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Forever & 3

Sophia's joyful giggle and creative gifts are special to everyone who knew her. Thank you for sharing her precious heartbeat and all of the picture memories. Our love, thoughts and support are with you always...Dan, Shannon, Calvin, Sarah, Cydnee & Camryn

What a joy and blessing it was to see Sophia grow to be such a beautiful young lady. I'll forever carry her precious sweet smile in my heart.
Jenny Rider

Alyssa,
Thank You So much for making this Tribute for my brother.
I am Charles J. Stecker Jr. I held my brother in my arm as he took his last breaths.

I’ll always remember how Sophia’s smile lit of the stage. Miss Lin

Au revoir Florent

J'avais tellement hâte de te revoir sur Paris pour que tu me racontes tes aventures aux US.
Ton départ est un choc tant j'ai apprécié faire ce bout de chemin de vie professionnelle et amicale avec toi.
J'ai aimé discuter avec toi de tout de rien, de nos projets respectifs à nos pauses café, avec une pinte de bière, autour d'un de nos déjeuners aveyronnais.

Toutes mes pensées vont à ta famille et à tes proches.

Reste cette belle personne que où que tu sois maintenant.
Jérémie

Russ is a wonderful person who will be deeply missed. Who is going to help the technology challenged people now. I have known Russ and Holly since Couch appliance days. Both of them have been there for me and I really miss Russ. I have continued txt him every month to just say Hi and make sure that they both were ok. He is very special and I know Holly and the kids are going to miss him alot. What a wonderful person

dionne {dee}

My Heart Will Go On

It was May, 1992. I had just finished medical school, and Courtney and I had known each other almost 6 months. Courtney had business with CRC in Paris, and he invited me to join him after his meetings. Courtney, of course, bought me the ticket and planned the entire trip. Courtney’s vast knowledge of the history, geography, and sites as well as a superior grasp of the airline and hotel industries led to always amazing trips on a budget, and this first big trip that we took together was no different. He had chosen a boutique hotel (the Phenix hotel – he of course kept a card from the place) just 1 block from the Arc de Triomphe. We then headed by train to the Loire Valley to Blois (I recall the best fondue ever there), where we rented bicycles. We rode from castle to castle – Chambord, Cheverny, and more – stopping by the side of the road to eat fresh baked baguettes with cheese and pate (and occasionally a little red wine). I can still picture the art class of school children with their palettes and easels in the courtyard of Cheverny. We then headed to Arcachon, a beach town on the Atlantic coast, where we played on large sand dunes (Great Dune of Pyla). I trying jumping off one, only to do a head plant in the sand. Courtney suffered with the sand that fell from my hair and ears for several days after that but never complained. Courtney, of course, sniffed out the WWII bunkers on the edges of the beach. Next, we took the train to a stop seemingly in the middle of nowhere. I was worried that we had taken a wrong turn somewhere. Courtney reassured me that we needed to walk a half-mile and the town would be there. As we trekked along the country road, a hill rose up in front of us, and the medieval town of St. Ẻmilion (where we are in the photo above) emerged. We stayed in a quaint room overlooking the lit courtyard and the church. The restaurant in the inn was fabulous. They kept bringing out cheese, which I gobbled down with gluttonous pleasure. Courtney had such a smile on his face when he finally let me know that they were going to just keep bringing me cheese until I said stop. He got such a kick out of my innocent uncouth behavior and never made me feel uncomfortable. We then toured the wineries. Courtney communicated so well in French, but he stumped them when trying to ask why the wine had a certain “chalky” flavor (which, once one winery understood what he was saying, he learned quickly never to say that again). We made our way to Bordeaux with plans for a train ride in the morning to catch our early afternoon flight back to Washington, D.C. Carefree and back in Paris, we decided to stop at some fromageries for gifts on the way to the airport. Of course, when we arrived to the airport, we were much too late to catch an international flight. To me, this was the moment that solidified our compatibility - missing an international flight would be the end of many a new relationship. But for us - we shrugged our shoulders and celebrated that we would have yet another day in Paris. Courtney, of course, was able to re-book a flight for the next day at a nominal fee. We returned to the Phenix hotel, bought several liquor-filled chocolates, and wandered along the Seine, enjoying our bonus night in the City of Love. The next day, we returned to the US where Courtney’s folks were picking us up at the airport. Courtney, of course, whisked through security. I, on the other hand, fumbled through explaining how he lived in Seattle, I lived in NY, he arrived in Paris several days before me, and so on. Subsequently, my bags were searched, uncovering all my undeclared cheeses that we had purchased that day before. Courtney’s folks were so confused why I was not coming out of security, but I finally emerged, and we all had a good laugh. Fortunately, immigration let me keep the cheese.

父母恩

念親恩

Dearest mom,
I feel privileged to have been your daughter. You was a hardworking mom with unconditional love. You sacrificed a lot for us. I will always love you. Kit Yi.

Memories of a great friend and the best mom ever.

May the long time sun
Shine up on you,
All love surround you,
And the pure light within you
Guide your way on.

Kundalini Yoga farewell blessing submitted by Suzanne

Russ is and was an awesome and welcoming man. I am thankful that he had his hand is raising such a beautiful person (my newest sister). She's a pretty awesome reflection of your strength and love for family! You will be truly missed. Until next time, Cheers!

Russ and I met when I was 12 and he was 13. I had just moved to Plattsburgh from Dannemora. A girlfriend and I were walking on Oak Street and literally ran into Russ and his friend Lenny. We chatted and moved on. From that day, he was everywhere - we'd meet at the Crystal restaurant with the other teens who congregated there to smoke, eat french fries, and talk. He was at the skating rink behind PHS the first time I went and soon became one of my favorite skating partners. Then there was a day we spent at the City Beach just chatting and swimming. Well, we fell asleep. Imagine our favorite redhead burned to a crisp! He was beet red pretty much all over. And I wasn't in much better shape. We teased each other about our stupidity for years. One of my most treasured memories was receiving letters from Viet Nam - in one particular letter, he was describing a very hot night when all the sailors were sleeping on the deck trying to stay cool. He described it all so vividly, even the "bombs literally bursting in air". I cried. And it really made that horrendous war real to me. We had many, many good times over the years. He was always kind, had a great sense of humor, and our only conflicts rose when our politics recently differed – and differed strongly! Our friendship even got us through that time. And, even though our paths eventually went our separate ways, we always managed to re-connect. Russ was and will always remain of my dearest friends. Rest well, my friend.
Merle "Fran" Kimbell Kelly

For those that knew Courtney this picture captures his "Look" which is one where he is getting ready to tell a story or explain something of interest to his nephews. One unique story comes to mind of Courtney with his 2 nephews... Donna was busy with graduate school and i had an evening appointment so Courtney came up to take them to dinner at Chucky Cheese... now i really miss Courtney because i can not so justice to the way he would tell this but i will try... The ordered their pizza's Mike got plain cheese and AJ would have the pepperoni sausage and played a few games... then it was time to sit and wait for the pizzas to come to the booth. Well they pizza was delivered and no sooner did the waiter walk away Mike began to wail in shear terror while sitting across from Courtney AJ just dug in and began to eat his like this was normal behavior. Courtney is trying to calm Mike and figure what in the world is going on... finally he asks AJ because nothing is working and AJ looks up and says" Its ok Uncle Court he's just scared of the giant rat "The chucky cheese mascot" and puts his head down and starts to eat.... That night i got home and Court says " hey Case next time warn me about the Rat and Mike" and proceeded to tell the story- I sure do miss him❤

Thank you for all the happy memories, Jon. I will always cherish those. May you rest in peace.

https://youtu.be/WmwcaP2wwEg

Dearest Jon,
My heart will always have room for you. Your being will remain an inspiration to me as it did since you were born and will forever be all through my lifetime. I would say more, but there are not enough words. Have peace, Jon. You will be missed.
With love,
Dad

Russ and I grew up together in Plattsburgh, same neighborhood, same schools. I hadn’t run into to Russ for a year or so but was surprised to find him in my company at boot camp. Having a long time friend at boot camp was a bonus. My story is from high school in Mr. Sponable’s auto shop. Russ and I were watching a classmate “Roswell” sawing a ten foot length of pipe secured in a vise. The other end of the pipe was bobbing up and down with each stroke of the hack saw. The end that was bobbing was whacking an armature growler that wasn’t turned on, well that was to much for Russ and I, let’s see if we can magnetize the hack saw!! Well we turned it on and stepped back just in time to see a bright blue flash and a bang, as well as Roswell laying on the floor. “I think we killed him Russ” but alas she got up and dusted himself off. The hack saw blade had a big burn mark but all else was fine, we never let on what had happened. Going to miss our FB chats Rusty, proud to have been a part of your life.
Tom Lavery

As the daughter of this gun-loving Vietnam Vet, you'd think he'd be the guy who was cleaning guns everytime I brought a guy home. He wasn't. I did get a kick out of telling them his battle history just as we pulled into the driveway though.

Anywho....this story is more about how dad had "the talk" with me as a teenager. He simply asked, "remember in the movie When Harry Met Sally when they are driving to NY together?" Yeah dad, I remember. He advised, "listen again to the part where men and women can't be just friends."

Here's the clip for those who need a refresher =)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEV_pQIf3Og

Florent,

Je n'ai pas trouvé d'autres moyens d'exprimer mon chagrin à travers ce petit poème (FLORENT).
Je vois déjà ton sourire à la lecture de celui-ci...
Je l'ai écrit d'un seul jet, pour être en parfaite synchronisation avec toi.
C'est à dire avec la brutalité de l’événement.


F in de journée, deux hommes sortent d'un immeuble
L 'un prend à droite, le second le regarde
O ù vas-tu comme ça ? s'exclame le second
R ue Cammartin, répond le premier
E h bien ! tu te trompes de chemin rétorque le second
N 'oublie pas que je ne connais pas le quartier se défend le premier
T u devrais me demander mon jeune ami. Je vais t'accompagner, suis moi ! réplique le second




Grâce à nos dernières conversations, le timbre de ta voix résonne encore en moi...

L'écriture passe, la musique succède :

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-F_LfbdK0PM


Ton fidèle ami, Olivier D.

Une nouvelle choquante. Nous sommes terriblement attristés. Nous pensons à vous, Émilie et Lyssana.

Florent was such a wonderful ray of sunshine. Every morning, without hesitation, he’d come in and before he sat down “good morning!” and if I was on a call, I’d get the “good morning!” quietly, with a wave, along with his bright and friendly smile. He was smart, helpful, humble and funny. He always made you feel comfortable and you could ask him any question. The week before his passing, he spoke to me about his family. You could feel his happiness. You can tell how much love he had for them in his voice (any time he spoke about them).

With deepest sympathy, may God give Emilie, the little ones and his loved ones strength and courage.

I haven’t showed this picture to Joey yet because he’s still devastated, but I thought I should share it with all of you. This photo was taken on May 28th 2020 at Lynn CT. During those final few months, Jon was so happy and at peace. Him and Joey would play Play station 4 games for hours including poker. I would wake up out of my sleep at 2:00 am and still would see Jon and Joey playing the game, and laughing in the living room. If they weren’t in the living room, they were in the backyard laughing, playing poker, and listening to music. Jon was very compassionate. When my brother passed he made me his special Mac and Cheese dinner which I always enjoyed. And when I was sick because of morning sickness he would buy me ginger, lunch, and even at times monitor certain foods I ate. I think he was more excited about a new baby then I was. He enjoyed cooking and cooked for us a lot. Jon was a great cook, and I enjoyed his food. Our last day at Lynn CT Jon brought us all dinner and we all bonded together and shared stories. He helped us put our bags in the car and gave us both a big hug. We told him we would see him again, and bring the new baby by to see him. A few months after we found out he passed and it was devastating to hear. My condolences to the family and I will continue to pray for you all and for Jon.
-Mia

May 28 2020 Jon and Joey

Lorsque j'ai appris la terrible nouvelle je n'ai pas réussi à y croire et je n'y arrive toujours pas...
Florent,
Nous avons travaillé ensemble pendant 2 ans et demi, ton bureau faisait face au mien. Pendant ces années de collaboration je ne t'ai jamais vu de mauvaise humeur, tu gardais toujours ce même sourire communicatif.
Tu m'a appris beaucoup et a fait preuve d'une grande patience et d'une générosité sans faille à mon égard. Je t'en remercie. Ce que je garde de ces quelques années ou j'ai eu la chance de te côtoyer ce sont les pauses café ou nos sujets de conversations allaient de la dernière série à la mode aux dernières comptines pour bébé qui nous restent dans la tête toute la journée. Je garde en mémoire aussi les déjeuners du vendredi midi ainsi que les quelques pintes de bières consommées après le travail avec la " bande des consultants". Je ressens une profonde tristesse que tu ne sois plus de ce monde. J'espere que tu es en paix.
Mes plus sincères condoléances à toute ta famille, en particulier à tes parents, ta femme ainsi que tes enfants. Je vous souhaite de trouver le courage de surmonter cette terrible épreuve.
Amandine Boulay

J'ai eu la chance de travailler avec Florent à Paris et à Los Angeles
Un superbe collègue plein d'energie positive
On ne t'oubliera jamais
Toutes mes pensées à ta belle famille

Thinking about you the last few days and speaking with those that knew you, the memories are of that famous smile, positivity and twinkle in your eye. We were lucky to have known you.

Tony with your kind heart and generous spirit you were such a force of life. We shared many happy times with you that we will always treasure. At Christmas, we will pause to remember the wonderland you created and so happily shared with the young and old. Rest in peace, but know you have touched the hearts of many.
With love,
Louise and Bob Starr

To know you was to know that whimsy and joy are not things to be left behind in our youth but instead the foundation on what beautiful lives are built upon. Our family wants to honor you with a dance. So with a spring on our step and light in our hearts we are dancing to this classic tune as we celebrate your legacy and tremendous spirit. After a lifetime of lighting up the lives of those around you, it is now your time to light up the sky above us.
Rest in joy
Rest in whimsy
Rest in love

Always - Eva , Rich & Casper

I had the opportunity to work with Florent for a very brief period of time. He was a very very positive person and always had a smile on his face. He was funny and a very nice person. It is really unfortunate that we have lost such a wonderful person so early in his life. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends.

A Florent,
J'ai eu la chance de travailler avec toi pendant des années. On a eu des moments difficiles mais tu les rendais facile et il suffit de lire tous les messages déposés ici pour comprendre pourquoi.
C'est grâce à tout cela qu'on s'appréciait aussi en dehors du travail.
J'essaierai de garder en mémoire tous ces moments et tu vois je t'écris directement parce que moi non plus je ne veux pas y croire.
Je pense à ta famille.
Amitiés, à la vie.
Nicolas P.

Florent était positif, bienveillant, souriant, attentif, toujours de bonne humeur même dans les situations difficiles et c'était un collègue avec lequel on avait envie de travailler, de discuter, de partager. Il va beaucoup manquer à nos équipes.
Nous avions échangé sur nos expériences américaines et beaucoup rit des aléas de l'adaptation.
J'ai du mal à croire qu'il soit parti.
Je pense à sa famille, lui présente mes plus sincères condoléances dans ces moments si douloureux.
Mes pensées et mes prières sont avec eux, en espérant que le temps allège leurs souffrances.

Pitto & family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
May Jon's fond memories bring you comfort at this difficult time.
Sending our deepest condolences,
Ed, Luz, Melissa & Melvin

J'ai rencontre Florent pour la premiere a Paris chez un client quelques mois apres avoir rejoint BISAM. Je n'etais pas tres a l'aise mais il m'a tout de suite mis en confiance. Il etait plein de bienveillance. Nous avions demenage a Los Angeles le meme jour (la photo que j'ai ajoute a ete prise ce jour la). Pendant 2 ans a Los Angeles, j'ai appris a mieux connaitre Florent. Il etait d'une extreme gentillesse et toujours de bonne humeur. C'etait vraiment agreable de travailler avec lui. Il va nous manquer. Je presente mes très sincères condoléances a la famille.

Jon, the 80's rock!

We met in college and our lives overlapped over the course of 20+ years. You're already missed, my friend.

Being Jon's Tita, I have happy fond memories of taking care of him back in Manila, Philippines. My sisters and I were like baby sitters to him and his other cousins. He was a little bit hyper and always had a cute smile! When he visited us in Chicago later in his life in 2011, we truly enjoyed his company, filled with lots of cooking and outdoor barbecue, as well as seeing him play basketball and Monopoly with our two sons. Jon, we will miss you so much, Rest In Peace and we will always cherish our memories with you. Love you. Tita Meanne, Tito Sotero, Anton and Alex I dedicate this beautiful song to to you. I loved the 80's too.

Jon, me, Rishi and Farrel at my wedding, 20 years into our friendship

Our friendship started in 4th grade, where he lived 1 block away from me in Rockaway, NJ. We hung out every single day, playing basketball, football, backyard baseball, tennis, badminton... every sport. When it was time to go inside, we played video games: 10-yard Fight, Bulls vs. Lakers, Mike Tyson's Punchout... every game. We played basketball together on the Morris Hills Knights and eventually drifted apart when we went to college. No wait, we both went to Rutgers, were in the same fraternity, and continued our great friendship. After college, we lived together for a while, still playing video games but also picking up a serious chess (and Domino's Pizza) habit. As we both moved around the country (and world), we remained close friends. He was a groomsman in my wedding, and my wife loved him from day 1. He loved all music, from Hall & Oates to The White Stripes to Dan The Automator, and was our resident DJ.Jon was a loving, passionate, gentle, all-around amazing person. I miss you dearly, Jon. -Andrew

When I first met Florent I felt a special kinship. He was such a positive guy, and over time I had begun to think of him as the “Happy Frenchman” in my mind. No matter what was going on, or how busy he was, he always started meetings with a cheery “Good Morning!” or my personal favorite of “Happy Friday!”.
In short, he made the world a better place.
I will miss learning from him (he knew so much!), chatting about racing, and hearing about his adventures. He was a great mentor and will truly be missed.
Words are insufficient to express my deepest condolences for his family during this heartbreaking time. I wish you all strength and comfort and I believe God and Florent are with you all.

I’ll never forget our $2,000 basketball horse game. I’ll be making my collection once I join you in the sky…But I’m sure you will just say “double or nothing” haha, Or just bring out the poker chips. Good times Cuzo. You will be missed.
-Paul

earlier link does not work so re pasting a song link here
Though this one is not enough, there are many other songs that we listened to that I will always have a good vibe to.
Thanks again, much love Jon. Rest in peace.
-Adrian

Jon not only loved music, but he shared music with people. He also helped me learn to play the guitar. In continuing the music sharing tradition, here is the soundtrack including some classic lounge hits from one of his favorite movies.

Jon you’re gone way too soon but not forgotten. Miss you brother. -Greg Baxter

I can never forget spending a whole morning playing golf with Jon at Rutgers many, many years ago. He was a golf marshall back then. I have forgotten who finally won our duel and who treated who to lunch. But i will forever cherish those moments. Such precious memories. Rest in eternal peace, Jon.
-Tito Calvin

A tribute to the most effervescent personality we have ever come across and the rock star business consultant we all wanted to be..

Jon was always up for an adventure or a good time. Jon was caring, thoughtful and my son still sleeps nightly with a stuffed animal he got him for his 1st birthday. Heaven got a good one with Jon. Thank you for all the memories throughout the years. -Lou

A sweet and thoughtful funcle! Had so much fun with you just a week before you left us. I miss you already, Uncle Jon. I still play with the toy xylophone and rubber ducky you gave to me. Thanks for everything. I know you are dancing in paradise now.

Love you,
Leila

One of Jon's recommended movies about guys helping a friend. "Swingers" with actors Vince Vaughn and Jon Favreau. Jon recommended to me when I visited the east coast back in late 90's or early 2000. Movie really spread well by word of mouth and is a special movie to me. "You're so money and you don't even know it."
Thanks Jon.
Adrian

Courtney was such a vibrant, loving soul, even during his time of illness, that it is really hard to imagine him no longer with us. We met Courtney at the Rocking Horse Inn in Taos New Mexico, in 1992. He and Amina were there on a ski trip. We arranged to meet while on a Southwest trip Carl and I took with Ethan during the year I took off for medical school after Ethan was born. . Others in our medical school class had already met Courtney, and we had heard how smitten they were with each other. We had the same experience as others, seeing instantly how they were perfect for each other and how, right away, Courtney felt like a lifelong friend. They both were lovers of the outdoors, adventure, and travel. Amina’s training and this love of travel eventually took them to Australia, where, of course, very romantically, they got engaged at the stroke of midnight of the new millennium. We had the good fortune to attend their wedding in Seattle in 2001. Ethan, then 10, hesitated not one second in getting right into Courtney’s car to be wisked away the fun kid things happening while adults attended a pre-wedding festivities. We were then blessed that Amina chose Emory for her fellowship, putting us in close enough proximity for them to come to us for a mountain retreat, and us to visit them for a city fix. Our friendship to continued to grow . It was Courtney who showed me the Kingfishers that live on our river, and I think of him every time I see one while kayaking. It was during one of his visits with the kids, that we discovered that Ethan had gone out on a very unauthorized spin in the family car at age 14. Courtney was an anchor for us as we dealt with this, never seeming judgmental, just supportive. This photo is from our trip with Amina and Courtney to Key West January 2019. There, Courtney, though weakened by his condition, was an inspiration. He and Amina dealt with it all and accepted it as he tried to live life to the fullest within the level of his abilities. If that meant sitting on the porch and enjoying the incredible view and entertaining us with lively conversation, he seemed to appreciate every minute. We enjoyed being to toured on foot and by car through a city he knew well from years of family vacations. We got to see him one last time just over a year ago when they stopped on the way to their yearly trip to a family camping retreat in Vermont, still with much joy, enthusiasm, and love for his family. When Covid hit, it dawned on me what life would be like for him, not getting to be around people, so I called him and enjoyed the stories of his family he loved so much and all that they were up to, which we all know was his unwavering top priority. What we have now are amazing memories of a great friend, a wonderful husband, the most enthusiastic devoted dad we can imagine. We will all miss him greatly.

Une pensée très forte pour cette jolie petite famille qui avait agrandi notre cercle des familles françaises de Lila.
Cette annonce nous brise le coeur.
Nous pensons très fort à toi, Emilie, à ta petite Lyssana qui manque à ses copains de CP et à ton petit loulou.
Nous t'envoyons nos prières les plus précieuses, Florent, pour que tu reposes en paix.

Anne-Laure et Pascal
Raphaël, Eva et Louise

Florent will be truly missed! He has left footprints on the hearts of many of his teammates. He was a wonderful genuinely kind soul, always willing to lend a helping hand with anything he could and always had a smile for everyone to brighten our day. I pray that God may give strength to his family and loved ones during this painful time. Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of a wonderful husband, father, brother, son and friend.

Edna Rosal

I have no words to describe how shocked I am to read that terrible news... I did not work closely with Florent and despite that, he still stopped by my desk when he was at the office to say hi and take some news. He was always positive, calm and manged to spread good vibes around him.

I'll always remember his last day at the BISAM Paris office, when he stopped to my desk just to say goodbye and we finally ended up discussing for 30 mins where I could see how excited he was to start this new chapter in the U.S.

For sure he will be missed by everyone who had the chance to meet him. My sincere condolences to his family.

Jean-Michel

What an incredible soul Florent was. I still can’t believe that he is gone. His pleasing personality, exceptional work ethic and an ever-supportive attitude had got him many admirers at the workplace. There was a lot to be learnt from him. I am truly honored and blessed to have known him as a friend and colleague. I have spent one the best phase of my working life with him. I am going to cherish all the good times spent together from the Friday lunch time conversations at farmers market, to sharing forthcoming travel schedules and the Netflix recommendations and the famous conspiracy theories in the world. I was lucky to be a part of his life when Ewen was born last year.
I shared a strong emotional bond with him. He will forever remain in my heart.
My deepest condolences are with his family. May God give Emilie and the kids enough strength to bear this irreparable loss.

Sometimes incidents happen which makes one think about existence of that super power! This is no less than one such unfortunate incident.
Getting to know Florent and his family through BISAM family gatherings was one of the best things that happened while I was in LA. The simplicity and the perfect smiles didn’t take much time to know Florent, Emilie the kids at a personal level. It breaks my heart every-time a little bit more when I think that Florent is not around us anymore.
For Emilie and the kids, I just pray that they get the strength to get through this difficult time. I do wish I was somewhere closer to be able to emotionally support them in this time of immense pain.
Florent will always be missed deeply and will be part of wonderful memories I built when I was in LA.

My deepest sympathies and lots of love to the wonderful family he left behind.

Rashmi

J'ai eu la chance de croiser Florent dans les locaux de BISAM Paris et à chaque fois on sentait cette gentillesse en lui.
Ce qu'il a apporté par sa gentillesse et son professionnalisme va beaucoup nous manquer.
J'ai une pensée pour sa femme Emilie , ses enfants et sa famille dans ces moments difficiles.
Mes sincères condoléances

Olivier Gaudefroy.

Florent touched so many people with his smile and endless positivity and he will be dearly missed. My heart is breaking for Florent's wife and children and all his family and friends who will no longer get to see Florent's smile. To Emilie and the children, I hope you find some comfort in the outpuring of love amongst this tradegy. My deepest sympathies.

This captured a moment in 1985 that really reflects the face of laughter and humor that Courtney spirit would bring to any time you spent with him. Reflects his sparkle and impish humor he could bring to any moment and gathering.

This picture was taken in Thailand a few months before I met Courtney, but Courtney spoke of this trip so vividly that I feel I can do the tale justice. The expedition to Thailand was Courtney’s first big trip outside North America and certainly opened his eyes to global travel. He and his friend, Dan McBride, acted as couriers for packages to Asia in exchange for $100 business class tickets to Thailand. With all his travel belongings in a small backpack, he and Dan journeyed around Thailand, meeting travelers from all over the world. This photo was taken in Phuket. Dan and Courtney had met some European travelers, and the four of them rented small motorcycles to ride along the seaside roads. I believe some sort of animal jumped out and Courtney swerved, resulting in a ride down an embankment that wrecked the motorcycle and caused a large gash to his left thigh. The photo shows the mangled front wheel as well as the large bandage on the sutured laceration. You can see by the smile on Courtney’s face that it was all worth it! When I met Courtney on New Year’s Eve 1991-2, Courtney had brought his photos to Dan and Maya’s house, and we stayed up late looking at the pictures as he told me the stories of his amazing trip. Later, when I had visited Courtney’s folk’s home in Arlington, I noticed a handwritten note by Courtney posted on the refrigerator. “Mom was right about motorcycles – Courtney.”

Tom was a man of many words. We met in 2012 at Art Toronto and became friends once we got past the initial stare down and interview. He was a great supporter of young Canadian artists and his visits to the gallery were always memorable. I appreciated his intelligence, frankness and his sense of humour. Tom always remembered to ask how my family and my dog were doing. Only days prior to his passing we spoke on the phone about women in the workplace, education as the solution to all our problems and the reality of being a teacher. He spoke passionately and even called me back to elaborate on our discussion. He eluded to dying in our conversation and concluded by saying, “I am not going to live forever you know Nik.” I replied, "oh stop, you have a ways to go", little did we know.

Forever grateful for Tom's friendship and support.
R.I.P. Tom, you will be missed. Our condolences to his family and friends.

I posted my last message on 09/07/2020 at 12:42 pm easter

I really miss you now that the democrats have become communist and do not care about their voters. Donald Trump is president and really has done a good job, he cares about Americans and the Democrats do not, even mom agrees. I think when Trump wins his second term we are facing a new civil war, I wish you and Jerry were here to help. I really could use your wisdom right now

It has been 5 months since beloved Dayton has been unexpectedly taken from us.

Rattan & Doris Bhatia

Doris and I had only a few, and far between, occasions to meet with Courtney.The times we remember the most include his wedding, Amina’s Fellowship graduation at Emory hospital in Atlanta, and the Ellis family’s annual ‘stop over’ visits with us during their Christmas holidays in Vermont. Each time during these visits we discovered a new specific aspect of his personality that revealed him as an all-round family loving and friendly individual, as well as an efficient manager and organiser.
Our first ‘official’ encounter with Courtney was at the wedding ceremony when I had the honour and pleasure of walking my niece, Amina, down the Isle towards the impatiently waiting young and handsome ‘boy’. Both looked happy and loving at the prospect of tying the knot.
Amina and Courtney came from different social backgrounds- Amina a daughter of an Indian immigrant father and American mother, and a medical degree, while Courtney a100 percent American and, at that time, a successful professional in the private sector. This divergence must have required substantial adjustment on the part of both in settling as a married couple. As their life history shows, they fully well made that adjustment. I believe that during his bachelor days Courtney must have come across the economic concepts of ‘comparative advantage’ and ‘division of labour’ that say that interacting entities (countries, companies, partnerships etc.) will mutually gain the most if each party concentrated on pursuits where it has comparative advantage in relation to its partner. The truth of this axiom is evident in the case of the Ellis family. While Amina concentrated on being a pediatric surgeon, Courtney chose to stay at home to raise the new-borns through to their teens. Result: Amina has the reputation of being an excellent surgeon and Courtney could take pride in the way he raised and guided the three infants to grow to become ‘model’ children whose love and admiration for him are always on display. Additionally, Courtney used his managerial and organisational capacities to actively help Amina in her quest to seek and achieve her ambitions as a surgeon. He was often the spokesperson for Amina, and he performed that role meticulously well.
Personally, I was touched by his two observations he made to me- one at the very early time after their marriage when Amina and he used to come to Arlington often to meet his parents, and another only last month when I called their Atlanta home to congratulate Nathaniel on his graduation. On the first occasion he remarked that when he thought of Amina’s family, he felt that Doris and I were the ones that came to his mind the most. On the second occasion, he told me that their children had appreciated reading the little notes that, in response to Amina’s request, I had prepared for “My Story” site and wondered why we had not been an active part of their social life. Courtney added that he shared the same sentiments but blamed it on the distances that separated us.

Tom’s obituary has been submitted to The Sacramento Bee. It has been requested to run in the e-Edition and legacy.com on 9/19/20.

This photo was taken in Brian Head, Utah, on our journey from Albuquerque to San Francisco. Our work visas for Australia were in limbo, so we made our way to our port of departure by way of a stunning drive from Albuquerque to Las Cruces (to visit our dear friend, Reuben), Silver City, the Petrified Forest, (AZ), North Rim of the Grand Canyon, Brian Head, Tahoe, and finally San Francisco. Poor as church mice, we filled our trunk with a Costco shop and camped at National Forests along the way. At each stop, we mountain biked gorgeous single track trails, swam in canyons, and enjoyed wild flowers in the desert that were blooming after a long hiatus at the end of a La Nina year. We had arrived at the Brian Head camp late at night. Readying ourselves for sleep, we noted how difficult it was to blow up the over sized air mattress we had brought. In the morning, we woke to see we had snow outside our tent (it was July) and realized we were at 9800 feet altitude or so, explaining our difficulties with the mattress the night before. The mountain biking ended in Nevada after a tumble left me with a concussion and dislocated clavicle. However, our work visas came through, we flew to Sydney, and our next adventure began. But, the journey to get there was as beautiful a story for us as the amazing stories that followed.

I met Tom Maunder while working at City Park Co-op. Whenever Tom and I crossed paths we would have interesting conversations about life in general. Tom brightened up my day. Sometimes I would stop by his yoga classes just to say hi. Sometimes I would find Tom sitting on the bench in the courtyard. Now every time I pass by the courtyard I will remember Tom. I'm going to miss our conversations. R.I.P.
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How can I possibly say goodbye? I can’t and I won’t so I’ll carry you with me wherever I go. I’ll speak the truths you’ve taught me to my son. I’ll exhibit the strength you’ve always shown. I’ll never give up. I’ll continue to forgive others as you always have. I’ll be kind and see the glass half full. I’ll laugh your contagious, hearty laugh with joy in my heart. I’ll make you proud dad. I’ll always be your little girl and I’ll always love you. #restinpeacedaddy #myfirstwordwasdada

Dear Manny and Monette,
My condolences on the passing of your father. He sounds a wonderful person; you are blessed to have him in your lives and in the lives of your children. He lives on in the many happy and love-filled memories of shared moments together. Your family does have another angel watching over you in heaven. Prayers assured for the repose of his soul and for you and your family at this time.

Ming Roxas

Our deepest condolences. May your hearts be comforted despite the circumstances. Prayers offered.

Revelation 21:4 - He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.
Prayers and condolences offered.

Prayers and condolences offered by the De los Santos family in Manila.

My two favorite memories of Court are from the same day. The look of frustration he got from some one of Fred's antics/shenanigans (sadly I can't remember what the shenanigan was) and the look of joy he had later in the afternoon because Fred was pissed off at us for being out on the laser all day. I am very sad about this. However, I will think of Fred hopping around on the rocks and that will make me feel better.

I first remember hearing about Courtney from Amina during my last year of medical school. It was clear to me that she had found someone very special who shared her zest for outdoor activities and adventures. And eventually I met this wonderful man who loved to hike, mountain bike and boat, when my husband and I visited them in New Mexico. It seemed that Courtney and Amina were inseparable, moving from one adventure to the next. We kept in touch over the years, meeting them at medical school reunions and when they stopped by on their trips to Eagle Camp during the summer. It was clear that Amina and Courtney were a team and that they loved each other very deeply. Last summer, they travelled up to Vermont again and we had the pleasure of going out to lunch with them at the North Hero House. Courtney’s health had declined significantly but his spirit was just as strong and positive as always. He had such a wide range of interests and he spoke about traveling, nature and activities, but most notably about his family and children. It was clear that despite his illness, he still embraced life passionately, and that his family was the center of his life. We will always remember Courtney’s strength, generosity and goodness. And we will always remember how much he loved his family and how proud he was of his wife and children.

From Luxshana Maheswaran:
Mr. Maunder was my grade 12 English teacher at L'Amoraux High school from Jan -June 2008. He is so funny and flexible when comes to assignments. He never pressures anyone and always encourages them to do the work. If he knows that you are trying your best, he will pass you. I still remember one of my friends was getting 43 marks in grade 12 English class in June and she always skips classes, Mr.Maunder said to her come to class I will pass you. But my friend never showed up and, in the end, she failed. During the class time, he always shares with us about his personal life, I remember he said that he is the only child to his parents and father die at a young age and he is very close with his aunt. The aunt is a teacher too. She is the one who always encourages him to read books and because of her, he is a teacher. I still remember he said once he is happy that he didn't get married but at the same time he not happy that he didn't get married. Last time I saw Mr.Maunder on Aug 2010 and Aug 2020 I am writing this. Once I broke his pencil sharpener in the class and every time, I see a pencil sharpener I always think about him. Even at the beginning of this month I saw a pencil sharpener in Walmart, I was thinking about him. He was a great educator. His focus on critical thinking and the importance of having an opinion beyond what the test reads is such a great tool to help mold young minds. Rest in peace, Mr. Maunder.
Luxshana Maheswaran

I knew Tom through a large part of my childhood, as he was a close friend of my mother's for several years back in the 80s. I love reading everyone's memories here, as they are so consistent with my own - a gruff exterior and sometimes sharp tongue, but underneath it someone with deep, sensitive feelings who tried in their own way to express love. He had a great love of books and movies and a quick sense of humor. I know that many of his suggestions and ideas still influence me today. I'm glad to know that he had good friends around him towards the end of his life. He and my mother played endless games of scrabble, and sometimes there were "strong disagreements" about words and points. I'm not sure if it was that or something else that drove a wedge between them, but they drifted apart and I had only seen him very occasionally over the past few decades. It's been good to remember all the best parts of Tom and I feel lucky to have known him growing up. This photo is my favorite of Tom and my mother.

Mary Oliver wrote, "instructions for living a life: pay attention, be astounded, tell about it." I can think of no better description of my friend Courtney, who welcomed my family into his heart and his home when we moved next door. He took in everything and everyone; he viewed the world with wonder and a smile; and he told you the stories--of what moved him, what inspired him; of his life; of his family's lives, and their achievements and goals and loves. I will always hold dear his smile and his openness and his stories. Deepest condolences to his incredible family, whom he cherished and whom we hold close.

We are grateful for the tremendous outpouring of love and support from all who attended yesterday's celebration. I know some took photos and would appreciate having those shared with me, if possible. To follow is the web link to the album of photos we displayed yesterday for those who would like to revisit the images or for those who were unable to be physically present to enjoy: https://photos.app.goo.gl/nrEWVrNTLLxazrut7

Very sorry to learn of Tom's passing. I am certain he made a lasting impression on everyone who had the pleasure of meeting and knowing him.
I know I'll never forget my initiation into the personality that was Tom . Some years into my teaching "career" Tom joined the staff and our department head brought him round to each member present to make the introductions. I stood up, extended my hand and cordially said, "Hi, Tom. Nice to meet you."
Tom regarded my hand for a moment, and then took it with the enthusiasm reserved for picking up a dead rat. I believe his verbal greeting was, "Hmm." He warmed up to me ... eventually.
Tom, I will miss your intelligence and wit.
-- Chris Armstrong

Cool calm and collected - even when there is whitewater and rocks all around....1985

This picture really speaks to me about who Court was and how much he enjoyed life and adventures and sharing them with friends and family. Whitewater rafting with Court and Haralds Gaikis at the Clackamas River 1985

Whitewater rafting with Court and Haralds Gaikis at the Clackamas River 1985

Whitewater rafting with Court and Haralds Gaikis at the Clackamas River 1985

Whitewater rafting with Court and Haralds Gaikis at the Clackamas River 1984

Whitewater rafting with Court at the Clackamas River 1984

Whitewater rafting with Court at the Clackamas River 1984

Camping with Court at the Clackamas River Raab Campground1984

One of the neatest things about your Dad Courtney was the summer of 1984 when he first came to Seattle between his Junior/Senior year at Beloit. He had taken a class in computer programming at school that spring and i had met Virgil who said he was looking for a programmer and i of course spoke up and said oh my brother knows how to program...etc. Soooo Virgil called him and interviewed him and out he came to Seattle to work. Well Court and I hadn't really thought it through as i had a 1 bedroom apartment with a King waterbed that backed up against 2 walls.... but we spent that summer sharing a sloshing waterbed and one of the weekends Hazel and Eldee who were Uncle James and Aunt Margies next door neighbors came up and we went to Victoria for the day. Heard a band playing in the pavilion in the park there and everything. The thing about that summer that is so cool is that it really was the beginning of your Dad and I becoming much more close as we were both young adults then and on our own. I feel so lucky and grateful that i not only had him as a younger brother early on in my life but that i really got to know him and love him as an adult.

I met Courtney through his brother Fred and Peter Gimlin when I shared a house in Seattle with Fred and Peter in the late 1980's. Courtney visited our house often and we'd have conversations about politics, economics and fun stuff to do in Seattle. Courtney was a fun, energetic and a very smart guy. I remember him being very loyal to his family and friends. This is a picture of Courtney and Fred at Tonys and my wedding. Tony and I were at the party where Courtney and Amina met, and it was obvious they were both very taken with each other. I haven't seen Court since he left Seattle, but I will always consider him a friend. I am glad he is with Fred and his Mom and Dad in heaven. Cheri Borland Grasso

Eagle Camp 3-on-3 tournament, ready to play Defense

Eagle Camp Cocktails

Table full of Ellis's at Eagle Camp with Uncle Court

One of the intense 3-on-3 basketball tournaments held at Eagle Camp every year, Uncle Court is about to dish the ball to me for an easy pass to Mike for a layup!

The entire Atlanta gang (Missing Nate) at Carolina and I's engagement party, 2019

Uncle Court teaching me how to wind surf, Eagle Camp

Uncle Court and Aunt Amina at Mom and Dad's for Carolina and I's engagement party, 2019

Courtney and Peter visiting us in our first New York apartment, 1984

Courtney, Elise, Fred and Peter at Elise & Tony's wedding reception, July 1983

Dear Nate, Sabra, and Colin,
My brother Peter Gimlin grew up with the Ellis family. I have such fond memories of the zany antics the four Ellis brothers were always engage in. I was especially fond of your dad and Fred because they were such good friends with Peter and our brother Chris. When I first started dating my now husband Tony, I would regale him with tales of Ellis brother adventures. When he met them he too got to experience for himself all the infectious fun. Your dad had such joie de vivre! And as they say in New York he was a true mensch.
With love,
Elise Gimlin Mattia

I am so sorry to hear of your father’s (and husband’s) passing. I vividly remember meeting he and Amina when they rented 2058 ET from me. Amina was just starting her Fellowship at Emory and the need to be close to campus was essential. I got to know your father through the various visits to the house addressing all its little imperfections/annoyances . I recall often standing in that tiny kitchen speaking with your father about, well you name it, he was versed in so many areas. He was so smart and thoroughly interesting and yes, he was good at finding those imperfections I needed to address. I could hardly handle a hammer and a nail. He was so much better. There was once a huge tree in the back yard (probably one of the most massive in the neighborhood}. Your dad called to tell me it was beginning to lean. What, how could you tell that, I asked. Leave to to your dad. He had a picture of house taken when your parents moved in. It was from the street with the tree in the background. A then current picture showed the change in position. Yep it had to come out. Well, we both watched on one of those days as the tree guys did their job. They were actually hanging from the huge limbs chainsawing other limbs off. We both had to turn away someone was going to fall out of that tree...but they eventually accomplished the job..... Well, your mother completed her Fellowship and naturally offers abounded across the country. Your father told me of a visit to the beautiful Palo Alto area, I believe. After considering everything they ultimately decided Atlanta was a better place to raise a family. When Nate came along I recall tiptoeing into that bedroom with your dad. He always smiled and beamed as you slept. The house was so tiny. The living room and sunroom were your early playgrounds. Your dad was fully engaged and enjoyed every minute. When toys were pulled out there was hardly a place to step - not due to overindulgence but just lack of space. My young son would sometimes tag along with me. He would play with Nate like an older brother. Well when the necessary decision was made to move to a larger house your dad surveyed the area . Your parents visited many a renovated home. Your father was not impressed. So 2058 ET became the focus and the Renaissance Man decided to buy the house and move to a major expansion. Again, as typical, he was fully engaged. He walked me through the finished product. I was thoroughly impressed with his vision. What a place to raise a family....and I am sure he and your mother have done just that. I am so sorry he is not there to see the three of you grow and mature as individuals in your own right. He will always be in your hearts. No one can ever replace him. Prayers for all of you. Tim Biggs

Here he is at Fred and Betsy's in the early 90's celebrating XMass - Amina was sitting across from him

Here he is at Fred and Betsy's in the early 90's celebrating XMass - Amina was sitting across from him

Church photo late 69 or early 1970 - what a great smile

A couple of the family this was us in Arlington in 1965 for Xmass

Played bball with Grutzner and your dad in the parking lot of the kngdome in 1987

SHODASI : SECRETS OF THE RAMAYANA ENGLISH HINDI AND TELUGU ORIGINAL AUTHOR : SESHENDRA SHARMA Seshendra : Visionary Poet of the Millennium http://seshendrasharma.weebly.com www.seshen.tributes.in REVIEWS : www.facebook.com/shodasi / Books : https://kinige.com/author/Gunturu+Seshendra+Sharma Ramayana, a replica of Vedas S. VARADARAJAN There are several versions of the Sri Ramayana, one of the two greatest epics. Following Sri Valmiki Ramayana several editions have been published in various languages, besides scores of commentaries written across centuries. Late. Gunturu Seshendra Sharma, scholar poet of 20th Century unearthed secrets of the Ramayana through his popular Telugu book “Shodasi”. The novelty of nomenclature Shodasi , called Sri Vidya is reflected , in the 16th Chapter . Sharma’s intellectual depth comes forth in analyzing Sundara Kanda specially through Kundalini Yoga . The author highlights hidden truth in Valmiki’s thought that is similar to Vedas and says that Trijata’s dream in Sundara Kanda reflects Gayatri Mantra of 32 Syllabi in 4 lines. Sharma pays rich encomiums in the description of Lanka surrounded by three impregnable borders. He compares these three borders with Trikuta viz... Shakti , Kaamaraaja , Vagbhava Kutas with those of Sri Vidya in Kundalini . A staunch believer of Vedas, the author feels that Ramayana is a replica of Vedas and oriented towards the character of Indra . He concludes that in Ramayana the mentioning of the supreme God is Indra and not Vishnu, as the presiding deity of valour in Vedas. Utterances of the word Vishnu were considered to be imaginary overstatements in the author’s view. This book lends a new perspective to the Ramayana by adding the dimension of Kundalini Yoga . The foreword by Vishwanatha Satyanarayana adds credibility to the book. The current work is an English translation of the original by Gurujada Suryanarayana Murthy , a scientist by profession . His proficiency in the subject is evident in the translation throughout that doesn’t swerve from the original’s purport. The Hindu (Friday Review: 2nd October 2015) A Resplendent Icon of all Arts This is an exemplary book which elevated the status of Indian Literary Criticism to the peaks of the world literature. Shodasi is a name associated with a great hymn. The title suggests that it’s a book on spiritual discourse. A reading of this book suggests that the spirit of scientific temper is critical to comprehend Valmiki’s Srimad Ramayana. Besides this, command on Vedic or Scriptural knowledge is essential. What does a layman has to say when a towering personality like Viswanatha Satyanarayana himself extolled the critical acumen and serious scholarship of Seshendra Sharma. Sharma has made it crystal clear that unless one has an apparent understanding of the plot’s context, psyche of the characters, and the milieu of the bygone days supplemented by extraordinary scholarship, sound knowledge of phonetics and awareness on contemporary issues; one cannot easily comprehend the poetic diction of Valmiki. The debate on the phrase “Netraturaha” is a fitting example. The uniqueness of the title, Sundara kanda, Kundalini Yoga, Gayatri Mantra secretly hidden in Trijata’s dream sequence, considering The Bharatha as an image of The Ramayana.... this book is a repository of many such critical discourses. It is replete with inconceivable and unfathomable issues. This magnum opus is an invaluable gift to the Telugu literature. - VIPULA, Viswa Katha Vedika: May 2014 (An exclusive Telugu Monthly Magazine for stories) * * * Valmiki Ramayana – Greatest Medicine for Mankind The story of Ramayana is prescribed as textbook for students. Sita and Rama are worshiped as prime couple. No need to mention about reciting it. Whether Valmiki was satisfied with simple narration of the story? Seshendra Sharma denies it. He analyzed it mentioning that to understand the inner meanings of Valmiki Ramayana, the scientific knowledge is essential. The underlying secret of the sage’s mind will be known through the knowledge of science. It is the firm opinion of Seshendra that the argument that “the sciences are for scholars only” is a conspiracy hatched by Selfish scholars and lazy uneducated persons. Seshendra who has democratic ideology and conviction on science and literature informs the public about the secrets of Ramayana expounded by Valmiki. He explains that Valmiki dedicated ambrosia (The Greatest Medicine) named “Kundalini Yoga” to the mankind. The poetry in the metre of Anushtup Sloka is the honey coating to the medicine. It was explained with great introspection and exemplary scholarship. He concludes that the Ramayana is older than the Maha Bharatha and it is another form of Veda. Valmiki introduced the system of meditation in Ramayana. The Introspection and research bent of mind of Seshendra are spread over in the book in two streams. The exuberant fragrance of scholarship is experienced throughout the book. The present generation can understand the scholarship of Seshendra in Vedas and Mantra Sastra. Seshendra is a poet who has composed unique Ruthu Ghosha (Cry of the Seasons: Metrical Poetry) and revolutionary free verse –Mande Suryudu (The Burning Sun). - Andhra Prabha (Telugu Daily), 24th August 2014. * * * Two Great Peaks in the world literary criticism and research Shodasi: Secrets of The Ramayana and Swarnahamsa Harshanaishada from the mighty pen of the great Telugu poet, Gunturu Seshendra Sharma are considered to be the two great peaks in the world literary criticism and research. This is a truth most contemporary Telugu writers and readers aren’t aware of. The way Seshendra could discover Kundalini Yoga, Gayathri Mantra in Shodasi, he could discern the treasure trove of mantra yoga, Sri Mahatripurasundari, Chintamani mantra in Swarnahamsa. At a time when our universities which are mere Degrees production Units, churn out “solid waste” in the name of research; Seshendra even while attending to his job as a Municipal Commissioner created research oriented critical volumes like a sage. Though Shodasi was published in 1967 and Swarnahamsa in 1968; Swarnahamsa was created by him much before Shodasi was conceived. The concepts that Srinatha, Nannayya and Mallanatha, the Telugu Classical poets couldn’t decipher, Seshendra could. He humbly submits that he is most fortunate that the triumvirate had left behind some pertinent concepts only to be discovered by him at a later stage. These two great kavyas were serialised under the editorship of late Neelamraju Venkata Seshaiah in Andhra Prabha Daily, Sunday Literary Supplements from 1963 to 1967 and Seshendra’s poems and non-fiction were published in the book forms (6) only after they appeared in serial form in Andhra Prabha. ----------------- Gunturu Seshendra Sarma, the well-known poet, critic and scholar of unfathomable depth, has to his credit quite a number of books in Telugu as well as English. A keen intellect and a lucid exponent of the intricacies in Samskrit literature, the author brought out a treatise on Ramayana. The book also reveals the symbolism in our epics and shows the spirit behind. According to the author, Sage Valmiki has observed Ramayana as though it is a story of a dynasty in its outward appearance. But when the story part is kept aside, the hidden secrets of the Mantrasastra come out. Valmiki’s Ramayana is full of Vedic literature, language and usages. Ramayana can be appreciated from three angles. The poetic beauty, the historicity and the secret meaning of mother Parasakti. Later Upanishads have taken Valmiki Ramayana as the way to the Mantrasastra. Rama’s wife Sita is considered as Parasakti. In Devi Bhagavatham Sita is described as Goddess Gayatri. The author has taken unusual pains and quoted Vedic dictations which are literally taken by Valmiki in his Ramayana. Thus it has been a product of Vedas and the usages in Ramayana and the words used therein and the similies adopted by Valmiki speak inexplicably the secret of Mother Lalita in his stories. The author has given and attached a very great significance for Sundarakanda in Ramayana. The author has quoted numerous quotations from Smrithis and Srithis to establish that Sundara­kanda is beautiful because Anjaneya the Jeeva has seen Sita the Parasakti. Hence this canto is so styled as Sundara. According to the author “Sita” means “Kundalini.” Hanuman has seen Sita while she was sitting on the ground. Ground means Earth. Earth denotes Mooladharam. The serpent Kundalini stays in this. Thus it is symbolised as Sita sat on the ground. Hanuman the Yogi has the vision of Kundalini in Sita. With the aid of Ida and Pingala, Kundalini travels in Sushumna through spinal cord crossing the six fluxes, and finally reaching Sahasraram. This again speaks of “Shodasi.” Rama is a beautiful man. He is having a Sundari in Sita (a beautiful woman). The descriptions are beautiful in this canto. Thus it is synonymous with “Soundarya­lahari” of Sankaracharya. The author expressed that Mahabharata is a reflection of Ramayana in all the cause, origin and delivery. Innumerable similarities are quoted from both Valmiki and Vyasa to prove that the usages, style and similies are almost similar in both the epics. He compares Vyasa’s “Nalacharitam” with Sundarakanda of Valmiki in the vision of Srividya. The author further argues that Kalidasa’s “Meghasandesam” is only an imitation of Valmiki. The flight of Anjaneya in search of Sita is the basis for Kalidasa’s “Meghasandesam.” Both Sita and the Yaksha’s wife are described as “Syamas” – meaning in the middle of youth. The duration of separation is one year in both the cases. Ultimately the author said that “Meghasandesam” is the offspring of Ramayana, with yearning to see Parasakti. The author has taken the readers in his book to that sublime beauty where there is no further argument, than to enjoy the flow of citations with their intrinsic meaning and full of scientific vision. His unsurpassed knowledge in Mantrasastra has enabled him to pass dictums vivisecting the symbolic mysticisms into splinters and handing the kernel of truth under each word, usage, and application. He deserves all praise for this meritorious contribution to our literature. https://www.tributes.us/Seshendra-Seshendra-Sharma

In this interview father ( http://seshendrasharma.weebly.com ) pours forth his memories , feelings and experiences of his childhood of his village his father etc.

In this interview father ( http://seshendrasharma.weebly.com ) pours forth his memories , feelings and experiences of his childhood of his village his father etc.

In this 2 Minute Video clipping from Chilaka Gorinka ( Telugu Movie : 1966 ) Gunturu Seshendra Sharma ( http://seshendrasharma.weebly.com ) appears as a doctor :
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Visionary Poet of the Millennium
An Indian poet Prophet
Seshendra Sharma
October 20th, 1927 - May 30th, 2007
http://seshendrasharma.weebly.com/
https://www.facebook.com/GunturuSeshe...
eBooks : http://kinige.com/author/Gunturu+Sesh...
Seshendra Sharma is one of the most outstanding minds of modern Asia. He is the foremost of the Telugu poets today who has turned poetry to the gigantic strides of human history and embellished literature with the thrills and triumphs of the 20th century. A revolutionary poet who spurned the pedestrian and pedantic poetry equally, a brilliant critic and a scholar of Sanskrit, this versatile poet has breathed a new vision of modernity to his vernacular. Such minds place Telugu on the world map of intellectualism. Readers conversant with names like Paul Valery, Gauguin, and Dag Hammarskjold will have to add the name of Seshendra Sharma the writer from India to that dynasty of intellectuals.

Dear Nate, Colin and Sabra,

Thank you for setting up this place to share memories. I’ve uploaded some pictures of your dad from earlier days that I hope you will enjoy.

Your dad was so enthusiastic and energetic. Trying to make a list all the activities he did is exhausting: running x-c track, rowing crew, lacrosse, rock climbing, tree climbing, hiking, biking, canoeing, sailing, wind-surfing, waterskiing, skiing…. And he did them all so well. He and Fred were something to behold when they sprinted patterns up and down Potomac St. or later, Burke Ave., and drilled the football back and forth like a dart. (A tangential aside: one fond memory of childhood, much earlier, is charging around on the Ellis’s yellow tandem behind Courtney, pedaling like mad across the lawns, tossing the Northern Virginia Sun in the vicinity of subscriber’s door stoops.) What is more, he wanted you to do these things with him and share in the joy of it.

Courtney was passionate about pretty much everything; family, friends, projects, work, travel, nature. Hillary and I have a very fond memory of your dad on a hike in New Mexico where he was very adamant that we too should sniffing and taste the sap on the ponderosa pine trees around us to experience its black licorice flavor.

I hardly need to say how concerned and caring a person he was. I know he cared so much about you guys and your mom because he loved nothing better than talking about what you were up to and how you were doing.

Courtney was the best friend imaginable to have. He and all the Ellises have been like a second family to me and had a profound impact on my life. Hillary and I look forward to the day --hopefully soon-- when we can see you all and share some more stories in person.

With all our love for you and your mom, Peter and Hillary

Taking a dip in a stream, at Courtney's insistence. Not croc waters! Courtney, Peter, Hillary

Touring northern Australia with Amina and Courtney. 2000

Touring northern Australia with Amina and Courtney. 2000

Hillary and I visited Courtney and Amina in Sydney in 2000. Courtney was not permitted to work, so he had the free time to be the most amazing host and tour guide while we were there. Court with Hillary in downtown Sidney, showing that great smile.

Sunset supper on the summit of Castle Rock, by Hurricane Ridge, Olympic NP. September 1991

On the fire lookout tower, Goat Mountain, Cascades. 1991

With the beloved hand-me-down pickup truck of Casey's. We survived several years driving it; many fond memories. 1991

Having climbed Mt. Ellinor --second try to upload :)

Having climbed Mt. Ellinor in Olympic NP. 1988

In Olympic NP, overlooking the Strait of Jean de Fuca, 1988 or 89.

Court always had a great sense of style. Except when he did not. Here he is demonstrating his trick for cooking without getting out of his sleeping bag on a cold morning in a cabin, November 1988.

We stayed at a cabin near Mt. Ranier in November 1988 when Chas came for a visit to Seattle.

Court on the summit of Mt. Si in the Cascades in 1988. Hiking was one of the passions of his life.

Courtney in his bunk at Eagle Camp on South Hero island, Vermont. He is not pleased with the paint filter hat I provided him for his photo op. We painted over several summers in college to make money. Summer 1983, I think.

Courtney canoeing on the C&O canal near Carderock, summer 1983. Courtney loved being on the water and was an excellent canoeist, sailer, waterskier, windsurfer, etc.

This is Courtney with his brother Fred and two best friends, Charles Hoagland (l) and Peter Gimlin (r) in the 1987 at Bill & Mary's wedding. The details fade but the friendship will not. Peter

I was so sad to hear of Courtney’s passing. He was a kind, giving soul. Whenever we would run into each other he would give me a big smile and ask how I was. He would chuckle and said he would never forget me as long as he lived. I would remind him of a moment in time that was both frightening and hysterical.. It was over fifteen years ago that I had met Courtney and Amina during parent night at Decatur First Methodist Preschool. I was an Assistant MusicTeacher. He was always a pleasure to see during carpool and school events. It was shortly after the twins were born when we crossed paths while my family was traveling North from Georgia to NewJersey. We had stopped to stay the night in a hotel in North Carolina. Upon checking out the next morning, I caught the eye of a familiar person. Courtney had run into the hotel with a desperate look on his face. He saw me and explained that while traveling in their car, baby Sasha and baby Colin had, what I can only assume, “created” a big mess. (I didn’t ask what kind of mess, but it was BAD). He asked if I wouldn’t mind watching Nate in the car so that they could ask the hotel to let them use a room to change the babies. Luckily, the hotel was very accommodating. Nate was very happy to be entertained and didn’t cause any fuss. Mom and Dad returned very relaxed and appreciative that I was there at the right time. God works in mysterious ways. I really loved how much he loved his family and shared his gifts with everyone around him. It was nice to have this memory to make me smile and laugh. I pray that more memories like mine will keep Courtney alive in our hearts. God Bless.

Courtney was such a kind person. He was a huge help to me when I was room parent to Mrs. Brooks's third grade class at Fernbank Elementary. (Sabra and my Ella's class.) He volunteered many times but really came through when we had just a couple of days to pull off our book float parade entry. The book was "Where the Mountain Meets the Moon," and Courtney sat there cutting hundreds of pieces of construction and tissue paper with me and Christina Ward so our kids could make Chinese masks, a huge dragon banner, and a 3D mountain "float" covered in tissue paper carnations. He was unfailingly cheerful, and surprised us with his sly humor, slipping in these deadpan questions or comments that cracked us up while we worked. Over time, our kids went on to different classes (and schools) but we greeted each other at Fernbank – and then DSA – events, but I'm sad I didn't get to know him better. Amina, Nathaniel, Sabra and Collin, we are so sorry you've lost such a wonderful husband and father. Love to all.

My heart is so heavy that Courtney is not with us. Words can not describe how kind, compassionate, and present he was.
I met him when our sons started elementary school together 18 years ago, and Courtney was SO excited about ….well about EVERYTHING: about Fernbank Elementary, about our kids going to school, about Emory Grove, our neighborhood. We waited at the bus stop together each afternoon, and the more I got to know him, the more I realized he was just excited about LIFE. You got the impression that he woke up each morning raring to go, eager to seize the moment, exuding positivity, joy, and gratitude—all the components of a full, happy life, like a commercial for Zest soap or something. Even when he was sick, he was strong with happiness and kindness. Even when he couldn’t breathe well, he laughed out loud and made us laugh with him with his keen sense of humor and intellect. He was always smiling and always had time to chat.
He was MOST excited, though, when he was talking about his children and his wife. He literally lit up speaking of their achievements, and in truth there are MANY in that impressively accomplished family. His deep love for his family was evident in his entire being, and his immense love for his wife was poetic. Even when I told Raj, my husband, how beautiful it was that Courtney was SO in love with Amina that he shared it with the neighbors (in truth in hopes that Raj would then express his love for me to the neighbors as well), Raj and I knew that this was a Courtney trait, that his devotion to his wife was from the heart, and we both loved him all the more because of it.
Courtney was humble in the best sense. He could’ve spoken of his own vast accomplishments. His knowledge of EVERYTHING surfaced quietly in conversations, but he never spoke about his achievements, of his own singular successes and experiences. My feeling is he found nothing more accomplished than his triumphs as the quintessential father, husband, and friend he was. He touched more lives than he knew, and to me, he will always be the model of a life beautifully lived. He taught all of us how to be better because he really was the best.

I have just posted photos of Tom. Unfortunately I am finding this a difficult task. Sorry for the duplicates.

I have just posted photos of Tom. Unfortunately I am finding this a difficult task. Sorry for the duplicates.

Together at a party... in a public spot... who would have thought.

What a loss to anyone who never had the pleasure of meeting this legend. Tom and I met at a summer school gig about 20 years ago and became fast friends as I would make him lunch and had a car. He tolerated me and my wild personality to get to many an art show, antique market, cemetary or restaurant that didn't have ttc access or he prefered to be chauffeured... either way it was my absolute pleasure to be deemed worthy of his company. Tom was a master teacher and was a genuine professional who could reach the most difficult of students. He was a brilliant colleague who would share and advise you on methods and content.
He introduced me to many an art dealer and started my love for pochoir styled pieces. He was always willing to introduce me to a fabulous restaurant as well. I will missed being introduced as, "ignore her, she is on a day pass," or the critique of my messy car as, " I like what you've done with the place!" Tommy was also the best gift and card giver and I will treasure my special Tom gifts and cards now, more than ever. He even wrote a short essay on a dinner I made for him in my basement apartment years ago.
Always on his own terms Tom was a true gem of a gentleman. I will miss my Tom Cat. curmudgeon, dry witted, master minded friend. He was truly one of a kind and I am so glad he was part of my world.

Tom officiating Wil's nuptials... orange pants and all.

Tom and I at the now defunct Jersey Giant for my birthday party! Yes... he came!

Read the first sentence Flavio Belli's second entry

Mr. Maunder was an inspiring educator and person, sharing lessons that extended beyond the walls of his classroom. I will never forget how he motivated us, his students, to embrace our creativity.

A memorable experience dear to my heart was when he accompanied a group of aspiring young poets to an afterschool poetry reading. He saw fear in my eyes as my turn came along, so instead he voluntarily marched up to the auditorium stage, and shared my piece on the power of hope (fortunately for him this was before the advent of smartphones and viral YouTube videos).

Mr. Maunder expressed his support in countless ways. To this day, I am sure many of his students (myself included) still kept his handwritten cards of encouragement. He will be dearly missed.

Wendy Fang
(Pennamed UC12 by Mr. Maunder)

I met Tom during a major upheaval in my life. He had a reputation around City Park. He was very frank at times, and had a sharp tongue. The truth, though, was that was a quite sensitive and caring man. Tom was a great help to me personally. Like many others who called him a friend, I will miss him dearly.

From Pat Boyle

Tom was a colleague and friend. I will miss his droll wit and verbal flamboyance. We both had a love of teaching, literature and art, and I wish we could share more lunches and laughs...

I met Tom in 1971 when I first came to Toronto. As I loved the cinema I was a regular customer at Cine Books, Tom's store. I guess that means I have know him for 49 years. Because, I was there so often, we became friends. Soon Tom got to know many of family and friends, and became a part of our life.

Over the years Tom was present for many of the most important invents im my life. In 1981, Tom attended a baby shower for my son and gave him a beautiful yellow satin comforter and a beautiful teddy bear, both which he still has today. A couple of weeks after his birth we made a visit to Cine Books and I remember how thrilled Tom was to meet him. Many years later he attended his wedding. Tom didn't like weddings, so we were so happy he came. Over the years he attended many birthday parties, Christmas season parties, retirements and even came for Christmas dinner. I figured Tom had to have a soft spot for me or he wouldn't have shown up to so many social events.

As both he and I became busy with work and life in general we would talk by phone or meet up for lunch when his schedule would allow. He always seem to be doing something or going somewhere. Both being teachers, we would talk about the state of education and our frustrations with it. We also talked about cinema. Tom was a big fan of the golden age of cinema and loved Natalie Wood, Tuesday Weld, and Kim Novak. He gave me a photo of Natalie Wood taken in Toronto which hangs in my living room. At one point, I gave him my Tuesday Weld scrapbook which I had from my childhood. He loved it. Recently he sent me a link to a Turner Classic interview with Kim Novak. He insisted I watch it and we spent and hour talking about the career of "the fabulous Kim, as he called her.

Tom claimed to not be a big fan of birthdays. I probably have been sending him birthday cards since about 1975 and one year I forgot. I was on vacation and I forgot. I lguess when it didn't come he was surprised, or maybe, even disappointed. As he couldn't reach me, he called my sister to see if I was sick. It was only then that I realized that he did really like to be remembered.
I will miss Tom. I have let many of our mutual friends and my relatives know about his passing and I have already heard back from several who were sad to hear of his death.

Tom was funny and sarcastic, but he was also kind and generous. He was a good friend, someone I could always talk to about life. He certainly played an important part in my life and I am certain he did the same in the life of his other friends and of his students.
Julia Cardone

Court , For you my brother. xoxo Casey

From Ursula Carter:

Tom was indeed a crusty curmudgeon, but underneath that façade was a very caring individual. Our friendship over the years had its ups and downs, but it always somehow survived. Tom had a good sense of humor and a sardonic wit which always helped put things in perspective. I thoroughly enjoyed our occasional get-togethers and chats which were often informative and always fun. We were both lovers of books and a good read. Tom would frequently leave a copy of the New York Times Book Review supplement at my door. We were also both avid art lovers. I shall miss his presence at Citypark.

Bon voyage Tom.
Ursula Carter
CityPark

From Carol Glassman:

I am, like all of us, deeply saddened to contemplate life minus my friend Tom Maunder. This is possibly unnecessarily lengthy, but after knowing someone for 51 years, possibly longer than some of you have been alive, there are a lot of memories.
My friendship with Tom began in 1969, when we were assigned to teach at the same junior high school in North York. As we became acquainted, we quickly realized we shared the same sense of humour (irreverent) and opinions and philosophies about a lot of things, including teaching. Tom didn’t drive, so I used to pick him up and take him back from school each day. How I treasured those conversations we had! He adored the kids and they adored him. But our discussions didn’t stop there: we shared interests in books, politics, art. movies, and just about anything else you could name. I was going through the lowest, roughest period in my life at that time and I felt as if I had suddenly found a supportive brother in whom I could confide anything and always receive an honest opinion. Tom brought out the best in me and helped me to rebuild self-confidence as no one had ever bothered before.
Tom left teaching to join his friend David Beard at Cinebooks and when I was in the area, I would drop in and visit. He seemed very happy working there, fulfilled in ways that challenged his intellect -- ways that teaching might have ignored.
In the next few years, unfortunately, our lives took different paths and as often happens, we drifted apart and lost touch. The invitation to our wedding went ignored and I had no idea where he was - it was likely when he was in Europe.
I never forgot Tom, although marriage presented opportunities I never imagined and I periodically wondered what Tom would have thought about my new life. I also quit teaching, we moved out of Toronto to Belleville, Ontario, and then to Marco Island, Florida where I am today. I became occupied with competitive tennis and journalism, and worked 24/7, encouraged by my late husband, as a photo-journalist for two independent newspapers. One of my assignments was writing a popular weekly satirical column - and believe me, I thought of Tom often, hearing his voice in my ear saying, “That’s how you get your rocks off!”. Eventually a friend and I started an independent newspaper, Marco Island’s Coastal Breeze news.
Thanks to the Internet, when I was doing some totally unrelated research, I came across Tom’s name in reference to his antiques and art gallery. What a joy it was to contact him again! On my next trip to Toronto, just a few years ago, we had a heart-warming reunion such as you can only have with a near and dear friend, feeling as if time has stood still and you have never been apart. “Catchup” was both poignant and hilarious as you can well imagine. Tom admitted he had some health problems, but in his typical fashion brushed them off as inconsequential. Whenever I tried to pursue the topic he either ignored it or was deliberately vague. I knew, as many of us did, that he had recently bern hospitalized for tests. In his last e-mail to me, a week ago, he admitted: "Any heart surgery postponed for 6 months. Still living in hope of talking to a doctor who does not resemble some interplanetary traveller."
I cannot contribute more adjectives to Tom than the rest of you have already applied. All of us know what a unique, brilliant man he was.
In my faith, one’s ‘afterlife’ is determined by how one lived and the largest contribution one can make, in order never to be forgotten, is to live well and kindly. That is surely Tom’s legacy.

I knew this wonderful woman close to 20 years through church. Gerry was a godly woman who loved the Lord and knew the power of prayer. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
Love to Mel and family.

Sherry and Steve Cox

Tom and I shared a love of The National Gallery in London. We talked about every room in the gallery. When I was in Paris I sent photos of bizarre things in gallery windows. I know only a little. He knew a lot. He told me his aunt encouraged his love of art. Wise woman.

I loved the way Tom looked me each time I saw him, like he was studying me anew and deciding whether I was worth the time we would be spending together. It was the way he looked at art, deciding whether he wanted to spend more time with this piece or that. I loved his slow way of speaking, chewing each word with the enjoyment of a gourmand before delivering a startlingly precise, curmudgeonly caustic assessment. He was irascible, mischievous, funny, deeply intelligent, considerate, and committed to excellence. He earned all that he accomplished. I loved him for his passion for collecting art. A passion we both shared. I will miss him deeply. And Toronto has lost a champion of young talent.

Many of you may not know that Tom did the honour of serving as the celebrant at my wedding. My now wife Vinna and I thought hard about how to include him appropriately. Since one of his biggest peeves was why people engaged in "paired domestic relationships" we thought it cunning to ask him to marry us. He agreed to his role grudgingly, and on the big day Mr. Maunder appeared in bright orange pants. Thank you for the memories Tom.

Tom was a unique person. He was an wonderful English teacher, and anyone who experienced his class, as a student, was always very fortunate. I observed Tom teach, when he taught an all boys English class. I was in awe of his skills, knowledge, care, and ability to hold the attention of all 30 boys. Tom was a master teacher in the true sense of the word. His memory will be everlasting to his friends and students.

I met Tom while I worked in the office at City Park. We quickly got on as we shared the same dry wit and humour. We became friends over the course of my time there and I saw Tom almost daily whether it was in the hallway, courtyard (where he always had a book in hand) or arguing over the use of an oxford comma in the minutes I had taken at a board meeting. Tom was one of my great confidants in Toronto - I was new to the city and sometimes felt lonely. Whether it was advice, demanding to know what book I was reading or a shared eye roll over a particular frivolous topic at a board meeting, Tom was always there for me. After I left Toronto and back to my hometown we still kept in touch and he always seemed happy to hear how my life was going. Tom - you will be missed! You had a great impact on my time in Toronto and I am so glad I was able to call you a friend.

Tom and I met 9 or 10 years ago. We became friends quite quickly. We made each other laugh and found humour in odd situations. We both screened calls and his answering machine drove me crazy. He will be missed!!

It is said that one of the measures of a good man is the relationship he has with animals. Here is Tom with my pup Bear. They had a bond for sure.

I met Tom (Mr. Maunder) in the Spring of 2012. I had just moved into a unit on the floor he lived on in City Park Co-op. I am a fairly outgoing person and since I had learned his name from others, I greeted him one day at the elevator with “Hi, Tom”. His response: “It’s Mr. Maunder”. I knew right away we were going to be friends. I gained so much from my friendship with Tom. He was, among other things, a confidant, a teacher and my greatest cheerleader. We served together on the Aging in Place Project in the co-op. This picture represents a playful side of Tom that many would never have the pleasure of knowing. My life has been enriched from knowing Tom and I miss him greatly. As I type those words, I can just hear him saying “Oh Jo-Anne, don’t be so sentimental”, and I smile.

From Janet Thorsley:
Tom sent the best birthday cards! Not sure where he got them or how much time he spent selecting them but they were always perfect and made me laugh so hard when I got them. Will miss his chatty, humorous christmas emails too. I will miss him!

Tom loved coming to Oro-Medonte, to share stories, to shop the antique stores, and then to enjoy a morning coffee on the deck. It was an extra bonus for him if there was a spectacular electrical storm to enjoy in the evening.

Tom spent weekends roaming the galleries across the city. LE Gallery, Katherine Mulherin, Erin Stump Projects, Feheley Fine Arts, General Hardware, and Ingram were all stops on the tour. He always said he nailed "the look" in this photo at my gallery from the early 2000's

Tom loved his tennis, and would screen his calls during any tournaments. He agreed to join me at Rogers cup for a few matches. He brought hard boiled eggs to eat in the stands.

I'll miss our times spent discussing the art market, Francis Bacon, antiquing and of course, discovering parts of Toronto you were convinced had no redeeming qualities.

When Mama Sang (The Angels Stopped To Listen)
Gerry loved country music and had a beautiful voice, she sang in the church choir. This song seems perfect for her.

Jim Hill - What a Day That Will Be [Live]

I met them at Calvary Community Church. She was always an articulate lady neatly dressed and close to Mel's side. Later we met again at Abundant Life, Cupertino. In later years when she was well enough to attend church she would sit in the back and we would greet her. She was inspiring.

Gerry was a joy to know and visit with. Always had a smile and a good word. God Bless Mel and the family.

Mel & Gerry on their 60th Wedding Anniversary (I baked them a cake and snapped a photo) Nov 2019

Sarah Mclachlan - In The Arms Of The Angel

I'll See You Again

❤Goodbye❤ Lionel Richie

George Harrison - My Sweet Lord

You Raise Me up

When the Roll Is Called Up Yonder

Patsy Cline, Just a Closer Walk. An oldie, but goodie

Miss and love you Dad!

So very true...

Happy birthday Ju. Thinking of you especially today. ❤️ Love, Tiff, Jo, Briel & Kel

I know that when you get where you're going you'll be free of pain and diabetes. You'll be larger than life and happy! I love you Dawn.

Beautiful tribute. Well done!

Love you Mom!

Join Cece, Sydney, Eleanor, and Maria Hallisey
in a COVID-friendly* celebration of Greg’s life
Friday, August 14, 2020
7 - 9 pm
(light desserts and shared memories around 8)

Meadowlark Botanical Gardens Atrium
9750 Meadowlark Gardens Ct, Vienna, VA 22182
(Parking in front of the Atrium, to the right when you enter)

Black not necessary
Stay safe, friends!

*We ask that all guests wear masks, sanitize, and remain 6 feet apart in the
open atrium with an air filtration system or outside in the botanical garden

Poly Swim Team Relay 1985 - Greg, Kevin, Kai, and Mike

Greg and I grew up swimming together on Riverside Aquatics and played water polo at Poly High. We spent a lifetime in the water, on the pool deck, and hanging out. He was a stud in the water and in the classroom and I have so many great memories of Greg. I think he only wore one pair of flip flops during high school - when he graduated I think they were paper thin. One of my best memories was when he appeared in Playboy....with the Brown Water Polo Team. Talk about street cred, he was instantly famous in Riverside. Although we lost touch after college I'm glad to hear he has a wonderful family and kept his love for water polo.
My thoughts and payers are with the Hallisey Family.
Kevin Timko, Riverside

Greg’s passing has left me so sad. Our beloved Dink! I have such wonderful memories of great times with Greg. I hope that for others too his memory will be for a blessing. Martina and I send our dearest love to Cece and the girls -we hold you in our hearts
Andy, Martina, Max & Leah

No words can express the sorrow we’re left in knowing you’re not here with us. There are conversations left unspoken, laughter and smiles that will have to wait till we see you again. We cry for the breaking of our hearts but rejoice because we know with certainty that you are with God. My dearest sister in God and in my heart, I pray I live a life that continues your ministry and I carry a candle for you in my heart forever. Thank you for shining your light in our lives and, thank you for showing me that in my darkest moments God is always there. We love you always and forever.

Doug Rubi Ezra Coppock

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DeAdera Gardner today we gathered to honor your memory with a pause in this crazy life. It was so good to be back where our journey together began...where we all “grew up”...our “home” for so many years! In hindsight, the years were few in comparison to how many have passed but, they were so significant in making us all who we are today they just carry so much more weight in our hearts. I still struggle to believe it’s true but I know for sure you knew Christ for yourself so today we rejoiced in knowing we will see you again. Everything about our time together today was just so perfectly you. Your sister, Schemar Gardner, did an amazing job speaking today and your friends shared stories to remind us all you put your stamp on this world, you didn’t waste a moment, you were here! #wewillneverforgetyou #bubblerelease #art #memories #together #foreverconnected

Dear Bob and Janet, Sue and I are sorry to hear of Marge's passing. It was only a few months ago
that we being in Tucson, felt the urge to call her and send kisses over the phone line. Marge would
then say, my kiss is coming right back to you. Marge was a beautiful lady in so many
ways, always smiling, cheerful and happy ----a joy to be with. God blessed you both with good
health, longevity, and seventy two years of marriage. A truly beautiful life.
Sue and I recall the many good times we had together such as playing golf at Bogie Lake,
Garlands, TreeTops and Shanty Creek. We also remember the many nights we spent
at the Meadowbrook music programs. Marge and Sue would bring the picnic dinners
which we enjoyed in that lovely outdoor setting. We then spent the evening listening to beautiful music on a warm summer evening. What Joy ! You were are dear friends and we'll
cherish the many wonderful memories. Marge is with the angels. Nothing could be
any better. Affectionally, JD and Sue

Dear Bob and Janet

Dayton was my first real boss in Corporate America and I have been in his employ for over 25 years, at VCFA Group. When I met him, I was just a college student forging my path in this world. Dayton showed interest in my life and the lives of all his employees, offering advice and help to those close to him. He showed care and compassion for everyone he met. He joined us at our wedding and celebrated the birth of our children and their life events with us. I am sad that he will no longer be able to share future celebrations with us. My children will never forget sailing with him in NYC on a tugboat. He always had a smile on his face and was a pleasure to see in the office and talk to whenever he was in town. Our firm, and I, will miss our fearless leader and I hope we can continue his legacy and continue his dream for VCFA. He will surely be missed. --Rivka Weinberger

Your presents

Love you mom

Miss you today. Happy birthday hope you are dancing it up, up there. The pictures are your gifts and card.

not sure who we were muggin

very intelligent

very intelligent

we were hard headed and got in the pool anyway.. I used to be embarassed of this pic, sis, but now i love it, just because we were having fun together

always together

My heart goes out to Bob, Janet and the entire family. Janet would tell me stories and show me pictures of Margaret. One day I was lucky enough to meet this very striking women. While her and Bob were in Florida I was able to spend the day with Margaret on a trip to Cabbage Key. This trip was just the girls...me, Janet and Margaret. We laughed so hard that day talking and reminiscing that my cheeks hurt. It was a day I will always remember. Over the years I have been able to witness the spark that Margaret and Bob shared. That type of spark keeps hope in my heart that I will be as happy as they were together. Margaret will be with you forever in the memories you have shared over a lifetime together. Love, Christine

Friend I'm going to miss sitting with you after work for hours in the lobby talking about randomness. People walking by us saying "Why are y'all still here? Go home." A lot of the times when we did finally leave we'd call each other because we forgot to tell each other something & then you'd stay on the phone with me while I took that long drive home. When I told you about my cousin loosing everything in her apartment due to a fire you & your sister went out & bought her so much stuff. Neither of you had ever met her but because of y'all's sweet, loving, Godly heart y'all did & we still thank you for that. It's so unbelievable that you're not here but I get comfort in knowing that you are resting well with the Lord. I really miss you friend. #RIHFriend.

Thank you everyone for coming! I am still adding photos to this page, if I missed your photo in the slideshow I apologise! x Nicole

An Allstate Angel has earned her wings. I will miss you. My heart and prayers go to your family. Specially to your son, Bryce. I have never met a more kinder, gentle human in my life. Thank you for allowing me to be part of yours.

My sincere condolences to Bob, Janet and extended family of Margaret. I was lucky enough to meet Margaret for the first time at a Christmas Party in Janet's home in Florida. She was a striking women that was dressed to a tee with no detail left out. She had a sassy sense of humor and was always a pleasure to speak with. She always had a smile on her face and you could tell she enjoyed life to the fullest. I’m happy I was able to travel to Michigan and visit Bob, Margaret and Janet last September and spend some time with the family. Seeing Bob and Margaret together after 75 years of marriage was a nice reminder that true love still exists. I hope all the happy memories of Margaret will comfort you both during this difficult time.
Sending you both lots of Love, Melissa

Kim, I am so sorry for your loss. You often spoke so fondly of your sister. I am thankful that you have so many wonderful memories of your lives together. That will help you carry on. I am praying for strength and comfort, for you and the children, to get you through the days, weeks and months ahead. Love you.~Linda Booker, ex co-worker

Such a sweet, wonderful woman and mother! When I saw you and Bryce picture Tuesday I lit up with excitement to see you guys thinking it was you, but when I read the message my heart instantly dropped and tears began to run! This i wouldn’t have imagined! Not to someone so kind, loving and faithful to God as you! Deeply saddened I am! You were one of the first parents to gravitate to me as a Coach. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to coach Bryce, not only in a basketball manner but life as well! I’m forever grateful for your trust! Thank you soooo much for the fun, special moments and conversations we got to share on and off the court. You are truly loved and will be missed dearly! Bryce, my heart and prayers are with you buddy!! I’m praying for you, your strength and your family as well! Know that your mother is in such a better place and she’s always with you. If you ever need to vent, talk, play ball I’m only a phone call away, don’t hesitate. To Kimmecha, thank you so much for reaching out to me and allowing me to be apart of this beautiful tribute to such a beautiful soul! This meant a lot to me! Love, Kiera....Coach Green.

Prayers! Wonderful mom and creative and fun!

Dear my lovely Dee, I really can’t believe you are gone. You were an amazing person inside and out and always was so full of light and love. We met when I was 19 years old and you never judged me, criticized me but you loved me for me and I will never forget that. I have so many memories of us enjoying our time together and when your son Bryce came into your life. You became an amazing mother on top of the beautiful person you already were. I will truly miss you and I will cherish every memory we have friend. REST EASY IN HEAVEN.

My deepest condolences to Bob, Janet, and family on the passing of Margie. Your family was a part of my family, and I have so many fond memories over the years of spending time together on vacations, holidays, and visiting one another. Margie, Bob, David and Janet were always so welcoming when we visited, and Margie was the best cook ever. I still, to this day, make her Peaches and Cream cake which everyone loves. Margie was a beautiful person, inside and out, and I will never forgot her smile, her kindness, and how stunning she always looked. I always thought she was so pretty. She loved her family and friends. And, yes Janet, I do remember Margie's and Bev's "Happy Dance" when they hadn't seen each other for a while and got together. They were, and will always be, BFF!! Bob, Janet, and Johnny, have peace in the precious memories you have of Margie and in knowing how much she loved and cherished her family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers always.

Lynn Heavner

Dee,It's like I am at a loss for words, need its been this way every since I heard the news about your home going. I watched you grow into this amazing woman of God. So I know you are in a better place now. I've done so well not to cry, but I can't hold back the tears any longer. My heart is broken as I think about how great of a person you were & no one see will get to experience it. All I can do is think about how great of a mother, sister, friend, & lover of God you were & has pasted from this side of glory to the greater side. I miss you dear friend. & I know there will never be another like you.Will you please give my aunty, Granny, & nephew a giant hug for me & tell them I miss them & love them as well. I know you are excited about seeing your mother again;tell her hello & I miss her as well. I CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU ALL AGAIN! So, save me a seat next to you.Ms Mecha,You are one of the worlds greatest sisters. l know Dee is so proud of you. She left her greatest prize possession to you. Her son. She knew that if she ever had to depart from this world you could carry on her legacy through her son (Bryce). She truly was happy & grateful to not only be your sister, but your "Ride or Die " best friend. How do I know? Bc she told me so. I am also proud to call you my friend. This is a beautiful memorial. Bryce, Words can't even form into sentences for me to express my condolences for your loss. One thing I know if nothing else, your mother LOVES YOU w her every being. She left you in the best hands ever; your aunty. We all love you baby boy! To all other family & friends, I send to you my condolences.

Psalms 116:15 (KJV) Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.

Thank you for being my friend. I am praying for strength for the family and her son. The Word of God tells us "Blessed in the sight of the Lord is the death of His Saints"

She was an awesome mom who served God wonderfully, I will miss you and I love you..love Bryce

May God wrap his arms around and comfort your family in this time of need..I never meet a sweeter soul!!!

Rest in heaven. You will be missed.

Prayers for you and the family of this beautiful spirit we got to know and love DeAdeara. No amount of words could ever console you, but just know we are here to support any way that we can for the family. All those who are believers in Christ, we shall meet her again. Job well done DeAdera.

Prayers for you and the family of this beautiful spirit we got to know and love DeAdeara. No amount of words could ever console you, but just know we are here to support any way that we can for the family. All those who are believers in Christ, we shall meet her again. Job well done DeAdera.

Thank you for helping me stay safe and showing me love...I will miss you.. love Jayden (typed by jayden)

Heavenly Father I pray I can please you as well as my sister did. I'm sorry for feeling hurt, that she's left me, I just miss her so much. Next to you Father, she was my all in all. Please grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, for I know you are the author and finisher of it all. I give all praise , honor & glory to you Abba......DD..To Everything there is a season, & a time for every purpose under heaven..(Ecclestastes 3:1)

Well done, thy good and faithful servant...(till we meet again)

I send my most sincere condolences to Mr. Schultz, Janet, and all friends , family and extended family of Mrs. Schultz. I was lucky to have met her a few times as she and Mr. Schultz visited Janet in Florida. They were a lovely couple. So sweet, so kind. I will forever remember her stunning and flawless fashion sense and her sweet and beautiful smile. I want to be just like her when I grow up. To me, she was the epitome of style and grace. I too enjoyed some of her Christmas treats, martinis and company. Janet, if that caramel corn you made during the holidays was inspired by your Mom, she taught you well and know that I think about it EVERY YEAR! Sending lots of love to her family and wishing you all peace as you mourn the loss of such a lovely lady.

My condolences to the family. It’s so nice of Bob and Janet to share their loving memories. As a young boy and now an old man, I’ve known Margie my whole life. The thing I most remember about Margie, even as a boy, was the love she had for her family and they for her. Everything she did seemed to spring from that love. She would always greet you with “it’s so nice to see you or hear your voice” and yes an occasional snort and laugh would follow she was so happy. Margie will always be Margie, but truly for me it will always be “Marge and Bob and Janet and David” as they were always one. Be at peace with having the light of Margie in your life and with you forever.
Bill Heavner

Roland singing Family Bible to his family back home in California circa 1977/1978

My condolences to Mr. Schultz and Janet on the passing of Mrs. Schultz. I had the pleasure of attending a few Christmas parties in Florida with the family. Margaret was so lovely and I admired her kindness and her impeccable fashion sense. Every time I saw her she looked lovely. I will alway remember the fabulous black and white photos of her on Janet’s wall. I was so honored to have Mr. and Mrs. Schultz at my wedding. Every Christmas I think about the absolutely delicious cookies Margaret made for Janet that ended up in my belly. Sending peace and love to the family.

Charlie was my first real guy friend moving to Brunswick & introduced me to so many people. Without him I wouldn’t have had the high school experience I had. I am so glad I had the chance to get to know his crazy, sweet, funny soul. He lived life like there was no tomorrow. He taught me many things about life. Especially to not care & live in the moment. Charlie never judged me. No matter what I did. If anyone & I mean anyone tried to mess with me he was there to defend me. Sometimes literally there to defend me! He was there for me many times. Even when I was so down sometimes, he’d take me to get ice cream or to dinner to make me feel loved. He lit up any room he was in. Charlie is one of the few people who could bring my ugly laugh out when he joked around with me. He had this way about him that made your day better. To know him was to love him. I will always keep him & our memories in my heart. Long live Charlie B. Gone but never forgotten.

Posted on Behalf of Dimakatso Motaung

Mokhachane o thobile
Ntate Mokhachane o suthile,
Ntate Mokhachane o siretse,
Empa mehopolong ya rona
O tla dula a le teng.
Kajeno re bina pina ya Basotho
Re bina kodiyamalla sebele
Ho tsamaile senatla, ho tsamaile kwakwariri,
O ne a ikgantsha ka Bosotho ba hae,
O ne a boulella meetlo le dipuo tsa Basotho
Mebetsi ya hae e siile menyabuketso
E kekeng ya phumulwa mehopolong
Ya basebetsimmoho le yena
Kajeno lefu le fihlile le sa mengwa,
La kena lapeng la Mokhachane,
La mo hlwibila la ya ka yena
Bana sala ba rwetse matsoho dihloohong
Ba baphasaphasa seka madinyane a kgoho
Ba mathela hetleng la mme,
Ba lla sa masisapelo seboko,
Ba lla sa mmokotsane sello.
MmaMokhachane, tiya ngwaneso
Hlakola menyepetsi mahlong
Aparang kobo ya tumelo lona ba haMokhachane
Hoba thato ho phethahetse ya Ramasedi.

Written by:
Dimakatso Motaung
SES-Sesotho Languages

I went to junior high with Ms. Kvesic back in the eighties. She had a sparkling personality, and the easiest report card to read ever (straight A's and top of her class). My, how quickly for all of us do the days pass. You will always be in my memory and God bless your soul.

Shihab Zeid

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Ron was a delightful brother in Christ who always had a big smile for everyone he met. He will be missed.
O'Neil

Charlie had a spirit indescribable by words. Anyone that met or knew him would would agree that his ability to light up a room was unrivaled. To me, Chuck was a best friend and sort of little brother. Throughout my years of knowing him, I watched him grow immensely and adapt to the obstacles presented by reality. Charlie was never scared of any stunt or dare, and always encouraged me and challenged me to take my endeavors to the next level. His determination to fulfill a goal was nothing less than admirable. I will always miss the countless memories we made, but will remain grateful to have had such an amazing and badass person in my life. Charlie lived in the moment, and never let little things or obstacles obstruct his vision. His ability to put a smile on my face at any time and his fierce passion for true friendship will live with me for the rest of my life. Charlie's life, although short lived, affected the hearts of countless people in ways we can't even imagine. I love you Bischof, and I wish I would have gotten to say it more while you were here. Fly high, little bro.

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Ron played so many roles in my life throughout the years. He married my mom when I was eight. He loved her dearly. That was always obvious. In his later years he told me often that the best decision of his life was marrying Donna.
He bought me my first guitar and he was always my biggest music fan.
The last 10 years of his life, as Alzheimer's slowly took his memories, he and I bonded
in a way we never had previously. It was extraordinarily difficult to deal with the complications of that disease, but there were some silver linings too. I will remember playing billiards together everyday for 3 years, until he could no longer remember how to play. There were long walks with the dogs and lot's of coffee drinking together. I loved his sense of humor.
I want to thank all of his caregivers at Good Samaritan for their kindness and for falling in love with him as if he was part of their family. Not once in the 5 years he was in Memory Care did I worry about his well being.
He is now reunited with the love of his life and free to ride the wide open spaces of heaven, never to be fenced in again.
He was my favorite cowboy - Kim

I met Charlie on Xbox when I was 10 and he was 12. It’s weird to say someone I met online had one of the biggest influences on me but I truly believe this. Charlie was like the older brother I never had when I was younger. I got the older person view on things. As we got older we didn’t play as much but instead would always Snapchat each other the wild or funny things going on, or catch up on a FaceTime call. There’s certain things that Charlie has told me or put me on to that I know for a fact nobody else would in my entire life. Charlie has me in Sea Island and UGA polos and I live in Connecticut hahaha. I send my condolences to all his friends and family, and especially Spro, Zeke, Cullen, and Ebuh I know how close you guys were with bro. #LLCB.

I remember the last time I spoke to Charlie. I hadn’t seen him in a few months, but we saw each other at the beach on July 4th and he came running towards me. He gave me a hug and kissed me on the cheek probably five or six times and told me he loved me. I just wanna say, I love you too Charlie. You and your smile will forever be missed. LLCB.

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A friend of 30years+ and one of the most memorable things about Kevin was that he was such a kind considerate person who would help anyone in need, nothing was to much trouble. How your family was your pride and joy a loving husband to Eileen, so proud of your two children and all of their achievements in life and of course the icing on the cake when your granddaughters came along it seemed that life couldn’t get any better, during all this time your illness was slowly taking its toll and you had several episodes in hospital but with your grit and determination you were back amongst your family who loved you dearly. As poorly as what you were we still thought that you would be back home but this time it had taken its toll and we have lost a very dear friend. We will miss the chats your wicked sense of humour, huge pile of sandwiches, no one could beat your ham sandwiches and yes I was very privileged to have tasted your hot cross buns, Busy Bee will never be the same now, so rest peacefully our dearest friend we will very much miss you, all our love Sue and Dave xxxx

I just wanted to reach out and say hello. I am very sorry for your loss. A few years ago I got to chat with your mom for a while, and I learned a lot about her, your dad and your family. And I've appreciated having your family as my extended family for all these years.
I'm sending my love and want you to know you and your family are in our hearts.
With love,
Rachel B.

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Ta Freddie, so I called you. I am so saddened by your your untimely passing. I was promoted, trained and grown professionally under your leadership. We reminisce about how you used to say if we don't want to work, you will take us to Teachers Center and Sizokozonda Size Sikuthande.

I guess it all was all GOD's plan. I am so grateful to have met you i my life's journey.

So long Freddie

hey babe,
So I took Christys door off the hinges because she was being totally disrespectful. A couple of hours later she came walking out of her bathroom glaring at me while I was sitting on the couch. And I said" What the fuck are you looking at you want me to take your eyeballs too?!" Bahahahahahahaha I knew you would have gotten a kick out of that. I miss you so much Steven. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Trialfa Omega is a very beautiful person with a great spirit, who passionately inspired others around him to live a spiritually-aligned life. The positive affect he has had on the community around him was never in vain and will live on for years to come. There was always an authentic spark of soulfulness within him that touched me and those he came into contact with very deeply. My heart and soul go out to him and his entire family. He was greatly appreciated by many.

Posted on Behalf of Adv Alison Bengtson
DDG:CMD

A Tribute to Freddie Mokhachane

What a devastating loss to the Gauteng Department of Education and to Freddie’s family! What an absolute loss! Sorrow fills my heart this sad moment, a sorrow that is deep and personal.
Freddie was a thorough professional. He was excellent in everything that he did, no matter how big or small the task. I remember Freddie as being a true gentleman, always smiling, always willing to assist. Freddie contribute much to the development of the EN district. He generously gave us his knowledge, his expertise, and his skills. He was a committed official and I am proud to have known him.
My heart, like everyone else is broken. Freddie may your soul rest in peace! My sincere condolences to the family.
Maya Angelou says “A great soul serves everyone all the time. A great soul never dies. It brings us together again and again”.
Adv Alison Bengtson
DDG:CMD

I, Grace Tshetlo, former principal of ikusasa want to thank God for bringing people like Mr Mokhachane in my career path who is one of the people that believed in me and gave me support that bore sweet fruit at our school. He would always remind who the Captain of Ikusasa was, in 2014 wen we got 95% pass he promoted me to be Pilot of the school.
■ In 2010 a learner Samson could not even afford a pen, not even for the exams, got 5 distinctions soaring in maths and sciences but did not have money to further his studies. It was Mr Mokhachane who said " Mme a re fumanele ngoan enoa bursary" . Today the boy is an engineer he has lifted his family and some neighbors to a better life more important there are other kids he is helping with study fees. He had planned to visit Mr Mokhachane in spring at least.
■ In 2011 Mr Mokhachane solicited two mobile science laboratories for our school from ChemServr and at the presentation he made an instant requisition for the third lab and it was delivered in three weeks. These labs saw our matric Life sciences and Physical sciences results improving to 100% and 98% respectively (the 2% being learners who joined the school in grade 12.)
■ Whenever we had more learner intake in January, I knew who to talk to, to get stationery even from the principals who had claimed not have any surplus. I will always thank God for people like Ntate and will always cherish their support

Posted on behalf of Grace Tshetlo

“BROTHER” as we fondly called you “Good night”. You’ve ran your race and your footprints will forever be engraved in our hearts. You served the entire Ekurhuleni Community and Stakeholders with great pride and dignity it deserved. Your zeal for a constructive change in education system will forever be remembered. In you, a big tree has indeed fallen.

Thanks for believing in me more than I can believe in myself. Thanks for developing me into the person I am today. Will always cherish your guidance, leadership and support. You might be gone, but you’ll never be forgotten.

GOOD-BYE MY LEADER
TILL WE MEET AGAIN

Farewell Cadre Freddie Mokhachane
The only certainty in our present world is rapid and accelerating change. We can either ride with the changes hoping for the best or use the changes we recognise around us to our best advantage. The most distinctive human response to any major or minor change is resistance. Individuals resist change as they fear letting go of the old, safe, routine ways of conducting their business for an unknown and unsafe territory. As humans, we prefer routines and tend to stick to our habits. Furthermore, the transition between the present state and the changed state is difficult for individuals and organisations, as it involves the ending of the current state. William Bridges (1980) discusses the process of individual change by presenting four stages that individuals must pass through to move into the transition state and effectively change: disengagement, misidentification, disorientation and disenchantment!

None of us could have predicted that today we will all go through these states of transition when we got to receive the devastating message of the passing on of our comrade, friend, brother, husband and father! Freddie Mokhachane, ntja mme, the cat, Cosatu is no more. He was boisterous, passionate, full of laughter, full of life, firm approach and uncompromising belief in all that is good. We are sadden as we dip his spear to mark our respect for a leader, a cadre, a loyal and dedicated servant of our people, isicaka esibekekileyo. He served the people in various capacity, the foot print he leaves on the ground bears testimony to that.
His comrades in the various ANC chatsites will miss his inimitable and robust style as he left no stone unturned from his strong views on the frailties of the reign of the former President Zuma, he did not spare our Mayor and demanded loyalty to the Presidency of HE President Ramaphosa. For a while during the reign of former President Zuma, he had lost all interests in politics and work of the ANC. He did not take much to be convinced and he returned to be the ANC chairperson in Crystalpark. He served with distinction and was followed by another solid Cde in Bangilizwe Solo. He unfortunately has also followed Cde Freddie and passed on the following day after the passing of Cde Freddie. It is almost as if that they wanted to accompany each as they go to join the ANC Branch in Heaven. Cde Freddie was categoric, it is either you are with us or against us. Cde Freddie, as we touched on the metaphor of the states of transition embraced unequivocally the “Thuma Mina” invocation and robustly demanded that we must all respond positively….there is one President that is HE President Ramaphosa.
He entered into teaching during a period when teachers were very conservative and feared authority. Very few teachers participated in the progressive teacher union known as NEUSA. It did not take much to recruit this former member of Sasco from Wits. He was very loud about the virtues of a free South Africa and a free Nelson Mandela. NEUSA together with the UDF and affiliates were banned and a huge gap was created. Cde Freddie in his first week at Unity Secondary was already seeking out the “leadership” and demanded action. No amount of calming him down, succeeded and with the support of the COSAS grouping we were forced into action and established the Benoni Teachers’ Union (BETU), supported by Cosatu Khetsi Lehoko.

Cde Freddie is a former member of Sasco whilst at Wits University. Immediately after he started teaching, he joined the only progressive teacher union, an affiliate of the UDF and NECC, the NEUSA. (Curtis Nkondo was President & Thulas Nxesi, the National Secretary). He joined us to form the Benoni Teachers Union after Cosas insisted that we must establish a progressive teachers Union, after the banning of the UDF & NEUSA! Cde Freddie distinguished himself as an organisor as he became the main instigator and chief recruiter for the BETU. We had strong support from Dayco, Cosas, etc. Who attended all our meeting with dangers of being arrested? BETU started strong mobilisation of the teachers and for the first time organised marches and other forms of actions like stopping visits to school by apartheid inspectors, Cde Freddie was instrumental in preventing any apartheid inspired school inspection, rejected the notion of the promotion of separate schooling. He was part of the team that confronted the police to stop harassing students and invading schools. Several meetings were held with the police and students to engage the police on their violence against students and schools. Schools became a no- going area to schools inspectors and those who were intransigent were frogmarched out of the school into their cars and pelted with eggs.

He moved from one school to the next to ensure that no Departmental official entered any of the schools. BETU in 1990 folded and closed and became Sadtu. SADTU was launched at Sharp 17 and Shepherd Mdladlane became the first President. Cde Freddie developed the nickname of "Cosatu" as he strongly campaigned to have Sadtu to become an affiliate of Cosatu. Most Sadtu members who were both PAC and Azapo teachers vehemently opposed this campaign until through Cde Freddie's strong campaigning we won over the whole of the East Rand for Sadtu to join Cosatu. This was achieved by 1991. Cde Freddie embarked on staff mobilization and came into collision course with his principal, who mobilized the parent body of the SGB against Cde Freddie. He was threaten and intimidated for mobilising on behalf of Sadtu until the leadership came to his rescue and met with management and the SGB. They were extremely hostile towards Cde Freddie and his uncompromising style. Cde Freddie was adamant that every school must be a Sadtu base. Eventually the school Governing Body reconciled with Cde Freddie and once again embraced him into the school but he continued his mobilisation to the chagrin of the SGB. Together with Cde Aubrey Mbelle and Cde David Hlabane continued to ensure that they do not only recognized but participated in building a strong ANC in the township spreading into eTwatwa. BETU and eventually Sadtu grew in numbers and ended up dominating as the leading and only teacher union across all the township of this part of town.

The fight to introduce non-racialism in sport in Benoni led to campaigns to introduce Benoni Schools' Sports (Bessco) Programme with Indian, Coloured and White schools participating in schools' sports across Benoni and Boksburg (Reigerpark). His extreme talent and inimitable character led to him being recruited by Dr Braam Fleish, the District Director in Benoni, Department of Education. He distinguished himself as a powerful figure as he contributed towards a better education for all in Benoni. He was instrumental in the campaign to introduce new schools in Unity and Rolihlahla Schools! He leaves a rich legacy in the fight for better schooling for all the people of Benoni.

Cde Freddie loved his wife and his family. Each and every moment he spent with his friends who called each other the “Cats” he always knew he had a home and a wife and kids. They meant everything to him. He loved his sister who he visited from time to time. Before he went to buy property in Crystalpark, he stayed with his sister in the township, and as they started speaking SeSotho sa ga Moshoeshoe, you could only watched in amazement, as they “showed off” the intricacies of that language. We learnt by hook or crook, to keep up. May his soul rest in peace and he is offering us the baton to pick it up and take it forward for all the good work that he contributed in. May his wife and son rejoice in the spirit that Cde Freddie’s death was untimely and unexpected, but in this short life he has achieved so much that many people can only envy. We wish him eternal peace in his journey to join his ancestors both from his family side but also on the side of his organisations, the ANC and SADTU.

Clive Mtshisa
Founding leader of BETU and BESSCO, SADTU Local, and former Provincial Deputy Chair SADTU GAUTENG

Farewell Cadre Freddie Mokhachane
The only certainty in our present world is rapid and accelerating change. We can either ride with the changes hoping for the best or use the changes we recognise around us to our best advantage. The most distinctive human response to any major or minor change is resistance. Individuals resist change as they fear letting go of the old, safe, routine ways of conducting their business for an unknown and unsafe territory. As humans, we prefer routines and tend to stick to our habits. Furthermore, the transition between the present state and the changed state is difficult for individuals and organisations, as it involves the ending of the current state. William Bridges (1980) discusses the process of individual change by presenting four stages that individuals must pass through to move into the transition state and effectively change: disengagement, misidentification, disorientation and disenchantment!

None of us could have predicted that today we will all go through these states of transition when we got to receive the devastating message of the passing on of our comrade, friend, brother, husband and father! Freddie Mokhachane, ntja mme, the cat, Cosatu is no more. He was boisterous, passionate, full of laughter, full of life, firm approach and uncompromising belief in all that is good. We are sadden as we dip his spear to mark our respect for a leader, a cadre, a loyal and dedicated servant of our people, isicaka esibekekileyo. He served the people in various capacity, the foot print he leaves on the ground bears testimony to that.
His comrades in the various ANC chatsites will miss his inimitable and robust style as he left no stone unturned from his strong views on the frailties of the reign of the former President Zuma, he did not spare our Mayor and demanded loyalty to the Presidency of HE President Ramaphosa. For a while during the reign of former President Zuma, he had lost all interests in politics and work of the ANC. He did not take much to be convinced and he returned to be the ANC chairperson in Crystalpark. He served with distinction and was followed by another solid Cde in Bangilizwe Solo. He unfortunately has also followed Cde Freddie and passed on the following day after the passing of Cde Freddie. It is almost as if that they wanted to accompany each as they go to join the ANC Branch in Heaven. Cde Freddie was categoric, it is either you are with us or against us. Cde Freddie, as we touched on the metaphor of the states of transition embraced unequivocally the “Thuma Mina” invocation and robustly demanded that we must all respond positively….there is one President that is HE President Ramaphosa.
He entered into teaching during a period when teachers were very conservative and feared authority. Very few teachers participated in the progressive teacher union known as NEUSA. It did not take much to recruit this former member of Sasco from Wits. He was very loud about the virtues of a free South Africa and a free Nelson Mandela. NEUSA together with the UDF and affiliates were banned and a huge gap was created. Cde Freddie in his first week at Unity Secondary was already seeking out the “leadership” and demanded action. No amount of calming him down, succeeded and with the support of the COSAS grouping we were forced into action and established the Benoni Teachers’ Union (BETU), supported by Cosatu Khetsi Lehoko.

Cde Freddie is a former member of Sasco whilst at Wits University. Immediately after he started teaching, he joined the only progressive teacher union, an affiliate of the UDF and NECC, the NEUSA. (Curtis Nkondo was President & Thulas Nxesi, the National Secretary). He joined us to form the Benoni Teachers Union after Cosas insisted that we must establish a progressive teachers Union, after the banning of the UDF & NEUSA! Cde Freddie distinguished himself as an organisor as he became the main instigator and chief recruiter for the BETU. We had strong support from Dayco, Cosas, etc. Who attended all our meeting with dangers of being arrested? BETU started strong mobilisation of the teachers and for the first time organised marches and other forms of actions like stopping visits to school by apartheid inspectors, Cde Freddie was instrumental in preventing any apartheid inspired school inspection, rejected the notion of the promotion of separate schooling. He was part of the team that confronted the police to stop harassing students and invading schools. Several meetings were held with the police and students to engage the police on their violence against students and schools. Schools became a no- going area to schools inspectors and those who were intransigent were frogmarched out of the school into their cars and pelted with eggs.

He moved from one school to the next to ensure that no Departmental official entered any of the schools. BETU in 1990 folded and closed and became Sadtu. SADTU was launched at Sharp 17 and Shepherd Mdladlane became the first President. Cde Freddie developed the nickname of "Cosatu" as he strongly campaigned to have Sadtu to become an affiliate of Cosatu. Most Sadtu members who were both PAC and Azapo teachers vehemently opposed this campaign until through Cde Freddie's strong campaigning we won over the whole of the East Rand for Sadtu to join Cosatu. This was achieved by 1991. Cde Freddie embarked on staff mobilization and came into collision course with his principal, who mobilized the parent body of the SGB against Cde Freddie. He was threaten and intimidated for mobilising on behalf of Sadtu until the leadership came to his rescue and met with management and the SGB. They were extremely hostile towards Cde Freddie and his uncompromising style. Cde Freddie was adamant that every school must be a Sadtu base. Eventually the school Governing Body reconciled with Cde Freddie and once again embraced him into the school but he continued his mobilisation to the chagrin of the SGB. Together with Cde Aubrey Mbelle and Cde David Hlabane continued to ensure that they do not only recognized but participated in building a strong ANC in the township spreading into eTwatwa. BETU and eventually Sadtu grew in numbers and ended up dominating as the leading and only teacher union across all the township of this part of town.

The fight to introduce non-racialism in sport in Benoni led to campaigns to introduce Benoni Schools' Sports (Bessco) Programme with Indian, Coloured and White schools participating in schools' sports across Benoni and Boksburg (Reigerpark). His extreme talent and inimitable character led to him being recruited by Dr Braam Fleish, the District Director in Benoni, Department of Education. He distinguished himself as a powerful figure as he contributed towards a better education for all in Benoni. He was instrumental in the campaign to introduce new schools in Unity and Rolihlahla Schools! He leaves a rich legacy in the fight for better schooling for all the people of Benoni.

Cde Freddie loved his wife and his family. Each and every moment he spent with his friends who called each other the “Cats” he always knew he had a home and a wife and kids. They meant everything to him. He loved his sister who he visited from time to time. Before he went to buy property in Crystalpark, he stayed with his sister in the township, and as they started speaking SeSotho sa ga Moshoeshoe, you could only watched in amazement, as they “showed off” the intricacies of that language. We learnt by hook or crook, to keep up. May his soul rest in peace and he is offering us the baton to pick it up and take it forward for all the good work that he contributed in. May his wife and son rejoice in the spirit that Cde Freddie’s death was untimely and unexpected, but in this short life he has achieved so much that many people can only envy. We wish him eternal peace in his journey to join his ancestors both from his family side but also on the side of his organisations, the ANC and SADTU.

Clive Mtshisa
Founding leader of BETU and BESSCO, SADTU Local, and former Provincial Deputy Chair SADTU GAUTENG

Rest in peace comrade

Ntate Mokhachane as I used to call you. What a true leader and a great teacher. Thank you for the opportunity you gave me to run two programs in the unit. You always gave us support and continued to mentor us. You never gave up on us. Sometimes I felt that you were pushing me to hard and now I realize that you were developing me. I will miss your leadership style, setshego sona ga ke sa bua. The unit will never be the same without you. You ran your race, Fare thee well. Condolences to the family in behalf of Naniki Kupa.

Ms. Kvesic was my grade 4 teacher back at Barondale PS. She was the epitome of a perfect teacher; someone who was kind, altruistic, and someone who was always there for her students. I remember making drawings and writing notes to her, only so I could receive one of her big hugs... she told me that she stuck all of them on her fridge, hence I decided to make her more every single day! Ms. Kvesic had such a sweet soul. She was too good for this world. I love and miss her so, so much. I emailed her, two years back, asking her how she was doing, and promising that I would visit the following year. I should've kept my promise and visited, but I always thought I'd have more time. My condolences to you, and your family. May the love of those around comfort you in the days ahead.  

If I could sum Freddy up in one word, it will be Grace. He was incredibly thoughtfull in the amount of time and advice he was prepared to give. He was a rare breed of leader within the disttict office -one of a kind that was able to identify raw talent in a person and turn into an asset.

Good night my dearest leader, brother and mentor your journey has ended. Your struggle has now begun to cease. Its time to close your eyes to happy dreams and wake to eternal peace.

Good night....my Chief

Posted on behalf of Kagiso

During our many years of interaction both @ work and beyond, we learned so much from you Chief, your dedication and hard work, your firmness and friendliness, and your commitment to quality, data-driven & goal-oriented reports. How can we forget your loud laughter!
Go well Chief, till we meet again in the after life!!

I'm not sure there are enough words to describe the loss we feel from Pam's transition from our lives. She embodied the soul of an artist, never met a cat or dog she couldn't love, or a project too intimidating. She gave of her many talents to family and friends, creating sacred spaces to enjoy and kept us fed with her own special flair. Always offering encouragement, she was never known to speak a demeaning word of another.
To honor her spirit, we will carry many wonderful memories of Pam, who spread her special brand of blessing throughout our lives and try to follow the guidance she lived.
For if you knew of a woman who planted the seeds of unconditional love, caring and compassion throughout the garden of life, that would be Pam. Love you girl, Marsha and Jerry

Fare thee well dedicated comrade, compassionate brother and astute manager. In you we have lost someone who provided our organization with the much needed sense of purpose and direction, structure and discipline. Your dedicated, passionate service driven by a patriotic spirit will always be imprinted in the corridors of time. You fought like a warrior that you were for the emancipation of the black child. I will forever cherish the leadership lessons I have learned from you and much more the support I got from you during my academic studies. Go now and rest in eternal peace my leader.

I loved Freddie....for the fact that he forced me to speak my mind.,.he taught me....,,I am good enough and not a child of a lesser God.
Posted on behalf of Leni vd Westhuizen

The Education fraternity and the community at large has lost a giant. We are still in shock, disbelief and devasted by your passing Abuti as I fondly used to call you.
Even though the pain cuts deep, All is well. We firmly believe that God's timing is always perfect. He is never late or too early. His will has been done...It is finished...your mission here on earth has been accomplished. Your crown is is waiting for you on the other side...go and rece8ve your crown son of the soil.
You always believed in everyone's abilities and always encouraged us that we can achieve more. You have worked selflessly for the Education Department. We will miss your smile and your signature loud laughter...
My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the family and friends, the colleagues at Ekurhuleni North District, GDE, the Education fraternity and everyone whose life you have touched.
Your soul is now at a better place where there is no more pain or sorrow. Go and rest Abuti...'Till we meet again...Goodnight...2 Corinthians 5: 6-8

I remember visiting the Thierry house when we were kids. Pauline and Calvin were always so welcoming. We would spill out of the car and quickly be swept up in the laughter and high spirits. Running around the yard with our cousins was something we looked forward to and, of course, the food was delicious and plentiful. Wishing the entire family comfort in the days ahead. The gifts you were given have been passed down the generations, and the love of your parents is ever close. - Cousin Nancy

RIP my workplace father.. My Mentor, Leader 'Advisor I am who I am today because of your teachings n 'support. Tnx for believing in me. U left us shuttered, astonished n in pain. Will always remember yu my big Boss. Frm Treisy Masingi that's how u used to call me RIP my workplace father.. My Mentor, Leader 'Advisor I am who I am today because of your teachings n 'support. Tnx for believing in me. U left us shuttered, astonished n in pain. Will always remember yu my big Boss. Frm Treisy Masingi that's how u used to call me

RIP my workplace father, my mentor, advisor. Motivator.. Thanks for all your teachings.. I am who I am today because of yu. U left us Astonished, amazed and in pain. Gud nyt my boss will forever miss yu. Frm Treisy Masingi that's how u used to call me

You will be truly missed my brother, thank you for all the lessons you taught me and all the opportunities you gave me to grow as a leader. You were, are and always will be a blessing in my life.

https://youtu.be/ixMAuueTtSo

Jacqueline, Pauline, Claire, Grace, and Patty. Thank you for sending these, Michael Rawles.

Antoinette and Pauline.

Nearly 20 years ago my friend and I stumbled upon Trialfa's website. We have spent hours upon hours reading his work and researching it over the years. We had the absolute pleasure of speaking with him on the phone once about 10 years ago. I am very saddened by the loss of such a unique and interesting man. I hope that his work remains available for years to come so others like myself may find it and gain inspiration. You will not be forgotten, Omega Man.

Kevin, You did not deserve to end your life like this and our great sadness was that we were prevented by the virus from visiting you in hospital. We are so grateful that, at the end, you were surrounded by all your family and they were able to tell you how much they loved you.We will always remember you:WITH GREAT ADMIRATION for your courage and determination in the way you fought so hard to stay here with the family you so adoredWITH JOY for the wonderful day when your beautiful daughter married our son James and our two families were joinedWITH LAUGHTER when we remember the first day you came to us for tea and your emptied our sugar bowl, not just once, but TWICE!But above all with LOVE"Although I've gone - life must go onBut stop and pause awhileRemember me as the man you knew The man who loved to smile.Although I'm not here - I can still see youI am watching from aboveSo now and then please think of meAs the man who loved to love."Rest in Peace Now. With Much Love, Jenny and Andy Nisbett xxxxxx

It has been an honour to know you and to be a part of you life, I only wish it had been longer. There are very few people in this world who have as much strength and determination as you, absolutely astounding and a medical marvel. You will always be thought of, talked about, missed and be forever in our hearts. When you were ill last year you asked me to look after Jenny for you, my reply was "of course I will, you know I will but you aren't going anywhere - you are stronger than that" My god you were strong. With all my heart I promise I will do anything to keep Jenny safe and happy. I wish there was more we could have done more to help you make it through this time but I know that now you will be comfortable, pain free and watching over us - probably with Boris giving him groomies which he so loved from you! With much love, James xxx

Good night Papa
We will really miss Grandpa , he was a man of integrity

Charlie was an outstanding soldier and a great all around person. He was always able to lift peoples spirits and bring a smile to their face. You will never be forgotten Sgt. Rest in Heaven

If I could change the words for you Charlie, it would be that we were sitting on the back of the BTBs and sharing Shiner. I am sure there is a song about hiding the bodies, but maybe that should be for another day! I miss your smile and hugs...nothing like hearing you yell out "Chief!!" Love you, Charlie!! Always.

We Loved your mom very much. We are so sorry for our loss and send love to your family.

-Jerry and Charles Dominigue

Since I moved around the corner from my Aunt Pauline 10 years ago, we shared many a good conversation, meal, and lots of laughter. She shared so many stories and was a repository of family history. I will, and have, missed her bright smile and big welcomes whenever I would stop by. Now, I'm sure she is reunited with family who have passed from this plane. When I close my eyes, I see her sitting with Mom, Grace and Inez all full of joy.
Michele

I can remember the vociferous enthusiasm and sarcasm of SGT. Brown in everything we undertook.He always was the epitome of Be, Know and Do.He began the tradition of the ugly cat way of accomplishing missions which so accurately reflected the 236th EN Company's way of improvising, adapting and overcoming.As we move forward with Charlie Brown's example of leadership I pray that those who follow in his footsteps will endeavor to become what Charlie would have loved to see them be:The very best at everything they strive to accomplish.

Whitney Collins, Beverly and Kristie Mathis and family are very saddened to hear the news and send condolences to all the family.

Sending love and prayers
Love & appreciate you, Barb.
I hope you’re doing OK.

-Beth

We loved Pauline and enjoyed her company. She will be sorely missed. Sending thoughts and prayers to the family.

-Jacquie and Paul

May she Rest in Peace
We loved her too; she is in a much better place, watching over us all.

-Christopher Walker and Jay

Barbara, you and the family are always in our hearts. I'm sure Mom and Claire are setting the table for her arrival and this fills my soul with love.

My heart is full of her love

-Cousin David

I loved your mom so very much... I had a lot of fun with her. I remember her Smile...
Pauline and Claire walked by her as she stood in front of her house. She said they were on their way to St. Lawrence for school...she’ll never forget mom turning to look at her and giving her a big beautiful smile❣

-Jesse Honore

We just loved Pauline and have great memories❣We are so sorry for all your family, but know your mom is at peace.

-Gerard and Brenda Patin

Sorry about your mom’s passing. So many great memories and such a kind loving women. I am thankful she was part of my life. -Trish Thierry

I am so sorry to hear this. I truly loved your mom. She was a kind and gentle soul and will be missed. Take care. -Sharon (Gordon) Schumann

Barbara shared these messages she received.
We are deeply grateful to you for telling of your experiences with Pauline.
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Anna Reindel called:

Anna and Eric are gifting our family a Dove Release for whenever we may want or can do this. She said this is a family tradition and wanted to share this tradition with our family.
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“Mother's Never Die”

You have never lost your mother though you've said your last goodbyes, though there's heartbreak in parting no one's mother really dies.
If you love to hear the old songs for the memories they bring, it's because you had a mother who taught you how to sing.
If you stop to help a neighbor search your heart and you will find, it's because you had a mother who's taught you to be kind.
If you go to church when weary seeking God to guide your way, it’s because you had a mother who taught you how to pray.
No you've never lost your mother though you've said your last goodbyes, through your thoughts and feelings she's living, no one's mother really dies.

-James, Marshall and Barb’s tenant who met Pauline on a few occasions.
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Sending hugs to your family. I hope Pauline is saving me a spot close to her.

What a wonderful tribute for your mom and for you too, Barbara. You were there as advocate and even after work, you were caretaker too. She would call you "My Barbara" and I could see she felt happier and safe. She has a deep love for her children and it was beautiful to see her children and in-laws and others mirror back the love she had for you all. I believe she is free and reunited with her beloved sisters.

-Pamela, Pauline’s Roommate and friend at La Jolla
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I just wanted to call you and tell you I'm thinking of you and I'm so sorry for your mom's passing. Well, yeah, she gets to be with your father who she loves so much and she loves you so much and you just you're just the best daughter. She really loves you so very much and she was a classy, wonderful woman, really beautiful spirit soul and such a sweet lady and you did so much for her. Much love and prayers to you, Marshall, and your family.

-Karen Nunes, Barb and Marshall’s friend
*Karen NUNES... she would stay with mom sometimes when Barb would be at work. She has been a friend of ours for years. Mom would share family stories and they would laugh and have a good time❣
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I’m calling to send my condolences, love, and prayers to our family.

-Margie Zwick, Barb’s first boss and a dear friend
*Barb’s First Boss was at Baby Toy Town. “Mom and I were walking down the street and we saw a dresser and mirror that we loved. We went on to buy, most likely on layaway, and they were hiring❣ I got the job and I still have the mirror to the dresser❣”
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I’m sending you love, hugs, prayers. I’m so sorry! Please know we are here!
I love you and please know we are always here for you! Hope you are at peace, Barb!

-Nikki & Harlan Klein and Family: Marshall's Brother's family. My ‘lil sister
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Praying for you my sweet friend. May our Lord comfort you during this visit with your mommy. May she hear and know your presence and feel your love and her comfort with Jesus .
Sending lots love and prayers. I’m available any time, if you need me.
I’m so sorry my friend. How beautiful, she waited for you. Sending big hugs your way❣

-Anna and Eric Reindel
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Bless you all Barbara.

-Tina Brooks, Barb’s Supervisor
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Prayers to you and the family. So happy you got to spend her last moments together. Let me know if you need anything... Hugs! I’ll talk to you soon.

-Drea Haines, Barb’s Co Worker
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I know it was time, but when (it happens) it's hard.
Yes, she loved you all so much.
She had a heart of gold.
She also was extremely loved.
How could see not be. Her beautiful smile, hugs she gave us. The pure joy one felt being around your mom.
Your mom was my favorite of all my friends’.
She was mom to us all.
I loved her I love you too.
I'm here whenever you need me.
Sending you lots of love and hugs

-Sue Hynds Garcia, Barb Bff since 10th grade
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I'm so sorry. You had the most amazing and loving Mom. So many memories.

-Laurie Henry: Barbs bff since 10th grade
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We all loved your mom... She was such a special woman. Love and hugs to all of you.

-Suzanne King Gillhaus, Barbs Bff since 9th grade
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Heaven gained another angel. My sincere condolences and I have been thinking about you a lot. I am so sorry I have not reached out. Thinking of you.

-Cathy and Frank Terzoli and Family: Barb and Marshall’s friends
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I'm so sorry. She was such a wonderful, beautiful, sweet lady and am so blessed that I got to know her. I'm so glad you were with her when she passed. Such a gift from God to be there during her transition. Sending big hugs to you and the family. Call me if you need someone to talk to.
Love you.

-Julie and Mike Mitchell and Family: Barb’s close and dear friend
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Our condolences to you and your beautiful family. Loved her very much.... You were blessed... Praying for your mom and family.

-Joey and Lisa Francisco, Barbs BFF
Mom and Lisa had good times together. Mom always commented on her beautiful long hair❣
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I’m so sad to hear this but happy she is in a better place and not suffering. Thinking of you and your family! God bless you. All my love and prayers to you.

-Janiza Terzoli and Family, friends of Barb & Marshall
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I’m so, so sorry, I loved her so much.
Your Mom was a Beautiful person inside and out, and she will be sorely missed. I will always remember her beautiful nature and her angelic smile. That’s what made Pauline such a joy to be around.
Now... I hear your mom whispering... “Guy. Guy. It’s really nice up here. Come on! I’ll make you some macaroni & Cheese! You make some burgers!” Your mom was so funny, loving. That’s why you are the way YOU are! AMAZING PERSON! What a great Mother she was to all of your brothers and sisters too! May the comfort of God help you during this difficult time my wonderful sissy!

-In Love and Sympathy, Your Sister,

-Denise Culton Guidos, Barb's ‘lil sister, aka: Barbs Bff and Sister-in-Law
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I just wanted to reach out to you and say I’m so sorry to hear about your mama. Sending you lots of love. Miss you and hope to see you soon!

-Joelle Francisco, Lisa and Joey’s daughter, Barbs Bff
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I’m so sorry!!! So glad she was comfortable and dancing in Heaven now!!!
I completely understand...take care of yourself! We love you!!!

-Mary Rine and Family, Barb and Marshall’s friends and neighbors
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I am sorry to hear, but I know how much you have taken care of her these past few years.

-Crystal Bejar, Pauline and Barb’s friend and neighbor (Karen & Tom’s daughter)
*In addition to card and Tomatoes they left at my door from Crystal’s garden
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She had a Full and Wonderful Life. ♥ She was Blessed to have You as her Daughter!

-Karen and Tom Isabel: friend and neighbor to Barb and Marshall
*In addition to card and Fruit they left at my door
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Condolences.

-Ken Gold, friend of Kevin’s

I am truly saddened. I loved her so much. My heart is broken. I know how hard this is. If there is anything I can do please let me know. -Denise and Walt Shelton

Love you so much!! Knowing grandma is our angel watching over us forever. Now she is free to dance and sing and move however she feel. She is free. A transition to another beautiful place. -Justice Klein, Granddaughter

Todd, Rose, Dee, Dad, Barb, Kevin, Louis, Jeff. My Deepest Sympathies go out to you all. There are no right words to say with the loss of a parent no matter the age. Picture her as she was; Full of life and love, Although not with you now. She's watching from above. She knows how much you miss her. And she misses you too. It was her time to leave. As each of us will do. She's always in your heart. With the precious love you shared. You’re never far apart. She is always there. I only have the fondest memories of grandma; endless summer days were spent with her while dad worked. To this day, I eat my toasted bagel with butter and cream cheese! The kids call it mom’s special, but it was grandma’s special! My memories of her are endless and even more so for all of you. Just know that you won't find a sweeter, more selfless, or classier lady that can measure up to who grandma was, and she will always be in our hearts. May she rest in peace. My Love to You ALL~ Sincerely, Candice ~ granddaughter

My Dad and Joey wanted to give you all their condolences. Joey said that he loved mom...that he has to say the she was his favorite Aunt❣ Roland said he loved mom so very much and that he remembers how everyone use to ask when they were little if they were twins❣ -Roland and Joey Patin **** She is such an example of pure love and goodness. That’s what I always see and feel from Pauline. Just like Grandma. My love right back to you!! Cousins Sharon, Angela, Joanne, and Eric Patin send you their love and deepest condolences to you all. God bless her sweet, sweet soul. You are all in my prayers. Love you dearly. If there’s anything I can do, you just let me know. -MaryRose, Domingue and Summer Domainge **** Condolences and my love. -Michele Martire **** *this was from Thereasa just days before mom passed.... ...It sounds like she is surrounded by a lot of love as her life winds down. What a beautiful, kind, and caring force she has been in my life. May she go in peace when that time comes. Take care. *this after mom passed… God bless Pauline. Sounds like she went peacefully. She will be terribly missed. -Thereasa Walker

Miss me...but let me go. A Poem by an Unknown Author

Barbara ~ When I think of your mom, I see her Smile and it makes me Happy. I think of Flowers and how she Loved her Family...I think of Fun Times ~ That's how I will Remember your Mother ~ Full of Love and Light. Our love ~ Karen & Tom

On this one year anniversary of the day we lost Charlie Brown, we keep his memory alive by pausing to remember him and what he meant to us. Please leave your messages, photos and videos here, so that we may keep his memory alive.

https://youtu.be/xyHoohNyYkw

Ms.Kvesic was the epitome of a perfect teacher. Kind, loving, caring and fun. I didn't have her as a teacher but I used to wish I did all the time. Every time I saw her in the hallways, she had a smile on her face and she was always happy to see her students. She was truly one of a kind. Ms.Kvesic will be sorely missed at Barondale. There is no teacher quite like her.
Her kindness will forever be remembered by her family, friends, coworkers and students.
Thanks for being an amazing person, Ms.Kvesic! We'll miss you!

Ms.Kvesic was a light in our world. She had a beautiful smile that was so contagious and a heart filled with love. Ms. Kvesic has taught so many, whom she impacted over the years. She always made our family feel welcomed and continuously made an effort to visit us at our graduations even though years had past since we had last been her students. This kind gesture was not left unnoticed. She was one of a kind and it is truly heartbreaking to see her leave this world so soon. As a family that shared the pleasure of having been taught by her 3 times, Ms. Kvesic’s memory will continue. We love and miss you so much Ms.Kvesic.
Love,
Your Kiddos ~ Abi, Kobi, Vasu and Kogulan

The Prayer of Saint Francis was one of mom's favorites:

Lord make me an instrument of your peace
Where there is hatred let me sow love
Where there is injury, pardon
Where there is doubt, faith
Where there is despair, hope
Where there is darkness, light
And where there is sadness, joy
O divine master grant that I may
not so much seek to be consoled as to console
to be understood as to understand
To be loved as to love
For it is in giving that we receive
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned
And it's in dying that we are born to eternal life
Amen

Some of mom’s favorite songs:

Sentimental Journey - Doris Day
At Last - Etta James
Dancing Queen - ABBA
Color My World - Chicago
The Time of My Life - Bill Medley& Jennifer Warren
I Did It My Way - Frank Sinatra
I’ll Be Seeing You - Billie Holiday
It’s Not Unusual, Delilah, Can’t Stop Loving You, Spanish Harlem, What’s Up Pussy Cat – Tom Jones
Sweet Caroline - Neil Diamond
Yesterday, Let It Be – The Beatles
Greensleeves - Mozart
MoonRiver – Audrey Hepburn

Lieve Mascha, voor mij blijf jij altijd die spontane, stoere en sterke meid. De mooie herinneringen blijven. Ik zal je missen. Veel liefs Paula

My beautiful friend Leela. I was so lucky to have you as a friend for the past 25 years even if we didn’t see each other often the texts and phone calls meant so much There is nobody in this world who gives better hugs than you do. You will always be in my thoughts and in my heart Till we meet again
Xoxo

Lieve Mascha, I was devastated to hear that you passed away! I had hoped that you would have many more years to enjoy your Californian life. You were so happy there. I am glad that I have been able to see it when I visited you and Edwin 3 years ago. That was the best trip of my life! Even since I got to know you, you have been so supportive and motivating in everything I did. And all the times we laughed so hard together because of our weird sense of humor! I will cherish these memories forever! Goodbye my dear friend! You will be missed so hard! Lots of love, Klarina

When I think of you Leela, I will remember...
The enormous hugs that elicited beaming smiles from all of your nieces and nephews. They love and miss you so much.
The firm squeeze of your hand in the hard times sharing your boundless strength. This strength that too many times, endured pain and came out stronger than before.
Your big laugh that made us smile along even if we didn’t know the punchline.
Your heart, so big and caring for friends, family, students, colleagues, animals and all around you.
As the saying goes, your wings were ready, but our hearts were not. You will be loved and remembered forever. XO

Ms.Kvesic,

Your infectious positivity was always there to make even a bad day, an amazing day. You always take a positive stand, and always make sure everyone around you feels special. I remember that day when you told me, "You silly monkey, you better be a good kid in my class next year." I never ended up in your homeroom, but I will always remember the great memories you gave us in your drama classes, and your classroom door was always open, so I'd always come and talk to you, whenever I got a chance. Words can't describe how much everyone misses you, I wish I had kept my promise, and visited when I could, but I always thought I'd have more time, I should've never taken anything for granted. You even came to see all of your Barondale kids, graduating from grade 8, and it was one of the kindest gestures I've seen. I'm a die-hard fan of the Canadiens, but just this one year I really wish the Leafs win the cup, and when they do, I'll be remembering you in my heart. I will forever be your silly monkey. We'll all miss your Ms.Kvesic, rest easy.

My dearest Leela. How fortunate was I to have landed the classroom next to yours during my first year at Barondale?! We became fast friends and I'm so grateful. So many moments to cherish, but I fondly recall the time you praised me for introducing my students to Country music, when we spontaneously started singing and dancing to 'Boot Scootin' Boogie' together in front of your kids, who looked on at us with bright smiley eyes and laughed hilariously at our shameless musical outburst. Your silliness was infectious and fun! No more pain. You may dance in the clouds.

Ms. Kvesic,

Although I never had you as a teacher at Barondale, I, along with everyone else hoped to have you. Your personality and energy was infectious and brightened up the school everyday. You truly cared and went above and beyond for your students. Your impact at Barondale and in the community was memorable and profound, and for that I thank you. Your positivity and heart will never be forgotten. My heart goes out to everyone affected by your passing, and I hope you are in a better place. May you rest in peace. When the Leafs finally bring home that Stanley Cup, I will be thinking of you. Go Leafs go!

Thank you,
Maya P

My dear Leela, the pain that we are all feeling is because you left your imprint on all our hearts, and now that you are gone, it feels like all the light in the world has been extinguished. However, we are all better people to have met and known you, if only for a short time. We just wish we had more time to bask in your light. I will love and miss you forever.

Where do I begin with Ms. Kvesic? I was extremely lucky to have her as my teacher for not one but two years! There are so many stories to tell and I'm sure many others have there plethora of stories. However, I will always remember in grade 3 when lead from my mechanical pencil broke and flew into my eye. I rushed to the washroom but I couldn't get it out. I returned to class and Ms. K calmed me down and she was able to remove the lead safely from underneath my eye with a tissue. That was definitely not a story you would hear twice. Two years later in grade 5, I couldn't bear to leave behind Ms. K as I graduated. I ended up crying but she hugged me and gave me her email for if I ever needed anything. In the following years I visited a few times and was always welcomed with "look at my kiddo" or "look at my munchkin all grown" and we would reflect upon our memories and how proud she was of me. I will always treasure that I was lucky enough to be her student twice!! May you rest in paradise Ms. Kvesic! Hopefully, the Leafs will win one soon and you'll have the best view from above! To the family, my condolences goes out to you and know that you are not alone.

It's been a month and we miss you dearly. We know you are watching over us.

Love you - Aaron

A sad time for all at 4most.

It was always a pleasure to chat to Mark and always made an effort to come and speak to me whenever I came down to London. Also probably the only man the will offer a job after taking me out for a meal as a job interview.

Thoughts with all his family and friends.

Dan

The first time we had seen each other in a year. I remember how nervous I was on the way to see you. I felt like I was gonna puke the whole ride. But as soon as you opened the door and grabbed me up in your arms it was like no time had past at all. I remember you brought me a plate of Koles food and only one fork! ( you had to have known that wasnt an option) when you reached for the fork I pulled away and told you to get your own, all the while stuffing my face... I can still see your face clear as day in my mind when you looked at me, smiled and said "shit like that is why I love you" I miss you so much Steven Downey. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox

So our anniversary is literally right around the corner... And to be completely honest, im totally dreading it. For 15 years we were together almost every day, but certainly EVERY 4th of July. Even this past 4th when we were going thru all that it was you who was sitting next to me in the truck. Steven please tell me how in the fuck I am supposed to get thru an entire lifetime like this?! I need you, Ive always needed you. Something happened the other day that really shook me. Christy fell asleep at my moms and left her phone laying around and of course Erin went thru it. She showed me a message that raised a red flag so I went to pick up the phone. While I was scrolling thru pics I came across a screenshot of a conversation between christy and and someone else... the other person said "leave me alone im at a funeral" and the response that came back from our daughters phone was " I hope whoever died a horrible death and rot in hell bitch..." " fuck you and your dead ass family member..." Steven you cant even understand what that does to my heart and my soul. The first thing that crossed my mind was Did she learn to be that heartlesss from watching me talk to you? How could she say something like that to someone after just losing her father herself?! What do I do?! How do I even approach the subject? You know how I am... I dont want to fly off the handle and be the bitch that I always am. I want her to know how wrong and completely unacceptable that was... I need you Steven, I need your level headedness and your old fashioned core values... I need your strength and courage right now. Help Me Babe.... Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox

Unfortunately, I did not work with Mark for that long and I would have loved much longer. I became very fond of Mark over that time and he was always a friendly face in the office after I had been travelling to or from somewhere…. Half day again is it Gareth!
Mark was a superb people person. He had that ability to get on with everyone, put them at ease (typically with a top draw ‘dad joke’) and have fun. But he could also get down to serious business when he needed to. That is what made him such a great leader, person to work with and a statesman for 4most.
At heart Mark was a salesman and he loved the associated social side and banter that came with that. He was an incredibly welcoming and generous person, the perfect host with an infectious laugh and sense of humour.
In the 2.5 years of knowing Mark there are many many great memories and much fun was had.
One of a kind, a truly brilliant chap to be around.
Rest in peace Mark, you are already badly missed.
Gareth.

I first met Mark in 2014 and I have many wonderful memories of him. He was always full of energy and optimism.
Mark always put people first and he was a key driver in establishing a great culture at 4Most. He was a kind and generous man, and a great boss.

Deepest condolences to his family and friends. He will be missed.

Hristo

I have so many memories of Mark from Portugal, Christmas parties and various other social events. This photo in particular was from Portugal 2017 which I will always remember as the year he gave me approval (after just a few drinks) to take as many holidays as I wanted. I also always appreciated him including me in his thank you speech for helping organise events, despite me not actually being involved at all! I loved his ability to always have a good time and make sure those around him did too. He made you want to just enjoy life and take every moment as it comes. I think my fondest memory will always be our shared love of chocolate/sweets. It wasn’t long before he discovered that I always have some at my desk, and his regular visits made me quickly realise that I needed to increase my stockpile, which he frequently contributed to. I will always have a thought for him when delving into our finance stash at work. He will be greatly missed by many. Amy

Having only known Mark for 4 short years, he become a significant part of my life in various ways – from a mentor at work to an inspiration on how to live life. As like so many others in his 4most life, our first meeting was a highly relaxed breakfast meeting in the City, which became a regular favourite for us whenever I needed to bounce ideas off him. It is both ironic and fitting that our last meeting was out of London for a casual mid-week pub lunch in Hampshire.

Over the years we have know each other he quickly become more of a friend than a boss, which often made the more formal work chats harder but Mark usually managed the situation by a quick chat followed by a long lunch at Harry’s bar. We managed to pack in a fair amount over this time, both at work and in play! So many happy memories of trips to Cheltenham, skiing, sailing , pub lunches in the Harrow, to name a few. Since the move to the new house, conversations tended to centre less about work and more about how to sort out the latest issue with the quad, how to get it out of first gear, or the flail mower that never seemed to get going. As part of this I felt privileged to have met Charlotte on a number of occasions and talk about the kids, especially more recently as Millie and I had our second child. It is clear to me Mark was a lucky man in finding Charlotte and it doesn’t take a genius to work out that they were clearly perfectly matched in so many ways.

As long as I have known Mark he's always been a larger than life character, and I will remember him fondly as a trusted colleague and a close friend.

I remember my first week at 4most, back in September 2014. We were treated to an escape game followed by what ended up being a rather long Thursday night at a nearby pub. Not being used to a company tab before this, I turned up a little worse for wear the next morning. Mark was his usual cheerful self, seemingly unaffected, taking breakfast orders and buying everyone their chosen hangover cure. That first experience was a good indicator of things to come.

Mark had bags of energy, often the last man standing on the dancefloor, easily outlasting much younger 4mosters! He was very generous, not just with breakfast but with his time and guidance and the proportion of 4most’s funds that went into making it a happy workplace. It’s plain to see the success he achieved with our company and others but through it all that he remained a very approachable leader, patient with questions and forgiving of mistakes.

My enduring memory of Mark will be his booming laugh, probably enjoying a magic trick on a boat! I believe that we will continue his legacy of balancing great work with great fun.

I met Mark on a 4most summer conference having only joined the company a week earlier. Mark was one of the first senior people that I spoke to on that weekend and I found him to be very engaging and easy to talk to. Meeting Mark and knowing such friendly and approachable people were at the head of the organisation helped cement my feelings that I had made the right decision in making the move to 4most.

I shall miss having those occasional easy going conversations with Mark and the impromptu speeches he would give, which were always (as other people have also said) positive and often inspiring. He will be sorely missed by us all.

My thoughts and sympathies go out to his family.

Matt

A message from Tarquin:

It is obvious from the messages left that Mark had a special ability to balance the professionalism with a playfulness that was refreshing and has engendered itself in all of 4most. In my opinion, one of our company’s key attributes is this culture; it is not often a leader’s character is embodied so clearly.

It is also uncommon for one person to have touched so many corners of the company. The gap he has left behind with us is sizeable but the gap he leaves behind with his friends and family must be significantly greater, what a loss.

I remember being at Cheltenham races with Mark, a great day out with typical amounts of drink flowing. We were exchanging horse racing stories, betting tips and generally laughing and joking. It was the first time I’d really had a chance to speak with him at any length and he was such a lively character, very easy to talk to and genuinely interested. In fact, I can’t remember a time that I saw him when he wasn’t making people around him laugh.

We will miss you Mark.

Mark was a lovely man who always had the time of day for me, from when I first met him 4 and a half years ago after my interview for 4most until more recently when I last saw him in the office. He will be missed

I have had the pleasure of Mark’s company, mainly at 4most socials over the last 4 years. One of the qualities that Mark possessed, and one I will remember him for, is that age will never be an obstacle. He was willing to try out new things, get involved with what the younger generation is doing nowadays and always the first to the dancefloor no matter what music played (albeit dependant on alcohol consumption). Every time our paths crossed in the office, he would share something funny or a joke. Always greeted with that trademark smile no matter what type of a day he had. I had the pleasure of sharing dinner with him, and with a few others at 4most, at one of our Summer Conferences in Portugal. He slowly parked himself of our table with the same intention as everyone else on the table, it was the closest to the food! I cannot remember any specific conversations we had during our meal, but Mark made the time to get to know everyone at 4most when possible. The qualities he possessed is what the 4most family has been built on and we will all play a part in making sure it stays that way forever. I have posted a picture of myself and Mark taken at the summer conference in 2018. It is the only selfie I have of us, it seems to be a very popular night as others have also posted images of the oversized pink sunglasses which he wore for most of the night. It's a bit blurry but portrays a true reflection of how the night went. Hope you feel the happy (drunk) vibes from it and others from the night. Mark radiated positive energy in any environment, a delight to be around and an inspiration to people around him. His thoughts will always bring a smile to my face. Kush

I first met Mark in December 2011 when I interviewed for 4most. Mark was a brilliant man to work with, he had a great way of making people feel comfortable around him and always approached life with a great mix of taking things seriously (sometimes!) but having a laugh as well. It might sound so simple but Mark wanted us all to have a laugh and be happy when we were working.

I was lucky enough to play golf with Mark all over the place, on our company trips and at Liphook. He was very competitive but as with everything else it was always good fun and he was pretty much unbeatable whenever we’d play at his home course Liphook. I always enjoyed the fact that Mark treated us all as equals at 4most and that taking the mick out of each other was a two way thing – he often took the mick out of me but would take it as well as give it! I often think ‘what would Mark say’ when some sort of opportunity to go and watch sport or play golf somewhere comes up, Mark would always just tell me to do it and worry about cost et.c. later – great advice if you ask me.

As so many have said on here he was the life and soul of so many of our parties and the office, and more than anything he was just a brilliant bloke. He will be missed massively. Mike Gilding.

Thinking about you mum

In mid March 2020 we had dinner and Dayton insisted the band at the restaurant plays an Australian Ballad, "Waltzing Matilda" by Slim Dusty. To Your Joy, They Did. This song will always remind me of you.

I met Mark when I joined the company 3 years ago. Shortly after I started, I realized what a genuine, bright and positive person he was. I have never heard anyone else before laughing so loud, so often and for so long. I guess it was Mark’s never-ending joking that made it simply not possible to maintain any sense of hierarchy when speaking to him.

He was one of those people that could teach you how worrying hasn’t helped anyone and also that positivity is one of the most appropriate approaches towards life, if not the only one.

I honestly consider Mark to have been a great leader because he knew how to inspire the members of his big team and was always trying to elevate the spirit of the people around him with a joke or sometimes even a warning for the ones working late to not steal too much data.

I feel very fortunate to have met Mark. I believe he did his best in making everyone’s day calmer and happier. It is so sorrowful that he left us but I think we all owe Mark something – a very big smile.

He'll be missed.

Zara

I met Mark 8 years ago at the start of the 4most journey, he helped me through various bumps in my life over those years with a smile, very good advice and always an offer of a drink. His infectious optimism dragged us through some doubtful periods and his approach to 4most its and people has very much shaped the culture of the company.

Mark has left me with many things, perhaps one of the more amusing is a repertoire of cheese jokes (which my kids now play back over and over). What did the cheese say to the mirror…..

You are missed Mark, thanks for everything.

Craig Watters

I met Mark back in 2017, a couple of days after I joined the team. When I think of him, two prominent things come to my mind – he was a down to the earth man with a great sense of humour. Once, when he sat next to me in the office I was listening for half a day his hilarious old school jokes and life stories. I am truly proud that I knew Mark and also worked for him.

Nikolay

I met Mark when I joined 4most just over 4 years ago feeling extremely out of my depth as a less experienced hire. One of the most troubling ideas was trying to find somewhere to sit and dreading the thought of sitting where the “senior” people sat (generally at least, in the Lime St free-for-all). I learned three things:
1) 4mosters are a nice bunch - Mark in particular was very quick to set the tone that no one in 4most will hesitate to chat to you or help you, including the Managing Directors;
2) Work hard and have a laugh – I think this is the cornerstone of how we work at 4most, Mark pioneered this with his innate ability to balance doing your job with a relaxed and cheerful manner and;
3) Lime St really did not have enough seats
Mark knew that what makes 4most successful is the individuals that work here and so he ensured that everyone was included and enjoying themselves. His warm and welcoming personality brought everyone together and there was never a dull (or dry!) social when he was around. He had a wonderful ability of being subtly supportive and he truly cared about people’s achievements.
His compassion and values are woven into 4most and I cannot remotely do justice to Mark’s character, but I will always be thankful for working with him.
My thoughts are with his family and friends at this sad time.
Beth x

I first met Mark over 21 years ago and it has been a true pleasure to have spent the majority of my career working with him. Looking back, it is hard to think of anything other than his infectious ability to encourage people to have fun, even when things get tough. I only remember once him looking worried when we were having lunch just before a significant pitch to our then largest client – “this could go horribly wrong” he said. I looked concerned, only for him to reveal it was the risk of getting Bolognese on his white shirt that was troubling him and not the meeting - ever the optimist. Despite the fun, Mark had a serious side that, along with Mark Somers, built what 4most is today. As a legacy he has left something we can all be proud of and we owe it to him to maintain the values he worked so hard to keep and that differentiate us from so many companies.

I will always look back with fond memories, a smile and a heartfelt thank you.

Miles

I’ve only had the pleasure of knowing Mark for a few years. He has been a massive positive influence on my time at 4most and my career.

If I were to take anything from my time with Mark, I don’t think he ever believed in ‘looking before you leaped’. He leaps, and puts trusts in himself and those around him that’ll we’ll get the job done. I’m grateful to have parted with some of this from my time with Mark.

Ramesh

Caroline was an amazing person--artist, musician, poet, dancer--& a wonderful friend. We had so many fine adventures together beginning in the senior adult tap dance class where we met & going on through, Vintage Ballet, The Poet Speaks performances, Dance for PD classes . . . . It was a privilege to know both Caroline & Jack.
Susan Burton

Mark's approach to 4most is the very ethos that we are all fortunate enough to continue to enjoy. He always challenged us on getting the right outcome, higher revenue, growth etc... but never too seriously and always with a trip to a pub/bar after.

After I had heard the sad news I received a picture message from Aidan and knew immediately that it would be from my first 4most christmas party - one arm round Mark, his arms aloft, a tie tied round his head singing at the top of his voice; probably not what I expected to be doing with the Managing Director a few months after joining, but it set the scene from that point on. He will be greatly missed

Chris Warhurst

Many happy memories of spending time in and (mostly) out of the office with Mark over the years. Many happy hours spent chatting over a drink at the Grapes even before joining 4most. His warmth and generosity was part of the reason I joined in the first place.

From cutting shapes on the dance floor in Estepona (with that green hat on!) to joining in with 500 miles at Bandeoke at the Christmas party, Mark was always fun to be around and never took himself too seriously.

He'll be missed.

I first met Mark on my 3rd interview for 4most 2 years ago. When I found out the CEO wanted to meet me, I almost passed out but he really set the tone for how laid back the business was. He started off the interview by reading the job description instead of my CV and we had a good old laugh about it.

Mark was the literally the life of the party and being in a bad mood or upset around him was impossible. He made my life hard when he used to dump a bunch of his dry cleaning and pub receipts on my desk and none of them would relate to what I was looking for but we'd just laugh and try another coat the next day.

Mark will surely be missed and my deepest condolences to his family and close friends

Steph x

I first met Mark when I signed my contract to join 4most, despite not starting for several weeks he insisted I join the upcoming social so I could get to know everyone before work started proper.

He then sought me out at the pub and insisted on buying me a drink and getting to know me. For a young analyst who was apprehensive about starting a new role in a small company this gesture was enormously appreciated and put all my fears of the unknown to bed.

Mark wove his drive to instil culture and camaraderie in every interaction, whether it was leading the charge to the Grapes on a Thursday afternoon or investing in a new coffee machine to make break times more rewarding. He invested his time and energy into the people of 4most and always trusted it would pay dividends.

For consultants who spent their days scattered across the UK he made stopping by the office feel like coming home.

He will be missed by all.

Nick Simmons

In many ways Mark was the soul of 4most. We often talk about the unique culture and Mark was the driving force behind so much of that. He went out of his way to ensure everyone was enjoying themselves; either by making you laugh or reminding you that you were only a few hours away from being sat in the pub.

He always made time for everyone and I found him great company whether talking about work (rarely) or having a natter over a drink. His positivity shone through and I'll always remember him for his warmth and generosity to all.

He will be sorely missed.

Mark was always up beat, friendly and didn’t take himself too seriously. It felt as though I could go up to him and start a conversation at any time and he would usually manage to make you laugh during that interaction!

He was always so fun loving and this was most evident during many of our company socials or after work drinks! It was great to have a boss who was so ready to get involved and have a great time with the company.

He will be missed and I am sending my deepest condolences to his family. I hope they can take some comfort in knowing how highly he was thought of.

May he rest in peace.

Sinead x

This video was made by Marlon Hernandez and shared during the memorial on 6/20/20

Happy fathers day dad. I❤❤you forever ⚘⚘⚘⚘

Pammy, you've been on my mind alot lately. Your loving spirit will forever live on through every soul you've touched. I'm so thankful for the time we had you in our lives. Benny most certainly will know who his Pammaw was and how beautiful of a person she was and how much she loved him. Love and mis you.

Hey you, I just wanted to tell you a few things so I can check em off my "list of things to tell Steven". So im not sure if I told you but Christy recently went thru a phase where she decided not to cuss or yell at me because she said it took her further away from God and being let into Heaven on Judgement Day. It didnt last long...lol she decided that rather than putting so much effort into being good and doing what others wanted her to do, it would simply be easier to do what she wanted because "you cant let the Devil know you're afraid of him." Oh god I laughed so hard when I heard that because it is soooooo Christy to say something like that. She has your spirit and your never back down type of attitude. I know you would have been so proud to hear her say it. The next thing I wanted to tell you about was the other night I was dying the girls hair purple and while I was rinsing out Christys in the sink she kept complaining about how the water was running down her forehead and I told her to stop whining and stay still. And when she wrapped the towel around her head I started to clean out the sink and she goes "MOOOMMMMAAA" the tone of her voice instantly irritated me and when I turned around to yell at her I busted up laughing... She had the brightest purple blob covering her forehead!!! LMAO she goes " r u stupid or are you stupid?!" Bahahahahahahahahahaha It was hilarious. I miss you the most when things like this happen because no matter what was going on between me and you when it came to the girls we were always on the same page. I dont have you to share these moments with anymore and it breaks my heart. The next thing I wanted to tell you was about how Christy was telling me that tomorrow she wanted me to take her to walmart to get some brown hair dye to cover the purple up and then she wanted me to buy her hair extensions. And I knew she wasnt asking she was TELLING me what was going to happen so I didnt even bother arguing with her I just patted her on the leg and said " ok we will do it tomorrow" and she smacks my hand away and says " dont pat me like were gonna do it!!!" hahahahahahaha it was too funny. And the last thing I wanted to tell you about was how I picked the size of your second village. I couldnt decide if I wanted to keep it the same size as what I already have or go smaller, but I was scrolling through google looking for little buildings for it and I came across this SEX SHOP in small scale. I searched for hours for something that was even in the same category as it but came up with nothing so small scale it is lol. When it got delivered to the office my mom was there and she opened it. She said as soon as she saw the word SEX she immediately closed the box and said "thats gotta be Ambers!" LMAO I knew you would love it. Im the only one who understands that I couldnt build you your own village without putting a sex store in it... hahahahahaha I miss you so much Steven. Your still my favorite everything and I will miss you for the rest of my life. Love me always, xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

I was a student of Mr. Orman's from 1969-71. He was an outstanding teacher. He was kind, supportive, helpful in his criticism. He made sure students learned the technical aspects of printmaking, but he also helped us develop our own vision and style. I am saddened at his passing and wish his family and friends peace and comfort.
Tanya McMurtry

I’m trying to find the words to capture just how important you have been in my adult life. You Linda embodied all that was good in people. You welcomed in anyone and treated them as if you’d known them a lifetime. I don’t think there has ever been a time you wouldn’t go above and beyond for anyone and everyone and I feel so very blessed to have been able to be one of the recipients of your love.
There are so many memories that bring warmth to my heart most of them at your home in Kasilof. From sitting around your backyard and you relentlessly catering to all of us big kids making sure our bellies were full after long nights camping, to allowing us to dirty your pristine bathrooms to rinse off the campfire and booze stink. To moving into our more mature adult years where we’d bring our babies down and you’d follow them around your yard and insist that we take a break and let them play with you smiling ear to ear. I think fondly of our camping trip to Seward where Taitum and Tayla learned to ride bikes with out training wheels and you watched while cheering. Nothing however compares to goin on vacation with you and seeing where you grew up, we were welcomed by your entire family and we were given a very intimate look at what molded you into the fierce loving woman I met as a young adult.
I think about the laughs, the unconditional love and the complete selflessness that you had. You’ve touched the hearts of so many and I hope I can at least embody a sliver of everything you were. Thank you for accepting me and being there for all of life’s moments, thank you for your daughter My person and best friend in the world who changed my life and most of all thank you for allowing me to be a small part of your journey I know mine is forever changed because you were in it.
You are loved by so many and your legacy will live on in the incredible humans that you raised, the world was a better place because you were in it. I love you big bunches forever and ever. XOXOXO

Momma, I've often said I can only hope to have just a tiny bit of your patience. You patiently waited for things to unfold, always near with your gentle warmness and knowing smile, you patiently waited for hundreds of batches of cookies so you could share the simple joy of warm, fresh from the oven love. You were patient with every child, every struggle, every hurt, and every dream You were patient on the river so you could carry that big king back to camp. You patiently built and created homes, camps, and fun out of nothing and everything. More than anything, you patiently gave every part of yourself to your family, friends you made family, and all who had the gift of knowing you. Momma, I'll try to be patient until we meet again.

What a fun day this was. Driving 4wheelers up at off road express. You Gabe, Brody and I. I love you.

Last brass roller. 2019

Chris was one of the nicest people I have ever worked with. Always helpful and supportive, always kind. Chris was also fun to be with. A proud mother of Gary and devoted wife to Tom. RIP Chris.
Much love and heartfelt condolences,
Lin Dyke.

Grandma Linda, you will be forever in our hearts.

Thank you SueAnn for creating this Memorial.

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This was a happy day! Miss you love ❤️

I love you so much Dad. I miss you so much. Nothing seems real anymore. I need you in my world.

From Edwards and Lewis Family, Sister Moore we love was always there for all of us. She open up her home and hart to let us have shelter from home. We always be grateful for everything she have done for us, We love her and never forget. Sis Moore is in a great place now with the Lord by her side. She will be missed.

Hey Babe, Last night when I went to my moms to pick up the girls, she told me that they were at Erins. So I watched our show on the OWN channel and by the time it was over it was about 12:30am. I went to Erins to get them and Christy started whining that they wanted to stay. The feeling of uneasiness started to set in at the thought of going home alone. And I started to get upset. I told her NO a couple of times before I started to tear up and then just said fuck it love you goodnight... As I backed out of the driveway I could see Jade still standing there watching me speed away. I thought about stopping but I didnt. I know its childish of me to act this way, but I hate being alone at night and I cant seem to put my big girl panties on and get over it. When I got home, there was a couple of texts from Jade ( I knew there would be ). She said " Mommy, the only reason I wanted to stay was because Christy was staying. I know why you were crying, and I love you more than anybody in the world. How close are you to the house? Call me when you wake up love you bye." I broke down and started bawling. I hate that things are this way and that they have to worry about me and they cant just be kids. I hate that I cant be alone when the sun goes down anymore. I tell myself that the uneasy feeling is your spirit following so close that I can feel you. And I would rather have you close and be uneasy than not feel anything at all. Its just hard because I cant see you. You will ALWAYS have a place with me Steven... ALWAYS. So please dont ever think that it would be easier on everyone if you just backed off. I want you to stay. I love you and our girls love you, we all miss you so much it hurts our hearts everyday. Im never gonna get over this Steven. I heard a song the other day that said if I loved you like I miss you, If my world revolved around you like it does right now without you, you wouldnt be gone. It perfectly explains the situation. And again all I can say is im sorry. I will miss you for the rest of my life Steven Downey. Love me always xoxoxoxoxox

what a beautiful obituary! I can't imagine how hard it might be to lose both parents at once.My heart goes out to you..your parents I didn't know well but from your tribute, I know them as creative, inspired and inspiring and industrious artists and creators. May you be sustained in many beautiful memories! Leslie Goodwin

I am so touched by your tribute to your parents! I knew Caroline briefly..unfortunately! I saw her at a few poetry readings in Loveland and once jumped to the stage to steady her walker..I remember her poems as being funny, insightful and whimsical at times but always engaging. Know she was much loved and had an amazing life with you boys to carry on her traditions. Leslie Goodwin

Dearest Pam,
You are the earth angel and I knew it the first time I met you. You swept in when I had the flu. You and Vance transformed our home into a beautiful place for our wedding reception. I miss you and glad you are not suffering anymore. Be free. you belong among the Wildflowers

Well old friend you set sail much sooner than I had thought you would and I still can’t believe you have left us. Please know that you are missed. I think of you every week day as we work to continue your legacy at VCFA. We have your great example before us and will always keep the indelible mark of character, integrity and dedication as the pillars of the firm you built. Thank you for putting so much trust in us these past years and for the countless lessons along the way. You were a great mentor and partner but an even better friend these twenty plus years. I’ll miss our evenings in the office sitting in the conference room sharing stories, joke telling, debating the politics of the day, and sharing thoughts on life, family, and our so many friends in common. It is these moments of both humor and seriousness that I will struggle to live without as I thought they would go on for many more years. I’m sad to see you go my friend but I know you’ll keep teaching me things even in your absence as I will often use your wisdom as a compass for years to come.

I can definitely testify to Mark Somers' comment on Mark's ability and speed for mental arithmetic - he certainly kept me on my toes whenever I presented him with numbers but was always open and willing to listen to the response. He was also very good at keeping the finance team stocked up with toffees, although contributed to how often they needed stocking up with his regular after-lunch visits to the finance area for 'something sweet'.

He was great fun, and I have many happy memories of 4most socials of which Mark was a huge part - the stash of lime green hats he bought outside the club in Portugal, the 'bank notes' with his face on for our Casino Royale Christmas Party and his love of magicians which lead to my annual communications with '[email protected]' Without Mark's influence, 4most wouldn't have the fun, friendly and welcoming culture that it does, and through that his legacy will continue.

Sending my love and best wishes to Mark's family at such a sad time.

Nicola x

I feel so fortunate to have worked with Mark! He was the soul of every 4most social (as per the photo attached); as well as a great business leader. The way Mark & Mark managed to set up 4most as the ideal environment for everyone to be their best, is pretty unique! Mark's support, mentoring and laughter - that's what we'll all remember and miss. With love and thoughts, Hana

Chris, I will always remember how nervous I was at meeting you that first time but with your kind smile, loving and friendly manner, I didn't have to to worry.
Thank you so much for letting me into your caring family, you're just the type of mother-in-law every person would of hoped for.
Thank you for all the happy memories we made, I'm just so sorry we couldn't of made so many more.

Rest now and be at peace.

All my love,
Michelle.

You will be missed Tracy, but never forgotten. I know you will continue to inspire me as well as many other women on their journey through breast cancer. Oh, and War Eagle. I guess you Alabama grads are not so bad. LOL Your friend always (Auburn grad), Sabrina

This movie is dedicated to our Warrior Tracy B from your ladies in the ABC group in TN. We are so thankful for all the inspiration you have given to all our breast cancer survivors and many more. We know you will continue to inspire them as you will never be forgotten. https://youtu.be/W5JTn1KIbe4

This movie is dedicated to our Warrior Tracy B from your ladies in the ABC group in TN. We are so thankful for all the inspiration you have given to all our breast cancer survivors and many more. We know you will continue to inspire them as you will never be forgotten. https://youtu.be/W5JTn1KIbe4

Hi Tracy, when I first met you I thought what a beautiful smile and bubbly personality you had. Eventually your dad and I married and I was excited about having a stepdaughter after raising three sons. Your spunk was contagious and fight to the end impressive. I am glad you are at peace now. Love, Marie Peterson.

With love and fond memories of a fun loving person who loved life to the full and always where there to lend a helping hand. Chris will be sadly missed!
“What the caterpillar calls the end, the master calls the butterfly”
From
Colin & Marianne

Oh sweet Katie, where do I even begin.
You loved this song, you shared it with me because it made you think of your friend Jordan, and also the house up on the hill at Palmer Lake.
You were the sweetest, most compassionate person I’ve ever met.
And you were so damn determined!!!
As you would say, “ I am a capable woman!”
I loved that I could make you belly laugh, I’m sure going to miss that laugh!
The last night we had dinner together, was one of the times that I gave you a good laugh... We were at a little Italian restaurant, and I was trying to pronounce gnocchi.
You would tell me, and five minutes later I would forget what it was actually called.
You were super disappointed, because it wasn’t real gnocchi, and you wanted me to try the real thing.
To Bob and Mary, Susie and Owen, Ann and Emily. My thoughts are with you all.
My sweet Katie, I am devastated.
I’d love to you in life, and I will continue loving you until there’s no life in me.
And I will leave a light on......

There will be a celebration of Pam's life in the near future! I will give everybody plenty of notice.

I miss you mum

Fairly certain this is the bar tab from our first conference in Portugal in 2016. Owe this man a lot for taking a chance on me. Thanks and condolences to his family and closest. We'll miss you. Andy L x

The time I spent in Pamela's presence was filled with kindness, warmth and light. She touched the lives and hearts of so many and is cherished as a dear friend to my parents. They all shared great memories together and always reported back to us kids the laughter, freedom, love and fun they experienced - whether at a concert, in the backyard or a restaurant full of tapas. I know Pamela will be deeply missed by many and that her heart and soul remain alive in the memories and spirits of those she touched.

Peace to you Pamela and love to you Vance and family xx

Dear Pamela,

The times we spent together were truly special. Your generous spirit and natural ability to make everyone feel special will be remembered. Your home, apart from the beauty it presented, was always a place filled with welcome and the love that was so evident between you and Vance. I will always remember and cherish your friendship and the great times we enjoyed over lemon martinis. We will look after Vance for you and keep you in our hearts.

All my love, Brenda xx.

Pam,
I miss you so much! You were an earth angel to me and the owl outside my window reminded me how wise you are and that you are still with us! I will never forget how you and Vance rescued us
during our wedding reception as I was getting over the flu. You were so gracious and
provided our home with a celebratory atmosphere with you awesome creativity. Please
know how much we love you.

My feelings for Pam are impossible to put in to words. My heart will hold her close as memories of our friendship, her creativity, kindness, and especially love will live on to share with others.

Sending love to Vance and all of you that were part of Pam’s precious life.

barbara

So I went to court yesterday and my case was dismissed. After I left there I went to get started on my next tattoo. He finished the bottom half of the sleeve for the most part. But im inlove with it already. My mom cried when she saw it. It hurt like hell alot more than the first one did. I dont know why but what makes it tolerable is trying to imagine what you were going thru even before that day. It kills me to think that I was so absorbed in myself that I let you suffer that alone. I loved you sooooo much more than that and I hate myself for letting you down. When im feeling physical pain now, I feel like I deserve it because of what I let you go thru alone. Im sorry Steven. Im so ashamed of the way I acted towards you in the months before you left. And that last day will be seared in my memory for the rest of my life. I can still see that look on your face that I always hated, as I pulled the front door closed. It was a look of pain and confusion... I would give anything to redo the last 5 minutes before I left that day. I would literally give my own life for it. Id give my own life in exchange for yours Steven. Im sorry, Im so sorry I wasnt who you needed to me to be in your darkest hour. You saved me everytime I asked you to, and I failed you. Im sorry babe, nothing will ever make this right, but for the rest of my days I will be sorry for turning my back on our love. Im sorry Steven Downey... Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox

The most incredible human being I ever knew! She was so special ! She lit up every room she walked into and touched every person she met! I am so lucky that I got to have 12 great years with her. I will cherish them dearly! I didn't lose my girl I lost my Pammy! I love you Babe!

Till we meet again,

Vance

Momma some good news. I think I would be good at Wedding planning so I applied to a company to intern. The Lady told me to check back in August to do a face to face interview with her. Jtst wanted to share with you.

Momma Glad you arent hear to see the craziness going on in America right now. I love you and miss you very much.

First time I have slept alone in my bed since you left.... the comfortable roomy mattress was completely lost on me. It was like my body was comfortable but my heart and mind were not. This made it impossible to sleep. So I did like I used to do when u went to Bakersfield for work, i put a pillowcase that smelled like you on my pillow and layed on it like it was your chest. Except back then I had u coming home to look forward to. I miss u Steven with all my heart. Love me always xoxoxoxoxox

Forever in our hearts

It has been awhile since Vernon passed on. Life goes so fast. I found his obituary and again was so impressed with the military history. I loved visiting with Vernon and Bonna when they would come to visit their folks. Thanks for sharing your story here. Linda Lou

Si bien es cierto que todos los de esta banda son buenos, tu con tus arreglos lograste que tuvieran mención honorífica en aquél Festival de la Canción en Campus Estado de México.

Si bien es cierto que todos los de esta banda son buenos, tu con tus arreglos lograste que tuvieran mencion honorífica en aquél Festival de la Canción en Campus Estado de México.

Estoy lejos como ahora lo estamos todos físicamente, pero estamos unidos con un deseo de que descanse en paz y que reciba nuestro cariño donde sea que esté. Para muchos de nosotros fue una persona maravillosa llena de apapachos para todos. Lo vamos a extrañar.

Apapachos donde quiera que estés Luis, igual por allá nos vemos

Hey babe, i just wanted to tell you real quick that the girls were riding the go kart the other day and when we got back to the office jade goes " ummmmm christy you got a bean on your butt" as shes peelings Hershey wrapper off Christy's ass. A WHOLE Hershey bar melted to the butt of her shorts. Christy goes " shut up jade it's an ALMOND!" bahahahahaha... I wish u could have been there to laugh with me. I love you forever Steven. Love me always xoxoxoxo

I cannot recall a major moment in my life that you haven’t been there for and I’ve never once imagined my life without you. Uncle D, I am so blessed to have called you my godfather but, really, you’ve been a second father to me. I’ll miss calling to wish you a Happy Godfather’s Day and our impromptu calls to check-in on each other. We always marveled at the fact that we were living in the same place. I’ll never forget one bone-chilling winter day when we got together for an event in NYC. As we were leaving, we spotted an elderly man who had fallen on the cement steps and appeared to have broken his hip. While you called 911, I waited with him. You and I knelt there comforting him until an ambulance arrived. We got his name and you promised to call and check in on him later. I saw a part of myself in you that day; you were generous and thoughtful at every moment. I’ve never met someone with a more accurate moral compass. You always challenged those closest to you to do what was morally and ethically sound. You were a man of integrity and passion. Being on the water with you was one of my favorite things - and you had confidence in me being at the helm. I’ll always hold you closest to my heart and will cherish our memories until we meet again. Fair winds, Uncle D, I hope you drop anchor somewhere really beautiful!

All my love,
Eliza

Amor, siempre cerca aún cuando lejos, aquí te siento y por eso se que estás. Silencio La música lentamente se apaga. La luna nos envuelve con su manto de luz en un gran abrazo a todos los que te amamos, tú ríes con ella. Escucho tu risa. Siento tu abrazo con el de la luna. Siento la fuerza que siempre me diste, la alegría, oigo tu voz. Aquí estás. Ya con nosotros siempre, indeleble. Gracias. Gracias maestro. Las cosas más importantes, las que quiero que resuenen: Gracias y te amo. No recuerdo un sólo día haberte visto sin una sonrisa...pasara lo que pasara. De tí aprendí fortaleza, amor, apapachos, eres uno de los seres más auténticos que conocí, de los que gritaba con todo su ser "éste soy yo". Gracias por caminar conmigo junto a la luna, gracias por tus abrazos, gracias por tu fe en quien soy y lo que debo hacer, gracias por tus enseñanzas, gracias por tu amor. Aquí estás. Mi mejor homenaje es seguir tus enseñanzas. Te amo. Con todo el corazón!

I first met Mark when he interviewed me for a role at 4most nearly 6 years ago. He was so welcoming and friendly, and his fun-spirit and optimism showed through straight away. We spent most of the interview talking about the annual 4most ‘conference’ he was organising to Spain…I was sold and couldn’t think of a better company to join!

Mark was the life and soul of every (official and impromptu) 4most social! All my great memories of Sisson involve him with a glass of wine in hand, chatting and laughing. I will always remember him as the first and last person on the dance floor (with the biggest of smiles). As well as his fun party side, he has been a fantastic mentor over the years; creating a safe environment to challenge yourself and to always aim high. I’m so grateful for his support and encouragement since day one.

I can’t thank Mark enough for the incredible culture he has instilled at 4most. His caring, inclusive and happy nature has made 4most such a great place to work. I feel fortunate to have known Mark and I’m really going to miss him. He was such a wonderful man.

My condolences go out to his close friends and family; sending lots of love to his wife and daughters.

Kerrie x

Please feel free to share a memory, a picture or video of our beloved uncle, Tito Drod and light a candle for him.

Happy 70th Birthday Tito Drod.

To see a slideshow of Matthew's life, go to:
https://www.wevideo.com/view/1721591627

i first met Murray when Murray and Donna hired me to look after David and Breanne when she was 6 months old because Donna had to return to work. Murray was always willing to help out whether it was at David and Breanne's school, their sporting events, a neighbour or a friend. Murray took the video of my wedding when I married Jody. Murray was a wealth of information, although he often lost me with his in depth explanations. What I remember most about Murray was his passion for music. I remember him sitting down at the piano and playing song after song so effortlessly. For someone like me with no musical ability, it was amazing. I enjoyed listening to him play. I wish I was better at expressing my thoughts in words. To the Chalmers family, please accept my condolences. Diana Keeling

Hi All

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to honour our father. We hope to see you in person at some point in the near future.
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-The Chalmers

Darling Dayton was definitely one of a kind! We first met after winning a silent auction cruise on his Gunga Din. Although a but nervous about not knowing us, he was gracious, generous and it was the beginning of a very, very fond friendship and many good times.. We will miss him.

I've know Dayton my entire life. His parents and my grandparents were the best of friends in San Francisco and San Diego. He remembers watching my mother and father running around a yard flirting with each other at 19, before they were married. Dayton and I attended the "anti-poaching of animals in Africa" events in NYC together. His heart was there. He used to tell me all the time what a great spirit I have. But as you can see by this photo I took a few years ago on the 4th of July, he had the halo. His spirit was undeniable. He is soaring on high right now with kindred angels, no doubt. He will will always be loved and missed.

Dayton would share John D. Rockefeller's Credo with anyone who stepped in his office. He had copies made of it and the poem "If", handing them out to friends, family, and strangers alike. I am posting it here, so his friends can read it and by gently adhering to the credo's and the poem's values we can continue Daytons legacy of just, upright, fair living, respecting God's Natural Laws.

I believe in the supreme worth of the individual and in his right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

I believe that every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty.

I believe that the law was made for man and not man for the law; that government is the servant of the people and not their master.

I believe in the dignity of labor, whether with head or hand; that the world owes no man a living but that it owes every man an opportunity to make a living.

I believe that thrift is essential to well ordered living and that economy is a prime requisite of a sound financial structure, whether in government, business or personal affairs.

I believe that truth and justice are fundamental to an enduring social order.

I believe in the sacredness of a promise, that a man’s word should be as good as his bond; that character—not wealth or power or position—is of supreme worth.

I believe that the rendering of useful service is the common duty of mankind and that only in the purifying fire of sacrifice is the dross of selfishness consumed and the greatness of the human soul set free.

I believe in an all-wise and all-loving God, named by whatever name, and that the individual’s highest fulfillment, greatest happiness, and widest usefulness are to be found in living in harmony with His will.

I believe that love is the greatest thing in the world; that it alone can overcome hate; that right can and will triumph over might.

by John D. Rockefeller, Jr.

hey babe, So jade was scrolling thru tik tok the other day, and she showed me a sparkling crystal rose. She told me that the last time she saw you you had showed her one online and told her that you knew I would really like something like that. That you were saving up money to get me one, and that you had already saved like 2 dollars towards it... It broke my heart, and I just wanted to say again that im sorry... Im sorry for turning bitter and im sorry for letting drugs cloud my vision and take me away from the Once in a lifetime love I had with you. I will always regret the way I treated you in those months before you left. I dont know what got into me, but I hope you know that the last person you knew me as when you were alive, is not the person I really was deep down. I hope you know that I love you with all my heart, and i never was and I never will be ashamed of the man you were. Im sorry from the bottom of my heart Steven. I love you and miss you every second of every day.... Love me always, xoxoxoxoxoxox

Sending much sympathy and love to the Riddle family. I was in South Berkeley for a short time many years ago, but remember Br. & Sister Riddle's kindness. May Jehovah continue to strengthen you. Psalms 27:14

My favourite Mark anecdote comes from a conversation with Allison shortly after she became 4most's first Finance Director. Upon reviewing all the expenses she noted that a rather large amount was attributable to "company social costs" or, in short, alcohol.

Upon raising this with Mark he gave a response that is reflective of his generosity and character, "but everybody is happy, and I want to keep it that way". Mark helped lay the foundations of a company that values it's people and puts a big emphasis on keeping a smile on everyone's face. I and many others owe a debt of gratitude to Mark for making work fun and his legacy will live on for many years to come. My love and condolences go out to all Marks family and friends, he will be remembered fondly by all who knew him.

Sarah, I'm sorry for your loss and I send my condolences to your family. Remember the wonderful memories you all shared, and even though you will grieve, also remember to celebrate the life she lived.

Hi Loretta, that was such a beautiful memorial. Looking forward to seeing brother Riddle again soon. You’re in our prayers dear sister. ~ Monique Hummel (formerly Long in the South Berkeley days)

Mark and I first met way back in 2004. He'd sold his business to the company I worked for and, within a couple of weeks, had invited me and my team on their little company away trip to Dartmoor, all expenses paid, beautiful hotel. I barely knew him or anyone from his business but he made sure we were all made to feel very welcome. I didn't see him again until 2011, when he and Mark took me out for lunch to offer me the chance to be part of a new start-up they were putting together. It was Somers and Sisson. I pretty much resigned the next day. The final time I saw Mark he shadow boxed me in the office corridor and then walked off chuckling to himself. This was the Mark I will always remember, hugely generous and welcoming, persuasive and positive, passionate and very much a fun-loving man. Great memories and definitely one of the good guys. I feel very fortunate to have met him and he will be sorely missed. Sending love and sympathy to all his family and friends, Ian

The ChildFund family mourns the loss of Dayton Carr. Dayton was a longtime sponsor of children in our programs in Bolivia and Zambia. In addition, Dayton’s generosity supported our work in early childhood development, gender equality and vocational training. We were so fortunate for Dayton’s compassionate giving and his very warm heart. He said many times it was his goal to do something every day to help those who were less fortunate than himself. Over the years Dayton became a friend. I enjoyed our conversations, his energy and passion for ChildFund’s mission to help children grow up to be healthy, educated, skilled and safe. Go well my friend. Your legacy lives on in the lives of children you made better. Anne Lynam Goddard,President and CEO, ChildFund International

Kelly came to my house years ago and shared her time with me. At the time I was putting a crochet beaded edge on baby socks, to add something fun for babies to grab and play with. Kelly saw some at church and was interested in them enough to ask to come learn how. It made me feel so good that she, a master crochet guru would want to come learn from me. By the way... We were NOT Knitting, haha which she made sure to specify any time she was asked about her latest project. It was a lot of fun and made me feel special.

My fondest memories of Katie (in no particular order because they all make me smile)...1) During our decade long fantasy football league, you could always count on Katie to draft a kicker in the 3rd Round...must have been the soccer player mentality in her :)2) While I was not present for this story, I will never forget it. Apparently, Katie thought that dogs were like cats and would always find a way to land safely on their feet if dropped. Long story short, Katie was holding a puppy that began to squirm so she gently tossed the puppy...however, said puppy landed on its back :)3) I could always count on Katie at a Roman family gathering to a) show up solo (like myself) so we'd always have a chance to chat and b) laugh at all of the stupid things I'd say. Perfect example was in Montana this past summer at Claire's wedding...after the wedding reception, we ended up chatting until 3-4am about anything and everything (including how awesome zip-lining was)...such a fun trip and memory!Sending nothing but love to Uncle Bob, Aunt Mary, Anne, Emily, Susie, and Owen and I cannot wait for when we can all get together so we can share all of the amazing memories from such an amazing person.Rest In Peace, Katie

Uncle Dayton, I can’t even believe that I’m having to write this. Although you may not have been family through blood, you impacted our family as significantly as anyone could have. You were like a brother to my parents, and a extra parent for both Eliza and I. You were one of the most genuine people I have ever met, who was never afraid to be honest, no matter how difficult it was to hear. You made such a tremendous impact on others and were always willing to find a solution to anyone’s problems. You were always a role model for me and showed me whats it’s like to carry yourself as a gentleman. You had been so successful throughout your business career, but never failed to share that success and make an impact on those who needed it the most. As someone who I’ve known since I was a baby, this is one of the hardest goodbyes I’ve ever had to make. You always worked hard to do whatever you could offer guidance and help me find success during my young adult life. I hope I’ll be able to make you proud, and I know you’ll be looking down over me. Until we meet again Uncle D ❤

Kelly was there for me when I was going through a divorce and her example of strength was helpful and inspiring to me.

Dearest Loretta & Family:May Jehovah continually wrap you in a blanket of comfort and encouragement during this difficult time. Hope to be able to see you in person soon.Love,Leverdia & Vonnie

My condolences to your family and you, Loretta. Thorton was a good brother. I think fondly of him when I think back to when I lived in Berkeley. Waiting for when Jehovah makes all things new again so we can see our friend again.

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Anne, sit at 135 degrees. Studies show, according to Bob, that humans have more spinal stability when slumped over like our early ancestors.

Kelly had a caring heart. I cherish our visits and talks as well as serving together. She will be missed. My prayers are with her family who will truly miss her.

I’m not a big social media guy, but the only photo I have on Instagram is of Katie. It was during one of our adventures while I lived in Denver. Her and Susie were already living in Denver when I moved out there. They would always invite me to do fun things, and wouldn’t you know it they were always a ton of fun. The Roman energy of kindness, happiness, and adventure is something I will always appreciate. All my love to Katie and the Romans.

I first met Mark during my second interview at 4most where I quickly realised that he had the rare ability to make people feel relaxed and welcomed, by his warm and charismatic nature. Looking very serious Mark asked, “So Kate, can I ask you one final but very important last question…[long pause]…do you like having fun?”. Apprehensively I replied “umm yes?”, just praying that it wasn’t a trick question. “Well, welcome to 4most!!” he announced with a massive smile. I instantly knew it would be a great place to work and he’d be an equally great manager, which turned out to be absolutely true.

What I learnt about Mark during the next couple of years was that he was full of funny anecdotes and sayings – one of my favourites was when he used to leave the office early to catch what he’d call the “Chairman's' train” i.e. the 4 pm train. He'd always leave me smiling about the things he'd said in the day. If I had to describe Mark in three words it would be jovial, sharp and impulsive – which must be three of the greatest characteristics you could possibly have. Mark always went out of his way to try and make people smile which he managed with ease… and is still doing so now.

We are all so lucky to have known Mark, he will be missed dearly both as a colleague and friend. Wishing you peace and comfort during this hard time, Love Kate xxx

Beautiful Katie. What a beautiful tribute. I hope there is airhead taffy in heaven. My favorite memory of the Roman sisters.

I want to thank Dayton's good friend Renee Monroe for creating this on-line memorial for my brother. I had spoken to Dayton on the prior Thursday and he sounded well so this was unexpected and a shock, I think, to us all.Although I'm not a sailor, Dayton and I shared an appreciation for nature and the outdoors. I remember one cold night when we slept in the back of a station wagon in Glacier National Park. We did a lot of hiking at Pt. Reyes, a beautiful park north of San Francisco. I remember one time when a raven stole a sandwich Dayton had put down to walk down to the beach. He was seriously upset at that bird.Although we had different views on many subjects, we had good conversations every week. I will miss those spirited talks.Dayton had many interest besides sailing and supported many charities. He cared so much about children and the International Children's Fund, and was a godfather to several children.I still find it difficult to believe he is gone. But there is consolation in remembering his humor and good spirits.Brian Carr

I first met Mark almost 7 years ago when he interviewed me at 4most. Since then he has shown me that hard work and good humour go hand in hand, and that work should be enjoyable; he made it easier for everyone around him to have fun and appreciate life no matter the situation. I for one will miss being the last at the party, sharing the dance floor or a bottle of wine with him. I know that everyone he knew will miss him deeply. Life has lost one of the world's good men. My deepest condolences go to his family and friends.

Kelly will be missed. She was a wonderful person and I am sad that she is gone. I send my thoughts and prayers to her family now.

Our very last Relief Society Activity together. She had such a great time!

Kelly, you will always be in our hearts. Olympia Ward RS sisters

Kelly, you will be truly missed. Strong sister in the Gospel. A great example, to me, of faith.Sister Yamy Castellanos

A message from Alan Lucas...

I did not know Mark before joining 4most. I realised immediately I met him what a kind and gentle person he was and this was reinforced during my time with the company each time I spoke to him. To me he had the personality and character that one aspires to have. I shall miss seeing him around and chatting with him enormously – one gravitates towards men like him. My deep consolations and sympathy to his family who will be heart-broken. May God be with them and help them through this with the remembrances of Mark’s life.

One of my early conversations with Mark when I was quite new to the company...

Mark: "What time are drinks?"
Me: "Six."
Mark: "Six minutes past four?"

I knew I'd joined a great company which valued socialising and having fun as much as the work.
He was incredibly sociable and inclusive, and had an infectious chuckle which we could hear from the other side of the office! Sending comfort and best wishes to all those who knew Mark, from Emma.

Our 2016 Xmas party drinks receipt

Happy Mother’s Day Mom! Almost 6 years now and I still miss you everyday.❤️

Thinking of you today mom and always

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Mark was a kind and generous man with an infectious smile and a strong passion for life; he was always looking for something to celebrate, even in the face of adversity. There was never a time when I didn’t feel welcomed or appreciated in his presence. I have a lasting memory of us dancing the can-can to New York, New York, arm in arm, as we celebrated our success at one of the early 4most Christmas Parties. My thoughts and deepest sympathy go out to his friends and family at this heart breaking time. God rest his soul, Tim Daly

Thank you for who you were in my life. I am the woman I am because of who you are to me. I'll cherish every memory, every bit of advice, every hug and most of all the love. I am better because of you. I'll love you with all that I am, forever.

Mark was a lovely person who always made a genuine effort to get to know everyone. Whether it was at work or at one of our 4most socials, Mark was most often the one to get everyone into the festive mood - he also shared my love of a good selfie! Mark has given us great memories, and we will always remember the joy and energy he brought to 4most. With deepest sympathy, Jenika

A truly wonderful person to know. Mark had a great zest for life and every time I spoke with him I felt better for it. He has left me with fond memories and for all of us, a great legacy - our company. He was a top bloke. With love and thoughts, Phil

Hey you, it's a supermoon tonight. Just one of the many things that make me think of you. And as I was driving home from work I started thinking about what I was telling you a few days ago, about that panicky feeling I used to get when i would see you because i felt like i was losing you....and it occurred to me that all those times you tried to talk to me in the months before you left, that you could have been feeling that same panic. And my heart is breaking all over again. I hated that feeling more than anything in the world. It made me feel alone and scared like I didnt have a purpose or a future. Steven I would NEVER intentionally put that kinda misery on you. I'm soooooooo sorry for not taking the time to try and understand where you were coming from and how I was making you feel. You didnt deserve any of the shit that I threw at you. I was selfish and angry and mean... I'm sorry Steven, I'm sorry for all of it. And I hope that despite the outcome of the storm you can forgive me. I never meant for any of this to happen and I want you to know that I love you with my whole heart and you belonged with me and the girls. Our family isnt complete without you. I'm sorry Steven, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry... u are my favorite everything and when my heart stops beating and my time on earth is done I SWEAR I will make it up to you in our next life. I love you and I miss you so much it hurts. I'm sorry Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Dave was such an awesome guy! From being my lab partner in General Chemistry to our shenanigans on the Hawaii trip, Dave was always a kind-hearted, helpful, and good person. He was one of the nicest people I knew during my time at Hartwick. I truly thought the world of him.

My heart bleeds for this little girl❤
Fly high beautiful angel xx

Jade was really missing you tonight. I still dont really know how to comfort her seeing as she saw almost everything I saw that day. If I cant make it better for me how do I make it better for her? Well she wrote you a letter and this is what it says... " Dear daddy, i cant even explain how much I miss you. I cry everyday and just remember I am thinking of you everyday. And nothing can describe how much I love and miss you.. Christy, mommy, and me are trying to stay strong. Especially mommy, she has to take care of us and pay rent and alot of other things. Love you, love Jade "

I love you Grandpa!

I love you Grandpa!

Hey Dum Dum, I just wanted to take a minute to tell you I love you and im thinking about you. I miss you more than anyone has ever missed anyone on the face of this earth. lol I wish I could finish my day at work knowing that you were gonna be at home waiting for me and the girls. I love you Steven. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

It was hard for me to get up today. My heart hurts more than usual. I was reading more of our letters last night. I came across the one where you were reminding me of the time my mom wouldnt let you in the house so we spent all day in your monte carlo in the driveway. And you were telling me how you loved it when I brought some of my toys out so we didnt get bored. You said you loved how beautiful and simple I looked when I used my imagination to entertain us. Im realizing now how many things I took for granted when you were alive, and how all of those things that made me who I was died with you that day. Things like my imagination, and my childlike simplicity, my compassion and empathy, but most of all my hope for the future. All of it is gone and Im so lost. I try to hide it and I tell myself that you never liked it when I was unhappy and you wouldnt want me to be this way because of you. But its so hard to fight. I will be sitting there lost in my own misery over all of this while the girls are asking me to play with them. I find myself yelling at them and being a cunt for reasons that arent obvious to them. I just want you to be here Steven, I want to be able to touch you and hear your voice. I want to pull into the driveway and honk my horn and see your dumb looking face come out the front door! I want you back and it makes me sooooooo angry that you will never be by my side again. I love you my favorite everything. Love me always xoxoxoxoxox

So I'm out in the bay at my dads looking for furniture to fill the new house with and all I can do is stare at the floor. Remember the night you were redoing it for my dad? I wanted to be around you so bad. I wanted you to want to be with me. We weren't technically together but we were never technically apart either. I remember the feeling of panic I felt everytime I saw you, thinking I could be losing you. I remember begging you to spend time with me and how awful it felt when you resisted me. And I remember the day when I finally got you to kiss me again in the back bathroom and you said " No one else can kiss me the way you do, something about it is different with you". It was different because we were soulmates. It was different because we were supposed to be together....but now that feeling of constant struggle and panic is my everyday norm. I feel like if I can make things better you will come back. I'm still struggling every day to accept the fact that your gone. There isnt a day that goes by that I dont regret what i did to you. It was always YOU though Steven. When it came down to it I would have given my life for yours if you had only given me the chance. You were always first in my heart, even when it didnt look like it or feel like it... it was you... it will always be you. And as I live out the rest of my days here on earth without you, my biggest regret will always be losing you. I'm never gonna be the same and my heart will never heal from this. I LOVE YOU STEVEN, FOREVER AND EVER.
Love me always xoxoxoxoxox

It's almost May already, and the school district has said they will not be returning to school for the remainder of the year. I wish you were here to spend this time with us. I miss you more with everyday that passes. It's hard to motivate myself sometimes. The anger has started to creep up on me. Somedays I wake up so mad at you for leaving me without even giving me a chance to talk you out of it. The girls will never understand and I fear that deep down they blame me just like I do and it's just a matter of time before that boils over and becomes an issue. I'm scared Steven. I'm scared of growing old, I'm scared of being alone, im scared of dying. I need you, I've always needed you. I talked to a women recently who claimed to be able to talk you. You know I've never really believed in all that but some of the things she knew shocked me. How could a total stranger halfway around the world know some of the things she knew. In a way it gave me a new outlook on this whole situation. It didnt completely put my soul at ease, but it gave me a little bit of peace. She said that whatever is good for me and the girls is good for your soul. And I want you to be as comfortable as possible wherever you are so I'm gonna do what I have to to make sure that happens. I dont know how long it will be until we are together again, and somedays I feel a million light years is separating us. Like your the moon and I'm the sun. But even the sun and the moon can be seen in the same sky sometimes. There wasnt a force on this planet that could keep us apart when you were alive so why would it be any different in the afterlife? We will be together again and until then I will keep counting down the days. I love you more than words can say Steven Downey. You are and always will be my favorite everything. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxo

Hey you, I keep making all these handwritten notes of things I want to tell you. I've got little pieces of paper in my bra, in my pockets, in my backpack, in my truck... lol they are everywhere! I just dont want you to miss out on anything. Well first up is the girls... we were riding home the other night and they were asking what Reincarnation meant, and I told them some people believe that when you die, your soul leaves your body and you start your next life. Jade wanted to know if I believed that and I told her Yes, I had no choice but to believe it now. She wanted to know why and I said because how else am i gonna get to be with daddy again.? Then jade wanted to know what you do up there in heaven. Did you just float around all day or did God make you do chores. And christy said " Jade, God makes them work... they have to build their house and stuff." Lol so Jade wants you to be careful while you're working. The other thing I wanted to tell you about is Andrew... it REALLY sucks you cant be here to witness some of the shit this mother fucker comes up with!!! He wanted to get into the shower with lex and she wouldn't let him so he beats on the door and says "OPEN THE SHOWER DOOR BITCH!!" lmao, then erin caught him pissing out the bedroom window, and then today there was a commercial on TV, it was showing a picture of an eyedropper bottle and it was called Laticia and I said WTF is Laticia and Andrew says "LATICIAS A BITCH!!" He is really something else. And he talks about you once in awhile. He wanted to fly kites high enough for you to see them. And every time he comes to my house he gets a stick and tries to knock your ashes off the fireplace! Lol he misses you just like we do. I'm starting to cry again so I'm gonna say goodnight. I love you every second of every day Steven Downey. P.S Dont forget the wrap around porch on the house, so we can sit and watch over the girls when I get there. OH and grass, dont forget the grass. Until then, I miss you babe. You're still my favorite everything. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxo

From Patricia Bordeau, a friend

Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away to the next room
I am I, and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we still are

Call me by my old familiar name
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference into your tone
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow

Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was
Let it be spoken without effect
Without the trace of a shadow on it

Life means all that it ever meant
It is the same that it ever was
There is absolute unbroken continuity
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?

I am but waiting for you
For an interval
Somewhere. Very near.

Just around the corner.

All is well

-Henry Scott-Holland

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I miss you with everything I am and ever will be Steven Downey. No one will ever take your place in my heart for as long as im alive and breathing. Love me always xoxoxoxoxo

4/14/2020
Hey you, So Crusty was asking me how you become an organ donor and if you were one. I told her yes you were and that they ask you that when you get your drivers license. And she says " Well what if I dont have any organs to DON?" With a really serious look on her face... I started laughing so hard!! That is so something a kid of yours would say. LOL I hate that you cant be apart of this life with us anymore. But I promise to keep you updated on all things "US" for as long as I am here and you are there. The girls miss you like crazy and still cant understand how there was a force in this world that was stronger than their Daddy. We miss you everyday babe. And you are always our favorite everything. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxo

Steven, So today is Easter and just another holiday we are spending without you. I was reading some of our old letters we used to write to each other last night and it seems like a lifetime ago that we were so inlove. Remember how much we loved being together? There wasnt anything or anyone that keep me away from you. I remember one time when my mom dropped me off with you in Northtown like always we went straight to your room. Your mom opened your door to tell you something and instead looked at me and was like "Geeze she hasnt even been here 5 minutes and her clothes are already half way off!!!" LOL My dress was to tight, but what she said wasnt a lie... I will always treasure those memories. The ones that are only mine and yours. The feelings that only you and I will ever know. In one of your letters you said "From the first time I saw you, I knew I wanted to be with you forever". You couldnt explain it, but you said I made you feel like you belonged. It gives me hope. Hope that in the next life we will find each other again and have another chance to get it right. Because you did belong Steven. You are my Best Friend, my soulmate, you are my family. And im sorry we let the fire burn so low that you couldnt see that anymore. You will always have my whole heart Steven Downey, my favorite everything... Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox

A song used in Spanish culture to say farewell. One of mom's and Grandma's favorites. My sister is named after the singer. Rocio Durcal. Last line... Sooner or later ... We'll be together so we can keep on LOVING ONE ANOTHER!

Good morning babe
So I can already tell that today is gonna be a hard day. The second I got up this morning I had that familiar ache in my chest. I've been up since 7 and have already cried 3 times. Last night I found one of the books I had put together of the drawings u used to make for me. It's like everytime I feel like this missing u pain cant get any worse God says " oh yeah?! We will see about that!" ...
Steven Downey, I'm sorry I couldn't help u and I cant imagine the pain you must have been going thru. I'm sorry you had to suffer that all on your own. I keep thinking how scary that must have been even for someone as fearless as you. IM SORRY BABE I know that is a pointless thing to say now seeing as how the love of my life has been reduced to a box of ashes, a small part of which I carry with me everywhere in a heart around my neck... you knew I loved you right? You knew I would have given my life in exchange for yours right? You knew you were the reason I wanted family right? You do know that my heart has and always will be yours right? I dont even know who I am without you Steven. I'm 31 years old and have an entire lifetime to get thru until I can see you again and i love the girls with all that i am but what am i without u? Please give me the strength and the will to get thru this life Steven. I miss you every second of everyday and I love you with all my heart Steven Downey

Love me always
xoxxoxoxoxoxoxox

This moment is one that will always stick with me. We had just left that shithole on Happy and moved into the place on Sycamore. We were both clean and Conehead had stopped by. We were outside and you were telling him how happy you were because " this fucking fat bitch... im falling in-love with her all over again" Then you grabbed me said " look at you no make up all natural and shit" and then you kissed me. I wish we had more moments like this to look back on. You never really realize how much time is wasted until its to late. I miss you babe every second of everyday... Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxo

Remember way back before we had the girls, in that apartment on Dillon, I was sitting on the bed listening Rascal Flatts looking out the window and you were standing in the doorway just staring at me. Then you came over and layed down and put your hands on my face and said " I dont know why but this music makes me love you even more" ...

LMAO... I just wanted to show you this. It makes me laugh even on my hardest days. Jade was hobbling around on those crutches and as she got to christys room christy yelled "AAAAAAAHHHH" and this is the face Jade made!! Its things like this that I need to share with you. Who else is ever gonna care about stupid little moments like this that mean so much to me besides you? We miss you Steven. Getting thru the rest of this life without you is gonna be the hardest thing I have ever done. But I will get through it and hopefully one day I will have wings just like you. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxox

Saturday July 3, 2004... We went to the movies with everyone and lucky me, after everyone piled inside Richies little Kia the only place for me to sit was on your lap. We saw dodgeball and I almost threw up when you grabbed my hand I was so nervous. And on the way back to pahrump we had our first kiss. I remember the feeling of the butterflies in my stomach and the burning sensation on my skin as you kissed me. What I wouldn't give to go back to that day and just live there forever. I miss you best friend, you are ALWAYS gonna be the love of my life. I miss you more than words can explain. I think about you every second of everyday and my heart aches with every memory that floods my thoughts. I love you Steven Downey, for the rest of this life and my soul will search for you until I'm back in your arms. Love me always xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

I met Mr. Phipps in between classes at C.U. Denver at hotdog stand by Larimer Square. He was wearing a Brown plaid jacket. We talked for a little while and then went about our ways. Two weeks later my roommate and I had dates from D.U. to go to a ranch outside of Elizabeth to ride Polo ponies, and see Limousine Bulls. After riding we walked toward the house and there he was inviting us into a party where Rene Heredia was playing. Quite the day.

William Deveraux Ward

I miss you Steven Downey. Its hard to get up in the morning knowing that I wont see your face or hear your voice. The day I lost you will always be the worst day of my life. I would give anything for the chance to redo that day. There are so many things I would do differently. I hope one day you can forgive me for what Ive done. I love you.

Love me always
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

Dave and I worked together as Environmental Consultants at PSI from 2016 to 2018. We were part of a team of which Dave was considered a rising "Star" due to his knowledge, experiences, personality and ability to get it done! His assistance to me in the preparation and completion of reports, especially computer related issues was extremely useful and greatly appreciated. On a personal basis. we had numerous discussions about families. friends. hobbies and other topics of mutual interest. May the light of his "Star" always be with his family and friends. DWM

David W. Myers

Dave and I worked together at PSI for several years up until the time of his leave of absence from the company to begin his fight. We spent many days together in the car on the way to Utica or Snowy Owl in the Berkshires or down to NJ to conduct some field work together. He was great Geologist that is very smart and always took pride in his work. We had many laughs together and our running joke with one another were those 'Dam Oranges', heavy traffic in North Orange, NJ, then East Orange then South Orange! Dave! Those pesky oranges! As you begin your next journey there is comfort knowing that for your short time on earth you lived life well, proud and with great courage and dignity. I hope I can say that someday to..... Be well my friend....

"DR" and I worked together a few years ago at PSI. "DR" is a fine young man. He is the most humble, considerate and friendly person on this earth. He always has a good attitude and his keen mind is ready for a challenge. He was a great contributor to our successful environmental group. He is known as the "Sultan of Smooth" as when I sent him out to deal with vendors or bring cookies to clients his charm was evident. In addition, I enjoyed his subtle sense of humor when he solved my computer issues in a snap. He just gave me a smirk and moved on. Please let "DR" know I pray for him each day and send him positive vibes. -- PM2

Mom I miss you. I'm glad your not around for this virus.

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When I was in third grade, I was sleeping on the floor next to my friend's bed at a slumber party. In the middle of the night, I rolled over and came face to face with a Furby under her bed, and it started talking. It scared the living daylights out of me, and Furbies have creeped me out ever since. I made the mistake of telling Dave that story once, and he was forever tormenting me with pictures of Furbies. He printed a bunch of them out and put them up all around the Geology department at Hartwick. He and Matt once filled my whole backpack with packing peanuts with pictures of Furbies hidden amongst them, and hid more pictures of them in my coat pockets, in my gloves, and all my stuff. He put a picture of one in a birthday card he sent me once. He would send them to me on Facebook. They still creep me out, but now they also kind of make me happy because I always smile and think of him. He's always been good at teasing me (in a fun way, never a mean way). I miss that so much.

Davy making me laugh on his wedding day

I will always think of Dave’s smiling face, living with Matt, Josh, and Tyler at the townhouses senior year at Hartwick College. I always admired Dave’s easy-going personality and have such respect for him because you can tell what a genuine, kind person he is. I remember one time he was telling me about helping on with the horses at Cailin’s parents. I was so impressed (maybe because I could barely clean my dishes and didn’t know how to clean my toilet). I told Dave that was so nice of him and he was so humble about it “it’s the least I can do for them. They do so much for me.” He is a the nicest guy and I will always regard him so highly.

A visit to the Sears Tower. My dad and uncle Charlie in this photo.

When I was 6 years old this man came into our lives. Up until that point, it was my mother doing all she could to bring up two kids on her own, my older sister Valarie and myself. He came into our lives and I instantly bonded with him. He had so much love to give and by the time I was 9 he married my mother. I called him Jerry because as a kid that was what I got used to calling him. But I always thought of him as my dad.

Not long after that my mother and he brought my wonderful little sister (who is way taller than me) Angie into this world.

He was my true father, the one that helped me grow to become the person I am today. Times were not always perfect, but our love and understanding and respect for each other always prevailed. As I gained more personal growth over the last few years my father and I became much closer than we have ever been.

Jerry was someone people never forgot. Every person I hear stories from about him or that I talk to about him says he touched them in a very special way. He cared about everyone and had little to no judgment, even for people society has already written off. He had a much deeper understanding of why people become who they are and an even better understanding of the social and political system we all live in. He was never a divider and was always an uniter. I respect that part of him so much and I strive to be that way someday.

I have gained so much wisdom and insight from him. He has helped me be a much more understanding individual and taught me that anger is not something to react on, it is something to learn and grow from. Love wins and always will be stronger and more powerful than hate, anger, and resentment.

And did I mention he was one hell of a golfer?! I found out a little over a week ago that his handicap was -2! His love for golf was equal to my love for bicycles and yes, we picked on each other about it all the time! We both understood each other's passion for the things we enjoyed doing. He taught me how to golf and always enjoyed spending time going to the practice green and playing on the course. We didn't play golf a lot together, but when we did it was always some of my best times with him.

I have so many things I would like to say. Shit, I could tell our whole life story right here on Facebook, but I think I have said enough for now.

He passed away last night (March 2nd). Over the last few weeks, I spent a good amount of time hanging out with him and going over our lives past and present. Heck, I even got to do my 9th Step with him (Al-Anon) last week because he was on my list of people to make amends with. I am so grateful to have been there right until the end and that we spent valuable time together. I am grateful he knew he was loved by us all and that he didn't suffer. Sunday he was up and playing pool with my mother having a wonderful time with her. He lived a full life right until the end.

I will miss your sense of humor, your intelligence, your insight, giving you a hug and your kind words and love.

♥️♥️♥️I love you Dad!♥️♥️♥️

I am forever grateful for the positive impact my dad had on our family. He had a huge heart and made a point to make everyone he encountered feel special. He lived in the moment and was a great listener. He was driven to understand as much as he could about the world, was well read, and had a memory like an elephant. With his wisdom, wit, and colorful personality, he loved to share his stories and knowledge. I shared many special moments with my dad that I will cherish for the rest of my life. He will be greatly and forever missed.

With love from your daughter,
Valarie Olejnicak

Kathy was so good to me when I spent the summer in California. My only regret is losing contact when things changed. My biggest happiness is our reconnection through Facebook these past few years. Please let us know where the service is for her birthday. If it's in the midwest we may be able to make it. Love your cousin!

Mom would want Kathy to have this song. It was dear to her and us.

My sweet, magical, amazing daddy is gone.

I’d really like it if you were still here, Daddy, and I’m doing this so that some of all the many, many lives you’ve touched in such a profound way (even if you knew them briefly) will have a chance to give a little love in your name if I haven’t had the chance to reach out to them yet.

I feel hugely grateful to have had this astounding man for my father. I know he was 88 and his heart and lungs were getting worse but I wasn’t ready and I want to keep talking with him for the rest of my life, so I will.

If you knew him at all I don’t have to tell you how witty, positive minded, compassionate, curious, and bright he was. You already know because he has already changed your life a little (or a lot of) bit by making you think about yourself, the world, something or someone a little differently, a little deeper. He did it softly and made you laugh about it. You might not have even noticed until later how profoundly it affected you.

I’m sure my daddy had flaws but he was the brilliant, shining, life-giving sun to me. I guess since he’s gone I’ll have to keep working on being that myself as it might be the only way to generate warmth.

Thank you for teaching me that love matters more than pretty much anything. Thank you for waking me up to the aim of mastering being in the present moment, savoring it with all my senses which slows time down and washes away fears. Thank you for inspiring me to grow to always become more self determined, to live from my core and not for fear of others. Thank you for being a living example of all these things and more. These truths are a wealth that reign over all the riches one could have and may hopefully be the key to ending the destruction of unabashed greed stomping on the world.

I am sad. My heart is broken. I am grateful beyond measure to have been able to tell you all this before you left.

Also, Daddy thank you for having always been my cheerleader through everything even years ago when I was living so recklessly in the darkness out of the kind of fear and neediness that makes a person “wacko” as you might say it. Back then, you almost drew out a better me by just seeing the possibility in me instead of my stupidity. All the kind words, all the undying optimism, all your praise - that is what is in my head when I hear your voice. I have you in my heart and mind loving me, forgiving me, proud of me, glad for me, and cheering me on.

I love you endlessly, Daddy.

I met Dave when he and my brother were about 7/8. I was 21. I clearly remember how amazing, warm, funny and sometimes timid he could be. He was always a cutie and I’ve been so glad that he and my brother remained friends forever. This is him at my brother Andre’s small wedding. Fourteen people in total. I snapped this pic without him even knowing because that was the boyish smile I have seen throughout the years. He was always beautiful inside AND out.

Dave is someone who, despite only sharing a year with me at Hartwick, left a big positive impression on me. His sunny personality and sense of humor just sticks with you. As a scared, shy freshman being dropped off for the start of cross country preseason I was instantly made to feel welcomed and included by Dave as our team captain. I became immersed in a world of random movie quotes and loved seeing Dave’s big smiling face in the halls of Johnstone between classes. Keeping you in my thoughts…

Traveled to Colorado in 2016 and was touring the Garden of the Gods when we suddenly ran into our cousin Dave. What a surprise to find us both there at the same time. Our family is everywhere! God Bless. Bob & Chris Shabanowitz

4 years at Hartwick College were a blast and I'm glad of the memories we made. I will always remember the Big Bears and the town house parties, but nothing compares to the run the New York Giants had on their way to the Superbowl. I will cherish our celebrations of banging the walls between our townhouses for every score and victory that season. Even though some of our New England friends/roommates did not speak with us for awhile after that, we held our heads high with Giants pride. You have shown remarkable courage during your battle and have truly been an inspiration to us all. I'm honored I get to call you my friend Dave.

Dave and I first met at work about 8 years ago and became friends quick through a shared love of corny jokes, Chinese Fridays and Walking Dead. He soon became my go-to hiking partner, doing the full Saranac Lake 6ers and Tupper Lake Triad challenges with me, and helping me make serious dents in the Firetower Challenge and the Lake George 12sters as well. One day I hope I'll finally get around to putting my memories of these trips down on paper because the stories are worth telling. To say that we've spent some time together in the Adirondacks and Catskills is an understatement. It was on these hikes that our most meaningful conversations took place, just walking in the woods and trying to get to the top of the mountain (we always did).

When Dave left Ames for greener pastures and I didn't see him every day, we still made a point to get together when we could. Whether it was sitting in the courtyard at Druthers and watching a football game projected 15 feet tall on the brick wall over burgers and beers, or going to see the new Godzilla movies in the theater because we needed to see them, we found time to spend together.

When Megan and I got married and we wanted to keep our wedding party small (1 person each), Dave was there as my Best Man. When I wanted to do something big for my 30th birthday and went skydiving, not only was Dave in the plane with me, but he was the first out the door. His sense of humor, courage and honesty have been an inspiration. He was always there for me, whether he knew I needed him or not. He was just there, a solid person and a true friend.

I have so many fond memories of Dave from Geology trips as well as through being on the Equestrian team with Cailin. My favorite memory of Dave was from the Hawaii J term trip when we accidentally got locked into a park at dusk. Everyone was freaking out and Dave kept a wonderful sense of humor, joking how surely we could bust out with a rock hammer! I have never laughed as hard as I did that night! Thank you Dave for always making light of every situation- you are one of the most positive humans I know and your positivity has touched so many!

When we went to Philadelphia for a GSA conference my sophomore/Dave's junior year of college, I was going through some drama, and was stuck in my room on the phone alone while everyone else was having fun together in the other hotel room. I thought I was already too late and had missed out on all the fun, and I was embarrassed, so I was still just sitting alone. I didn't know Dave that well yet at that time, but he called the hotel room phone to see if I was ok, and told me to come join the fun. It meant so much to me that he reached out to include me like that, and I will never forget it. We became close friends right away after that, and I will be grateful to him for that moment always.

You were the most interesting and incredibly amazing human I ever met. It just so happens you were also my dad. So many questions answered and so many still remain. But one thing is for sure. You cared deeply for the future of humanity, envisioned our journey ahead wonderfully, and articulated it immensely. You helped pave the way as you said you would. Can't wait for your return <3

Mom used to sing "Peace in the Valley" with our aunts. They harmonized so beautifully.

Words will never be able to express the void that you've left in our lives. You gave so much, shared so much. Those of us who were blessed to have known you, will beforever grateful for the impact you've made in our lives. Rest in peace.
Brenda Fields

There is a bright new star in sky and it’s Mom, watching over us just like she said she would. Rosemary Barker, my Mom, was my best friend, my biggest fan, and my port in any storm. The best qualities in me I got from her, although I could never be close to being the kind and generous person she was. But I’ll try, I’ll try harder to fill those shoes. She fought fiercely to be here for us, for almost 95 years, thru pain and hardships. She didn’t want to let go because we needed her. It’s o.k. Mom, to rest now. We’ll be o.k. because you will always be with us.

Everyone you met loved you. You filled the room. People just naturally gravitated towards you. You made babies smile. You could get hugs from the most rebellious and hard to reach teenager. Waiters in restaurants fought to get your table - you were always polite, friendly, a generous tipper but most of all you made everyone feel that wherever they came from, no matter what they had, or their history - they were more than enough for you. You wanted to know their story and shared yours.

You always wanted to win the lottery. But not for you - you always said you were satisfied with what you had. You ticked off all the people you would help if you won the lottery - family, friends, neighbors. I didn't need the lottery because I already won. I won the lottery of the best Mom anyone could ever ask for.

Am I hurting? Yes I miss you! So many times something happens and I think oh, I'll tell Mom about this. But although your body is not here, I might tell you things anyway. You'll listen, you'll hear, and you'll understand. Because your spirit will never leave me.
Mom, have fun with the angels. I bet you can dance now, hear music and laugh. And sometimes I close my eyes and see you dance, hear your laugh, and see you smile. And that will get me through.

My Heart is truly broken today. Few knew how wonderful this man was and how pure and bright the Light of his Spirit was. We always knew we would meet together on this side of the divide but our hug will now go unfulfilled until I join our next quest. Godspeed my Dear Brother, you are so Loved and will be so missed for the time until we finally hug and laugh! So strong in adversity, so wonderful to train and lead those who would listen (or not). Your Legacy should be told from the mountaintops instead of a Facebook post. I miss your voice already. How briefly our candles flicker.... See you soon you wonderful Dragon!!
So Mote it Be..... keep that hug and laugh ready!!

Rest in Power! It was an honor to meet and learn from you!

I will miss you my friend! Rest in power.

Grandkids on a walk...

We love you dad and will miss you dearly...

I am sorry, she is still alive...

I am one of Dr. Kelleher's patients with Borderline Personality Disorder. I got to work with him for three and a half years and it's hard for me to believe the change our work made in me, after 15 years of unsuccessful attempts at therapy with many others. I always wondered (and often asked, though he wouldn't say) why on earth he had chosen to work with borderlines, who are fairly universally reviled by mental health practitioners and not for no reason -- we are difficult, angry, needy, paranoid, at times irrational; the disease is intractable, interminable, our defenses are "primitive" in that the damage was done to us when we were preverbal and our emotions can be as uncontrollable and agonizing as a mindless infant's. The suicide risk alone rules us out for many who are rightly concerned about liability should we die under their care. Although he never told me why he was so willing to take all this on, by the end I came to an answer that I found satisfying. I believe he wanted to be, wanted to help, where the greatest pain was. "Gratitude" does not begin to encompass the feelings I have for him.

Laborer 11 lives on...

Hi Andrea,
My name is Oscar. I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I was friend of hers while I lived in Scottsdale approximately 15 years ago. Your mom was a beautiful, kind and wonderful lady. She had the most amazing smile! She spoke of you with stars in her eyes! I only knew her for a couple of months before I moved away, but I always wondered how she was and thought of her often. Andrea, my heart goes out to you and your family. God bless you and may the Lord hold your dear mom in his tender hands.
Warmest regards,
Oscar

Miss you Mom. So many of your friends you have touched are touching my heart in a special way with their kind words and memories of you. Love you...

5 years ago...wow! Love and Miss you!

I miss you each day. What a warm, kind, compassionate and faithful friend you were to me and so many others. We were blessed to have you in our lives.

I miss our conversations, and sharing everyday things, but mostly I miss our discussions about our shared faith. We will meet again on that beautiful shore, my beautiful, sweet friend. Lovingly,
Karen

Dear Ju,
 
It’s been over a month since we heard the tremendously sad news of your passing and it still hasn’t quite sunken in that you are no longer here with us. It makes us sad that we were unable to attend your funeral and that we did not get a chance to say goodbye to you properly.
 
Ju, you are very much ingrained in all of our memories, from the time we were little children to the times we progressed to college as well as in our growing up adulting pains. There are too many to mention but we do have our fondest few.
 
When we were in school, do you remember how we used to use the excuse to go over to each other’s houses to work on “projects” when we actually used those times to play instead? Tiff definitely remembers plenty of those moments when you used to go over to her place during the weekends to work on such “projects”. She can also still recall the delicious food that your family used to cook for us such as pizzas and kacangma. We also recall how you used to bring a steady supply of your Dad’s yummy yogurt drink to school for us. During the last year of high school, Tiff also really enjoyed the fun days when we would get ready for the Joseph musical at her place, and how you both helped Jo to stick those contact lenses in before each performance night. Fast forward to not too long ago, Tiff is extremely grateful and glad that you were able to be at her hen’s night and wedding day last December despite how you are not normally back during that time of the year. Like the rest of us, she is also very glad that we got to spend that week together in Perth.
 
Jo funnily remembers how you both picked up mild swearing in primary 3, but also the more reflective and repentant moments when you realised that the both of you were starting to get really potty mouth for kids that young, and the determination to change. She also especially remembers the many after school hours she spent with you and other kids from the after school club just hanging around the school as both of you were very often picked up late by your parents. She clearly remembers sticking bubble gum tattoos in the girls’ toilet with you on the ground floor of the school during one of those after school sessions. She will also cherish the late night pillow talks on life and grown up problems that we were able to have on our road trip to Margaret River.
 
When most of our friends left Malaysia to study overseas, Briel moved to Miri to study at Curtin while you stayed behind in Kuching. He recalls all the phone calls with you and how you guys would talk about life’s dramas and everything else under the sun. We wonder how you guys sustained such frequent and long calls but it could have been due to your job at Maxis in Tun Jugah where Briel would visit you almost every day when he was back in Kuching during his uni breaks. When we used to go swimming at Tiff’s condo, Briel also remembers you pulling him out of the deep end of the pool because he couldn’t swim back then. You would have been amused to know that Briel has now built a mini dipping pool in the front yard of his Perth home – it’s too bad he didn’t build it in time for us to enjoy during our Perth trip.
 
One of Kel’s fondest memories of you is always sneaking out for lunch during our Lodge days once he got his driving licence and you sitting at the very back of his Pajero during those lunch escapades. He also remembers how you would take forever to finish your food during lunch (citing your Popo’s commands to always finish your food), and how we all had to wait for you before going back to class. Kel will also miss being your designated chauffeur every time you are back in Kuching on holiday, are he really wishes he can drive you around one last time.
 
Recalling all our times with you makes us sad, but we are also happy to have known you during this lifetime, and to have shared all these happy moments with you. We are especially really grateful that despite our busyness and having our own lives each, we made the effort to plan the Perth trip in 2017 and were able to spend a solid week together on holiday there. While we wish that you could have remained with us for much longer, we take solace and comfort in the fact that you are no longer in any physical pain, and that you have reunited with our Father in Heaven and are now at complete peace.
 
We love you Ju, and will miss your laughter, free-spirited nature and warm friendship.
 
With much love,
Tiff, Jo, Briel & Kel

Also from Mary Ann’s sister with love, Dona Jo

Dedicated from my mom, Dona Jo, to her sister
“It was true before, and now she is whole”

Dedicated from my mom, Dona Jo, to her sister
“It was truebefore, and now she is whole”

She celebrated her God

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Mom loved Elvis

Love you dad

Love you mom thinking of you.

Hey Dad, Happy Thanksgiving!! Jerry you too, man!! Everybody loves both of you and miss you so much and man it still hurts. 11/28/2019

From Reg to his precious wife.

We still miss you so much. Sorry I don't have a pic of Malaree.

Tribute to one in a million irreplaceable father
With tears in eyes, I lost my dearest father, he was everything to me
A friend in times of needs
A shoulder to learn on
A real loving and lovable father
A valuable and truthful advicer
Warrior of God Kingdom
A generous and caring father
A burden bearer
A true gem
Baba your records stand in order, among the very best.
Hardly could, some one distinguish who your friend and enemies were
Which is a reflection life from the message of your days
Your few years of under your ministry was many blessings to me
The last time that I heard from you, was on the 11-7-19, I was to go before, but you prayed me out despite that you are also strong.
Baba, you merited all that, the message of our day required from us
Oh.!!! I'm happy that God crowed you for your efforts. You didn't labour in vain.
Greet the Holy Prophet÷William marrion Branham , sis yemi, sis romex, and sis Ijioma
Rest on my amiable father!!!!
Rest on 11th hour labourer!!!!!!!!
The Richway

Truly a servant of God. A man with a passion for souls and who often goes beyond the call of duty daily. One who is earnest in the spiritual warfare of tearing down the strong hold of the enemy to build up the kingdom of heaven.
He was more than a pastor; he was our brother, father, friend and confidant, we love you, you were chosen by God for persons of this age for such a time as this.
Today we're pleased to honor you,
Today we'll even try to sing,
A hymn, a song, a melody.

In your eyes everyone was as equal and as important as the other, you took the meaning of burden bearer quite literally. I am privileged to be identified with you. It is an extreme honour to call you my Pastor. You will always remain alive in our hearts. We miss you Pastor

Rest on Gallant soldier of The Word...

The biggest F for our biggest warrior

Mom, it has been 3 years and I miss you everyday.

Good Morning Dad and Jerry,

Happy Birthday to both of you!! We miss you so much. We still have to go to Mad river to find grandpa's family, love you!! 11/03/2019

Big F for the most massive medula

lol rip xd

I miss you and Jerry more than anyone could know, it all happened so fast and permanent, and we must carry on. Mom, is 81 now and going strong and do not worry I am taking care of her. She misses you both very much.

Dad, Its the time of year we miss you more. Sorry not good at this. Just know you are missed and loved. Your son Terry.

Just heard this sad story on Hollywood Graveyard, rest I peace little angel, forever a baby x

Happy Birthday Mio papà you would have been 100 years old today 21-10-2019

Dear Dick,
We miss you already! What a Beautiful Tribute.
Poker Anne

What a beautiful tribute. I loved reading about his adventures and life, but what really defines him is short sheeting the bed. We should all learn from him that life is meant to be fun and we should all live each day to the fullest, which he clearly did. He is smiling down on you, Sherry, and I know his humor and love will stay with you to eternity.

This is a work in progress... will finish soon.

The music that is playing in the background was chosen by Penny - Daddy loved it because it was his mother's favorite. Too bad the website would only allow one piece of music, because Daddy was also a big fan of "Mack the Knife" and Sinatra's "My Way." No surprise there!

Dear Daddy,

Since the day you passed onto Glory I've had mixed feelings. The positive side of these feelings have overwhelmed me.

Joy - You have put off this mortal body & have been transformed to meet with GOD (Isaiah 51:11).

Peace - The promise of GOD for those who believe (Isaiah 57:2).

You left a family where everyone can testify to how Loving & Kind you were, you were a Father to many.

May GOD grant you eternal rest, May the gates of Paradise be opened wide as the Father welcomes his beloved Home.
You will be Dearly missed.

Esiere Daddy!

Our Uncle
Our Uncle was a man who had smiles to brighten our days, who always made us feel good with his warm words of praise.
And what's more he knew what to do to make wishes come true.
He was our Uncle.
Our Uncle was someone who always had good stories to tell, but just as importantly he knew how to be a good listener as well.
He was patient and kind and the very best friend one could ever hope to find.
He was no ordinary man.
We are proud to tell the world that Chief (Dr.) Ita Esua was our Uncle.
May his gentle soul rest in peace.

PRINCESS IQUO O. BASSEY
ADIM EFFANGA
EFFANGA HENSHAW

Daddy has overcome, he has finished the race.
Am really short of words (Tears rolling in my eyes and a painful heart) but who am I to question Him who owns the earth and the fullness thereof, the world and they that therein (Ps. 24:1) from Him we’ve come and to Him we will return.
Daddy was a man of Principle, whom I respected a lot, he was great, kind hearted, generous, a very loving caring father, a lover of peace and progress, very humble, reliable, gentle, hardworking, trustworthy, neat, dedicated father. He was our role model. No matter the situation he always had a positive attitude. He was always there for us and everybody. I will miss him dearly.
Daddy was a father in a million and you are a dad to be remembered for life.
Adieu Daddy your memories will forever be with us
May your soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
Mrs. Glory George

TRIBUTE FROM THE GEORGE FAMILY
“An Iconic Exit. A life really worthy of celebration”
Oh what a man of integrity, an icon of humanity, simplicity, transparency, accountability and honesty a selfless leader, A man of indefatigable and unquestionable character, Astute administrator. There is no better way to describe him that is too much.
May his kind soul rest in peace. Amen

Our Grandfather kept a garden,
A garden of the heart;
He planted all the good things,
That gave our lives their start.
He turned us to the sunshine,
And encouraged us to dream:
Fostering and nurturing the seeds of self-esteem.
And then the winds and rain came,
He protected us enough;
But not too much because he knew
We would stand up strong and tough.
His constant good example,
Always taught us right from wrong;
Markers for our pathway that will last
a lifetime long.
We are our Grandfather’s garden,
We are his legacy.
Thank you Grandpa, we love you.

Sooooo sad..... RIP

This is not true. Delete it.

I imagine Pegasus, allowing Jan to ride him,
Who says no to Jan?
to ride together above the Dream Catcher Farm...... Life is still beautiful ... We miss you jan.

I always enjoyed being around Jan...she was an amazing woman...and admired her strength and tenacity. She will be missed by everyone who knew her.

Dedicated to Maw Maw who always did it her way. Love Luis and Kristin

Hey dad, I miss you man, more than you know. We love it here in Ohio. We have three homes now and one is a rental. Jr., moved back to California and Ron and maybe mike are going to relocate here, too. I only wish Jerry was here, too. I miss him too. I only wish more brothers would come here to talk to you. Have a good day, dad!! Love ya

Dr Tan will always be one of the most inspiring and influential TCM teachers of our time. His style of imparting wisdom through his books, lectures and seminars has left an indelible imprint on my understanding and practice of TCM. His generosity, passion and relentless efforts to teach and guide aspiring TCM practitioners worldwide makes him an extraordinary person and he will be missed immensely. Every time I revisit his books or a recorded seminar, my understanding grows deeper and helps me becoming a better practitioner.
Thank you Dr tan.
Namaskaram
Preeti Damania

Mom,
Happy Birthday! To celebrate, I went to the water lantern festival. I released a lantern in your honor. It was great. There were stories, music, and at the end of the night fireworks over Navy pier.

Love you Jules

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You were a lovely, passionate and caring woman mummy. For the time I knew you, you were absolutely wonderful, we love you and miss you mummy beyond what words could describe. Rest on peacefully in the bosom of our Lord Jesus till we meet to part no more

We love and miss you mum. Rest on peacefully

Dale Banks (aka Catnip aka The Professor) and Lisa Banks his Daughter are so sorry to hear now about this loss.
I met him in ‘76 and he was at Christopher Smith Studios another master photographer before he left and started his own. I was with him when we built the studio in Yorkville and two studios in Cabbagetown, along with one in Woodbridge. Lived in my van out back behind the Cabbagetown studio on Carlton for 7 years and it won an award for the best restoration in Toronto. He was dynamic and a showman.
P.S: He told me one day when he dies he will give me ‘57 Chevy haha
P.P.S: I know he already sold it hahaha.

Sincerely,

Dale.

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She was NOT wearing her costume from the movie on halloween. She is however buried in it.

I will miss you

I will miss you

Mom,

I had a really good day celebrating it with you. Watching romantic comedies just like we always used too. Happy mothers day mom.

It is still around and running.

We used to go here all the time mom. I remember watching Free Willie here and watching the plains come in.

Your favorite place to go many happy memories here.

Wishing you a happy mothers day. Hope you are enjoying things where you are.