any words that can describe how wonderful you are, how much I love you or how much I am going to miss you. No tribute can do justice to who you are and the impact you have had on all of us. Instead, I want to say thank you for being a perfect father. I really do mean perfect! You have been much more than I could have ever asked for. I feel so blessed and privileged that such a great and wonderful man is my Daddy! You have always made me feel so loved and that feeling still has not wavered, even today. I know it never will.
Thank you for everything you have taught me. You have taught me to be self sufficient, hardworking and motivated. Thank you for teaching me to love myself and not covet what anyone else has. You have made me more than content with the woman your influence has helped me become today. Thank you for teaching me how to love others unconditionally and that patience is a virtue. Thank you for teaching me how important it is to have a relationship with God and how all things come from God.
Thank you for staying with us for so long and walking me down the aisle! 93 is just phenomenal! God just favours you so much! You walked so fast that I had to keep up!! Thank you for dancing with me! I will never forget how we danced. I cried like a baby and you had the most beautiful smile that day. I also remember how you smiled at my Introduction. Thank you for always entertaining my bad jokes and for letting me call you “Gugu” no matter how old I am. Thank you for always entertaining my silly behaviour and letting me jump over the couch to kiss you. Thank you for playing the hand slapping game with me - I really still don’t understand how you always won. Thank you for always providing for us and never letting me lack. There is nothing in this world I have wanted that you haven’t given me. Thank you for never letting me down. Thank you for putting me through school, university, my masters and my LPC! You just keep giving. Thank you for making sure that I will always be able to stand on my two feet!
Thank you for giving me permission to be myself. You have never made me hide who I am no matter how opinionated I am! Thank you for not judging me and for always making me feel precious. Thank you for getting me music and piano lessons! Thank you for listening to me sing the same song over and over again because I would always get the piano accompaniment wrong! Thank you for making me feel appreciated. Thank you for helping me find my purpose.
Daddy, I am just so grateful for who you are. I pray that Tayo and I grow up to be like you. I pray that we have your heart and that we are as patient as you. I pray that we have a long and happy marriage like you and mummy! That we are life partners and always enjoy each other’s company! I cannot even begin to talk about how kind you are and how you were always considering those who were in need. I have heard so many stories and seen on many occasions your endless kindness. No matter what you had, you always gave. Thank you for teaching me the importance of kindness and empathy. Thank you for teaching me that it is important to forgive and move on.
Thank you for giving me strength to get through this challenging period. I know that God and you are holding me up. I pray that Tayo & I age like you and that we are as strong, and healthy as you are. You never taught me to give up so we will not give up now.
Thank you for teaching me the Lord’s Prayer. I remember how small I was when you would tuck me into bed pray with me. I also remember how, without fail, the first thing you would do every morning is read your devotional and bibles passages. I will never let your legacy be forgotten and I will inspire people with stories about you.
I find peace in the fact that God took you home peacefully. God loves you so much that He called you Home. I wish you were still here but God knows best. I know that I will see you again in heaven soon because God promises it and God does not lie. You are just sleeping peacefully now. I pray that you visit me in my dreams every night.
I honour you not only because you are my father but because you are a phenomenal man! Your light shines so bright! If Tayo and I become half of the person you are, we will have done great things in this life.
I will not let you down Gugu. You will always live in my heart and in my thoughts. I pray that everything I do in this life honours you and God.
May God comfort all of us who are mourning and mend our broken hearts, in Jesus name, amen.
I love you with all my heart and everything that is in me! This is not a goodbye but a see you soon!
Your princess,
Vivian
Hard to put into words the effect you've had on my life by being Vivian's father. Since meeting Vivian, you and mummy also became my surrogate parents standing in whenever my parents are away. Thank you for being such an amazing father to the both of us and teaching us important life lessons particularly on faith and forgiveness. Your legacy lives on through all of your children especially Vivian who is very much like you in character. Sleep peacefully Daddy Adegoroye, we will all take care of mummy and I will take care of my "twin" Vivian.
benita oolutayo sI first met Daddy Adegoroye at Vivian’s niece’s traditional wedding in Lagos in December 2015. Vivian and I had just started dating then and we were initially seated on different tables to Vivian’s parents. He was part of the family members participating in the ceremony and we were further back which I was very happy with. Vivian then found the right time for us to go and greet him and Mummy Adegoroye. My plan was simple, meet and greet Vivian’s parents and race back to our seats! I was intimidated by his presence and wasn’t as composed as I would have liked greeting him for the first time. Immediately after meeting him space was created for Vivian and I to sit on the same table as him and I prayed to God to give me wisdom not to say or do anything embarrassing. God heard my prayers and from the first time we met our relationship grew very quickly and he made me feel welcome from that point on.
I had the privilege of spending time with Daddy Adegoroye and I can only describe him as a God fearing distinguished gentleman, the definition of humility in spite of having the kind of highly successful career that many would shout about from any available rooftop. He was a man of principle and believed in the virtues of hard work paying off and staying on the straight and narrow path against all odds.
He was very kind and always warm to me. Throughout our wedding preparations he was actively involved in every aspect of the planning process when he didn’t need to be. He did everything in his power to make our wedding the glorious and most memorable occasion that it was and I thank you Sir for that.
Age was only a number for him it was never a barrier mentally or physically. I would argue he was as fit as me at my age! I was amazed at how strong he was and how in fantastic shape he was.
We had many insightful conversations over Commodore specials (his cocktail of choice) about Nigeria as we both shared an Economics background and he told many stories about his experiences working in the Ministry of Trade in the 60s if memory serves me correctly and I was fascinated by his diplomatic journey and where his work took him. He also had a great sense of humour which only made him more human and endearing.
Most important to me is he gave me the best and most precious gift that I could ever receive by giving me his blessing to marry his daughter my beautiful and wonderful wife Vivian which I will forever be indebted to him for.
His laughter was contagious and I am glad that he had cause to laugh and experience joy up until God called him home to be with Him in heaven.
You will be sorely missed Daddy Adegoroye I love you, I thank you for everything you did for Vivian and I and I will continue to take the responsibility you placed on me very seriously to love and protect Vivian and be there for Mummy Adegoroye, my siblings in law and the family. May God welcome you with open arms and may your soul rest in perfect peace in Jesus Name Amen
From author, James Bacque, via email:
"Hello Jill,
I showed a draft of this passage from my memoirs to Olie some time ago and he amended it. If you think anyone might be interested in this part of Keith's life, please use it however you wish.
I very nearly succeeded in getting out (of the CBC Stage crew) one early morning in Studio One after a long difficult strike and set... The set we were putting up was designed around the pianist Glenn Gould who was going to give a live concert on TV. His famous piano on which he played Bach absolutely accurately, with a taut pitch of feeling and perfect understanding, was delivered in its thick brown piano-blanket to the studio late the evening before. That was a big mistake on someone’s part, which fell onto my shoulders...
I told my friend Olie Johnson on my crew to roll Gould’s piano outside the big trucking doors where nothing could crash down onto it. The night was cool but not freezing, and I figured we would have it back inside in a little while. Eight hours later, after the new set was up and we were lolling about with cigarettes and coffee-poison in paper cups, Olie suddenly remembered the piano, still outside. I panicked because Gould was famously neurasthenic about his precious hands, health, clothes, and piano. Rain had fallen. The piano was wet under its soaked shroud. Heartbroken, I helped to roll it back in, and we wiped it off. I raised the lid and peeped inside. No puddle!
We clocked out and I went home in fear and shame, sure that Gould’s sensitive fingers would detect the cold and humidity as soon as he tugged off his long woollen gloves. I was out of a job and Gould was out of a piano. The show would probably be cancelled because of course he could not play a piano that had been outside all one cold wet night, and he could play no other.
That morning, I was told later, Gould came in, sat at the piano, unfurled his gloves, flexed his fingers and played without comment.
Fifty years later--fifty years of minor guilt and also of dining out on the story--I got an e-mail from my friend Olie, who said: 'My recollection is that you were indeed the Crew Chief of record on the night in question so technically the piano was your responsibility but I was on your crew, so I, and/or whoever else was, should have reminded you it was there.
As I recall the set we were putting up was a fiendishly complicated one by Rudi Dorn, which took us into (real) overtime and we just never got round to the piano. I certainly felt no guilt about it then or since but I do remember taking some pleasure in getting away with something big.'
For me, guilt and fear, for Olie, the thought of getting away with something big..."
From David Moorman, Senior Advisor, Policy and Planning, Canada Foundation for Innovation, via email:
"Thank you for letting me know Michael, and please accept my condolences.
Your step father was a superb professor, indeed one of the very best I ever had. He was always kind, generous and willing to engage meaningfully in any intellectual endeavour.
More than anyone else, he taught me how to research, write and understand history. Indeed, thanks to Keith, I went on to complete a Ph.D in an area of Canadian history he encouraged me to pursue."
From Malcolm MacKinnon, UofT, Victoria College-South House roommate and fellow 5T3 graduate, via email:
"Dear Jill,
I really appreciate the chance to see the quotes from his students. I was glad to see that several of them referred to the sentence in the obituary about his ”wry humour, gentleness, kindness, generosity, and humility.” Those words are excellent descriptors of the Keith that I remember.
One of the pictures I sent is of the gentle initiation stunt of cleaning City Hall with a toothbrush. We were told to put our pj’s on over our clothes and were escorted by streetcar to City Hall where the Telegram reporter was waiting. After the Photo Op we were official South House members, a membership that brought us many close friendships over the years. I have been trying to remember why it was that we all called him Olie. I haven’t been successful.
When I picture Olie, I think of him as wearing a warm, dark red bathrobe sitting in his third floor room drinking tea and offering tea to the friends who came by his open door. A high point for me was Shakespeare spotting (opening the book at random and reading until somebody identified the play and the speaker). I was taking Math and Physics with virtually no humanities. I got my liberal education from Olie and our other friends. Olie had a repertoire of quotes (e.g. Alexander Hamilton “Your people, sir, is a great beast”) which he quoted whenever they were relevant to the conversation.
One thing we had in common was that both of us were fans of “Vic ’n Sade” and listened to it when we were younger. By the time we met at South House, “Vic ’n Sade” was off the air, but we quoted to each other the sayings of Uncle Fletcher (eg. “Rishagin Fishagin from Sishagin, Michigan. He was employed as an armed guard at the Ohio State Home for the Agreeable. Later died.”)
He listened regularly to Elwood Glover, the CBC disk jockey in the hour before dinner and I often listened with him. We all had radios, but no radio licenses. We occasionally had a few beers at the King Cole Room in the basement of the Park Plaza Hotel (where anybody who looked like a college student was assumed to be over 21) and on other occasions went to hear the Calvin Jackson trio at the Plaza Room. Olie introduced me to Dixieland Jazz and we went together to the Colonial Tavern when a Dixieland group was playing.
At the end of sophomore year, I went to New York for the summer where I lived in the YMCA and worked as an actuarial student at Met Life. The real attraction for me was to see all the shows on Broadway. When I returned to school in the fall, I began a campaign to get Olie to come with me to New York the following summer. I succeeded. His English and History skills were not as marketable as my record of passing actuarial exams, but he quickly signed up for Social Security and got a job working in a warehouse where his main activity was to stamp the words “Property of the New York City School System” in thousands of copies of “Dick, Jane and Spot.” He was a keen observer of the conversation of his fellow workers and took great pains to make sure that none of them found out that he was one of those "college pricks” that they so despised.
We shared a small apartment on West 21st Street and I commuted to Newark where I worked for Prudential as a summer actuarial student. We occasionally cooked, but ate often at the Automat. We listened to Gene Shepherd on the radio in the evenings. We saw all the shows. A great summer.
In Senior year, I was the Drama Editor of The Varsity and occasionally I assigned Olie to write a review. At the risk of impairing his reputation for gentleness, I quote this excerpt from his review of a UC Players Guild production: “Gammer Gurton’s Needle is a very, very old play which has by no means improved with age. The over obvious comic situation, the crude slapstick and especially the awkward rhymed couplets in which the play is written, present a monumental challenge to any director. Charlotte Holmes obviously threw in the towel early and let her charges go their several ways. The result, if lacking in comedy, was not without a certain pathos.” This generated quite a few Letters to the Editor which is always good for circulation.
After college, we both went to Europe before starting work in Toronto but on different time tables. Olie traveled with George Julian, Al Cairns and Murray Dillon. I visited Paris with the four of them for a couple of weeks in September (all those little restaurants!) and when they rented a house in London I spent a lot of time there. In January I began my job in Prudential’s Canadian Head Office in Toronto and rented a room in Rosedale. When Olie returned to Toronto in June, 1954, and began work as a stagehand at CBC-TV, he and I found a comfortable two-bedroom apartment at 177 Roxborough St. East and moved in. We did more cooking than we had in New York. When I moved out a year later to get married, Fred Euringer took my place and Olie stayed on for quite awhile. While we were living on Roxborough St., we frequently met Olie’s sister, Marge, for a beer in the evening. She was working for a company that processed sludge. When Marge married Harvey Woodhouse in the spring of 1955, Olie and I went to the wedding. He sang “You’ll Never Walk Alone” and I accompanied him on the piano.
Olie was my Best Man on June 18, 1955, and in proposing a toast he quoted Charles II’s dying words about Nell Gwynne, “Don’t let Nellie starve.” I have always kept those words in mind.
After our honeymoon, Betty and I lived in an apartment in New York City for a couple of years. Olie made several trips to New York in that time period and always came to dinner. When we were visiting my parents in Guelph, he and George came to visit us there. A few years later, Olie and Francie and the twins spent a weekend with us in our house in New Jersey.
After that, we had occasional letters and phone calls. A great thing about Olie was that, if I called him suddenly on the phone, conversation was as easy as if we had been talking regularly for years. We didn’t see each other again until a “South House reunion” staged by Larry Lundy and Elizabeth Julian in 2008. That was a fun time for us and led to two similar get-togethers at Hart House later on.
We're very sorry that we won’t be able to attend the Memorial at Carleton, but our thoughts will be with you and the children."
"Olie" (aka Keith) and George visit Malcolm and his wife, Betty, in Guelph, 1956.
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Malcolm & "Olie" (aka Keith) on graduation day from UofT with the Class of 5T3.
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A gentle initiation to Vic College, South House, scrubbing the steps of old Toronto City Hall with toothbrushes.
[email protected] shared a photo.This is to commensurate with the Ambassador Adegoroye family especially the loving children for the transition of their beloved Patriach at the ripe age of 93yrs May the Lord receive his soul AMEN @ Moni Ajao ( Elegbe)
moniajao
Dear Uncle,
You were kind and gentle and your love for your extended family was exemplary.
You loved Ajoke, my mother, and her name opened the door way of your heart to me, an unfamiliar fatherless young boy and you gave my first ever job that by the grace of Almighty God gave me a lift to who I am today.
You visited me with admiration and commendation when I built my first house in a fairly remote part of Lagos.
And few months before your glorious exit you were at my son’s wedding for two days.
Your love towards me would be difficult to forget and may your good works from such a noble and kind heart continue to endure until the Lord’s RETURN.
Olakunle Ekundayo
TRIBUTE TO UNCLE VICTOR ADEYEYE ADEGOROYE
My earliest memories of this enigmatic personality was his smile and zest for life. He appeared very concise in his speech and effusively consistent in his gifts ‘laden’ visits especially during festive occasions.
As I grew older, I determined to get to know my cousins and began to visit ‘Baba Nike’s’ (as we fondly remembered him) very beautiful home at Victoria Island. I was very courteously treated and was always welcomed with gracious hospitality by Uncle Victor and encouraged to work hard and excel in everything I do. I became closer to both ’Tolu and ’Sola at this period.
One very significant episode in my life appears to have given me a glimpse into his life, values, and impact. It would appear that uncle ’Yeye was very principled, and ethically firm and must have impacted many as he served in the Federal Civil Service. I was a fresh graduate and having completed the National Youth Service, I applied for a Federal Government employment post, coincidentally, in the Ministry of External Affairs. The senior civil servants that conducted the interview on that fateful day in 1983 appeared very eager to know from which Adegoroye family I had ‘descended.’ I was initially not sure of what had prompted the question and was a little cautious. The effect however on the panel of examiners when I mentioned his name and position in the External Affairs Ministry was like a bolt of electrical energy had been released in the room. A man who can have this effect must have lived life on a higher plane than most of his contemporaries. This incident largely illuminated his seeming ‘pessimism’ concerning human nature and behaviour that I perceived with my young and impressionable mind during our brief times together in my late adolescence in 1976.
As Adegoroyes, we bask in the dignity and impact Uncle ’Yeye achieved in life and are motivated to set an example of excellence in service for our generation and the future generations.
’Biodun Adegoroye
MEMORIES OF DADDY
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My memories of Daddy define who he was
I remember him.....
Playing with us on Sundays in the swimming pool at Ikoyi hotel.
Seldom Shouting on us. Mummy was the disciplinarian at home.
Hosting numerous cocktail parties and dinners with Mummy on the diplomatic circuit. We the children had fun drinking lots of Fanta and Coca-Cola.
His leadership and quiet diplomacy during the tense period in Ghana in 1969 when Nigerians were expelled from the country.
Sharing with me his knowledge of Economics when I was introduced to this subject in form 4 at Queens College and fell in love with it.
Insisting that he wanted me to study Medicine; he thought my future would be more secure as a doctor. As I had his stubborn trait I still went ahead to study Economics.
His commitment to educate all his children ‘Education is the best legacy ‘ he would say.
His love for classical music and the music of Miriam Makeba.
The difficult times when Daddy and Mummy separated.
Giving me away on my wedding day. He walked all his daughters down the aisle.
His love for Open Heavens ( a daily devotional written by Pastor E A Adeboye of The RCCG) in his latter days. He wanted several copies so he could keep a copy each in Lagos, London and the US.
His interest in current affairs , the Nigerian economy and African affairs. Whenever I visited he would discuss these issues comparing them to his days in public service.
Calling him on his birthday on 01 March 2018 and his words ‘Thank you for remembering me’
Thank you Daddy for your wisdom, counsel prayers and legacy of quiet diplomacy.
Thank you My FATHER for the gift of an earthly father.
THANK YOU JESUS.
Sola David-Borha
(Nee Adegoroye)
My dear Brother, rest has come at last to the valiant warrior, the fate of all mortals. Yours was a productive and active life worthy of a hero and prince that you were. That the creator called you at the ripe old age of 93 to himself is a fulfilment of His will and that He did on the significant date of the 1st of April, the holy Sunday of Easter. Friends, relations, colleagues and admirers will miss you, but cannot complain. Your whole life was service to the nation and your generation.
A Scion of a prominent Akure ruling house, you never wore the badge of royalty on your sleeves as some would do. You rather chose the path of hard work, self-help, discipline, diligence and perseverance, qualities which enabled you to play your role at every stage with honour and dignity – first as a school boy in famous Christ School, Ado-Ekiti, where you were among the first set of boys to pass the Senior Cambridge School Certificate Examination. That was in 1945. After a short stint in the office of the District Officer in Ondo, you crossed over to London where you studied Economics. Thanks to your God given resourcefulness, you were able to pay your way through University of London.
Fortune brought us together, when in 1958 you joined the embryo Foreign Service along with 7 other colleagues, the second set of pioneers of the Service. I had no doubt in my mind from the very first moment of our meeting that I had met a brother and a friend. What great moments we shared in Paris, Munich and Bad Aiblin while you were doing German Language Training. Those were the days.
Thereafter you served with distinction in London, Bonn, Moscow and later as High Commissioner in Accra and Lome and Ambassador in Ethiopia. In the Ministry in Lagos, you left your mark as Head of Africa Division, a hot seat that angels feared to tread. You were also seconded for a short period to the Home Service as Permanent Secretary, Federal Ministry of Trade, a duty you performed with characteristic efficiency.
My admiration and respect for this great man never waned these 60 years. We will miss you Ambassador Adeyeye Adegoroye. We will continue to remember you as a fearless defender of just causes. Your performance in and out of office attest to this. In retirement, you were a distinguished member of the Association of Retired Career Ambassadors of Nigeria. You were also a past President and until your demise, a Trustee of the Association.
What more can a mortal desire beyond a successful career in the nation’s public service ending with the exalted rank of Ambassador Plenipotentiary, an admirable life of bliss in dignified and active retirement surrounded by loving and successful children, crowned with a stainless reputation.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the famiy who must sorely miss their pater familias.
Adieu, Egin Yeye, may your noble soul rest in perfect peace.
Tribute by Ambassador Tayo Ogunsulire
OF ALL THAT I HAVE SEEN WONDERS AND THUNDERS, NONE LIKE MY UNCLE VICTOR
FROM THE LOW LANDS ORPHANS AT THREE; YET DESTINED TO ACHIEVE GREATNESS IN LIFE
A PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE IN SERVICE TO FAMILY AND COUNTRY SHINNING FORTH WITH MODESTY INTEGRITY AND LOVE FOR ALL.
ALWAYS SMILING AND GOOD NATURED;
A CONSUMATE ADMINISTRATOR,
A WORTHY AMBASSADOR OF THE FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF NIGERIA,
A PRINCE OF THE ODUDUN RULING HOUSE OF AKURE AND A NOBLE NIGERIAN.
I SHALL CHERISH THE MOMENTS THAT WE SHARED.
MAY YOUR SOUL REPOSE WITH THE LORD IN ETERNAL PEACE.
DR DELE ADEGOROYE
TRIBUTE TO UNCLE VICTOR ADEYEYE ADEGOROYE
My memories about my uncle are in two parts. First of all when we were very young, I used to look forward to his rare visits to us. I was sure to receive goodies and some money especially around Christmas. I appreciated his encouragements to work hard to get good results at school. He always looked distinguished and jovial, you had to love him.
Of course the whole family was always excited about his short visits because he had a good word and something for everyone.
I was equally eager to visit my cousins at the Ikoyi house where we would play in the big garden.
The second part of our relationship was much later. It started with an improvised visit to him in London with my boys and some friends on a new year’s day 9 years ago.
I was very captivated by the man I saw. You couldn’t guess his age; he could still read without glasses!
I was very impressed with the sharpness of his mind and the clearness of his views. He was able to take you on any discussion: financial, societal or political. He loved to talk about world affairs and was particularly perspicacious about the manoeuvres of the political figures especially the Nigerians. He kept himself up to date and was aware of everything, very impressive.
Invariably, you felt nice in his company because he was able to meet you on any grounds as long as you were willing to discuss the subject. He made you feel comfortable, and at home. You become knowledgeable about world matters with his insight and very shrewd analysis of complex situations. He seemed to bring the best out of you.
We will discuss French politics, economy and strategies; while sipping old single malt whisky and enjoying quality red wine. Uncle was like that, cheerful; he enjoyed life, good food and good company. He made the best of every situation. He made you feel like an old friend.
He loved music, and that, I discovered inadvertently one of the times we paid him a visit in Lagos. His old sound system was faulty and he missed the music he was used to.
I felt a need to do something about it and by God’s grace I was able to repair the system.
It was much later that Vivian told me how happy he was to be able to enjoy his favourite tracks and artists again. That was a particular experience of God’s grace in our relationship.
He detested corruption and injustice. He would fight relentlessly whatever he believed was wrong, a true man of God even though he was quite discreet about that aspect.
He was very loving and protective of his children and would do anything in his power to help them succeed. Without any doubt he was a good father and family man.
He was a great source of positive inspiration to anyone around him. He believed in you and would encourage you to give your best to any challenge in your life.
He was very optimistic about life in general; he kept on going about the education of his children, family matters and property as if he was immortal.
All in all, the time I spent with him was relatively very short but extremely rich in what we shared. I just felt irresistibly drawn to him. In many ways I was touched by this great man who lived a simple life and had a way of making you feel important.
I will always cherish his memory.
Adekunle Philip ADEGOROYE
This tribute is to my very special Uncle (Baba Nike).
I did not get to spend as much time as I would have wished with him, but the little time we spent together was joyful and fulfilling. Uncle told many interesting stories and was a fountain of information, knowledge and sound advice. He always made me feel very welcome and loved. As I grew older I realized how precious these times together were. I thank God for our interactions. It was a privilege to have shared in his journey. Adios dear Uncle! You will be missed but fondly remembered!
Arinade Kolawole née Adegoroye.
A Tribute to My Father – Ambassador Victor A. Adegoroye
I remember daddy from my youth as an energetic and fun-loving father who exposed us to many educational experiences through travel, watching the early evening news, reading Newsweek magazine, eating at restaurants from different cultures, and the many intellectual conversations about international affairs, economics, politics and social issues. He was insistent that we all learn how to swim at a young age, and took pride in taking us in turn to official engagements which gave us a peek into his official life. He was not perfect as nobody is but he poured into our lives in many meaningful ways.
I last saw him in January 1, 2018, and though grown much in age was still strong and coherent with his copy of ‘Open Heavens’ by his side. I pray that his soul rests in perfect peace. Amen.
Tolu Peters (Mrs.)
From Harald von Riekhoff, via email:
"Dear Michael:
Thank you so much for writing. I would be grateful if you could let me know when you you decide to hold a memorial celebration for Keith's family and friends. I would very much like to attend if I am still in Ottawa at that time. I just sent my donation. I think it is magnificent idea to set up a scholarship in Keith's name for students who are interested in Upper Canada's history. I remember you as a little boy and I knew your father Michael Sr. very well.
Harald"
From Carter Elwood, Distinguished Research Professor, Department of History, Carleton University, via email:
"Dear Jill,
I was sad to see the announcement of Keith’s death in the paper on Saturday. He certainly had a full and productive life. You may be interested that forty years ago he corrected my use of “him” when I meant “him or her”. In my years in an administrative capacity, he never turned down any request I made to take on some teaching or departmental responsibility. I wish I could say that about other colleagues.
When he retired, I asked him how he would like the Department to mark the occasion. He simply said 'Mendelssohn'.
With condolences,
Carter"
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mommytaco shared a photo.A very nice obituary by Bruce Elliott on the Carleton University History Department website
https://carleton.ca/history/2018/the-history-department-mourns-the-loss-of-j-k-johnson-1930-2018/
TRIBUTE TO UNCLE VICTOR ADEYEYE ADEGOROYE
What I remember most fondly about Uncle was his boundless enthusiasm and zest for life, his vigour and energy as he engages me in dialogue, and his life stories with thrusts and parries worthy of a best selling novel. He was an excellent communicator, an irresistible company, prepared for every occasion with a quip, an anecdote, a wise word and a laugh. For a diplomat he was refreshingly straight talking and truthful. I could never fault his hard headed logic as he analyses scenarios and situations and cuts to the chase.
Uncle was a man that eschewed evil and wisely kept away from all its appearances. He was someone who did not suffer fools gladly. He fought tenaciously for what he believed was right and most of the time, he was right. He was careful not to partake in other people’s misadventures and he would give sycophants and opportunists a wide berth.
I would chuckle when I remember the twinkle in his eyes and his love for me and everyone around him. He fondly spoke of all his children and never faltered in his faith that they would do well and come to understand his deep and sometimes unspoken love for them. Uncle was a man of deep Christian faith who would say grace before he takes his meals, and always acknowledged the grace of God in his life.
I am greatly inspired by his love, his faith, his hopes, his consistency and his generosity. He successfully lived a simple life devoid of wanting his own way, wanting everything for himself, and wanting to appear important. What a father! What a man!
I will forever cherish the memories of the times we shared together, especially his trip to see me in Huddersfield, his prominent participation in my traditional marriage in Benin and the many gifts to me whenever I visited him in London and Lagos.
Doyin Adegoroye
Ian's tribute to Grandpa - playing Taps on his trumpet.
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John BritanikModupe Hughes — 2018, Lombard, IL, USA: "TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED UNCLE, VICTOR ADEYEYE ADEGOROYE
Uncle Victor was the youngest of two brothers, my father, Oluwadare Ithiel Adegoroye was the oldest, born to Pastor and Mrs. Adegoroye of the Methodist Church, Isikan Akure. My first recollection of my uncle was when I was quite young. My brother, Dele and I went to spend a weekend with him, auntie Duti, and my cousins Nike and Tolu, at their house in Ikoyi, Lagos Nigeria. Uncle was very charming and made time to play with us. Subsequently, we did not see much of him for a while because his work took him to Europe and many African countries (Foreign Ministry and Ambassadorship postings). I remember that on his return to Nigeria he would bring chocolates, toys and clothes for us. He was a loving, kind, and humble man. We were always excited to see him.
I had a close relationship with my uncle. He always kept in touch with me no matter where he was during his various travels all over the world. This act of kindness was particularly impressive to my husband Sorin.
He played a critical part in the courtship of my parents, and as such felt responsible for my mother’s welfare in my father’s absence.
I have a fond memory of a visit to Accra in 1969. Uncle was the High Commissioner to Ghana and Togo. Nike, his first daughter and I had so much fun during this visit. We met some heads of State during a special dinner party at his residence. The trip made an impression on me that triggered my love for visiting other countries of the world. Fortunately, my job made this possible.
Over the course of several years we sadly lost touch, but in 1994 we reconnected again. Uncle Victor, auntie Lizzy, Victor Jr., and Vivian spent part of their annual summer holidays at our house in Lombard, Illinois USA. My sweetie Pie, Sorin and I often visited the family in London, Maryland or New Jersey for Christmas, or on weekends.
Sorin and I learnt a lot from Uncle, especially his love of classical and other beautiful music from around the world, and fine wines. He taught Sorin how to make The Commodore Special, which was his favorite drink when he was the Commodore at the Boat Club, Lagos. It became one of Sorin’s favorite drinks.
Uncle was a sophisticated, hard-working and well-educated man who loved and sacrificed a lot for his family. We are so glad that we were able to celebrate his 90th birthday with him. He will be missed. May he rest in peace. May God bless and comfort all his family members, especially my aunties and cousins. We look forward to the resurrection day, and the great reunion of all of us with our loved ones who have gone to sleep.
We miss our beloved Uncle so much.
Sorin & Dupe Hughes
Zigmond did not die with his parents, his mother passed away in 1937, a year after Zigmond was born. and his father was deported by the Germans to do forced labour. Zigmond, his aunt and two cousins were sent to the Mechelen internment camp, and then to Auschwitz, where they were gassed on May 21, 1944.
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Mum & Dad, port visit to Edinburgh during his 80th birthday cruise of the Baltic, 2010
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Dad & Matthew, at his convocation from Concordia, circa 1994?
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I owe Keith and all of you a lot for allowing your home to be a refuge for me at different times of my life. I remember his wry, sly, sense of humour- he didn't have to even say anything to make you feel like he was having a good joke. I have a mental image of him quietly enjoying a book or crossword puzzle in the living room, no matter what chaos was going on around him.
My condolences on behalf of all the Langfords to whom he was a great friend.
Rob
From Don Smith, Professor Emeritus of History, University of Calgary, via email:
"To the family of Keith Johnson,
Just a short note to say how sad I was to hear that Keith had passed away. Over many years he helped me with occasional questions on John A. Macdonald. I was most grateful for his replies.
Please give my very best wishes to Jill Vickers, Keith's 'partner, husband and best friend' (what a wonderful description). My thoughts are with her and all the Johnson family at this very difficult time."
From Fred Euringer, via email:
"Jill:
Saturday’s Globe opened a vault of memories, among the top of which was Keith and I running my lines for Waiting for Godot in 1957, I think it was, in our rambling attic flat on Poplar Plains Rd. What I remember as most distinctively JOHNSONIAN is that Keith knew all of everybody’s’ lines in the play long before I knew a smidgeon of mine.
In addition to having a prodigious memory, he was a man of enormous, unforgettable, and gentle, wit.
Although I haven’t seen much of you in the past few years, (I don’t travel well any more) he was a good friend and I shall miss him. Please forward details of the memorial."
Heidi McDonell, via Facebook:
"I took his early Ontario History course and loved it. He always had an exam question about status of women in that historical period. My family were homesteaders in Glengary County so I shared his interest in that time and space.
I remember most of lectures. Lots of social history. Some of it challenging stereotypes of Ontario. For example the lack of organized religion in many places. Lots of brewing of alcohol beside the grain mills. A great story in contrast to the temperance movement in Toronto. I guess the brewing was the precursor to temperance movement. Lol"
Frank Smith, via Facebook:
"My deepest condolences Michael. Your Dad taught me at Carleton University. I loved his history class. A great man.
I remember your Dad taught the history courses I took with Professor Blair Neatby. I just looked up Professor Neatby out of curiosity and see he passed away in March."
From André Plourde, Dean, Faculty of Public Affairs, Carleton University, via email:
"Dear Professor Vickers and family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences. My colleagues and I were surprised and saddened to hear about Professor Johnson leaving us so suddenly. I hope that you will find solace in friends and family in these difficult times.
Professor Johnson made important contributions to the study of Canadian History and was a highly regarded colleague, friend and mentor to faculty members and students alike here at Carleton. Please take care."
Dear Family,
I’d like to share a few words about Dad with you.
I remember Dad was always doing something. You never really saw Dad just doing nothing when he was well. He had some really neat hobbies, especially in the eyes of a kid. He built and flew model airplanes. I remember going out with him to a big field and watching him fly them. Dad let us kids fly them too, when we were old enough. I remember always flying them into the ground when it was my turn. But boy was it fun!
I remember Dad taking us kids fishing. He loved to fish and had all the gear for it. It was a hobby that Dad passed on to us kids and I think we all really enjoyed it.
Dad also liked to go shooting with his friends. I remember going to the skeet range with Dad and watching him blast the clay pigeons out of the sky with his shotgun. He was a good shot. I had to hold my ears when he was shooting, but that was really cool! I remember watching Dad shoot rats in the garbage pit near out house in Italy. He would just lay on the ground and patiently wait. When the rats came running across, POW! Dad would nail them. I never saw him miss. I also remember listening to Dad tell stories about shooting jack rabbits in Colorado before I was born.
But I think photography was Dad’s favorite and most enduring hobby. I remember Dad teaching himself all the basic techniques through a correspondence course and going to classes. He took photography very seriously and paid close attention to all the different settings and lighting. He became very skilled at it. It was because of Dad that I became interested in photography. I didn’t have the patience to become as skilled as Dad, but I think I enjoyed it just as much. I remember always talking about cameras with Dad. Whenever we visited, he would break out his latest gear and tell me all about it. I remember Dad using his projector to show us his pictures. He had a passion for all things related to photography. I was fortunate to have been able to share that with him and to have had the opportunity to learn from his experience and expertise.
When Dad wasn’t involved in one of these hobbies, I remember he was always down in the basement “putzing” around, as he would call it, with some electronic or woodworking project. I remember he was always standing in front of his workbench with his cigar in his mouth. When you asked him what he was doing, he was always happy to tell you all about it.
I remember Dad could fix just about anything. If something broke – no need to worry – Dad would fix it. I even remember Dad on the roof of the house fixing the chimney.
I remember when Dad did something, he always did it right. You wouldn’t get anything “half-assed” out of Dad. He was very patient and did it right the first time and always did a good job.
I remember sensing a feeling of confidence in everything Dad did. If things didn’t go right, Dad would just take care of it. He was decisive in what he did but always had a “plan B.” I remember driving from Massachusetts to Pittsburgh with Dad. It was just me and him. We were in the VW Bus loaded down with bunkbeds and other stuff. It was early on a Sunday morning in the 70’s during the gas shortages. We were near the top of a mountain on the PA turnpike and the bus began sputtering and running out of gas. I remember Dad coaxing the bus for another 100 feet of so until we reached the top. And then we coasted down the mountain for several miles and pulled into a gas station that had just opened. Dad got out of the bus and filled it with gas like he had planned it that way.
I remember Dad always looked sharp. He always took his time getting ready to go out. He wouldn’t go out until everything was neat and tidy. Of course, we were always running late for church on Sunday morning, but Dad always looked good!
Dad could be very serious and when he was, you knew he meant business. But Dad also liked to have fun and relax. I remember when Dad was working, he would come home after work and have a shot of Scotch with Mom. They would talk and laugh and carry on. When we would go to Pittsburgh and visit family, you could always hear Dad laughing and enjoying himself. It was the same way when folks visited our house. Whether it was family or the local priest, there was always lots of laughter in the house. It was a fun thing to just listen in.
I remember when you would go out to dinner with Dad it was always a three hour event. He loved to take his time and relax, talk and enjoy eating. And Dad always paid for everything.
When I look back at all the good things about Dad, I realize how lucky I am, how fortunate I was to have benefited from them, and how they shaped my life in many positive ways. Dad wasn’t the type to sit down with you and tell what was best for you. Instead, he showed you by example throughout his life. When I think about it, a lot of things I have succeeded with I owe, in some way, to Dad’s fine example. He was a good man and I will miss him dearly.
David Britanik
From Linda and Greg Kealey, via email:
"Greg and I send our condolences to Jill and family on the sudden death of Keith. We saw the notice in the Globe and Mail yesterday.
I remember spending enjoyable times with Jill and Keith many years ago when they lived in the Glebe and Jill and I were working on women’s issues. My trips to Ottawa were always enriched by an invitation to dinner with the family. Keith was always welcoming. His work as an historian of Upper Canada will continue to be important and remembered. Please let us know about any memorial service as we are sometimes in Ottawa visiting our daughter.
Dad cleaning the pike that Calum and I inadvertently caught, Portland, 2016
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"Dear Jill and family,
John and I want to extend our profound sympathy for you at the loss of your dear Keith. The obituary was beautiful and rightly remarked on his gentle, intelligent, humorous presence as well as the fact that, as John has confirmed, he was a very good historian.
We would like very much to participate in whatever event is planned to honour his life and his memory. Please let us know the details of time and place."
Thank you for coming into our lives mama... We miss you. You have sown great seeds, and we are glad you did.
oyo
Dad, in full Southern-lawyer mode, at Mary's M.A. convocation from U of T, 1995
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From Madeleine Ray, via email:
"Dear Family of Keith,
I was saddened at the news of Olie’s passing and know that it will be felt as a great loss for you all. Olie was one of my favourite people for all the reasons you list in the Globe’s obituary. He was kind and gentle and had SUCH a delightful wit and sense of humour. My memory of him is with that twitch of a smile on his face.
My thoughts are with you all at this sad time, especially with you Jill. Hope you don’t mind the ‘Olie’ reference. It’s the only name I knew him by.
The world will be a bleaker place without him in it.
Fondest regards."
From Doug & Anna McCalla via email:
"Dear Jill (and Johnson family),
We saw the notice of Keith's death in today's newspaper and would appreciate knowing more about the projected scholarship in his memory.
His own writing and editing leave an enduring intellectual legacy. There's also a much wider and less visible legacy. He was the ideal colleague, setting -- and expecting -- high scholarly standards in the most generous and sympathetic way. In my case, I am abidingly grateful for his encouragement of my work on Upper Canada. He shared my ambition for the research, pushed me to pursue it to the fullest, and gave me the confidence to bring it off.
Please accept our deepest sympathy in your loss.
From Pauline Rankin via email:
"I am in Ukraine at the moment and heard of Keith ‘s passing via Facebook. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of visiting you both at Portland and will always remember Keith’s dry wit.
I know there are a ton of tasks to work through at this difficult time. Please know you are in my thoughts. With sincerest condolences, Pauline"
Monty Python was one of the great things that Dad shared with us as kids.
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I wandered lonely as a cloud
That floats on high o'er vales and hills,
When all at once I saw a crowd,
A host, of golden daffodils;
Beside the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.
Continuous as the stars that shine
And twinkle on the milky way,
They stretched in never-ending line
Along the margin of a bay:
Ten thousand saw I at a glance,
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.
The waves beside them danced; but they
Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:
A poet could not but be gay,
In such a jocund company:
I gazed—and gazed—but little thought
What wealth the show to me had brought:
For oft, when on my couch I lie
In vacant or in pensive mood,
They flash upon that inward eye
Which is the bliss of solitude;
And then my heart with pleasure fills,
And dances with the daffodils.
— WILLIAM WORDSWORTH
aberkeyokay1My wife and I just celebrated our 9th anniversary yesterday and I decided to look Stephen up online to see what he has been up to. I am so saddened to learn of his loss. Stephen photographed our wedding and created a quick bond with us as he did. A true master of his craft. He talked about starting a photography class or school - and I was planning on coming from Virginia to participate. I am sorry for all of the family and friends who lost Stephen - in just a short time in his company, it was clear he was one of a kind. RIP. Sincerely, Glenn Lock
glennlockI miss you dearly, mom. ❤
Mom, I was having a rough day the other day. I felt you sent me those messages in those cards. For that I'm grateful. Thank you so much just for being there for me. It's good to know how much you love and care about me. I loved the cards so I bought them. I'm going to put them in a special memory box I make for you. Love you, mom!
aberkeyI would like to share a few highlights about my Dad in his roles as a man, husband,
father, and grandfather.
As a man he was a humble, down-to-earth, straightforward type of guy. He got along
with everyone and would not hesitate to help out a stranger or neighbor in need
with a car or house problem. He had a sense of humor for nearly every situation and
loved to talk about his life experiences when we watched war movies and
documentaries.
As a husband, he was happily married for nearly 64 years. This required a great
deal of love, patience, hard work and compromising especially when raising a large
family. I grew up in this environment and his example greatly influenced my
marriage and family life.
As a father, he had to spread his time across 5 kids up to 10 years apart in age and
he did it well. He was the technical expert when helping us with our homework in
math and science. He helped us learn essential life skills by letting us help him with
his carpentry, plumbing and car repair projects. He was very proud of his tools and
always eager to demonstrate their use and safety concerns. He also taught us that
life was not all work and introduced us to his many hobbies such as fishing,
photography, model planes and trains.
As a grandfather he was extremely proud of his grandchildren Monica, Andrea and
Ian. They gave him great joy and it was a great joy for us to see him interact with
the kids. The summer visits and cross-country trips made a lasting impression on
them and they continue to talk about it to this day.
There were many medical challenges over the last several years, but Dad always
managed to keep his good spirit and sense of humor through it all. He will be
greatly missed.
Richard John Britanik Jr.
Memories of Dad from the perspective of his youngest son
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Dad set the bar high on what it means to be a good father and a good person, with
his thoughtfulness, his peaceful disposition, his patience, and his love.
Dad believed strongly that a father should provide for his family, and he worked hard
in support of that belief.
He was up early in morning, and he left for work before us kids went to school.
He would come home in the afternoon and stand in the kitchen, reading the paper to unwind.
He especially liked reading the funnies.
I would be home from school and usually in the family room on the couch watching tv.
Dad would come in and stand behind me and laugh himself to tears watching Bugs Bunny
cartoons or especially his favorite, Tom & Jerry.
Often Dad would grab a cigar (or cee-gar as he called it) and go down in the basement to
"putsy".
[Part of Dad's sense of humor was to intentionally mispronounce words, like cee-gar (cigar),
yose-mite sam (Yosemite Sam), and pooniac (pontiac)]
In addition to his photography hobby, Dad loved wood-working and electronics projects.
He could usually be found down in the basement fixing something, or doing a wood-working
or electronics project, or cleaning his cameras.
One time he would be building something out of wood, like the divider wall in the basement
or a desk for me in my room – a desk I still use everyday. Other times he would be working with electronics, like building a battery charger for one of his camera flash units or fixing something else electrical.
I remember when Dad modified the living room tv cart, adding a wood platform and a
ball-bearing swivel so we could watch our new color tv from both the couch and the dining
table.
Dad was creative - He always had good ideas.
Dad was my mentor.
Many times I would be down in the basement with him (where Dad had the coolest tools).
I learned a lot about "fixing stuff" from watching him in the basement.
He was patient with me, and he often told me about what he was doing, and how to do it right.
When I was little, he gave me my own toolbox with a hammer and screwdriver so I could have
cool tools just like him. He gave me some scrap wood and a bunch of screws and nails and
let me have at it. As I got a little older my interests turned to electronics, and he gave
me wires, switches, light bulbs and a battery holder to play with and showed me how it all
worked. Later on he taught me how to solder on some old scrap circuit boards, and he gave
me my own electronics toolbox, so I could have cool tools just like Dad.
I was hooked and eventually went on to study electrical engineering in college - all because
my Dad had patience and took the time to share his knowledge with me while he was putsying in the basement.
I graduated with my Masters from Cleveland State and it came time for me to leave the nest
to pursue further studies at the University of Arizona. Having a son of my own now has
afforded me some perspective on how hard that must have been for Dad. He stayed home from work that August day when I left, making sure I was going to be OK and prepared for a safe trip. After all, I was driving diagonally across the country, from Cleveland to Tucson,
in a beater Pontiac with a rusted rear frame and a bouncing bumper to go with it.
But Dad let me go. He let me follow my dreams.
Being the loving father he was, he took off work and came out to Tucson to check on me a couple of months later in October. He ate the meals I cooked, like shake-n-bake chicken and rice, omelets, and mac-n-cheese and beef - All staples of the graduate student's diet. He even drove my beater Pontiac up to Mount Lemmon and back. Dad was a brave man!
Even as I was pursuing an advanced engineering degree, I was still learning more from
Dad. When I was living in my first home in Tucson, I had major shower "issues". Dad
showed me how to solder copper pipe in the wall, the right way, without burning the house
down in the process. As always, Dad had good ideas, helping me figure out how to get the new valves installed.
Now after his passing, I'm still learning to be a better person from Dad, my mentor, through reflection on the lessons he taught, the examples he set, and his thoughtfulness, his peaceful disposition, his patience, and his love.
I miss you so much mom. I wish you could hug me today.
aberkey
Daddy Rest in Perfect Peace in the bosom of our maker till we meet again. Da yaw) ojogban
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Dad rest in peace
leebabaI miss you so much! We didnt always see eye to eye.. but you were my very first best friend and the keeper of so many secrets.. I love you Big Brother, think about you everyday ❤❤
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Lorna’s Eulogy (1937-2018) Given at her funeral April 6, 2018 St. Patrick's Basilica
Thank you to all of you from my father David Albuquerque, my brother Patrick, my sisters Cheryl and Lisa and their partners Kishor and Zbigniew and to my family Dorian and Siobhan. We are grateful that you are here to share in this special service for our mother Lorna Albuquerque, to honor her life and to celebrate together.
As a family we have been spending a lot of time together in these last few weeks as mum’s time on this earth drew to a close. Talking, reminiscing, sharing stories. And knowing all the while that this was exactly what she would want. She would likely say: “okay – it’s okay to cry if you want to or need to --- do – but also rejoice in what you have, think of the people you have in your life, be grateful for every minute”. She might pause and then say, “sometimes I just think about life like this and about just how lucky I am - how fortunate we all are – and to be in Canada!”
Lorna grew up in Ireland - #6 of 7 kids – it was still during the time of unrest in Ireland and a challenging time to find work. Kids were encouraged to get trades and jobs and that often took them away from home at a young age. It was tough at times although she chose to remember the good. Lorna always wanted to be a nurse and ended up in Manchester for her training – the very place where she was to meet and then marry her husband David – the young surgeon. They fell in love and a bond was woven held strongly by their faith despite the times and their upbringings. Coming to Canada was not a direct affair but a rather circuitous route taking them to various stops in the UK, India and back again before settling in Canada.
Without extended family – our parents had to depend on each other and build a life for their family. And they did just that – they worked together and gave us children all the experiences – ice skating, curling, corn roasts and horseback riding, swimming, badminton, tennis and much more. They built a life full of friends some that have spanned the entire time that they have been in Canada.
Mum was an exceedingly strong woman, an important role model to us over the years.
She was there for us – each and every one of us – and there for us in the way we needed. And she ran the house – cooked, cleaned, dealt out the chores, typed reports for a couple of her kids who were always finishing things at the last minute, she knit sweaters, made skating outfits, drove us everywhere, braided countless heads of hair – she could do that in her sleep! These are things to be thankful for but this misses something --- it misses that this was her legacy – her family was her legacy. These were her gifts to us always given, seldom needing until that became necessary later.
Mum had a special presence about her – you noticed her when she came into a room - a kind of life force that people were drawn to this. Naturally on the shy side this was balanced nicely by a completely mischievous side. She loved to laugh and tell stories and had such a way with words. The poem on the card you received has Woodsworth’s daffodils – a poem she was happy to recite over her life time having loved and memorized it in her youth. It has a touch of the wonder of things, of how beauty is worth it although fleeting – these are things that Lorna deeply understood.
The birth of Siobhan, her grandchild was special for both of our parents and the bond that Amma formed with Siobhan was unbreakable – it was delightful to see them in action - to watch mum play, sing and love her ‘sausage pudding’.
Mum opened our eyes and palates in life and for that we are all so grateful. And this was all in the service of connecting with others – something that she was so very good at, so easy for her to tune in to another person and listen to their story – shutting out all else for the moment. This is when she shone and I think received such pleasure in life. Something as a family we recently witnessed as our mother rallied in her last days to spend a day with us – smiling, talking, laughing, reaching out to touch our foreheads as a blessing, but also a touch of such tenderness and such love.
It is hard to say good bye to this woman. Really hard
It is by far --- better to picture her on the next part of her journey. Face alight, head and nose turned up, back straight and looking ahead with a smile of anticipation.
We love you and we will always cherish you in our hearts.
from Esmond Pereira in Sydney, Australia:
Dear David,
I was surprised and saddened to learn of the untimely passing away of your dear wife and soulmate Lorna. She was indeed a loveable person,always cheerful, witty and an ideal ,caring wife to you and mother of your children. I realise how grief stricken you will be after sharing 57 years of happy married life with her. However she is now free from the travails of her earthly life and is enjoying eternal bliss with her Creator.My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your children and pray that the Almighty will comfort all of you in sustaining your grief and grievous loss. Bye for now,
Love and Best Wishes,
Esmond.
My dear David,
Just heard from Joy's communication that dear Lorna passed away on Good Friday morning and that all the family was with her. My heartfelt condolences to you, Patrick, Joy, Cheryl and Lisa and their families. All of you have surrounded her with love ever since she was admitted to the Home - praise the Lord!
You will feel the loss of Lorna most deeply, David. I will offer a Mass for dear Lorna that she may now enjoy the fullness of life and love in God's presence, and will continue praying for you and all the family.
In sorrow and with love
Yours affectionately
Father Rex
St. Joseph's College
Tiruchirapalli
Tamil Nadu
from Sheila Albuquerque in Geneva:
Dearest David,
I am so sorry to hear the sad news of Lorna's passing away. Charmaine, Stefanie, Paul and Denise join me in sending you, Patrick, Joy, Cheryl and Lisa our deepest sympathies in your bereavement. Your loss is our loss too as both our families have spent much time together in past and present times. I cannot forget that you both were there to console me when Bassy passed away. May Lorna's dear soul rest in peace. I will offer a Mass for the repose of her soul.
I am with you in spirit, dear David, in these sorrowful moments. I pray that God will console you in your grief and give you the courage to face this difficult time.
Thinking to you, Patrick, Joy, Cheryl and Lisa,
Yours in sympathy,
Sheila
Dear David and children, we are grieved to hear that dear Lorna has passed away. Our condolences and sympathy. We had met her only once briefly in Delhi over 50 years ago and still remember her as a charming and affectionate person. "When we die we go but to God, and God is always near us". With our love, Beeba, Austen and family.
joy1I am thinking of you all on this day, as you lad your mum to rest. I wish I could be there but I am in spirit. I love you all and your parents as my own. I love your mum's inspiration, strength, beauty, honesty, stubbornness, laughter, smile and love. She was amazing and passed that to her kids.
love +++ Martine Comty-Bingham
Sending much love to David, Lisa, Joy, Cheryl, Patrick and all the extensions, from the entire McKenzie clan - Lorna was truly one of a kind, a wonderful, fabulous force to be reckoned with!!! And when she and mom got together, double the force!!! Fate brought Mom and Lorna together in Brandon in the 70’s as nurses and they became instant soul sisters, bringing our two families together in a friendship that spanned decades and many miles. Lorna had that unstoppable joie de vivre, an infectious sense of adventure AND mischief(!), a beautiful kind heart, and a deep soulful faith in the world. We all LOVED her!! She was a gift and a giver, her energy will live on and her memory treasured in our hearts. We are with you, across the miles and will say a prayer on Friday……. Much love, Johanne and Barry et al – Norma, and John (they will be having a good laugh together), Laurel, Karen, Patti and Gord xxoo
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aberkey shared a video.Also Chris is doing really well. He has adjusted to the change and Darla is doing a good job taking care of him. Donna and Gerry have been more involved lately too which is a good thing. I send Chris packages for the holidays so he still gets things like you used to do for him. Blake got a new job and I'm hopping it will help him to recover. I think you know what I mean. I love you so much mom.
aberkeyMom, I have been having a hard time lately. Not everyone understands how much you meant to me and the very special person I know you to be. But I got a second job. I'm a banquet server. I work weddings and parties. I really enjoy it and it helps me to not be sad. I get to take part in peoples special moments. Being around others having fun reminds me their is joy in the world and makes me want to be happy. It also helps to know there are others dealing with things just like I am. I love you mom. I know you would have like me having this job too.
aberkeyMy memories of Lorna, go back to the late 1960’s - when I had the great fortune of having Dr. David Albuquerque as one of my attendings in Surgery at St. Marthas Hospital in our home town of Bangalore, India. It was a privilege to also be related to this great teacher. Sometime during this brief period, I had occasions to meet Lorna, at St. John’s Medical School functions but also from visiting them at their home. Like my other classmates we were struck by the dignified charm and grace of this young “foreigner” . She may have looked foreign, but we felt that she was so accepting and adaptive to our ways and manners. Decades later my wife Rita and I caught up with our teacher, Lorna and the Albuquerque family in Chicago. What a joyful memorable weekend it was. My original impressions of Lorna were totally confirmed - she was still all charm, grace and warmth, but also sparkled with her conversation and gentle humor. Sweet memories linger. We grieve with you the loss of this happy lovely lady. God Bless you all. Peter and Rita Noronha and family.
peter noronha
Dear David, Joy, Patrick, Lisa, Cheryl & family, I am so sorry to hear of Lorna's passing. I have added a picture of your beautiful wife & mother at my sister Anna's wedding at the Rideau Club in Ottawa. My parent's house, across the street in the Glebe was overflowing with relatives, so Lorna very kindly offered her guest room to me. We had a wonderful time both at the wedding, and the day before at Anna's Hen Party, on a sunny summer afternoon at the Ritz Cafe on the canal. Lorna was a special person who could light up any room she entered, our family will miss her. Lots of love, Fiona & family
fiona shared a photo.Message from dear friends Des and Kathy Kadambi (and family)
To David ,Joy, Patrick ,Cheryl ,Lisa and all your members.
Des and I send our deepest condolences to you all upon the passing of your Mother ,Lorna .
Your whole family were very special to us when we arrived from the UK . I will be forever grateful to Lorna and David for helping us adjust to life on the Canadian Prairies in the 1970's .
So many memories come to mind when I think of her . Firstly , Lorna was a beautiful human being , both inside and out . She was kind ,thoughtful, considerate, a good listener, a quick wit , great cook and hostess --the "life and soul "of many a Brandon party and just plain fun to be with . It was always a delight to be in her company whether it was reading Irish Poetry together or her 'trying ' to teach me how to cook Indian dishes or even improving my Badminton skills at the Brandon YMCA and Tennis at the Golf and Country club.
I watched her be a great wife and mother and hoped I'd be just the same as my children came along . We got along so well because we had a lot in common and she understood how I missed my Parents and school age siblings back home.
I really missed her when the family moved to Winnipeg only to have her move to Ottawa when we moved to Winnipeg. What I missed most, was the soft Irish accent and that unforgettable smile .
Rest in Peace Lorna .
God bless you all .
Kathy and Des Kadambi.
Dear David, Joy, Cheryl, Lisa and Patrick, we are so sad to hear of Lorna's passing and are sending much love from your Aussie family. We all have so many fond memories of our sparkling Auntie Lorna. She was always the one with a twinkle in her eye looking like mischief! I know dad had an especially soft spot for Lorna and he and mum treasured their holidays together (albeit a while ago now). She was always the light in the room. The world is definitely a better place for having had Lorna in it. She is at peace now. Stay strong at this difficult time and know that we are with you. Much love, Pauline, Ang, Karen, Mark and Paul xx
angd96
Fun times!
joy1 shared a photo.From friends Ben & Violette;
REMEMBERING LORNA
I think of Lorna and I smile. I see her now in Cáceres, SPAIN.
I see her as she walks across the Plaza Santa Maria and enters under the arches that lead to the market stalls.
A jewelled gypsy, a black bearded Moroccan and a young almond eyed Andalusian fix the trinkets, scarfs, leather purses and handbags to hooks hanging from strings tied up on the criss cross frames that hold the canvass ceilings.
Boxes of dates and nuts and candies gleam in the morning sunshine.
Mixed scents of spices, coffee, tobacco and diesel permeate the chilly air.
As Lorna arrives, the gypsy lady holds out a blue silk scarf.
The Moroccan waves his hands, steps forward, looks Lorna in the eyes and offers her the brown leather handbag with gold snaps and a long wide strap.
The Andalusian senorita will give her a deal on the dates, nuts and candies.
She comes out from under the arches leaving smiling faces behind. Knotted around her neck is a blue scarf waving in the chilly breeze. As she waltzes across the plaza to where Violette, David and I are drinking our morning cafe- con- leche, she smiles, reaches into her handbag and pulls out 6 dates clinging to a bending branch. She picks off the six and places them gently in front of us. She then does a pas de deux around the table, takes a rickety chair and sits down.
WHEN LORNA MOVED, IT WAS A MOMENT OF DANCE.
In Toledo, she danced with El Greco to the strumming of a Greek mandolin.
In Salamanca, the snow fell while Lorna danced to the howling twirling whirling wind.
In Soria she waltzed around the big stone church.
In Zaragoza she fox trotted up the hill to the shopping centre.
In Valencia she challenged the fire cracker bang with an Irish jig.
And in Nerja, her back arched and her heels pounded on the tiled stones. With a flamenco flare, she slid across the Balcon of Europa.
When the dancing stopped, we huddled around the paper towelled table tasting tapas and drinking wine.
Sunday brunch at Sloan’s or the English breakfast at Jamaica was always a treat; But what we enjoyed most of all was Lorna telling the amazing stories of her life (some sad, some happy):
The story of Ireland and her native village, Cavan
Romance in Manchester,
High Adventure in India,
Extreme adventure in Rapid City and Winnipeg,
Happy times in Ottawa with family and granddaughter, Siobhan.
A great story teller she was. And she could sing in Irish too. So proud she was of the Irish in her.
And now Lorna, you are happy with Christ.
You are dancing and singing with the angels and archangels. You are telling the story of Spain.
Eternity will be kind to you since you brought smiles to the faces of the many people you met.
Bye Lorna. We will miss you.
Ben and Violette , April, 2018.
Message from Nettie (and John) Crossley -long term friends of Lorna and David. We first met in 1959 when John and David worked together at the Jewish Hospital, Manchester. Lorna and Nettie became best friends -both of them chatty celts (Irish and Welsh).
They spent many happy day trips together -driving to Chester with Lorna heavily pregnant "No problem with two doctors in the car"...Lorna gave birth to Patrick 48 hours later. Not much spare cash between them Lorna and Nettie would walk with their prams to Love Lane, share a pot of tea and a cake. Lorna -an excellent cook would call "Just made a fabulous curry -too much for David -come on over...." John would be out of the door before the phone call had ended.
Lorna and David moved to Canada -us to South Wales. Would we meet again? You bet! Lorna came to our daughter Janet's wedding in 1988 and again to Juliet's in 2000 where Lorna entertained our new Norwegian in-laws. In 1990 we visited Canada for Lorna's Thanksgiving supper in Winnipeg-a trip to Banff and a round of golf. In 1998 we met in Sydney for a non stop catch up lunch at the Opera House.
We kept in touch -occasional phone calls and a Christmas Card every year -full of family events and stories. Lorna was so proud of her granddaughter, children and of David. Her last card to us said the following "God bless you and the family and do send me some photographs".
Lorna is my happy, caring, generous, life-long friend -such joyful memories will never fade. Nettie Crossley
Amma, we loved that you made us feel human. The center of attention. A big part of our family. We shall miss sitting in your lap, playing with you and making you the center of our world. We shall never forget how you made us feel. Your love bunnies, Finn & Lola"
tony shared a photo.From a dear family friend - a friendship that started when we moved to Canada in 1969!! Thank you Jan for your lovely memories ....
"My sympathy to your Dad and all the family. I am not sure of the year you moved to Rapid City but we have kept in touch for over 40 years. I have been thinking about our friendship all day and want to share a few of my memories. I was the station agent and I remember a delivery of an appliance or something to the new doctor in town. From there we progressed to social events and sharing school activities. I remember Sunday suppers with 8 well behaved kids in the house. From there we went to suppers with your family in Brandon and then we all ended up in Winnipeg. I remember getting a call from Lorna at Christmas asking if she could bring an additional guest to supper. You had acquired a new puppy and of course the puppy was welcome. Lorna and I met for supper near Polo Park one night after work and closed out the place at 11. We were honored to be invited to supper to meet Lorna's brother when he came for a visit. A week-end was enjoyed at our cottage. The boat ride was almost a disaster as Lorna jumped up at the sight of a frog in the boat. Suppers seemed to be our thing and we enjoyed a lovely meal together in the Victoria condo. My last contact was a chance encounter and hug at the entrance of a store in Winnipeg. The move had been made to Ottawa and Lorna was in Winnipeg for a visit. We were both in a hurry that day. I am thankful we kept in touch at Christmas all these years. Lorna was a special person in my life. I am sorry she had such a struggle at the end but that is over now and we will have our memories. Thanks for letting me share mine. Jan"
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest condolences.
helen squires
Lorna taught me how to look well beyond her illness. And learn how to love, care and communicate with her in ways I had never imagined before. Playfully. I loved being around her. Being silly. Light hearted. Always. I have many rich memories of my time with her. Memories I will draw upon to keep her alive in my thoughts, my heart for years to come. Love, Kishore
[email protected] shared a photo.from Randy Joyce of Winnipeg: I remember meeting your Mum for the first time. You took me to lunch at an Indian restaurant on Ellice. As we walked in you were surprised to hear laughter you recognized. It was your Mum and a friend. You introduced us and your Mum was so happy to meet me. Like someone she had been waiting to meet for some time. We laughed and jabbered on like old friends. It was this way every time we met. She took the time to remember things about me. That was nice. Her happy face, warm heart, sparkling eyes, and laughter ( sometimes mischievous ) is what I'll remember.
lorna
Thank you Iris for your words ("I loved her so much! I'm so sorry for your loss!) and the photo you sent. We have known each other over a lifetime and shared so many vacations and celebrations together - some of them quite sad. Comtys and the Albuquerques timeless friendship. xoxo
joy1 shared a photo.Fireflies at night peaceful and beautiful for you what you would have liked.
aberkey shared a video.To you mom a garden for you!
aberkey shared a video.My name is Tisa Kerlegon. I once knew Dean. I was a part of his life for nine years. He was a husband, a father with two children Jennifer and Brian. He liked doing everything in life. He always wanted too children, a house, and a sail boat. His memory lives.
eaglecrest1I love you mom!
aberkeyI Love you mom!
aberkeyMa was the best Mother-In-Law I ever could wish for. She helped Nan and I with our babies and worked more than she should have when she was with us. We took many trips together in the U.S. and in Thailand. I'm happy that she is now in Heaven with Jesus!
In loving memory, Ron Paden
Ama and Agong visit NC in 2006.
catty kho shared a video.
I loved Ama very much. When she stayed with us when I was a child, she met me at the bus stop to make sure I safely came home from school. She cared for us in practical ways and I also saw her pray for us, pray for her family and read her Chinese bible. I will always remember her laugh, how she would hold my hands and say "gang gang" and "soi mag", the way she said "Allo" when she answered the phone, the way she used plastic bags to organize many things. :) I enjoyed the long visits I had with her in Thailand during my college years. She protected me and cared for me, even then. After I had my firstborn in 2005, she was 82 years old, yet made the long trek to visit her 5 month old great granddaughter. I wish the ocean between us was not so great and that I had more time to introduce her to each of my kids. I am proud of the legacy of faith in God she had that I can share with my children. Because of our faith in Jesus, I look forward to seeing her again in heaven.
mommytacoThank you Leisei Chen for sharing your experience with Honorable Michael White. As a student of violin, Michael's playing, and contributions to this life help to nourish my inspiration. And knowing that he too appreciated Ray Nance- who along with Stuff Smith are my favorite violinists has stirred me to explore further the work of this master, who has merely dropped his mortal coil, yet continues, spiritually. Blessings Family, Friends, lovers of the Good. sincerely, tftka dawidalle
greencardIt was an honor and pleasure to have known Brother Doug all these years. Doug was always there for a word of encouragement and counsel related to serving Christ and our church. We've known him and his precious wife Mary since attending Lindale Church in 1975. He was a true friend and an example of what it is to be a Believer. He demonstrated his love in many ways, especially expressing his kindness to everyone he met. Our heartfelt prayers for Mary and their family as they pass through this moment in time. May our Lord bring you peace and comfort! Brother Doug, we'll see you soon!
We love you!
Rudy & Irma Rodriguez
Mary and I are saddened by the news of Doug's death. He was my friend, one of the first men to befriend me when I started attending Lindale. He was among the kindest men I've ever known. I am so looking forward to reuniting with him in heaven. Like the first day I went to Lindale, I believe he'll be one of the first people to meet me. We will be praying that the Lord will bring comfort to Mary and the family and all those who loved this kind servant of Christ.
We love you guys,
Bill and Mary
We were blessed to know and love Doug, and we thank God for that privilege and honor. He truly was a man of God, a genuine Christian who followed Christ's example all the days of his long life. We will miss him greatly. With our deepest sympathy, love, and prayers for you, his precious family.
Bruce & Judy Wagner Fuller
Though we only met him a couple times it was clear both how much he loved his family and how much he was loved by them. Our continued prayers for all. With much love,
Erik & Angela Wagner
utilitymayorSomeone once said "Time is perhaps our most precious commodity, and once it passes, it is lost forever"
We were in 100 when we first met in university. Full of life you were, full of energy, handsome, always had a smile on your face, focused and ambitious. I guess that was the initial attraction until I found out the substance behind a man of vision.
After school days and our days in RCF LAUTECH, we met in a strange man land; Akwa Ibom(Eket), we stayed together in RCCF Family House, we did so lot things together. Tosin, there was indeed a time we hung out, ate, talked, danced and chat but all of that is gone now and all that is left now are the memories. Tosin, you then moved to the states and we kept in touch via chats and calls. You were focused to achieve your primary and secondary goals in the states.
Ore, as I loved to call you; you were born a star, remained so and even died a gold star. You touched my life in many ways. I admired you, I loved you and adored you greatly. A call from you always brought a smile to my face. Oh, I wish to see your caller ID on my phone now. I miss you, brother. The world missed you cause you made such a huge difference. I often wondered why you were so loved, adored and admired by many, but now I know the reason why "Good people go only too soon, they have only a short time to leave their footprints in the sand of time".
If tears could build a stairway and walk memory lane, I would walk right up to heaven. No farewell words were ever spoken. No time to say good bye. My heart, it aches in sadness. What it meant to loose you, no one will ever understand
high in your heavenly home. I would rather have you closer but God only knows. You will not be forgotten. I promise you this.
Love you forever!
Till we meet again!!
Rest well my friend!!!
Ogunkoya Oluwamayowa
olubukolaodunayoHmm, I can't seem to find the right words to write this tribute. I think of you everyday and wish you were still with us. You were a good friend and brother and all our time in RCF Lautech and RCCF Eket remains fresh. It still hurts so much when I remember that I didn't even know that you were passing through what took you away even though there was little I could have done. But I take solace in the fact that you are in a better place now. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord till we meet again.
Adieu Oluwatosin 'Takie mi owon' Ajewole
You live on in my heart
Everyday, I still can't believe that my brother is gone from me. I wake up daily like it's a bad dream. Even now, it looks like someone plays a bad trick on me whenever I remember you are gone. We spent all the good and bad moments together, we had great dreams together, we infirm each other of everything first.
I saw how possible it is to weep and laugh at the same time. Grieved that you are gone, but hearty anytime I remember the moments we had.
You always live on in my heart. Eloquence fails me, my words cannot express how my heart is.
Sleep on my beautiful Tosin.
Till we meet at the saviour's feet.
dolapoakinolaMy brother from another mother, I cherish you when you were around with us, the moment we shared together still linger in my heart. Your kindness and integrity speak so much volume of your kind hearted. I can't but remember the days we shared ranging from PDS class, RCF Choir, Class'12 Logout, RCCF Akwa Ibom state and RCF reunion just before you traveled to a journey of no return. All I know is that you have been relieved of this sinful and hate world, till we meet at the feet of Christ. O di gba o, O da rin na ko, Ore mi owon Oluwatosin Bolade Ajewole sun re. Ma sun laya Olugbala re titi di Ojo ajinde.
TORO-K
We remember the good times and will cherish the memories always.
glassboom dedicated a song.Met you sometime in 2006 during our pre-degree days. I can't even remember our first meeting but for as long as I can remember you have been one of my best friends.
I have been so distraught after hearing the sad news of your death.
Oluwatosin Ajewole little did I know that the last time I saw you would be the last time I would see you. I still find it hard to come to terms with the fact that I would see you no more.
Even as I write this, the tears are still flowing.
My heart is heavy with thoughts of you each waking moments.
There are some friends who have become family and you are one of them.
Remembering our RCF moments, FET moments, hostel moments make it so hard to let you go. You have left a vacuum no one can ever fill.
You have taught me a great lesson which I wished to have learnt before losing you.
"Keep in touch with friends always and never assume all is well".
Till we meet to part no more, adieu Oluwatosin Bolade Ajewole.
You will always be in our hearts.
you will be missed
almacon90th Mom. I Miss You So Much.
dees_daughterDear Uncle,
We’d like to say thank you.
Thank you for your resolute support and kindness during sorrowful moments,
Thank you for your advice and encouragement during challenging moments,
Thank you for your joy and cheer during celebratory moments,
Thank you for being there for us, like we were your own.
It was such an honour to know you
Rest peacefully.
Onyaglanu Idoko
On behalf of the Idokos
Peace I leave with you,
My peace I give to you;
Not as the world gives
Do I give to you.
Let not your heart be troubled,
Neither let it be afraid
Jesus (John 14: 27)
Dear Uncle, I remember how you would ask me how I had been doing whenever I would visit. It was never in a flippant way but in a thoughtful way; you would listen keenly to my reply and give words of advice freely. You were always generous with your attention and care. During my last visit you were still the same, receiving us in your home with so much warmth despite the fact that you had somewhere else to be and the day was turning into evening. I will miss you uncle but I know you are resting now in the bosom of the Lord.
ezinneogun
Casey was blessed with great friends who became family! His first motorcycle was given to him by Jimmy. It was inoperable, but not for long! Casey worked his magic and had it running great in no time. His first Harley was given to him by Patrick. That was an extraordinary gift and Casey was ecstatic to be a Harley rider! Mikey gave Casey a home, which was a great relief to me! In December 2015, Casey posted his own thank you on FaceBook to these wonderful people, so I want to honor him by posting that here: “I can't even begin to express my gratitude for good friends and family, the people I've found out here on the west coast have been my saving grace....between Mikey for giving me a roof to sleep under and Jimmy for hooking me up with Frisco bob last year and Patrick for all the unbelievable things he's done for me...there's no way I deserve of all of this but just know that I do not take any of you for granted...and I've always got your back. No questions asked. You guys are the best friends...I'm thankful that our paths have crossed and look forward to blazing new ones with you guys!"
caseymom shared a photo.In Honor of my dear Son, Casey Roger Dempsey- I have created this memorial to remember, honor and share his life.
caseymomSeeing you leave was one of the hardest moments; But, after careful reflection I feel truly privileged to have spent time with you.I will never forget how warm and welcoming you were to me. Our interactions revealed a very principled man; This was evident in the stories you shared about your experiences on research, work and faith. Those long hours sitting with you will never be forgotten.I will carry you forever in my heart.
cudeaniMy dearest sweet friend so hard to believe you are.gone. You will always be loved and missed dearly. RIP my forever sister.
Stephanie byrd
Celebrating his 69th birthday on 12/16/2017
jjideonwo shared a photo.My dear friend, I miss you so very much. I will remember you forever, Brit. Love always.
kira_lyn86Love you Brittany, fly with the angels. We miss you
lyla730Life isn't forever, but love is. You had a heart of gold.. so much love. You were an awesome sister, my best friend. I love you. Your memory will live on. Rest in peace
destinylaney2014I love you beautiful girl. Rest in heaven.
kimkay2121
Some of my favorite memories with Kins ♥️
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From Hiroshima for hope lantern festival. Forever one of my favorite memories with Kins ♥️
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Kinsey was a bright and beautiful person that lit up the room and brought sincere caring and understanding wherever she went. Her outgoing nature was evident from the first time we met, and you could tell that she would always put others first. We will all miss her big smile and laughter.
brycehockett shared a photo.It’s hard to pinpoint a memory, feeling, or experience that can exemplify the impact Kinsey left on others. One of my favorite qualities about her was how she entered every conversation/relationship and brought something special to enhance it. It’s not surprising that Kinsey has built strong relationships all over the world and has stayed in touch with friends since she was a child. I feel truly blessed that I was able to spend time with Kinsey and her family. I have some amazing memories that I will cherish for a lifetime. Kinsey will be dearly missed by all.
mattdunn333
This is not the photo i tried to upload...I wonder if it's a naming thing
Matthew Dunn
Kinz was the biggest Dawgs fan I knew
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Halloween 2009
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Kinsey was the first friend I made while living abroad in Ireland. We only overlapped for a few months, but she instantly became a close friend. Early on in my time there, I was homesick and so she planned a day of hiking to get me out and show me around. I remember we talked the entire time and it was like we had been friends for years. This is a photo from that day. After Kinsey left Dublin, she'd check in on me and offer to mail me the things I missed from home. She was so thoughtful and had such a sweet heart.
katielampe shared a photo.Kinsey was a brief, bright presence in my life. She once told me her favorite song was Michael Jackson's "Man In The Mirror". It seems so Kinsey to remind us that we all have the potential to be a better version of ourselves. So thanks to you Kinsey for the reminder!
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At the Michael Buble concert ❤️
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Sending Love and Light to Wesley and her family. I dedicate this song today, to recognize the light that Wesley left, to those of us who remember her...in love.
Love, Lisa Herzstein-Mychols
Kinsey gave me so many of my best memories. She was such a light in my life. I will love her with all my heart forever.
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Drill team!
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Drill team!
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Kinsey, we'll miss your beautiful and radiant smile that could turn a bad day into a good one. You'll forever be in our hearts and minds. The world has lost one of its brightest stars.
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Palm Springs water park
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Tolo early high school
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National Charity League
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Palm Springs in early high school
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I will always remember Kinsey as a kind and caring person. I am so sorry to learn of her passing. I found some old photographs from our Islander days.
croyer543 shared a photo.Thank you Marnie for dropping a line. Al always thought you were a ‘Cutie’ - and appreciated your great admin skills. Thank you for your prayers.
chrisrossMama Esther Ebisike
Anglican Diocese of Ngbo (Church of Nigeria)
Ebonyi State, Nigeria.
December 1, 2017
TRIBUTE TO OUR BELOVED AND INTELLIGENT BISHOP/BROTHER – THE LATE RT. REV. CHRISTIAN IFEANYICHUKWU EBISIKE Ph.D
Our Beloved Sister, Ochiora Esther
The news of the death of your dear husband, Bishop and our beloved brother was so shocking and saddening to us as it was unexpected.
More disturbing is that, we here in America never heard of any health issues with him hence we are so sad and sorrowful, a one death too many.
Notwithstanding the sad loss of a dear lovely husband and caring bishop, we cherish the thought, and are encouraged, that Dr. Chris lived an eventful, outstanding and distinguished life. He could easily be described as a rare gem, faithful person, sincere, erudite, honest Born Again, Spirit filled Christian Bishop and highly patriotic.
Bishop Ebisike was a man, who spoke his mind and whose contribution to issues helped to proffer solution to issues. It is like yesterday when I was with him in his Ngbo Diocese, in Retreat, and encouraging young Anglicans who were ordained into Priestly Order.
My wife and Nwigwe family, whole-heartedly, pray to the “God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort...” to completely comfort you and the family he left behind during these difficult times (2Cor.1:3-4). We will continue to uphold you and your family in prayers by the grace of God.
Your husband, my bishop, was a true Brother in Christ who the people of Mbano will remember in USA, and will miss, till tomorrow. Be fully comforted in Jesus!
Yours Sincerely,
Ven. Emeka & Mama. Nkey Nwigwe Ph.D.,
Archdeacon, ADOTT North East Archdeaconry, (church of Nigeria)USA
Rector, Anglican Church of the Pentecost International New York City.
CONDOLENCE TRIBUTE TO OUR VERY BELOVED SERVANT OF GOD: HIS LORDSHIP. THE RT. REV’D CHRISTIAN IHEANYICHUKWU EBISIKE, PhD,JP.
Our very Beloved Servant of God, His Lordship, The Rt. Rev’d Christian Iheanyichukwu Ebisike, PhD.JP, was one of those who helped us in transforming the so called Okigwe-Nothing, (as the then Diocese of Okigwe-North was nick-named), into the Diocese of OKIGWE-SOMETHING. That was why we gave him the preferment of Rev’d Canon and later, that of a Venerable Archdeacon.
Bishop Ebisike served the Diocese of Okigwe- North very well in the field of Mission and Evangelism, in the then Okigwe, Okwelle and Umuduru Archdeaconries and also as our Clerical Synod Secretary. That was why we seconded him to the Diocese of Abuja, when His Grace, The Most Rev’d Jasper Akinola, D.D., C.O.N. wanted us to second to him one of our best Archdeacons. He also served him very well. Those services made the house of Bishops to elect him the first Bishop of the Missionary Diocese of Ngbo.
Bishop Ebisike and his wife Lady Esther were very sociable, friends of all the people of God. That quality made the people of God, especially of the Diocese of Abuja to help them in transforming the Missionary Diocese to a very strong Diocese. They built a good Cathedral, a magnificent Bishopscourt, Secondary Schools both in Izza-Ngbo and Nkalagu and they planted many churches. That quality, made Eze-Ngbo to give them a very large area of land for Bhopscourt and a Secondary School.
For all these good works, may God comfort Lady Esther and may the soul of BISHOP CHRISTIAN IHEANYICHUKWU, my name-sake, REST IN PERFECT PEACE.AMEN!!!
Signed: +ALFRED IHEANYICHUKWU & LADY ESTHER CHINYERE NWAIZUZU.(NNE-DI-OHA-NMA). Retired Bishop, Diocese of Okigwe-North,(Now Diocese of Isi-Mbano).
TRIBUTE TO LATE RT. REV. CHRISTIAN IFEANYICHUKWU EBISIKE Ph.D
It is not an easy task to write a tribute on someone who has been very close to you. But still, it is a compelling duty to do so. We were really disturbed in mind when we were informed of your demise in my office. Your exit from this planet was a big loss to the family, Ngbo Diocese, Enugu Province, Church of Nigeria and to the entire Anglican Communion at large. Our friend and brother bishop, the great iroko tree where many birds’ perch for guide, satisfaction, counsel and unity has finally fallen, what a world. It is a pity that your health challenge which had lingered so long did not allow you any longer to continue in the work of the kingdom which you were doing committedly.
Your stay in Abuja Diocese under the former Primate, Most Rev. Peter Jasper Akinola DD(Rtd) spoke volume of your capacity for socialization, inter personal relations and adaptation to changing socio-cultural cum environmental situations: hence you were made the pioneer Bishop of Ngbo Diocese. Your stay in Abuja was instructive as it immensely exposed you to important dignitaries across the globe that in return has helped you in the work of Evangelization in Ngbo Diocese.
To the glory of God, you left outstanding achievements in Ngbo Diocese. You planted many churches, built Bishop’s Court and was vigorously pursuing the completion of the Cathedral before your demise. You were extremely hardworking; a highly committed Anglican Bishop who commanded great respect among his priest, assisted by your beloved wife formulated your Diocesan policy directions which bother on the beauty of striving for values of integrity and hard work. You believed that good character is far above depraved and corruptly acquired personal wealth, thoroughly bringing up your Diocese and workers within the doctrines of Anglicanism.
Your life was filled with goodness, kindness, humility, simplicity, gentleness and love for others. You were really a sincere spiritual father to many. The Anglican Communion has lost a great man physically but gained in heaven spiritually.
You lived your life as a committed Christian and an excellent leader of flocks committed to your charge. A true believer of the Gospel who stood on the side of the truth, equity and justice. You will forever be remembered for your unquantifiable services to God and humanity. Your last outing during your 10th year Anniversary was great and we never knew it was going to be the last.
We thank God for your beloved wife and Children who stood by you in times of ill health. The Lord will reward their care, concern, labor of love, prayers and console them in time like this.
People of God, today we bid farewell to a Great Leader, dedicated laborer in God’s Vine yard, a prolific writer, gentle reformer and a social bridge builder, a gallant soldier of Christ, Rt. Rev. Christian Ifeanyichukwu Ebisike Ph.d. You are gone but your legacies are here with us.
We love you but God loves you most. Good night Gallant Soldier of Christ
Sleep well.
Most Rev. Dr. E.O Chukwuma (OON)
Archbishop & Bishop of Enugu
Anglican Communion
I'm grateful to have been so kindly welcomed into Maebori holidays and celebrations over the years. At Christmas 2014, Kinsey sat and talked with me for a long time when I was starting to feel homesick. I didn't know her well, but I was struck by how warm and friendly she was, and how welcome she made me feel. Getting to see these five girls celebrate together always felt like witnessing something very special. I'm so sorry for the loss of sweet Kinsey, and send my love to you all.
elinteutsch shared a photo.This is beautiful. Thank you. ♡
Lily PassavantMissing you
elias62elias62I love you mom.
tdb1958I miss you mom.
tdb1958Today I shed tears for you, I have waited all my life for answers.... I guess you will keep me waiting RIP DAD, your son Andrew
andrew karstensenOh Kinsey, Your spirit filled a room, bringing beauty to our world. Your presence always powerful: your brilliant mind, feisty character, and beautiful smile. We will continue to find you in the most unexpected special moments:
You are the gold on the horizon just before the sun rises.
You are the feisty summer sunsets.
You are the rock and roll of the pebble in the surf.
You are the hush of a snow blanket forest.
You are the hum of the hummingbird.
You are the brilliant sparkle of the brightest star.
You are the eagle that tames the wind.
You are the kiss of the first snowflake on our cheek.
You are the moonbeam dancing in the waves of the ocean.
You are peace, Go in peace sweet Kinsey. You are with us always.
Hi Sylvia...it's been a long, long time. I've thought about you and it's sad that it takes these events for people to reconnect. I remember when you and Al started dating how happy you were - obviously that continued on! I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers. Take care!
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Such a great smile!
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Kinsey enjoying Lefsa and a beer, December 2006.
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Words cannot describe the pain. Kinsey you are a beautiful angel - you are loved beyond words. Ms. Dickens
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Customer Education Team at LinkedIn - Miss you Kinsey!
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This is from the first night I met Kinsey in North Beach. During that time period, our group of friends had so much fun exploring the city together, attending ridiculous theme parties, and going on weekend excursions. Kinsey was always such a fun ball of energy who you could stay out with all night, or just sit for hours having conversations about life. I reconnected with her earlier this year in Phoenix on her way to Costa Rica. I felt like we picked up right where we left off, because that is the kind of shining light she was. She made everyone feel so specials, and she will be missed.
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Dawg game w/Kins, Alex and I (2009).
jhbradley86 shared a photo.It’s hard to believe I won’t be seeing Kins ever again. The world is less bright without her infectious laugh, animated facial expressions and quirky mannerisms that drew so many people to her. A genuine soul - always honest and kind to her core. She will be greatly missed; she’s left an indelible mark on my life since we met 12 years ago, and for that, I am forever grateful. May she have found her peace.
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I met Kinsey in October 2015 during LinkedIn New Hire training in Chicago. We sat next to each other on the first day and were partnered together during a few of the activities. She was one of the sharpest, well spoken, driven women I've ever had the pleasure of working with. Kinsey was one of those beautiful people who made friends with everyone and just drew you in with her energy. Thank you for always being a supportive coworker and friend. We will miss you dearly.
costlund shared a photo.Because you loved acoustic songs and I never played enough of them for you while you were here.
freiser shared a video.Kinsey was a senior when I was a freshman at Pi Phi, and I most remember her infectious smile. Even years after she had graduated, and even though it had been half a decade since we had seen each other, she continued to wish me a happy birthday, which was incredibly sweet.
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Kinsey was truly one of the kindest souls I have ever known. I feel lucky to have called her my friend <3
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Kinsey always photographed and documented fun memories we shared as Pi Phis at UW. She was the light in every room and always so fun to be around. She’ll be greatly misssed by so many.
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I loved this girl so much. She was a genuine soul and our friendship over the last 11 years brought me so much joy. She is missed and forever will be.
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I was lucky to hire Kinsey for the LinkedIn team - she was a delight to work with and made an impressive impact on both her internal and external customers and our team. I was honored to grow a strong friendship with her. She touched my heart in many ways. Our memorable lunch in Seattle , August 2016.
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Dinner with team members in the Haight, San Francisco, fall 2016.
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Dinner with team members in North Beach, San Francisco, spring 2016.
vlyons shared a photo.I didn't know Kinsey very well, but every time I ran into her, she had an infectious smile and positivity that would brighten my day. Sending my love to your family.
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Kinsey was part of a fundraising campaign (Slap Cancer) in 2012 that raised $207,000 for The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. She was part of creating The Mr. Marina Competition and organized a Date Auction that was flawless – her heart, compassion, and interest in philanthropy was so inspiring.
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We celebrated Halloween in 2014 on a boat with lots of friends and she was the most beautiful Belle!
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Kinsey and I were SF friends but I was fortunate that I got to see her this summer when I was in Seattle at the end of July XO
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Grimdeen girls rolling lefse!
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I think Marcia may have made these cupcakes, but Kinsey and I thought they were so funny. We couldn't stop laughing about them.
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Missing you Kinsey
alexllap shared a photo.Love that her laugh is captured. Thank you for sharing.
Lily PassavantClassic Kinsey laugh in that video. Will miss hearing that.
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Kinsey got a real kick out of this photo from Lake Chelan when I shared it with her this past summer. Love always Kins, Uncle G
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A few years back around this time of year, I was lucky enough to be your work party Christmas date. Memories I won't forget with my Kins. XO
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Parking map for Kinsey's celebration of life on January 6th. Parking all day will be a flat fee of $5.
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Syliva, I am so sorry for your loss and praying for your family. I worked as Al's Admin for 2 year and Al was like a dad to me. Honestly is JUST like my dad and I told him that almost every week. We had such a good working relationship that we could get on each others nerves, but still know that he was there for me no matter what. I was truly saddened and heart broken when I heard the news. Last time I saw you and him at the Lewisville dog park and you were moving within days to retirement and he looked so happy. I hope to make the celebration of life, because just the two years I knew him made a huge impact on mine. I never laughed and smiled so often while working with Al. Praying for you! God Bless!
[email protected] shared a photo.Awe ...thank you SO much Stephanie. Your sweet words bless my heart and soul. I love that picture of you two. I’m thinking about when you all had a birthday party for Al in that little staff room. Little Debbie sent me a video. You all had such a great relationship and FUN! Grateful for those memories. Thank you for your prayers for our family.
Sylvia/Chris Ross
Romans 14:7-9
For none of us lives to himself alone and none of dies to himself alone. If we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. So whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.
Amen.
My introduction to Al took place on the nature trail behind my home. Al and Sylvia would walk Cassie, and the walk would end when Al had finished his drink. I was lucky that day…. I got to meet Al. He was a man of few words but when he spoke it was usually profound and funny. Al was soft spoken, generous and definitely a man’s man. Sylvia and Al always welcomed me into their home and they played a major part in my recovery after the death of my husband Harry and again during my fight with cancer. Al knew how to cook a mean steak. He will live in our hearts forever. I can picture Al and Harry having a conversation and toasting to the good life to come.
flowermound66Yes Missy Moe ... our boys are having a big ‘Cheers!’ ... in heaven. Our boys have ‘arrived’. Al truly loved you and Harry - and he cared deeply about you during your hardships. Grateful for our friendship and the precious time we spend together. Al loved Texas. I’ll visit soon.
Sylvia/Chris RossI look forward to your visit. Love You so much.
Sylvia, I am so in shock. Al was a true friend to me. I now know why he didn't return my calls over the last year. Wish I could have talked to him one more time. He will truly be missed by all. He was by far the best manager I ever worked for in 30 years and one of the most honest decent people I've ever come across.
[email protected]Thank you Rodney. Ya ... a good man. A great leader for sure. Give me a call, and I will share with you about our Al - the past year in Mexico - my HERO! You’d be proud Rodney. Yup!
Sylvia/Chris RossI'm gonna have to scan the picture Rodney and Al gave me of themselves when I left. Cherishing it even more now!
Stephanie Armstrong
Dorothy and Jim’s wedding in 1947. For their honeymoon they set off to Southern California with stops in Oklahoma City Ok, Tucumcari NM, Flagstaff Az, Grand Canyon Az, Las Vegas Nv, Santa Ana Ca & Newport Beach Ca just to name a few. I live in SoCal now and I remember that she told me how Newport Beach was a small rundown beach town and how she couldn’t understand why people would want to live there. Oh how time has changed. Love you Grandma, you will be missed!
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Dorothy and Jim’s wedding in 1947. For their honeymoon they set off to Southern California with stops in Oklahoma City Ok, Tucumcari NM, Flagstaff Az, Grand Canyon Az, Las Vegas Nv, Santa Ana Ca & Newport Beach Ca just to name a few. I live in SoCal now and I remember that she told me how Newport Beach was a small rundown beach town and how she cold understand why people would want to live there. Oh how time has changed. Love you Grandma, you will be missed!
adambechtold shared a photo.Sylvia,
May the wonderful memories you shared with Al be of some comfort to you. I will always remember his great laugh and humor. You and Al were the best “Texas” neighbors. I will cherish all the fun times we spent at your home and the delicious steaks! Al is the only one that could call me name and get away with it! Sending you love and prayers my friend.
Judy and Kelly
Thank you dear Judy and Kelly. Ya ... Al had a special bond with you - his fellow Dallas Cowboys fan. It was a great 12 years on Misty Glen ... grateful for y’all ... best neighbors and critter sitters ever!
Sylvia/Chris RossI am so happy that I wasn't able to through the ball and accidentally it hittes Al's breast. This day was the beginning of a great friendship. You Syl and Al were so important for us these days, when our little sunshine was born. It was always funny to be with you and Al with his humor.
Our thoughts are with you Syl, your "boys" Cam and Chris and the whole family.
Martina, Eckehard and Samuel
Martina ... thank you. Yes, I’m picturing you at the dog park in Mexico ... pregnant woman. - throwing that ball and smacking Al square in the chest. I think Al threatened to sue you! And that was the beginning of our famous friendship - forever more. You and baby Sammy
Sylvia/Chris Ross... will always be close in our hearts. Perhaps I will visit you in Germany. Yo tequiro mucho.
Sylvia/Chris RossIt saddens me to hear this.
My deepest sympathies to Sylvia and family.
I worked with Al back in the early 70's at Tri-L flight service and again at Canadian Regional
Great guy, lots of great memories.
Dean Klaiber
Thanks Dean. Yes, Tri-L Flight Services. Our Al certainly earned that name - AIRPORT AL! He loved his job. I remember you ... from Time Air / Canadian Regional days.
Sylvia/Chris RossI was also on the same course with Al training to be Flight Attendants ! (I think that is where you two met) That was a very good time !
Dean KlaiberCam and Chris, we were so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing.
Our thoughts are with you and your families.
Mike and Debbie Thomas
Thank you Mike
Sylvia/Chris Rossand Debbie. Chris shared your message with Cam. He said you were close when they were young. We appreciate you.
Sylvia/Chris RossPapa Al ... we love you - we will see you in heaven.
‘On The Other Side’ - by Colton Dixon
Dearest Sylvia, My most sincerest condolences to you and your family. The loss of someone dear is never easy. Alan was a generous and happy soul. I am so grateful to you both for welcoming me into your home here in Mexico. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hugs, Frankie
Thank you Frankie. Miss you. Will be intouch. Hugs to the crew in the neighbourhood.
Sylvia/Chris RossWell Frankie, guess you figured out - it’s Sylvia.
SO grateful Chris set up this site.
Will always remember that smile - and the laugh that went with it. And most of all the helpfulness.
Condolences to everyone.
Elaine Parker
Thank you Elaine - for your kind words. It was good working alongside you. Sylvia
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Al, it was an honor working under your leadership for 13 years and I know I wouldn't be where I am today if it had not been for you... It's difficult to accept the fact you have left us, but I'm sure we will meet again someday... RIP Al Rossriguez
fluff shared a photo.Cesar, Al spoke very highly of you. He also enjoyed working with you.
Yes! We will meet again ... ‘On the Other Side’.
As the holidays approach, I remember how much Dorothy loved to decorate her home and provide that elegant touch to our family gatherings. She was always so thoughtful and generous when exchanging gifts. I remember her as a lover of the arts and how supportive she always was of my own artistic endeavors. I am sorry for your loss and hope that Dorothy has once again found love and happiness with Jim in their afterlife.
suebWe can’t help but remember the warm memories of Thanksgivings past at the Sears and how Dorothy was regally ensconced at one end of the table & so happy to talk about the important issues of the day.She has a special place in our hearts. Love, Tom & Patricia Alston & Family
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When Dorothy and Jim lived in New Mexico, she became the founding director of the Santa Fe Youth Center. The development of the center was chronicled in the city paper; one article included this photograph of Dorothy with some local teens.
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Dorothy appears on the left, seated, in this photograph of a 1947 party at the girls' co-op where she lived at the University of Missouri.
jocelyn shared a photo.He was welcomed to Heaven by his great-grandmother, Irma Lee Carey Hall. He is resting in her arms till we all meet again.
kimbee55I love and miss you.
tdb1958tdb1958robyn61A good hearts have stopped beating, good souls ascended to heaven. We part with our beloved family in pain.
babadebobabadeboUNTIL WE MEET TO PART NO MORE
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Edith you left us too soon! You were a fighter and an anchor for your family. And yes those fabulous meals!
Martha
Funmi, it still feels like a dream. I miss you and your lovely family so much. I will miss our regular phone calls and uplifting discussions. My only consolation is that as a woman of prayer, you have gone to be with the Lord. Sleep peacefully until we meet again my dear friend.
joyjinmiade_ayeniHow do we begin to describe the Kehindes and the lasting impression they made on our hearts? To attempt to describe the numerous ways in which they made indelible marks on our lives will be an enormous unending task. Although our time with them was abruptly ended, the memories of our time together will live on. We remember the first time we met Grace Omolayo, her warm smile radiated the room. She quickly warmed up to her cousins and started playing big sister while Mojoyin quietly watched on as her sister easily socialized with their young cousins. Although we could tell that Mojoyin was reserved, even in her quietness, her brilliance and smartness was evident. It was not a surprise when we learned that she excelled exceptionally in her GSCE O level exams. Just like her parents, her success was a challenge and an example to her cousins. "Auntie Funmi" like we call her, was just a wonder to us in many ways. Until her, we had never meant anyone who is as British as she is Nigerian. We remember when she first visited us in Texas, US and we went to the store together, everyone wanted to hear her speak because she was just so eloquent and articulate. Not just was her eloquence admirable and alluring, she had a warm heart and would always look out for others. "Uncle", known to many as Prof, was who we refer to as the best advocate to have in your your corner. Always soft-spoken, humorous, thoughtful, kind-hearted, generous, and loving in all his dealings. His commitment to family and friends is unparalleled, his act of generosity is astounding and difficult to match.
Together as a family, the Kehindes touched so many lives. They a have left a Kehinde-shaped hole in our hearts and God knows we miss them so much. But our comfort is this: For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep. For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Wherefore comfort one another with these words.
Wura & Sam Ade Jacobs
Dad, I still miss you man. Oh man Jerry still hurts, I hope he is with you and this god thing is true. Oh and Debra, too. Man it feels awful still. I so wish people could live for ever. I sure hope ma will break 90. She bought a new car anyways, we have a new dog her name is Sophie, she was abused but not anymore she is loved.
xogenicolomu5olomu5Every steps I take... Every moves I make every single day and time I am praying I have been missing you. Thinking of the day that you went away... What a life to take and bond to brake I have been missing you...
olomu5Baami. We know where you are. And we are glad you are there......
olomu5Miss you my friend, thinking of you.
rdowdle
“Those we love remain with us for love itself lives on, and cherished memories never fade because a loved one’s gone. Those we love can never be more than a thought apart. For as long there is a memory, they’ll live on in our hearts.” RIP
funmiUnbelievable but true!
A beautiful life taken away too quickly.Beloved colleague , dearest Friend and sister- Dearest Funmi ,I cannot believe that you are not there in this world. I miss your daily phone calls , your bubbly laughter and your warm hug. I know you will be always be my side.
RIP with your beloved family - I am sure we will meet again in our next lives ....
Colleague , Friend and Indian sister - Abha
What a tragedy!
Just six days after you video-called your classmates at our meeting in Grimsby and we had our usual banters, we were in denial when we learnt you'd gone to be with the Lord.
We take solace in the knowledge that you lived a godly life. You all loved God and His creatures. You both served humanity with what God endowed you with. We, of the ABH 1979 set shall miss you, Dunni, Funmi and your children. We will never forget you. Rest with the Lord, gallant soldiers; it is well with your souls.
On behalf of University of Ibadan/UCH 1979 set.
Sweet n' spicy, beautiful, wise Georgia Mae. You are missed on this second anniversary of your death.
biziwoman shared a photo.Georgia Mae loved this blues song by Percy Mayfield released in 1950.
biziwoman shared a video.On the second anniversary of her death, Georgia is on my mind.
biziwoman shared a video.You will live on in memory. Thank you for a lifetime, and we'll be together soon on the other side.
dsmorrisAll those wonderful recipes we never got....we will miss them and how wonderfully you cooked them for us
kenmorrisHi grandma, I don't really know who I would be if I had not been able to be your grandson. I think this picture of you justifies the humor and personality that lit up my life (guess it runs in the family. you've watched me get to where I am now and I cannot believe how much fighting you've done. They thought you weren't going to make it when I was a baby, look where you got. I was your anchor and I remember when you said the only thing keeping you alive was knowing that I am here and will grow up into a great young man. I can't begin to express the feelings I felt when I heard that. will take care of grandpa you better believe it and we all love you and will keep you in our hearts. You did not suffer when you passed and you fought long and hard. I love you and miss you already, thank you for being the best person I can have in my life.
ericmorrisMiss all of your cooking and meals mother. No one can ever replace how well you cook
ericmorris
jeffwhitehurstThank you for your trust in choosing Affinity Memorial Center to handle mrs. Morris' arrangments.
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I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SOO MUCH MY BALDY. Not a day that goes by where you dont cross my mind. Forever in my heart. I love you my KING ❤️
cheeks1207“Unconditional love is the greatest gift we can ever give.” Thanks, mom & dad
designgep shared a video.U will be missed but never forgotten luv u gabe as a brother till we meet again
mamaaj1715mamaaj1715naynayU will never be forgotten always in our hearts filled wit smiles luv u gabe as a brother ❤️
mamaaj1715I love you son
elias62you will not be forgotten.........patricia (winnicki) o'neill
cjtoy7bisbisPAINFUL EXIT
ThevLord give and take away. Our dear family Dr.vElijah, Dr. Funmilola, Mojiyinoluwa and Omolayo Kehinde. Your death came to us as untrue news, hoping to wake up from our slumber. It's so unbelievable. How can death snatched you away from us. Your numerous good deeds was nothing to be compared with.
Dr. Elijah Kehinde, a complete gentleman that loved his family. He was very nice and generous. A great man and an achiever. Your foot print would forever be felt by all and sundry.
Dr. Funmilola Ajibona Kehinde, my sister, a very goodly woman, a person after God's heart, a lover of people. Why did these happened to you? A mystery's yet unfolds. So generous, you are a giver. I remembered our visit to Birmingham, you spoilt us so well and we enjoyed our stay. I would have met with you again last year but because of your spiritual commitment, we could not but yet you still sent your gifts as usual. Even for this year trip, you had made arrangement for us. Now you are no more. Our consolation is that you are with the Lord your creator.Mojoyinoluwa and Molayo rest in perfect peace.
Rest in the bossom of the Almighty God till we meet to part no more.Bisi Savage
PAINFUL EXIT
mrs oHonestly words fail me. This tragic incident is simply beyond comprehension and one can't help but wonder and ask WHY. Hmmm! We're told to give thanks in all things according to the most High God, I therefore join family and friends to thank God for your lives. May your souls rest in perfect peace.
Auntie Toyin for ' Sisi mi 'family.
Even after many years the pain of not seeing you again is still there. Love you xx
katepkDad, many years have gone by but your memory still lives on in my heart. Love you always xx
katepkJack you arte still in my heart and thoughts.
On behalf of UICOM89
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kike dedicated a song.On behalf of UICOM89
kike dedicated a song.Iku da oro, iku seka,iku fo sika sile. O mu oloore lo. Words cannot convey the gravity of this loss or the sorrow in my heart. You were with me until 9pm in the evening just a day before you travelled. I had to send you away to finish your packing. I never knew that would be the last time I would see you. You and your children were not just our beloved friends, you were like a second family to us. You were a devoted wife and mother and you were God-fearing. You were also an accomplished and esteemed Doctor. You combined all these roles with grace, compassion and humility. I will miss you coming round for a chat and I will miss picking up the kids from school. I will miss our long conversations, sometimes over the phone whilst sipping herbal tea. I will miss playing Ludo and Snakes and Ladders with Omolayo. Oluwafunmilola, Professor Kehinde and your beautiful daughters you will forever be in our hearts. Rest in peace all of you.
Mrs Bola Williams and family.
yasirkhan
"Words fail me in describing how I feel regarding your tragic departure. Who are we to question the Lord. Guess he needs you all with him above more than us down here. Your smile, your warmth and your friendliness will always be remembered and cherished.
Rest in the bosom of our Lord dear sis."
Femi Olowookorun
"Funmi, always radiant, always full of smiles, full of energy..., your life has touched those of us your classmates in immeasurable, positive ways. Rest well Sister, with your hubby and children; till we meet to part no more.
- Dandy"
"Saw you at our class reunion in July last year in London. Little did we all know that will be the last time together. Sweet, forever smiling gentle, kind person. God will comfort those you left behind. Till we meet again at Jesus feet. Rest In Peace dear friend."
Olayinka Omololu
"Funmi, it is hard to believe you have gone to be with the Lord.
My memory of you as one of your classmates was that of a very nice, gentle person always smiling and greeting people with cheerfulness.
You touched many people's lives with your life.
Rest well in the bosom of the Lord with your husband and children.
We will meet again in God's presence where there will be no more dying."
Simon Ajayi
"Funmi Ajibona. words fail me. I thank God for the opportunity of seeing you at our 27th reunion on 22nd and 23rd July 2016. little did any know that it was the last time. Adieu beautiful soul. This is a tragedy that none can attempt to understand. Almighty God is kabi e kosi. . We will treasure the memories and we will try to.smile and laugh when we think of you but now its hard. Sleep on beloved sleep and take your rest. Rest in peace Funmi, Grace , Mojoyin and Prof Kehinde.May the good Lord comfort The Ajibona and Kehinde family. UICOM89 and friends Amen"
Fareeda Babalakin
"What can we say, how does one start processing the loss of a gem, a rare and unique human breed. A loving soul. How does one contemplate your love for all those around you! The death of the children and your husband as well is just too much for one to bear. It is very painful to the marrow, but our consolation is in the sweet memory you left behind.
Keep sleeping in the blossom of your creator along with Mojoyin, Grace and your husband.
Aunty Moji"
Its shocking to find this page. Raghu was my room mate in Hyderabad. We lost contact with Raghu after he move to Netherlands. Requesting people on this page to kindly share more details. We are desparately trying to reach his family.Rest in peace dost.
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Steven with Mojo and Soloman
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lyndabarnsley shared a photo.Mahmoud was a wonderful person that I cannot easily forget though I only knew him for a short time. His death came as a great shock for me especially that we Skyped just a few days before he passed away. I think he was a true idealist treating others with respect and kindness, yet his idealism created many disappointments in his life because of his expectations from others. Life is simply unfair, but he wanted to find fairness and justice even if he felt he was alone in his pursuit. The last time I talked to him, he was frustrated with the delays and obstacles that he professionally faced, but his determination and hard work were remarkable and a source for inspiration for everyone. A few months before his death, he was actively and continuously working on many research grants and projects with brilliant ideas, and I felt that he was racing with time, but I didn’t understand why. I think Mahmoud will remain alive in the thoughts and feelings of those close to him. Rest in peace my friend!
Ahmed Al-Rawi
Funmi,this was definitely not the plan , but God knows best. I know you are all resting in the arms of the Lord. I will miss our daily phone calls, your counsel, the prayers and bible study.I will miss Grace's singing,Mojo's amazing technical skills and Prof's wit. You were an amazing sister and friend. I was going through your last text to me and remain comforted by the bible passage you shared .Sleep on beloved ones till we meet to part no more.
funlo66
The live we have for you will forever radiate in our heart. We felt the void you left in our heart and our lives but your good work in our lives lives on.Your memories lives on .keep resting in the blossom of the Lord.We will forever miss you.
Oluwafemi and Lydia Balogun and Family
You are a shinning light to your generation,you will be missed greatly.A great husband father and brother.Many have benefited from you kind nature and your works lives on.Rest on in the blossom of God.you left a void that can't be filled.
olufemitayo"Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day, unseen, unheard, but always near still loved, still missed, and very dear"
Words cannot express our sadness about losing my dear friend and colleague Funmi and her wonderful husband prof Kehinde and their beautiful girls . May you all sleep peacefully in the bosom of the Lord.
Moji and Yemi Akinsola and family
We have known Prof. Kehinde and his family for many years. He was such a hard worker and tried his best to help people. We will miss his grace, good heart and sense of humour. His memory will live for ever. Rest in peace.
nadianadiaOladunni was my medical schoolmate and remained a friend. So sad to hear of the tragedy which claimed the life of the whole family. He was a good man and would be greatly missed.
mdfashFunmi was a dear friend, colleague and a believer. She was hard worker devoted her life to her patients family and Christian beliefs and her church community. She will be missed by all the people who knew her.
It is beyond comprehension and with great sadness to all that she will not attend her consultant meeting, her clinics, theatre and church. She was brave, happy, beautiful and believed in the Lord. She was not afraid of death, and said Amen when she talked about meeting her Lord. She knew that she will meet him happy with a very wide smile.
RIP dear friend.
Sabah Baghdadi Friend and colleague
Fumni appears like a beautiful bird who perched in my life and I was able to admire her in various ways and share her smiles and laughter. She may have flown away but her memories remain with me, which bring lot of calm and soothe. Innocence of Grace and her merging with the moment whilst running around in the garden blowing bubbles on 5th July’17 was one of the most beautiful evening I had enjoyed with Fumni and her 2 beautiful daughters and mother. I feel fortunate to be able to enjoy a delicious meal cooked by Fumni on that day which was just 2 days prior to her last travels. I thank Fumni, Mojo and Grace for the beautiful moments I have shared with them. Mojo’s quiet composure and unassuming ways of helping both her younger sister with the presentation on Astana and her mother with setting up of the dinner was just a reflection of great love and care which existed in the family for each other and was extremely soothing to watch. I wish and pray their ascension to a place of true bliss. Amen
God is our God
olaolamodupetoluYemisi
rosiji09modupeYinka it's aunt mays granddaughter
Sending love to you all
Please get in touch with me xx
Don't look back at yesterdays Look forward Smile and move on ⊱♥⊰ Although you cannot see me ⊱♥⊰ In your heart I'll never be gone ⊱♥⊰
rcm43
♥ڿڰۣಌ A flower without it's garden ♥ڿڰۣಌ A sky without it's blue ♥ڿڰۣಌ That's how it feels everyday ♥ڿڰۣಌ In this world without you ♥ڿڰۣಌ
rcm43You still live on in the hearts and minds,of the loving family you left behind XXXX
rcm43This candle is to honour your memory, Its lit with everlasting love, We hope it shines bright for you, In your heavenly home above.
rcm43MAM♥ May flowers always line your path And sunshine light your day May songbirds serenade you ♪ ♫ Every heavenly step you take
rcm43blfirmanBye Sage. Sure enjoyed playing Zenball with you, and even sharing pulled calves.
- Ken
dees_daughter
Miss you Mom! Keep sending the rainbows
sarahedgessarahedgesIt's even sadder to post this a second time. But i love and miss you Laura. You are my sister and was gone too soon. We had just spoken and we had plans set for action but you passed before we can make the first step. But i will continue to keep fighting on behalf of you and I will let the babies know that you never gave up. However I can I will fight for you. Remember we always said to keep praying and never give up. We got this. This is a lot for me to take in. Its still unbelievable but it has happened. I promise Laura, in the end God will work on our behalf and everything will be in order again. Watch over us in heaven. I love you and will miss you forever
antoniette2017Since day 2 of your relationship with my son, you and i had built a strong loving bond between us. When there was noone else, not even our spouses, we had each other. You gave me four beautiful grandchildren, and i never got the chance to thank you. We grew apart, for awhile, just to start rebuilding not knowing you were going home this soon. I love you Laura Lea. I always have. I will truly miss you. No more pain.
rennee1"Kind and jovial," is the way I always remember him. A beautiful tribute for a beautiful man. Each of you are so loving and unique because of his incredible love for his family. You are all in my thoughts as I think about his joy for you. Much love, Nydia
nydiationI met Elizabeth during my first pregnancy in 1979. She took me under her wing and I ended up teaching at the Maternal & Child Health Center in Cambridge, MA. We stayed in touch over the years until just a couple of years before her death. I was so saddened by her passing. I was one of the women she inspired to go into Women's Health. I am currently writing a book about pregnancy with an emphasis on the postpartum phase and Elizabeth's spirit is very present. Barbara L Cummings, MS, RN
stresslessdiva
Rest in Heaven YAYA... We love you & miss you :)
Beautifully written. May she rest in peace.
keithcua
Celebrated in your birth month. Mum your memory lives on.
adeogun7My mom is beautiful, intelligent, kind, genuine, strong-willed, and strong. She's easy to talk to, she is supportive of my goals, and she shares the same cravings for ice cream & desserts like I do. I cannot imagine my life without my mother just the way she is, and for that, I have you to thank. Thank you for raising her. Thank you for teaching her the value of hard work and what it means to sacrifice for your family. You are forever in our hearts.
Lauron
Dear Marilou, this must be such a difficult time. Mothers are there from the very beginning and the very first person any of us know. You've lived here longer than you did at home, but those childhood memories are always the brightest. Hold them close and tell your kids about those things. Keep the happy memories closest to your heart and let them push aside the pain.
Our deepest sympathies and condolences.
Pete and Liz and the kids.
"If Roses Grow In Heaven"
If roses grow in Heaven
Lord, please pick a bunch for me,
place them in my Mother's arms
and tell her they're from me.
Tell her that I love her and miss her,
and when she turns to smile,
place a kiss upon her cheek
and hold her for awhile.
Because remembering her is easy,
I do it every day.
But ther's an ache within my
heart that will never go away!
Author- Kirsten Preus
Your loving daughter Marilou
From Kathy Yellow Eagle: This is to honor my dear friend Gordon, unable to post on his tribute wall but it so reflects the man he was and always will be in my heart,love you my friend...Kathy
lisannerank shared a photo.Good Vibrations by The Beach Boys was sung in the car so many times that all of us laugh about dad's pitch.
lisannerank shared a video.sarga4Happy Mother's Day Mom! Going on 3 years now, still miss you every day. Love you mom...
I visited Uncle Chuck in May 2015 in Seattle. We had a three-hour lunch with my best friend, and my son Joshua and Uncle Chuck. It was a highlight of my trip. Always smiling and always a fun man to talk to. He danced with me and Joshua on the sidewalk. My heart Smiles just thinking about it. Miss you and love you Uncle Chuck.
Chrissy, Daryl, Matthew and Joshua
Saturday's Warriors- Daddy's Nose.
I will always love my "daddy's nose". I don't know who I would be with out it. I love and miss you Daddy.
Sweet beautiful Candace,
Your kind and gentle ways will be missed. Your unique and classy style made an impression on me when I met you as a teenager. I grew up surrounded by the flamenco images you captured in time and will think fondly of you every time I pass by one of your photos. We will continue to cherish your memory when celebrating the flamenco traditions to which you were so devoted.
It was a blessing to know you, Lorenzo
I knew Bill from parties, not school since I went to Ingraham (’73) but Ballard & Ingraham partied together a lot! I never knew him well, but he DID always have a smile on his face; his warmth was genuine. Back in the early 80s Steve Menne bought a house across the street from my parents’ home, (where I grew up) on 77th Street. I knew Steve lived there, had dropped by to say hi, but I didn’t know that Bill also lived there for a while; I’m not sure how long. One day Mom mentioned how much she and Daddy enjoyed Steve’s friend, Bill ~ apparently he came across the street to introduce himself and then they all realized that Bill knew me, through partying! That’s just the type of guy Bill was; so friendly and respectful to his elders that he made a good impression on my parents too, lots of guys would ignore two old people who lived across the street, but Bill was truly a friend to all. He will be missed by so many whose lives he touched.
Sue (Marks) Lehmann
Dear Yvonne, I was so very happy to see you today (4/21/17) at the Y, and I hope to see you again soon. Thank you so much for directing me to the heartwarming tribute for your beautiful Jenna… a darling little girl whose big, blue eyes could light up the world. The joy on her face as she swam with Craig at the Y was always a beautiful sight to behold. Your loss is unfathomable. It takes a strong woman to be a mother, and an even stronger woman to be a grieving mother. Please know that you, Craig and Aidan are in my heart and thoughts, and I hope that your cherished memories of Jenna may help ease your heartache.
Karen
Beloved Candy,
It took me awhile to accept that you decided to move on to higher places. Even as I watched your soft, bird-like body transition, it showed me that you will be very much present from the unseen. I was silent and meditative for many days savoring memories of our many conversations, some walks, all the performances and some brilliant moments of soul intimacy.
Luka and Mina have always already seen you as a fairy and understood that you decided to go to other realms from which to guide us even in finer ways.
Last time we held hands in the studio, you gazed deeply into my soul and said some profoundly lucid things – I am holding onto your guidance and wisdom.
I played for you that special song dedicated to you – “Lady” by Kenny Rogers. We smiled and gazed at each other in deep knowing.
Lady, I say to you now, your beauty, warmth, care, passion, love and art – your grace in person, style, demeanor and creation – are inspirational. Yours is a life so well lived!
My love, admiration and gratitude go to You!
Mila
I had the privilege of knowing and working with Bill for almost 30 years. He was a great teacher and mentor. He will be missed.
Steve Britten
Candy was like a family member to me. She always was so kind to all of the Rene's dancers. She always saw the positive qualities in other people and always had an encouraging word. She loved children and had a beautiful, pure and loving spirit. Candy was like an angel on earth and I'm sure she is blessed greatly in heaven.
j_milesYour mother was a wonderful person to know. I will always remember her happy smile. Joyce Allison
joyce14562Our hearts break with the passing of a great neighbor. I miss waking up to the sound of a 9 iron connecting with whiffle golf balls, of parking strips being converted into fairways and half painted houses being completed by Linda. Going to miss you Bill.
John Meany, Sammamish, WA
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Bill was one of my best friends, more like family, really. We had some great times together. Much like the rows we walk in life Bill also loved to talk about life liberty and the pursuit of happiness. He will be missed.
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Dear Peggy and your large family. It has been many years; likely since the birthday parties for Clay and Nina in the 1960's until we moved to Massachusetts. Our many trips to visit Don and Edith shoulda coulda resulted in an expanded reunion. Love to all, cousin Jerry and Linda Abrams.
berwickpeggyfossoWe first met Bill on the beach on Camano Island 14 years ago. We were new to the Port Susan community and Bill was the first person I met on the beach. He handed me a bag full of fresh, cleaned crab, and said "Here, welcome to the beach! You'll learn how to catch these but this will get you started." That was Bill, so friendly and always looking out for everyone on Port Susan. Over the years we came to know Bill and it was always obvious when he was up on the beach. Hi booming voice, loud rock n roll music, a huge bonfire, and of course, the constant buzz of a chainsaw were the telltale signs Bill was around. He clearly loved his family and it was fun to see him playing with his grandchildren in the last few years. I hope they remember him. He will be missed on the beach for sure. We need to find a huge log and plant it deep in the sand in Bill's honor. He loved that place so much. He always used to say it was truly paradise. It was, and still is. But it won't be quite the same without Bill around. Our best to all Bill's family, he will certainly leave a large hole that is hard to fill. Watch those grandkids grow up on the beach and keep telling them stories about their grandfather and how much he loved that place.
Jim, Francine, Trevor, Sara, and Megan Dunnigan
Candy was one of the most positive people I know. She always had a kind and encouraging greeting when I saw her. The love she shared with all of those around her will certainly be remembered.
-Monica, company flamenco dancer
RIP uncle Mike, you will forever be missed and youll always be in my heart.. I Love You!!
BRIANNA
Maestro, Stan & I are so very sad to hear of Candy's passing. She was such a sweet & kind lady. Always smiling & happy. She will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
All our best,
Amie Bergondo & Stan Rios
suschiuTo the Douglas Family, we the entire Staff and Management of Travis L. Brown's Integrity Funeral Directors would like to pause the the will of our Lord, Jesus Christ. We offer our deepest condolences to you during the lost of the "Matriarch" of the Douglas Family. Having knowing this family for 20 yrs. the passing of Mother Douglas to whom as also been our church mother has taken its toil but we know that God makes no mistakes and He has the last say. Be encouraged for God has spoken, know that God will see the entire family through. From your Pastor, Apostle Dr. T. L. Caleb Brown and the Empowering A Generation Church of God in Christ Family.
mortuaryministerBill was Bill he like his thoughts to be known, I worked with Bill and Patty on many Jobs over the Years
... I will miss him.. He could really make you laugh.... He Loved his Family and his getaways to Camano Island...... Bill missed his Dad so much and enjoyed helping his Mom... Bill you are missed..
Dickie Short
Bill and I worked together about five years started in 79. Bill always had a smile weather things where good or not so good. Like all the young guys in our group we where full of ourselves had lots of fun
sometimes too much. Working weekends Bill and I would go out to lunch and solve problems
of work and raising a young family over a cool one. Good memories!
Condolences,
Billy and Carol Vanosdol
Loved going to the Daddy-Daughter dance,with my daughter Shannon,you Keely and Ashley,when they were young.When you went up at Rich Kruses celebration last year and shared with your heavy heart,I will never forget that,or your lifetime friendship with me and and countless others.Your great heart ,smile, and your love for life and everybody in it,will be remembered
ballard beaverBrother Michael...you are my friend, my buddy, my hero...I love you, Brother George
mralaskaBill will be missed by all he touched. I had the pleasure of working with Bill for 35 years. In those years we worked together, were on strike together, and did a few 12 oz. things together. In life things are not always Black or White there is also Bill Nelson. He always had his own spin on things. His humor , laugh and smile will stay with us forever. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Bill's family.
racoonalouBill was our friend and neighbor. He was a hands-on, capable individual. During our regular walks through the neighborhood we talked to Bill. He could be found working on his cars, house or yard. We always said "When the big one hits, Bill will be the one to fix our sh*t!"
Last summer our new neighbor Mike came to us with a concern. There was a man down the street that wanted to give his kids candy. He was wondering if we knew him? We had a laugh over the fact that yes, we'd known Bill since we were teenagers, and he was indeed the right guy to be looking out for the kids at the other end of the block. Many of the kids on the block will miss Bill.
The most important thing to Bill was his family, they were everything to him! He was so proud of his girls and would give us updates on what they were doing. He loved Linda and praised the job she did raising their girls. He told us how lucky he was to have her as his wife.
Bill had a great ability to make us laugh! I will miss his wisdom on life! As we walked off he would remind us "to keep loving each other".
Greta and Gary Phillips
To my family and friends, let` all reflect on the great times we have all shared together and those times still yet to enjoy. Bill Nelson just died of a sudden heart attack. Bill was a Boeing mechanic in our crew here at work. He was scheduled to retire on the same day as me. His name and mine were to appear on the cake. Bill was only 48 hours older than me, born on brother Gary`s birthday. Bill started at Boeing and got married about the same year as I. We both started working and got married at the same time. We both were months shy of being drafted into the war of the time. Our father`s both got us jobs where they worked. Bill had three kids, same as me. Bill and I were both told we were crazy for even thinking about retiring early, giving up more and more and more money. Bill died just 12 working days from scheduled retirement. Click on the link below and see why Bill and I chose to retire at 62 years old and why Bill and I both appreciate the true values of life and all of you that made life good. These pictures tell the reason like no other. Dallas, co-worker @ Boeing
keelyelizabethberg
I first met my future brother-in-law at Loyal Heights Elementary School a few decades ago. My first memories of him were of an intelligent, athletic “kid” with lots of friends. Later in our adult years, our conversations always seemed to turn to family and it was easy to read the joy and pride that his wife and three daughters brought to him. In more recent years, Bill could hardly contain himself (and often his tears) when those conversations turned to his grandchildren. One of my best memories will always be of little Hunter following Grandpa around with his plastic golf club in an attempt to be just like this kind and loving man. If you can judge a man by the success of his family, Bill easily stands with the best. Godspeed, my friend. Jud Clendaniel
jud shared a photo.Linda and Family,
Bill is and was always the life of the party even at work. When i was planning Thanksgiving or Chrismas Dinner for the Crewa t Plant 2 C-11 Crib, Bill was alwayh right there to hlep m,e.
Bill had an uncanny ability to needle people, in jest, tha tis where his nick name of NEEDLES came from.
Bill is and was always ready to help some one on the job. The Crew at C- 11 was a good bunch of guys who always pulled together when the chips were down on geting the job done.
Carole and I will be at the Memorial for a good fellow worker.
Dick Craig
My dear brother my heart sank to hearyou were gone. I remember some of our talks. We need you to take charge of those we have lost. And watch over us as well. Still cant get my brain around the i wont hear your laugh or see you
animalfeverBill had been a good friend for many years since I met him early on in my career. He was a person of strong will and opinions and enjoyed being in the middle of a conversation. Over the years my wife and I had some great times with Bill and Linda whether playing racquetball, bowling, playing pool or just drinking a cold beer. Great memories. His transformation from husband to that of husband and father was wonderful to see. Nothing meant more to him than his family and it was a joy to watch the family grow through his stories and pictures. I am sure he was a consummate grandfather and looked forward to spending more time with the kids. We feel great sorrow for his family but am fairly sure he raised some strong kids who will get through this stronger than ever. Our thoughts are with you.
mcalkinsR.I.P. Pop Pop ♥
wayfaringbutterflyI love you brother and will miss you. Especially your beautiful smile and sparkling eyes, Your love you's, and awesome original dance moves. Growing up you were always full of Adventure, and helped us all to have a lot of fun. May God bless you always and your beautiful soul. If I could post a song it would be "Hey Jude" by the Beatles. I loved it when you would belt it out in the Kristjansons garage with all your buddies. Growing up you were my hero. I love you.
doakley
Dad loved these boys so much.
arossman3 shared a photo.RIP, Eileen. You were an angel to set up such a lovely family. They will be brave as you did.
ezhang1She was a very beautiful woman with her long, luscious hair, and beautiful smile that reached her almond-shaped eyes. But, it was her soul that made her the most beautiful person that I ever had the honour of knowing.
She was more than my sister. In a way, she was my best friend and her being my sibling made our bond stronger. She always had my back, no matter what. Through letters, phone calls and short visits to her home in Chennai we found peace and happiness. We shared both, our sorrows and joys. We would spend hours talking about everything under the sun. She loved my children like her own. They considered her to be their favourite aunt.
A few years ago she was diagnosed with cancer, but she amazed us all with her strength. She stood strong like a rock and her faith in God never wavered. She laughed and smiled through her pain. I had the honour of helping her through her last few days. We ate her favourite food, talked to her for hours about our childhood, and spend time gossiping about everyone we knew. She finally breathed her last, and after years of battle, she looked peaceful.
Even as she was laid to rest she looked as beautiful as she did years ago when she was seen as the Ambika of Chennitala-so beautiful that she had to hide her face under the umbrella to keep away the boys. Not a day goes by that I don't think of her. I didn't just lose my sister, I lost my best friend. But, I am happy thinking that she is no longer in pain. I imagine that she is sitting with God as an angel in heaven, because she was one even here, on earth.
We miss you, Roji.
Biji (sister)
My deepest condolences to you and the family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sh will truly be missed . Please give a big hug to Chantel and let her know Ms Debra is thinking of her and loves her very much. Debra Vargas. Room 15 .
mommyteach29Condolences to family and friends
gkellehe
She was an angel in our world. Wish her a beautiful journey in a better place.
maxchen shared a photo.jennygaoRest in Peace……
jennygaomcahillshockqueen你的最爱。
gfkwang shared a video.你的最爱。
gfkwang shared a video.lkuo2ericaychaibayama7249Thought this song fit a perfect tribute to Kandi. I love you Sis
Rebecca SteubeRest In Peace.
xiongxiongniniRest In Peace!
heshiqi shared a video.Rest In Peace!
heshiqi shared a video.frankshaoI am truely sorry to hear on the loss of your beloved wife. May God lead you and your family to get through the difficult time in you life. My most sincere condolences.
cindychuang
With high school friends.
beyoukty shared a photo.I am really sorry to hear about this, May God bless you and your children.
guhaoxiangPlease accept my deepest condolences for your loss. May God embrace you in comfort during this difficult time.
kayythungtracyting
Happy three...... BFC misses Auntie...
ccq929 shared a photo.May you be with angels peacefully and the song surrounds you all the time!
cissyzh shared a video.
Her lovely angel's smile ...
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Happy memories...❤️
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Girls night out. We're so lucky that we had the enough time to know you and be good friends with you! God bless you and your family!
ccq929 shared a photo.You were an angel to us, brought us sunshine and love. We will always remember you as our dearest friend in our deep hearts. With Love!
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mortuaryministerCandy is missed. What a beautiful loving free spirit she was. Her impact as an artist was instantaneous when you met her as was her love of Rene and for sharing the arts with all people. I cherish my memories of our time spent together and will be proud to support the scholarship. Rene, she is not gone, she is now everywhere ~ love, Donna
dsmith9373I really, really, really hope I see you again Dad. John Aguiar
jaguiarI miss you, Bob. Rest up, your long labor is over.
tbaldw1nA beautiful video
René Heredia
Sage was a customer of ours at PCC Natural Markets. He would come in once every couple of weeks, often to have hours-long lunches with his family he clearly cared very much for. He would come up to me while I was working and ask me how I was doing, and I would often reply with how business at the store was either busy or slow, energetic or quiet and relaxing. He would look me in the eye and say, "but how are YOU doing?", putting his hand over his heart or pointing to his head. WIth such small, innocent questions Sage helped me open my mind and heart both inward and outward. Of course, like many things in life, lessons and memories are often learned and remembered in retrospect. For me, there has never been another human being which I've cried such happy tears over in times of mourning and remembrance.
Charles was truly a unique treasure capable of great care and empathetic thought. I continue to celebrate Sage and the memories he left me with.
Rest in paradise Justice for Richard Ares
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Miss you brother. Bill
billvondahm shared a photo.I knew Tizzy almost alll the time we have lived in Leeds - more than forty years. We had a few things in common - we both grew up in Scotland. We both have adopted children, now all mature adults. Our daughters went to the same primary school and got to know each other well and remain friends. Tizzy and I were also colleagues at the then Open Learning Centre in Beeston, South Leeds.
Shortly before her illness took over completely, we shared a very happy telephone conversation. I was celebrating recovery from illness and she had regained what she called her "clarity of thinking" and was especially relishing her enjoyment of poetry again. Her son Robert took care to provide her with many of her old favourite poetry books while she was at Moorfield House. Tizzy asked me several times when I visited her there to read her this poem which I also love. It will always remind me of her and of the frequent train journeys I made to my home in the North East of Scotland.
It is Edward Thomas's poem - Adlestrop.
Adlestrop
Yes, I remember Adlestrop -
The name, because one afternoon
Of heat the express-train drew up there
Unwontedly. It was late June.
The steam hissed. Someone cleared his throat.
No one left and no one came
On the bare platform. What I saw
Was Adlestrop - only the name
And willows, willow-herb, and grass,
And meadowsweet, and haycocks dry,
No whit less still and lonely fair
Than the high cloudlets in the sky.
And for that minute a blackbird sang
Close by, and round him, mistier,
Farther and farther, all the birds
Of Oxfordshire and Gloucestershire.
Some memories of Tizzy from Australia
I am writing this on a cool, rather melancholy day in the upper Blue Mountains in NSW, Australia. From this room I can see mountain mist low on the tree ferns, and rosellas and king parrots squabbling over the seed trays. David knows this room very well, and so did Tizzy. It seems an appropriate place to write something about my friend.
The time is the early autumn of 1967. I remember walking into the staffroom of a small English Language school in Torino Italy after a morning’s teaching and seeing Tizzy sitting at the table. I had been there a week, and Tizzy had just arrived. ‘Hello’ she said, ‘let’s go to the bar downstairs”. That was the beginning of a beautiful friendship. I ditched my frosty Torinese landlady in the suburbs, and Tizzy and I got a flat with a couple of other girls at the top of an old apartment building in the red-light section of the main street; we didn’t realise our location until we visited the hairdresser in the ground floor of the next building which turned out to be a gathering place for the girls.. We had an excellent year. The following summer Tizzy joined me on the staff of a summer School of English at Cobham Hall, in Kent, run by a rascally crew of New Zealanders, met David, and the rest is history.
The next year I returned to New Zealand – very reluctantly -- and missed all the fun of Tizzy and David’s romance and marriage, involving glamourous settings such as Casablanca. But looking back, it is interesting to reflect how much friendship can be preserved by old-fashioned snail mail. By the time Umberto and I finally settled down in Sydney and started a family, Tizzy and David were some years ahead of us. Whenever we were in UK on holiday or I was on a conference trip we made a point of getting together. Snapshots pop into my head – Tiz and David’s kitchen, strung with overhead lines of nappies; waking up in their attic with a cat on my bed and a wonderful smell of baking bread; a particularly nightmarish ride back to Leeds from an outing with Tizzy behind the wheel – it turned out to be the last time she drove a car.
The last time Tizzy was in this room was on her final trip to the antipodes. I particularly remember two episodes. The first involves David and Berto embarking on a serious bushwalk, while Tizzy and I took an unscheduled wander on an unsealed path through the bush with Tiz in the wheelchair. When we were not at the agreed meeting place at the agreed time, they tracked us by the wheelchair tracks and found us totally bogged, waiting rather hysterically to be rescued. It was very funny at the time. The second episode involved incorrectly labelled taps in the bathroom. I still feel quite badly about this, although it certainly had its funny side. You will have to apply to David for details …….
I saw Tizzy with David in Paris in 2010. Sadly, we often don’t realise that the last time we saw a friend was actually THE LAST TIME.
I am really going to miss my friend.
Helen Bonanno
I first met Tizzy when we were both at university in Besançon. We immediately became firm friends, spending hours in cafes chatting over the cheapest drink: diabolo menthe. Neither of us had baths in our digs so we either went swimming or to the public baths where we conversed over the partition with many giggles. Our next encounter was in 1970 in Leeds where we taught French together. In 1972 we were both expecting our first babies. As young mothers, together with Helena, we shared a lot of fun time, often exchanging recipes for bread and cheap meals. Two abiding memories of Tizzy are of her preparing delicious meals at a huge kitchen table while talking non stop and doing the housework with James on her back and Robert and Patrick generally causing mahem.
Tizzy was the kindest, most thoughtful person I have ever met. She always put others first, giving most generously of her time and energy. She was lively and fun-loving, always able to see the funny side of situations, at the same time extremely intelligent and committed to supporting the disadvantaged. She endured her MS uncomplainingly and it is a tribute to David's loving care and the support of the family that she lived such a long and full life. Barry and I send our warmest wishes. Our thoughts will be with you on Thursday.
Vicky Smeaton
" Tizzy was such a special person - a light in a dark world. My oldest friend from 1968 and my almost twin, sharing November birthdays, I have treasured memories over the past 50 years of a warm , inspiring committed human being, who reminded me constantly of the real value of life and the individual. We taught together in Morocco, we shared multiple couscouses and our children's stories as time moved on from the wedding in Casablanca, and the family in Leeds . Then other meetings in Leeds, Hampshire and Provence all underlined our "special relationship" and Tizzy will be sorely missed. A very special person.
With much love and warmest thoughts to all the family .... Alison, Michael, Samia & Mona
nicole moureauJ'ai connu Tizzy lors d'un camp de "jeunesse et reconstruction" près de Bordeaux, ensuite à Paris en 1965 lorsqu'elle était assistante d'anglais. Devenues amies, nous sommes parties ensemble en vacances en Grèce (en auto-stop! via l'Italie). Depuis, nous nous sommes vues en Ecosse, en France, en Angleterre. La dernière fois à Leeds fin 2015. Son courage face à l'épreuve terrible qu'elle a vécue pendant tant d'années a fait mon admiration. Elle va beaucoup me manquer. Je serai près de vous tous le 9 mars par la pensée
Nicole
Au revoir, Tizzie!
Nicole
I met Tizzy when we both went to Paris in 1965 as assistant language teachers. The British Council arranged a bus trip for us to Fontainebleau, or it might have been Versailles, we were far too busy talking to notice. Much talking ensued, and much fun. Tizzy was clever, kind and saw things so clearly. I will love her forever!
elizabethleith
Tizzy aged 3 or 4? So sweet. Do you know where it was taken?
Elizabeth LeithThe photo is dated 1945 so Tizzy was 3. I think it was taken at Ellerslie in Alderley Edge, Cheshire, where the family was staying with Aunt Marg, not a real aunt but a lifelong friend of Tizzy's mother. The family spent a lot of time there during the Second World War, and Tizzy was born there. (from Tizzy's niece).
Sarah Finch
Meeting Ida for the first time.
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Mum & Dad's wedding in Morroco
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Elizabeth Leith
I was lucky enough to work with Tizzy in my first job as an ESL tutor and then co-ordinator from 1981-1993. She was absolutely my mentor; and was ever patient, generous and self-less in sharing from her greater experience. It was also as her friend and observing her with family, friends, colleagues and students that I gained a visceral and lifelong lesson about what it means to be totally generous of spirit and driven by doing good.
An exceptional woman in so many ways, I am grateful to have known you, Tizzy
With love, Paula
All credit to Chérie for writing the eulogy!
robtaylor1973Thank you Robert - so right and true. Tizzy was my dear friend. A wonderful person in so many ways: warm, wise, fun and full of courage, care and kindness. An inspiration always. She will be so much missed. I hope she is at rest now. Very much love to all of you xxx
helenaLike a second Mum to me throughout my childhood. Her delicious Chicken Eggah is still the stuff of my dreams... Firm but caring, I remember her face whiten as she briskly pulled back my sleeve to reveal an obviously broken arm, I was 11 at the time. I also remember, a year or so later, seeing her sneeze herself off her feet (and giggling nervously, as children do) it was the first time I'd had a glimpse or any real understanding of how the MS was affecting her. She was a truly a positive force in this world, and although in adulthood I've not seen her all that much, she will be greatly missed. Lots of love Taylors. Xx
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I think this is Tracy, not sure.
scatlin0205 shared a photo.I think you're right, that looks like Traci.
Annette BillsPS. My mom, Margie Oliver sent me the link to this obituary....
scatlin0205I remember Aunt Annette being really nice and I actually have a picture of me holding baby Tracy in Victorville. I remember Aunt Annette for her great birthday presents and her Aqua Net. RIP Uncle Jerry. Maybe Ill dig that picture up later when I'm not so tired
scatlin0205Hi Sara! I'm so glad you remember me. I just came on
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scatlin0205
Hello again, I have been avoiding thinking about you because every time that I do, I feel as if a fraction of my life begins to crumble again. Of course I know that this is selfish, and of course I think of you daily. Every day something happens that I wish I could tell you, and it is hard to accept that I will not be able to call you and fill you in anymore. This, of course, does not mean that I don’t know that you are with me every step of the way on the journey that life takes me on, it just seems unfair to not be able to hear your voice and your opinions on the matter. I dreamed as if we would have forever, and constantly let it slip my mind that we did not. We built lives involving one another, and it seemed impossible that one day I would have to let that go. You lived much of a life without me in it, but for the first time, I have to live mine without you. It will definitely be an adjustment, one I obviously do not want to make, but one that I know I have to. You were such an amazing person, and I know that every day you woke up with a smile on your face and made sure that you would live that day to the fullest that you could. You worked hard to make others happy, but never lost sight of what made you happy -- which mostly went hand in hand with making others happy. I see a lot of you in myself, and strive to live every day as you would, and in your honor. I always have, and always will strive to be at least half of the person that you were, because I know that by doing that I will make a difference in the world. I wonder what it is like up there, and although I miss you more and more each day I know that this was better for you in the end. I know that you are at peace and that you are no longer suffering. I hope that each day now is spent doing everything you have always loved, and looking down on all of us smiling. But none of this will ever mean that I do not miss you, because I do, and I will, every day for the rest of my life. You were more than loved, you were cherished, and I am grateful to have even been able to spend this time with you. The world seems a little bit darker now, but I know that as the light returns you will remain in our hearts and will continue to be a part of our lives. You were loved by so so many people, and it was a dreadful day for everyone to see you go. Thank you for being so much to me, and for being a part of my life. I appreciate every little thing you have ever done, because it was all done with love. Thank you for living your life as you did because without you I would have lost a part of my inspiration, and so would many others. Thank you for inspiring, and thank you for dreaming. You will always be loved, and live in infamy in our hearts. This is never goodbye, but always see you later. Love Always, Your loved one (I give credit to Katherine Granke, who wrote this)
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Sophia's wedding.
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2009. Half Moon Bay hay bale maze (2).
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2009. Half Moon Bay hay bale maze.
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11/15/2015. Macau. Heading to the casinos.
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11/16/2015. Macau, being toured by a cousin-in-law around one of the oldest temples.
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11/12/2015. On the Eastern edge of Taiwan.
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11/6/2015. Summer Palace.
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11/5/2015. Great Wall, Mutianyu.
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11/5/2015. Beijing. Before the climb.
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5/15/2016. Staring contest.
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2015. Stealing a kiss from Milk Tea.
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2012. Introducing Carmelo to Sophie.
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5/20/2015. Sleeping beauties.
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10/15/2014. Facial.
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Big smile.
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Big eater.
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Bike lover since birth.
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Childhood with cousins.
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11/2011. Space Needle dining.
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10/5/2012. Little Italy, NY.
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1/7/2014. In the new home, Jeff always socked Carmelo.
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9/3/2012. They sleep.
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hey babe,
adowney7404So I took Christys door off the hinges because she was being totally disrespectful. A couple of hours later she came walking out of her bathroom glaring at me while I was sitting on the couch. And I said" What the fuck are you looking at you want me to take your eyeballs too?!" Bahahahahahahaha I knew you would have gotten a kick out of that. I miss you so much Steven. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxoxox